richmond500:
Some people don't need to be humans.

U see an unconscious lady and ur dik stand, raped her and left.

Jesus Christ, I don't care if I go to hell but if I see some persons with me in same chamber in hell, I will protest. Me as a fornicator can't share same hell with a rapist.
OP, u dont have to report him to any police.

Here is what u will do, try talk to him and ask why he raped u, make sure u have hidden camera or a voice recorder, record everything he said without him knowing it.
Find all those street touts, play the record to them and ask them to do whatever they feel with him, dont feel remorse no matter what happened to him after that.

Only God forgives people, u are not God, but it will be wise to send him to God

How I would have love this suggestions more but reporting it to the tout is not advisable and could worsen the case for her but showed the police rather and let justice take it cause..

Girl9999:


The only two men I've loved and taken seriously have both betrayed me. I can't trust any man again.

You surely will get over it as you did the first one and I can also assure you that u will love again someday and infact read of ur wedding.

Regarding the issue at hand, taking into cognizance your ending remarks about your reputation,I will suggest u leave everything in the hands of God and ur ex's conscience(dats if you won't end up continuing with the beast).you can ask him y he did it, just to hear him it.
My innocuous opinion,all dsam accept my sympathy, take heart.gudnyt

sensitive topic though

IamPlato:
SMH...
What's your name again

guy u don derail am not the moniker who posted

Mozino007:
You have already planned....Get d Bleep outta here Bitch!

U shaa no get Joy... Easy!

humilitypays:
bia nwokem abi ogbeni, no go use this your choir master style fvck her again oh, I no trust you guys at all....all of you are suspects

hahahahh..oga every morning i dey always look forward to reading your comments.

He bought the bottle of wine,
tipped it,
brought it to you,
he has been planning to have his way with you for a while,
he has no excuse for doing that,
but if i were u,
i would pull myself together(no matter how difficult)
I will not report the case, the police might pass it up as consensual sex, that you were too drunk to remember the details.
Don't say anything to the guy,
imfact greet him, when next you see him,
he doesn't know, you know that he raped you,
even if he does, he will spend the most part of the day, hoping you don't recall what happened.
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Too err they say is human, but too really f*uck up a rapist, you need not show un neccessary emotions.
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of course you can choose to let go...
but he had his fun,
its time to have yours.
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i won't say anything else b4 pple think am influencing you wrongly.

Take your revenge, it's the only way to get over this quickly.
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but like i say, u can choose to let go.

don't kill your self too,

its not worth it.
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and we are not all like that...
i mean men, i know you will start seeing us as animals, but some of us are quite decent.

debbydams:
bae calm down o,, I understand everything infact i ws once in your shoe,, I got tired of cryinh i.console myself nd move on, nobody can make u happy pls make yourself happy,

if u want to cry � pls cry � cry a river build a bridge � nd get over it. The guy that disflowered me left me that same day after the sex.. I moved on ni, if I start typing what v bn tru in relationship u go weak,, be strong for yourself pls,,

Why will a guy do this to a fine babe like you. Real nigarrz don't do that. For all those guys that did that to you, this is for them. I am giving them 100chest strokes each. E no concern me if they don't survive it. Its my duty to also send them to see God just like my friend Vladimir Putin will do to terrorists.

debbydams:
bae calm down o,, I understand everything infact i ws once in your shoe,, I got tired of cryinh i.console myself nd move on, nobody can make u happy pls make yourself happy,

if u want to cry � pls cry � cry a river build a bridge � nd get over it. The guy that disflowered me left me that same day after the sex.. I moved on ni, if I start typing what v bn tru in relationship u go weak,, be strong for yourself pls,,

So, you’re not even a virgin

What a terrible experience.

I am very certain that your useless boyfriend looks like an animalistic agebero. I am also certain he has given hints that he is a pervert...but you chose to ignore your God given instincts.

If you went to hospital straight up after you found out about the rape, you can pursue your case with the police or any human rights authority.

If not, be strong and bold enough to face him and pretend nothing happened. Invite him to a public dinner or so....find a way to drug his drink. You have two types of drugs you can use.

1. The one that will make him sleep deep...get a big pole and drive the pole into his anus. The pain and infection he will get after that eh...even to sh1t go dey fear am.

2. The one that will make him purge for a week to the extent that he develops pile. He must sh1t blood. His anus must turn inside out.

Either way, he will never be the same again.

The ball is in your court.

DarkCaesar:
you’re just an attention seeking bitch....die and we’d have one less hoe to deal with on nairaland

I think this is too much bro.

I'm not in support of rape. Neither am I fully taking her side. No one tells the full story.

However, let's be sensitive and not too obnoxious. Your comment could drive her to do something dangerous.

@Girl

malvisguy212:
either you stay down and cry yourself out as a losser or you stand and match on as a winner . pain is part of life .

isaiah 43
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.

the verse did not say we will not experince pain , its say we will BUT God will be with us . be strong my lady.

Hello Dear,
You can't change the past, I think you should focus on the future. If you want to report this case, quickly make a police report, Then you have to visit the clinic and make a report so that they can give you the necessary medication to help your medical situation.

Crying won't fix anything...it is OK to cry though, it has some healing effect.

Things you must worry about, did he use protection? Are you expose to stds? or pregnancy...all these could have longer effects.

Speak to someone you trust.

This is not the time to worry about abuses online...remember this profile is not the real you... so they are only abusing the new profile.

Get help and don't let this guy hurt you further...

I hope God helps you through this.

sapphiere:
My sister, fear men. Never allow your girl child near them. If I tell you my own story you will cry all day.

They are still good men out there

This is not a place to seek advice,some uncultured folks might worsen yur situation.calm down this is not d end of life,he might still love U...but he is impatient,he might felt guilty & ashamed to call u,brush yursef & move on.people goes through worst than that,what if he had killed U for ritual.see it as an injury on yur body which will heal & not on yur spirit.
Dnt put love first put xter first....good guys are out there but U might not love them but easily fall for d bad guys.

Durentt:
hello calm down, I would advise you call me so we can talk 07017562556.

I would be your emotional support (I am a homosexual male so I will have no sexual interests in you)

Hahahahahahaha....Baba this your MO bad gan!!! Advisor abi na adviser! Chai!!!

ThatFairGuy1:

Aunty sapphiere, this your postulation always irritate me

MY OWN DARLING DAUGHTER?

Are all men dogs to you. you don't define men with the experience you had with few.

We're totally different

Totally different is what they always say.

Shelumiel:
So where did her drinking habit get her...? It got her rape.

Who is suffering for it now? She is the one.

What was wrong in meeting in a public place? Nothing.

Can she sue for rape since there no witnesses? No!

Abi you wan help her sue?

I assume all your friends drug your drinks, hence why you would come up with this. Because you drink now means anyone is allowed to tamper with it? As if fruit juice can't be drugged.

Seriously, why would you meet your girlfriend in a public place? What for? Are you guys meeting for the first time or are you just casual acquaintances?

Like I said, you're steadily pushing the blame to her and you're not even denying it.

Wow! This is really heartbreaking my dear, sorry for the bad ordeal.

Rape is Rape! Don't paint it, don't twist it, sex without her consent is Rape

Girl9999:
I created this account to hide my identity. I'm in a very emotional condition at the moment. I've been crying since morning. I've not left my house, not even for church. I've lost the will to live, all because of what happened yesterday evening.

I've been dating this guy for two months. I thought he was a great guy. He was always nice to me, smart and hard-working. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 in University and it was to someone that just wanted to have sex with me. He lied about loving me. All he wanted was sex and when he had his way he abandoned me and dated another girl in my department. Since then I've had a fear of relationships, most importantly of sex. I vowed to only have sex with someone I was going to marry; someone I was certain loved me.

When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was the one. We vibed well and we were both in the same field of work. Everything seemed to click. I opened up to him about my experience and my decision to have sex only when I was ready. He agreed and said he was going to respect my wishes.

Yesterday he visited me at my apartment. This wasn't the first time he was visiting me. We paid each other visits all the time. This time he brought a bottle of wine with him. I prepared food, we both eat and he served us some wine. The last thing I remember is taking few sips and then everything else is blurry.

Next thing I am waking up by 8am this morning with a severe headache, cramped legs and a sore feeling around my vagina. There was something that looked like dried semen on my left thigh and some around my breast. I could also perceive the scent of his perfume on my body. He raped me. The man that claimed to love me raped me. I haven't spoken to anyone since morning, all I've been doing is crying. My phone has been on silent all day.

I want to report him to the police but first I want to look at his face and ask why he would do this to me. I already planned on having sex with him soon. Why couldn't he wait? I want to involve my parents and his parents as well but I don't want this news to spread and take a hit on my reputation. I'm confused about what to do.

Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.

Go to the hospital for them to extract his semen for evidence and report the matter to the police.

Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.

My sister you dont have to kill yourself over stupid men who only date women for their sexual pleasure.Try involve your parents or a trusted friend you can confide in.


The guy is a narcissist,they lack empathy or emotions for others and they rush to have sex with their new victims.The sex is made to bond with you.They lovebomb,devalue,gaslight and discard you.

Take some days off work to clear your head.Never allow a man visit you in private again and never give sex to any man until marriage.

He will wait ,if he was meant to be your husband.
Report the rapist to the police before he does that to another woman.
Try visit Mirabel centre to make complaints.
I wish you all the best in the future.

https://www.nairaland.com/5855395/main-difference-narcissistic-men-women

Narcissist Rushing Intimacy - Red Flag


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-SChd6fCMQw

prekumohtim:


Why do ladies always find it difficult to report rape case all in the name of shame ? Really bad !! Immediate action could have solved this issue

I think it has alot to do with the stigma,. If you were a woman, you'd understand better. Cause victims of rape are made to suffer unquantifiable anguish, some become diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder, dissociation from reality, depersonalization, they endure physical violence, avoid social life, get infected with sexually transmitted infections, encounter serious difficulty in remembering events, relives moments of sexual assault and of course unwanted pregnancy!!

Go ahead and report him to police. He deserves whatever is coming to him.

FreeSpirited:
You were dating him..doing I love you I love you...u are not a virgin, you go to his house, he comes visiting u too..u dint tell us how many times both of you have kissed and romanced...And how many times he smooched and fingered you of which u disallowed him from having sex with u....you gave him mixed signals...you are dating him, enjoying benefits of dating, collecting his money, but u are forming smart for him...
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I think that's why he used that format for you... otherwise, I doubt if he would have done that. You shouldn't have dated in the first place..you should only have maintain friends or bestie with defined friendship boundaries....
Imagine you saying u were planning to give him sex soon in your mind, that's suspicious of manipulation. The question is did you tell him this, that so so day o you guys will have sex as normal lovers do? You sexually frustrated him and he felt cheated, cos you are not even a virgin, he probably thinks you are fvvcking somewhere, so he resorted to that means, however traumatic for you....If you are not ready for sex..don't go and date bad boys who are not simps...who kiss you, press ur boobs..finger u...but u don't allow preeq..cos u are still counting time...you were playing him...then he played you...I dint say rape is the best way to handle ur situation...but
That's the way I see your story.......which u deliberately leave some details

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What you're saying makes lots of sense but I dn't think this is the right time to be telling her this

Girl9999:
I created this account to hide my identity. I'm in a very emotional condition at the moment. I've been crying since morning. I've not left my house, not even for church. I've lost the will to live, all because of what happened yesterday evening.

I've been dating this guy for two months. I thought he was a great guy. He was always nice to me, smart and hard-working. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 in University and it was to someone that just wanted to have sex with me. He lied about loving me. All he wanted was sex and when he had his way he abandoned me and dated another girl in my department. Since then I've had a fear of relationships, most importantly of sex. I vowed to only have sex with someone I was going to marry; someone I was certain loved me.

When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was the one. We vibed well and we were both in the same field of work. Everything seemed to click. I opened up to him about my experience and my decision to have sex only when I was ready. He agreed and said he was going to respect my wishes.

Yesterday he visited me at my apartment. This wasn't the first time he was visiting me. We paid each other visits all the time. This time he brought a bottle of wine with him. I prepared food, we both eat and he served us some wine. The last thing I remember is taking few sips and then everything else is blurry.

Next thing I am waking up by 8am this morning with a severe headache, cramped legs and a sore feeling around my vagina. There was something that looked like dried semen on my left thigh and some around my breast. I could also perceive the scent of his perfume on my body. He raped me. The man that claimed to love me raped me. I haven't spoken to anyone since morning, all I've been doing is crying. My phone has been on silent all day.

I want to report him to the police but first I want to look at his face and ask why he would do this to me. I already planned on having sex with him soon. Why couldn't he wait? I want to involve my parents and his parents as well but I don't want this news to spread and take a hit on my reputation. I'm confused about what to do.

Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.

So sorry about this dear,individual varies that’s why you must trust that little inner voice in your head that tells stuff to do and not to do,I am a counselor and can help you get through this ,don’t give up on relationships already,let me relate my experience to you.while in school ,university of Benin studying civil engineering,I met a girl ,I actually did not want to have anything to do with relationships until after school but one way or the other we found ourselves dating fast forward to five years in the relationship and I had really grown fond of her,I discovered she had been dating someone alongside me for three years the second girl cheated on me by sleeping with a married man,now let me tell you something while I was dating them I didn’t cheat and it even pissed them off sometimes,all ll be fine just message me on WhatsApp 09044280013 and you ll be glad you did okay

dollytino4real:
guy u don derail am not the moniker who posted

go And Sleep. All Your Mate Don Sleep Finish.


Go Sleep

Donspicey:



Lolsss.....

Many people here have passed through more than wat happened to you in the quest for true love and they are still living......


Put ur sef togeda and move on dear....life is too precious to waste over avoidable incident.....


Crying will only add to ur predicament.....

It happened before....

It happened again second time......


Never allow it to happen again......

Always be on guard....if u hear odas tori u go know say ur case na moimoi.....

You see that word in bold, women no dey reason am when they see person wey dem love.
Na the life be that.

80% of the first page commenters insulated the OP.
Damn! What has the world and particularly our country turned into? Are there actually reasons to justify rape? Damn again!

We should be talking about ensuring the "long" arm of the law catches up with the sicko now since it's still within 48 hours.

OP I know it will certainly be harder than I can imagine but please try to rise above suicidal and negative thoughts of self harm, visit a nearby police station to report the matter, go for a test at a certified hospital too. Let's begin the process to get one deadbeat off the streets.

I just wonder how Nigerian girls think guys won't demand for sex after spending on them..no free money anywhere..as a lady,if you see a guy giving you what he can't give his family members including his mother,my dear he has a mission..this country too hard to be giving girl money anyhow..
anyway,stay strong!!

IamPlato:
go And Sleep. All Your Mate Don Sleep Finish.


Go Sleep

yes sir, abeg tell the moniker I be her friend o!

Harmlesspill:
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What you're saying makes lots of sense but I dn't think this is the right time to be telling her this

It's isnt bad if she could also see it from that angle..cos the only angle she's seeing it from is from the conventional angle of viewing every rape incident.....in her case if she could see one or two from this point, she may not hurt herselves and get a better understanding behind the psychology of his boyfriend....and the whole Dynamics that led to it...and meanwhile,some ladies arnt sincere about this rape issue especially when it involves a boyfriend.... there's usually some hidden story we don't know...
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