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Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Noblewealth(m): 11:10pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
richmond500: How I would have love this suggestions more but reporting it to the tout is not advisable and could worsen the case for her but showed the police rather and let justice take it cause.. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by saintgp(m): 11:11pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Girl9999:You surely will get over it as you did the first one and I can also assure you that u will love again someday and infact read of ur wedding. Regarding the issue at hand, taking into cognizance your ending remarks about your reputation,I will suggest u leave everything in the hands of God and ur ex's conscience(dats if you won't end up continuing with the beast).you can ask him y he did it, just to hear him it. My innocuous opinion,all dsam accept my sympathy, take heart.gudnyt |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Reex12(m): 11:11pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
sensitive topic though |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by dollytino4real(f): 11:11pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
IamPlato:guy u don derail am not the moniker who posted |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by autonomous22: 11:11pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Savagethe21st(m): 11:12pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
humilitypays:hahahahh..oga every morning i dey always look forward to reading your comments. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Lordpeckxy(m): 11:12pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
He bought the bottle of wine, tipped it, brought it to you, he has been planning to have his way with you for a while, he has no excuse for doing that, but if i were u, i would pull myself together(no matter how difficult) I will not report the case, the police might pass it up as consensual sex, that you were too drunk to remember the details. Don't say anything to the guy, imfact greet him, when next you see him, he doesn't know, you know that he raped you, even if he does, he will spend the most part of the day, hoping you don't recall what happened. . Too err they say is human, but too really f*uck up a rapist, you need not show un neccessary emotions. . . of course you can choose to let go... but he had his fun, its time to have yours. . i won't say anything else b4 pple think am influencing you wrongly. Take your revenge, it's the only way to get over this quickly. . but like i say, u can choose to let go. don't kill your self too, its not worth it. . and we are not all like that... i mean men, i know you will start seeing us as animals, but some of us are quite decent. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Theboss100(m): 11:12pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
debbydams:Why will a guy do this to a fine babe like you. Real nigarrz don't do that. For all those guys that did that to you, this is for them. I am giving them 100chest strokes each. E no concern me if they don't survive it. Its my duty to also send them to see God just like my friend Vladimir Putin will do to terrorists. 1 Like
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Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Kriss216: 11:12pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
debbydams:So, you’re not even a virgin |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Nobody: 11:12pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
What a terrible experience. I am very certain that your useless boyfriend looks like an animalistic agebero. I am also certain he has given hints that he is a pervert...but you chose to ignore your God given instincts. If you went to hospital straight up after you found out about the rape, you can pursue your case with the police or any human rights authority. If not, be strong and bold enough to face him and pretend nothing happened. Invite him to a public dinner or so....find a way to drug his drink. You have two types of drugs you can use. 1. The one that will make him sleep deep...get a big pole and drive the pole into his anus. The pain and infection he will get after that eh...even to sh1t go dey fear am. 2. The one that will make him purge for a week to the extent that he develops pile. He must sh1t blood. His anus must turn inside out. Either way, he will never be the same again. The ball is in your court. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Newbielearner(m): 11:12pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
DarkCaesar: I think this is too much bro. I'm not in support of rape. Neither am I fully taking her side. No one tells the full story. However, let's be sensitive and not too obnoxious. Your comment could drive her to do something dangerous. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by akinnaija(m): 11:13pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
@Girl malvisguy212: Hello Dear, You can't change the past, I think you should focus on the future. If you want to report this case, quickly make a police report, Then you have to visit the clinic and make a report so that they can give you the necessary medication to help your medical situation. Crying won't fix anything...it is OK to cry though, it has some healing effect. Things you must worry about, did he use protection? Are you expose to stds? or pregnancy...all these could have longer effects. Speak to someone you trust. This is not the time to worry about abuses online...remember this profile is not the real you... so they are only abusing the new profile. Get help and don't let this guy hurt you further... I hope God helps you through this. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by HopeVictor(m): 11:13pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
sapphiere:They are still good men out there |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by bizzibodi(m): 11:13pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
This is not a place to seek advice,some uncultured folks might worsen yur situation.calm down this is not d end of life,he might still love U...but he is impatient,he might felt guilty & ashamed to call u,brush yursef & move on.people goes through worst than that,what if he had killed U for ritual.see it as an injury on yur body which will heal & not on yur spirit. Dnt put love first put xter first....good guys are out there but U might not love them but easily fall for d bad guys. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by pompeiimagnus: 11:14pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Durentt: Hahahahahahaha....Baba this your MO bad gan!!! Advisor abi na adviser! Chai!!! |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Nobody: 11:14pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
ThatFairGuy1:Totally different is what they always say. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Sixfeetbelle: 11:15pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Shelumiel: I assume all your friends drug your drinks, hence why you would come up with this. Because you drink now means anyone is allowed to tamper with it? As if fruit juice can't be drugged. Seriously, why would you meet your girlfriend in a public place? What for? Are you guys meeting for the first time or are you just casual acquaintances? Like I said, you're steadily pushing the blame to her and you're not even denying it. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by enemachris(m): 11:16pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Wow! This is really heartbreaking my dear, sorry for the bad ordeal. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by DeRealRalph: 11:17pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Rape is Rape! Don't paint it, don't twist it, sex without her consent is Rape |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by jude2016: 11:18pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Girl9999:Go to the hospital for them to extract his semen for evidence and report the matter to the police. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by cocolacec(m): 11:18pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Girl9999: My sister you dont have to kill yourself over stupid men who only date women for their sexual pleasure.Try involve your parents or a trusted friend you can confide in. The guy is a narcissist,they lack empathy or emotions for others and they rush to have sex with their new victims.The sex is made to bond with you.They lovebomb,devalue,gaslight and discard you. Take some days off work to clear your head.Never allow a man visit you in private again and never give sex to any man until marriage. He will wait ,if he was meant to be your husband. Report the rapist to the police before he does that to another woman. Try visit Mirabel centre to make complaints. I wish you all the best in the future. https://www.nairaland.com/5855395/main-difference-narcissistic-men-women Narcissist Rushing Intimacy - Red Flag https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-SChd6fCMQw
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Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Queenslander(f): 11:18pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
prekumohtim:I think it has alot to do with the stigma,. If you were a woman, you'd understand better. Cause victims of rape are made to suffer unquantifiable anguish, some become diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder, dissociation from reality, depersonalization, they endure physical violence, avoid social life, get infected with sexually transmitted infections, encounter serious difficulty in remembering events, relives moments of sexual assault and of course unwanted pregnancy!! 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Regex: 11:19pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Go ahead and report him to police. He deserves whatever is coming to him. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Harmlesspill(m): 11:19pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
FreeSpirited:. What you're saying makes lots of sense but I dn't think this is the right time to be telling her this |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Kaypeeboss(m): 11:20pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Girl9999:So sorry about this dear,individual varies that’s why you must trust that little inner voice in your head that tells stuff to do and not to do,I am a counselor and can help you get through this ,don’t give up on relationships already,let me relate my experience to you.while in school ,university of Benin studying civil engineering,I met a girl ,I actually did not want to have anything to do with relationships until after school but one way or the other we found ourselves dating fast forward to five years in the relationship and I had really grown fond of her,I discovered she had been dating someone alongside me for three years the second girl cheated on me by sleeping with a married man,now let me tell you something while I was dating them I didn’t cheat and it even pissed them off sometimes,all ll be fine just message me on WhatsApp 09044280013 and you ll be glad you did okay |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by IamPlato(m): 11:20pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
dollytino4real:go And Sleep. All Your Mate Don Sleep Finish. Go Sleep |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by cdm4live: 11:20pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Donspicey: You see that word in bold, women no dey reason am when they see person wey dem love. Na the life be that. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by SpiritFree: 11:21pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
80% of the first page commenters insulated the OP. Damn! What has the world and particularly our country turned into? Are there actually reasons to justify rape? Damn again! We should be talking about ensuring the "long" arm of the law catches up with the sicko now since it's still within 48 hours. OP I know it will certainly be harder than I can imagine but please try to rise above suicidal and negative thoughts of self harm, visit a nearby police station to report the matter, go for a test at a certified hospital too. Let's begin the process to get one deadbeat off the streets. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by yusman14(m): 11:22pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
I just wonder how Nigerian girls think guys won't demand for sex after spending on them..no free money anywhere..as a lady,if you see a guy giving you what he can't give his family members including his mother,my dear he has a mission..this country too hard to be giving girl money anyhow.. anyway,stay strong!! 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by dollytino4real(f): 11:22pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
IamPlato:yes sir, abeg tell the moniker I be her friend o! |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by FreeSpirited: 11:22pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Harmlesspill:It's isnt bad if she could also see it from that angle..cos the only angle she's seeing it from is from the conventional angle of viewing every rape incident.....in her case if she could see one or two from this point, she may not hurt herselves and get a better understanding behind the psychology of his boyfriend....and the whole Dynamics that led to it...and meanwhile,some ladies arnt sincere about this rape issue especially when it involves a boyfriend.... there's usually some hidden story we don't know... . |
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