Hello nairalanders.
The screen shot below contains a WhatsApp conversation between a girl and her best friend.

My friend has been in a long distance relationship with this girl he loves dearly since 2019 while girl was schooling, she just graduated and he traveled to the village and paid her dowry this January, brought her to Lagos and this is already happening same January. Please matured advice is needed.

My friend is devastated and confused, he needs my opinion but I decided to bring it here since I don't have monopoly of advices.

He is seeing everything as I have sent him a link to monitor people's views on it.

Accipetex:
Hello nairalanders.
The screen shot below contains a WhatsApp conversation between a girl and her best friend.

My friend has been in a long distance relationship with this girl he loves dearly since 2019 while girl was schooling, she just graduated and he traveled to the village and paid her dowry this January, brought her to Lagos and this is already happening same January. Please matured advice is needed.

My friend is devastated and confused, he needs my opinion but I decided to bring it here since I don't have monopoly of advices.

He is seeing everything as I have sent him a link to monitor people's views on it.

nairalanders advicers are coming to address the issue.

From our conversation, he told me he found out Austin is the girls Ex through their chat.

Accipetex:
From our conversation, he told me he found out Austin is the girls Ex through their chat.

post the rest.

Wahala b like APC Nairaland BMC crew, dem nor dey get sense.

I must do background check before proposing. I don't mind if she isn't a virgin but her ex mustn't live in close proximity to her..

I pity who's gonna be in love with my ex

Omo, c question oooo. So if Someone is threatening to stab you with a knife and bring the knife closer, will you stand there and be asking for peoples' advice on what you must do abi. It is better to lose money than let your lifetime of happiness be threatened. Be wise and ask God for direction but do not ignore the red flags.

Chai this hoes ain’t loyal

Wahala truly be like Uganda, e no dey hard to enter...

What advise do you still need from us?

Okafor's law of Congo Dynamics is evidently at work here because Austin is enjoying the efficacy of the law..

the law states that: If a 'Congo' has been 'shined' once (C1), it can always be shined again (C∞), provided it was shined properly (P) the previous times and the experience was remarkable.


ie; C1 • P = C∞.

My advice that brother should.......................






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RUN!

Kobicove:
What advise do you still need from us?

Your candid advise bro

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internationalman:
I must do background check before proposing. I don't mind if she isn't a virgin but her ex mustn't live in close proximity to her..

I pity who's gonna be in love with my ex

He never knew bro, his girlfriend lived and schooled in the east all the while. He thought
they were coming to Lagos to start a new life.
Devoid of distractions from Ex's, family and friends

Bro why are some of guys mumu like this u see long distance relationship avoid , my girlfriend of years opened up to me that a guy is dating her for over 2years now when she saw is like girls done dey plenty for my side ,

I only asked her if am to marry you today this guy will come to our wedding and also even damm ceremony how will you feel seeing him

She muted and couldn't answer the question

Unfortunately she didn't know the question means I will never marry u , we are still cool it is all for Congo shining


Never make a mistake to marry a partner in a long distance relationship

Nobody is faithful coz both are always cool with cheating and having multiple sex partners

Go back and collect the bride price God saved u in time avoid long distance relationship find a girl near and date and marry


Our nigerian girls are wicked they want to have emeka pink lips and also have Chinedu long dick and have Paul money machine

This girl might love you but Bible never advise us to marry for love it was stated that a wife should be respectful and submissive


If a woman lack any of this then she is not a wife

Bro don't make a mistake to marry a girl u love too much , Na she suppose love pass u

First of all.

What kind of screenshot is this?

the obvious choice is to walk away.


Weak men will continue experiencing something like this. nature has a way of bringing weak men together with useless women.

Only a weak man gift marriage to a woman who has not earned it.

internationalman:
I must do background check before proposing. I don't mind if she isn't a virgin but her ex mustn't live in close proximity to her..

I pity who's gonna be in love with my ex

Lol

this ex issue is just too hard to break, I don't know why

Wahala be like Fulani herdsmen
Your friend is the only one who can decide what to do.

Well, I guess Austin knows how to shine her Congo properly, may be Austin does the mouth action too, so it's gonna be difficult for her to leave Austin meaning you just have to go back to her people and collect your dowry back. She is gonna cheat with Austin, you cannot trust her and DNA test don cost.

the Pic didn't explain much

Fear girls

Collect you money back asap

Accipetex:
Hello nairalanders.
The screen shot below contains a WhatsApp conversation between a girl and her best friend.

My friend has been in a long distance relationship with this girl he loves dearly since 2019 while girl was schooling, she just graduated and he traveled to the village and paid her dowry this January, brought her to Lagos and this is already happening same January. Please matured advice is needed.

My friend is devastated and confused, he needs my opinion but I decided to bring it here since I don't have monopoly of advices.

He is seeing everything as I have sent him a link to monitor people's views on it.

You said you brought her to Lagos after paying dowry, how come the ex is in the same town with her (she is at the hotel waiting for him)

2>Which straight girl uses a nude picture as background pic

Fake story

I still don't understand the message you are trying to pass across

agbangam:
Well, I guess Austin knows how to shine her Congo properly, may be Austin does the mouth action too, so it's gonna be difficult for her to leave Austin meaning you just have to go back to her people and collect your dowry back. She is gonna cheat with Austin, you cannot trust her and DNA test don cost.

That's true. He should do it as soon as possible. Bitches aren't royal.

booking

This post will not smell front page


I am out

I know this is extremely painful, but the ONLY way forward is for your friend to go and collect the refund of the dowry and any other thing paid to marry her.
Regardless of what is in the other screenshots, your friend has not found a wife. Instead a hoe has found him.

I don't understand the Chat, what's Period have to.do with seeing austin that is her Ex