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Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by dangotesmummy: 5:30am On Feb 03, 2021
meobizy:
It's not a must. The moderator doesn't make things easy by confusing members with pictures of confirmed lesbians. A female born in a majorly boys household will surely go through a tomboy phase because that's all she's familiar with. The big difference between tomboys and lesbians is attraction to the same sex. The latter possess the attribute. That the female in question is always around men means she finds them desirable for both friendships and other room activities. I don't think a lesbian needs to hang around men, there honestly is no point.
for a girl to become a tomboy, the parents are to be blamed because during her adolescent stage, they are supposed to separate her from her brothers so she doesn't start copying them especially when they notice she has started unknowingly do what they do.when boys go to the gym or go play football,she should go learn make-up or allow her go play with her female friends
Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by dangotesmummy: 5:33am On Feb 03, 2021
GYBABA:
You know Mercy Johnson right? She used to be a hardcore tomboy but then look at her today closely again. Does she look like anything lesbian?
lol she needed to act like a Tom boy because of the nature of her job.she used to hawk pure water in traffic so she needed to act tough but when she delved into Nollywood she gradually became comfortable and the boobs and ass started shooting out so where she wan take do Tom boy?
Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by victme1(m): 5:35am On Feb 03, 2021
Tomboys are very intelligent fun and free minded to be around with.

Though the shy from getting snuggy touchy touchy with me or even with other males. They are a though nut to crack.

I ve seen full bobbied girls that initiate sex with other girls.

I can still accommodate lesbianism on the ground of fear of prg. While in school.

I detest gay men.
Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by Godmademan(m): 5:44am On Feb 03, 2021
It's only logical that if the male folks find them sexually unattractive, they look for alternatives
Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by NipseyHustle(m): 6:04am On Feb 03, 2021
GYBABA:
You know Mercy Johnson right? She used to be a hardcore tomboy but then look at her today closely again. Does she look like anything lesbian?
Which mercy Johnson?
I know mercy from navy town lagos and we even attended the same secondary school in PH. She finished in '02/'03. She was our dinning hall prefect.
Mercy has always been girly, curvy and feminine right from her teenage years.
Stop talking nonsense.

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Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by ayenale1(m): 6:04am On Feb 03, 2021
Either lesbian or not once they take u as their boyfriend any other girl they see with you is in trouble, you self don know sey your own don done and it will take the grace of God to cut such relationship.
Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by meobizy(f): 6:05am On Feb 03, 2021
dangotesmummy:
for a girl to become a tomboy, the parents are to be blamed because during her adolescent stage, they are supposed to separate her from her brothers so she doesn't start copying them especially when they notice she has started unknowingly do what they do.
Nairalanders won’t kill me with the comments I read here. So, wait o, if she’s the only female of the household — the parents should send her to the village? That will only make her a stranger to her siblings. It is inevitable for such a female to become a tomboy. There are no ifs and buts about it. With time she’ll grow into a woman of her own; a guys’ girl. I know many men appreciate having a woman who can change a tire, fix a lightbulb and hammer a nail or two.


when boys go to the gym or go play football,she should go learn make-up or allow her go play with her female friends
Why not learn all the skills? The more things a person knows, the more rounded they are as an individual. Such person will make for an interesting romantic partner.

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Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by NipseyHustle(m): 6:08am On Feb 03, 2021
dangotesmummy:
lol she needed to act like a Tom boy because of the nature of her job.she used to hawk pure water in traffic so she needed to act tough but when she delved into Nollywood she gradually became comfortable and the boobs and ass started shooting out so where she wan take do Tom boy?
Una go just dey yarn rubbish. Mercy never sold pure water. We attended the same secondary school.

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Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by tobeymichael16(m): 6:12am On Feb 03, 2021
Enculer:
You Nigerians are so judgemental
Are you morally better than lesbians?
May your days be long.

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Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by lastchild: 6:52am On Feb 03, 2021
dangotesmummy:
No

I think it's an environmental factor that influenced their foundational years.e.g growing up around boys where all your siblings were boys and subconsciously you started copying them unknowingly

That's why you will see some girls looking masculine possibly because when they were in their teen or adolescent years they used to follow their elder brothers to the gym and when he was developing muscles, doing body building,you too did same not understanding that male and female physiology aren't the same

Hence over the years because of the environmental influences you begin to see them walking like men, talking like men and will always be wearing male like jeans trousers n be pulling up non existent penis

Some even have male Voices

There was a girl like that when I was in school.i didn't quickly notice she was a girl.i used to think she was a boy because you really have to physically move close to her before you can notice her breasts because her chest looks so masculine.she had no ass either.totally flat like a man's own

Muscles all over her hands and she will be wearing male trousers and still be sagging and wearing facecap backwards.she had dreadlocks to

Those days I used to wonder if she ever had a boyfriend who foks her because even touching her body is not any different touching a man's body but anyway men are Kuku unpredictable.if they can be fuckin underaged Children,they can Fok a tomboy
all these you mentioned can't make anyone a "tomboy" going to gym, wearing men's clothes and the rest

tomboys are born that way

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Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by criuze(m): 6:54am On Feb 03, 2021
Flamemignon1:

No they are not, the same way effeminate men aren't gay. Human sexuality is different from gender mannerisms, please do the needed research, its 2021, we have the tools at our disposal



Excuse 99percent of effeminate males are gay or have something to do with that
Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by hashtagged(m): 7:32am On Feb 03, 2021
olinvie:
Super Falcons camp is a major scene of Sodom and Gomor
lol that was wicked grin
Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by hashtagged(m): 7:37am On Feb 03, 2021
lastchild:
all these you mentioned can't make anyone a "tomboy" going to gym, wearing men's clothes and the rest

tomboys are born that way

Nope I can boldly say all tomboys are gays like 99.9% but some of them due to religon and society try to deny it, I have had lots of tomboy friends and they are either sleeping with another lady, or sleeping with a girly looking boy.
Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by yunqdady: 8:11am On Feb 03, 2021

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Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by Flamemignon1(m): 8:12am On Feb 03, 2021
criuze:




Excuse 99percent of effeminate males are gay or have something to do with that
There are more masculine gay men than effeminate gay men and i've seen straight effeminate men. Gender mannerisms happens subconsciously, it's in no way as the same as human sexuality
Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by yunqdady: 8:13am On Feb 03, 2021

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Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by Flamemignon1(m): 8:17am On Feb 03, 2021
BeLookingIDIOT:

Not all,but majority (if not most) of them and the effeminates experience same sex attraction.
I've seen more of straight effeminate men than gay ones. That's my reality though
Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by yunqdady: 8:17am On Feb 03, 2021

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Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by yunqdady: 8:20am On Feb 03, 2021
Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by yunqdady: 8:21am On Feb 03, 2021

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Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by Flamemignon1(m): 8:23am On Feb 03, 2021
yunqdady:

Don't ever say effeminate men aren't gay please. I will have issues with you.
Feminine guys are gay. Manly women are lesbians.
EOD.
This is a fact not opinion. Read. More if you want to argue or move close to one who is not scared of you judging. They will open up.
That's a wrong stereotype to attach to people, you are putting them all in a box, that's what racists say to avert their stance, that all black men are monsters. In my reality, i've seen more effeminate straight men than masculine gay men

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Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by crossfm: 8:26am On Feb 03, 2021
yunqdady:

So they will tell you they are having sex with themselves?
Lesbians are the most coded people on earth.
Your wife can be a lesbian and till you die, you won't suspect.
They are coded just as you said but you know nothing is hidden forever.

At sports lounge over there,news is the cheapest you can get.We know the good,the bad and the urgly.
Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by yunqdady: 8:26am On Feb 03, 2021
I see
Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by Flamemignon1(m): 8:29am On Feb 03, 2021
yunqdady:

Baba, leave talk. I don't want to say much but take it to d bank.
If you like, you can give James Brown, they didn't caught me or bobrisky to ur sister to marry.
Make una dey jonz.
Straight indeed. Like dey will come to u and tell u dey Bleep guys U people should tink na
I said my reality though and I lived in a queer friendly country, not Nigeria so there was no need to hide
Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by Emyzoloye5(m): 8:29am On Feb 03, 2021
BeLookingIDIOT:

Yet actual stats,not beer parlour gist,shows your pig region to be the highest consumers of gay porn. This despite having the lowest population.

fallcy!!!!!!!!!!


where is your prove
Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by criuze(m): 8:37am On Feb 03, 2021
Flamemignon1:

There are more masculine gay men than effeminate gay men and i've seen straight effeminate men. Gender mannerisms happens subconsciously, it's in no way as the same as human sexuality


can you tell me the percentage of the effeminate looking guys that are straight

to help you with your point, effeminate looking guys has that unconscious drive towards female sexuality of which weirdos finds it very welcoming

do you believe that trans find it very easy to hook up with any straight person, their physical appearance might delude ones sexual orientation

its just the same way with the Female looking dude, i mean they must be psychology compelled to offer a female sex role

as for normal looking guys no doubt about them, but you cant still bank on experimental or first sexual experience, as you know repeated act can stick like a habit. these has more influence than subconscious hypothesis.

some of them will still come out to confess they aren't gay or give reasons for such involvement
Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by Nobody: 8:38am On Feb 03, 2021
yunqdady:

Tom boys are lesbians. Same way feminine guys are gays.
They don't need to have sex to be gay or lesbian. Just the way you don't need to have sex to be straight.
The feelings is all that qualifys you.
So if u are straight, have feelings for opposite sex but you are doing same sex, you are still straight.
If you are having feelings for same sex but you are having sex with opposite sex you Re gay!
So tomboys have feelings for girls and whether they act on it or not, they are lesbians

I understand the definitions. And I don't know why you think all tomboys are lesbians. All the tomboys I knew (most sportswomen are tomboys) neither had feelings for other girls nor had sex with them. That is why I even mentioned that they generally had high libido. The stadium was practically a cesspool for sexual encounters, but it was all hetero, proving that they were not lesbians. Tomboys aren't really the opposite of feminine guys. Some tomboys can be very feminine and sweet. It's just that they do not like the activities that women in general like, like fashion, flowers and gossip. But their sexual preference is usually still feminine.

By the way, maybe we are using different definitions of tomboy. I am using the simple dictionary definition: "a girl who enjoys rough, noisy activities traditionally associated with boys."
Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by Flamemignon1(m): 8:45am On Feb 03, 2021
criuze:



can you tell me the percentage of the effeminate looking guys that are straight

to help you with your point, effeminate looking guys has that unconscious drive towards female sexuality of which weirdos finds it very welcoming

do you believe that trans find it very easy to hook up with any straight person, their physical appearance might delude ones sexual orientation

its just the same way with the Female looking dude, i mean they must be psychology compelled to offer a female sex role

as for normal looking guys no doubt about them, but you cant still bank on experimental or first sexual experience, as you know repeated act can stick like a habit. these has more influence than subconscious hypothesis.

some of them will still come out to confess they aren't gay or give reasons for such involvement
I never studied the demographic though, I'm just speaking from my experience and you are obviously right about the others, those are untold facts especially the last bit

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Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by Candycrushy(f): 9:00am On Feb 03, 2021
vincentjk:


You look like one actually. sad
With my fine hair?
Are you blind?
Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by vincentjk(m): 9:26am On Feb 03, 2021
Candycrushy:

With my fine hair?
Are you blind?

Tomboys also have fine hair, even finer than yours seg undecided
Re: Are Tomboys Actually Lesbians? by Shugargal(f): 10:00am On Feb 03, 2021
OP You must be very judgmental, your statements about that TB shows the kind of person you are, you would have asked her if she's a lesbian so you know how to use your long rope, shit! I laugh sometimes when I read some comments here, I pity some of you men that see tboys as lesbians not knowing that the gaily woman you keep in your house as wifes are the main lesbians. Na dem de rush us. Try and investigate and you will never know. Continue to judge while we be living our lifes in peace here. Mtwww.

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