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My brother no single remorse... She's confident I do whatever pleases me.... She doesn't give a damn...
The point is I almost sold all my life investment to send her to UK by December... God saved me...

Liposure:
Your wife is a liar and cheat (no shame at all). Her type is capable of anything. Good you found out on time before its too late. You ve just escaped the danger of fathering another man's offspring. Fingers crossed.

It really weak me my brother...
Like seriously...

GayPontiff:
She tot the used condom fell from your pocket


Wondafu

Joelrichman:
Dated over 3yrs, due to tribal concern and family non acceptance, we agreed to do court wedding in May 2020,
She got pregnant June/July and everything changed.
She stop having sex with me and told me until bride price is paid wen it was her family that concelled wedding fixed.
She went out for work in Lagos here, so my cousin came visiting ... She said she can't stay in same house with him and went to put up in hotel.
I visited and next morning before work bought her food.
She called for paracetamol while at work, rushed back to get for her only to enter her room and met used sachet of condom on the floor.
I took note and did as if I never see anything.. went out and before coming back she picked the sachet and hid it.
I left she never brought it up for over 5 days.
She's back to work...I asked and she said she tot the condom sachet dropped from my pocket hence she never asked.
I've stopped all communication and currently trying to move on...
Gotten new apartment and wanna pack out of the house before I made head news...
I told her paternity of her pregnancy is questioned but she said after a year the baby will know her father...
The point is while sleeping with another man with 8 months pregnant of pregnancy she claimed is mine....
Kinda confused!

Mod help a brother..
Kindly push abeg lemme learn!

Please do DNA and if the baby is yours take it and move on...that woman is dangerous.....you are real man for not acting up.

I know asking immediately will bring up her defense skills and might deny it's from the room, possibly saw it under the bed or any means of defending it... So I did as if nothing happens and went out....
Zoom she picked it up and hide it.... It's a clear term she's guilty and still contemplating if I've seen it or not... So she hid it...
Giving time was to see her reaction how best she will come out but she didn't call and never bothered while I didn't call her or change in attitude till I put it to her...

uboma:
Immediately you found the condom sachet, you should demanded for explanation. Turning a blind eye and waiting after some days to bring it up was where you goofed.

Joelrichman:
I know asking immediately will bring up her defense skills and might deny it's from the room, possibly saw it under the bed or any means of defending it... So I did as if nothing happens and went out....
Zoom she picked it up and hide it.... It's a clear term she's guilty and still contemplating if I've seen it or not... So she hid it...
Giving time was to see her reaction how best she will come out but she didn't call and never bothered while I didn't call her or change in attitude till I put it to her...

Bros count your losses and move on, neither the woman nor the pregnancy belongs to you. You entered one chance.
You don’t need a soothsayer to reveal this to you.
Meanwhile you too dull.
You are not street smart,how little girl go dey run you street like this?

A condom on the floor in a hotel room could have been used by anybody and may have been in the room before she came in..this is not strong proof that she's cheating on you

Bruh I realy want to say some shii to you but I believe you'll be older than me and I don't want be to rude or insultive,but like seriously Bruh,how on earth will you allow your wifey with 8month old pregnant go stay all by herself in a hotel just because she don't feel comfortable staying under the same roof with yah cousin. OMG you still found a used condom in her room but have to keep it to yahself for days before talking about it lol something you would have asked that very minute and used kick to remove that pregnancy from Belle for a quick and proper explanation. Bruh you too weak.

TheUndercover:
When @mosdii said All Nigerian Girls Are Useless, girls were calling the mods on him. SMH. The thing is that they keep proving what he says about them being useless. LMAO!

Mr Man, visit the Red Pill thread and change your life. You're so weak in dealing with women. If you're good at making money and managing money but poor in how to deal with women, you'll fail. Don't let a hoe play you.

She has already played him. He has undergone a court wedding with her. If he wants to be free, he has to obtain a court divorce which will likely order him to pay child support for another man's child for life.

femi4:
She is a callous being

But how can another man be sleeping with a preggy woman

. Bruh what if OP has been the one sleeping with someone else preeg all this while. It's very much not possible for any reasonable man to sleep with someone's else preeg as heavy as that. Odidi oyun osu mejo.

Khd95:
You are an idjot, visiting and buying food for your wife that refused to stay In the same house with your cousin, u even rushed to get her Paracetamol, omo what kind of weak men do we have these days


If this your story isn't made up, then you are the dumbest person alive, deM don't shine your wife Congo inside hotel room, hoi even bought her food to refresh her and paracetamol to ease her headache , ahhhh oluwa oo


She even accused you of the used condom, women

if God wan catch person, na so e dey be ooo. the guy should be happy that the supposed wife ring her to bring the paracetamol, if not how will discover that his wife is a cheat

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CarlsJaz567:
This is really serious!

However, let me clarify what you just said. So you are married via court wedding, but yet to complete the traditional marital ceremony due to her family cancelling the planned event?

If that's so, my guess is that your wife is probably carrying someone else's baby. Well, I think you should wait and carry out a DNA test to ascertain if the baby is yours.

However, regarding whether to continue your relationship with your wife, that is a great matter for you to unravel yourself. Was she insistent to the end that the used condoms is not connected to her? Is she showing signs that she still treasures her marriage with you, or is she merely shrugging her shoulder with attitude that says that 'you can go and hug the transformer for all she cares'?

How has she been behaving before this discovery of yours, apart from the 'no sex again before bride price' ultimatum stuff?

Answers to all these questions, and more probing and diligent soul-searching from your side would help you decide if she can still be your wife.

I can almost deduce from your narrations that she doesn't care much for you. Maybe you forced yourself on her and she was really interested in some other person.

Well, May God help you out.

[/s] Which kind mumu question be this?
@op dump that bitch.

8Months old pregnancy and she's having sex? Haaabaa, the baby don die already....sorry

daddytime:
I just weak like dodo.

Please, don’t disrespect my dodo ever again .. how dare you compare your weakness to my beloved dodo, how dare you�...

Why didn’t you confront her when you saw the used condom...she don rope you oo

Dupalmer:
Few years back my ex fiance had told me that she'd be participating in a Christian camping program the coming week. I was almost fooled but what gave her away was my laptop that she was using to watch movies before the battery drained out.

When I later made use of the laptop at work, She had logged onto her Facebook account but was unable to sign out before the battery drained. I passively went through her wall and chats and noticed that the supposed camping date was a ploy to have a free weekend with a guy who she'd been communicating with online.

The guyman is based in Germany. He had already spent close to 2 weeks in Nigeria since he came back and was ready to travel back to Germany but scheduled being with my Girlfriend for the weekend.

I foiled the "camping", I sent a friend request to the guyman with a message, he promptly accepted and we started communicating. Luckily he's not a woman wrapper. I told him my history with the girl and how she's trying to play the two of us. We agreed to meet and our meeting sparked a wonderful friendship and trust that is still in existence till today. For me I was done with the relationship. Though it really pained me but I needed proof.

We agreed to play along. He invited her to where he was lodging. I had wanted her to pass the night in my place but she said it will ruin her program that she and her fellow campers would take off to Camp of Faith in Okigwe before noon. I "bidded" her farewell for the camping programme. She even called me to tell me that they were taking off and 3 hours later she called to say that they had arrived. She sounded so convincing that you wouldn't believe that she's not in the same city with me. The more she lied the more I am ending the relationship in my mind.

Well I kept tabs with my guy. They had agreed she'd would come over to his hotel at 6pm. I was at the bar of the same hotel trying so hard not to get drunk. My guy chatted me up around 7.40pm signaling me. I went and knocked, behold my fiance opened the door she was wearing her finest nightie, without bra, flaunting her fine legs and hour glass shape. My pain was nothing compared to her shock.

In summary she lost the both of us. She tried everything possible to get back into my while blaming the devil but her efforts were futile.

Here's the solution :
The solutions to not being a victim of their dissimulation is:
IF SHE'S NICE TO YOU PLEASE GO EXTRA MILE TO TREASURE HER BUT IF YOU SENSE ANY TRAIT OF SUBTLENESS:
1. Learn not to trust them.
2. Tune your level of emotional attachment to them so low.
3. Invest little or nothing in them so you don't have much to lose.
4. Sex is not worth paying for and don't get hooked to any particular hole.
5. Always have a spare tyre.
6. Pay back in their coin whenever possible the most effective way is to fvck her friends, relatives or colleagues. If she does same to you don't be pained, you have nothing to lose, a key that can open many doors is a master key.
7. Pay more attention to your hustles. HUSTLE hard, make more money and even more money and even more
They are terrible liars and con artists.

For more insight kindly read
UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: All The Sex In The World. -

It reflects your experience which you have just shared. I hope folks will learn from this wonderful piece.

https://www.nairaland.com/5520167/ubunjas-miseducation-all-sex-world

WORDWORLD:
EXCELLENT ANALOGY And indeed women are the smoothest criminals when it comes to cheating in relationships. Men can never meet up to their craftiness when it comes to cheating while men get blamed for cheating more is because men are not as crafty. MEN ARE VERY EASILY CAUGHT THAN YOU CAN CATCH A CHEATING WOMAN.

do a DNA
if child is not yours divorce her. you av saved yourselves from being in modern day slavery.

The future is female

She stopped having sex with you immediately she got pregnant, that alone shows you aren't the owner of the pregnancy but you are so dull and weak as a man to see.

Joelrichman:
I know asking immediately will bring up her defense skills and might deny it's from the room, possibly saw it under the bed or any means of defending it... So I did as if nothing happens and went out....
Zoom she picked it up and hide it.... It's a clear term she's guilty and still contemplating if I've seen it or not... So she hid it...
Giving time was to see her reaction how best she will come out but she didn't call and never bothered while I didn't call her or change in attitude till I put it to her...

Ma guy forget all this long talk abeg, you married to a street dog, read some of my thread how I sent my ex away after finding out she's a public toilet. Her family begged and begged, even my own family did, we are almost finalising the divorce now, I remember the judge telling me to forgive I said No. I can't forgive a street dog, denying you sex Immediately she got pregnant shows alone you aren't the one who owns the preg. Use your head man, the baby isn't urs, she's smacking one broke dude while you are taking care of her bills, she's a lazy broke bittch. She's a public toilet bro.

What a strange world we live in..

It's either the real father of the pregnancy is the one mounting her in the hotel room or one of her lovers is mounting her with your child in her belly.

It's better you do paternity test to know if the kids are truly yours. It wasn't this bad with the women of those days, what changed??

OKOATA:
She stopped having sex with you immediately she got pregnant, that alone shows you aren't the owner of the pregnancy but you are so dull and weak as a man to see.

Interesting

Joelrichman:
I know asking immediately will bring up her defense skills and might deny it's from the room, possibly saw it under the bed or any means of defending it... So I did as if nothing happens and went out....
Zoom she picked it up and hide it.... It's a clear term she's guilty and still contemplating if I've seen it or not... So she hid it...
Giving time was to see her reaction how best she will come out but she didn't call and never bothered while I didn't call her or change in attitude till I put it to her...

Congratulations Dude...You are wise and you know what to do..Don't let it bother you one bit. Go and severs that court ties and move on sharperly....

DNA is expensive. Divorce is not cheap. What will you do now? The child may be yours and the marriage isn't. The marriage isn't yours but you both may have a child to raise together. A fly is on your balls, it takes patience to kill.

The kind of rubbish that simps endure ein?
Sorry for being a bit harsh but sometimes you need a slap in the form of hard truth to reset your brains.
Now You See that your people where right after all.
Please dissolve that marriage. Not only because of her infidelity but for her acute lack of respect.
Imagine me asking my wife about the paternity of her unborn child and she responds with that rubbish?
She will will meet her great grand ansectors that day.
Bros leave that prison

Joelrichman:
Dated over 3yrs, due to tribal concern and family non acceptance, we agreed to do court wedding in May 2020,
She got pregnant June/July and everything changed.
She stop having sex with me and told me until bride price is paid wen it was her family that concelled wedding fixed.
She went out for work in Lagos here, so my cousin came visiting ... She said she can't stay in same house with him and went to put up in hotel.
I visited and next morning before work bought her food.
She called for paracetamol while at work, rushed back to get for her only to enter her room and met used sachet of condom on the floor.
I took note and did as if I never see anything.. went out and before coming back she picked the sachet and hid it.
I left she never brought it up for over 5 days.
She's back to work...I asked and she said she tot the condom sachet dropped from my pocket hence she never asked.
I've stopped all communication and currently trying to move on...
Gotten new apartment and wanna pack out of the house before I made head news...
I told her paternity of her pregnancy is questioned but she said after a year the baby will know her father...
The point is while sleeping with another man with 8 months pregnant of pregnancy she claimed is mine....
Kinda confused!

Mod help a brother..
Kindly push abeg lemme learn!

obviously she is following her families directives!
her family did not accept you
then you should not have push ahead.
the idea that you wife is not living with you but in a hotel with 8 months pregnancy is a big ish.
Since you have raised paternity issue about the pregnancy then so be it.
when she gives birth carry out a dna.if it is yours fine if not fine
but you and her are not compatible

pointblank247:
The kind of rubbish that simps endure ein?
Sorry for being a bit harsh but sometimes you need a slap in the form of hard truth to reset your brains.
Now You See that your people where right after all.
Please dissolve that marriage. Not only because of her infidelity but for her acute lack of respect.
Imagine me asking my wife about the paternity of her unborn child and she responds with that rubbish?
She will will meet her great grand ansectors that day.
Bros leave that prison

when I read that statement after one year you will know.
the guy should have understood that the woman is not his but coping mechanism differ

OKOATA:
She stopped having sex with you immediately she got pregnant, that alone shows you aren't the owner of the pregnancy but you are so dull and weak as a man to see.

that a woman stops having sex due to pregnancy is no big deal.it is when the same person one married to is active in sex that is a serious issue.
it is like a woman telling you no sex before marriage meanwhile she is and Lexington steele are hitting all cylinders

OKOATA:
Ma guy forget all this long talk abeg, you married to a street dog, read some of my thread how I sent my ex away after finding out she's a public toilet. Her family begged and begged, even my own family did, we are almost finalising the divorce now, I remember the judge telling me to forgive I said No. I can't forgive a street dog, denying you sex Immediately she got pregnant shows alone you aren't the one who owns the preg. Use your head man, the baby isn't urs, she's smacking one broke dude while you are taking care of her bills, she's a lazy broke bittch. She's a public toilet bro.

her family did not support the marriage

extol1:
if God wan catch person, na so e dey be ooo. the guy should be happy that the supposed wife ring her to bring the paracetamol, if not how will discover that his wife is a cheat

abi!
he should be thanking God for answered prayers

Joelrichman:
Dated over 3yrs, due to tribal concern and family non acceptance, we agreed to do court wedding in May 2020,
She got pregnant June/July and everything changed.
She stop having sex with me and told me until bride price is paid wen it was her family that concelled wedding fixed.
She went out for work in Lagos here, so my cousin came visiting ... She said she can't stay in same house with him and went to put up in hotel.
I visited and next morning before work bought her food.
She called for paracetamol while at work, rushed back to get for her only to enter her room and met used sachet of condom on the floor.
I took note and did as if I never see anything.. went out and before coming back she picked the sachet and hid it.
I left she never brought it up for over 5 days.
She's back to work...I asked and she said she tot the condom sachet dropped from my pocket hence she never asked.
I've stopped all communication and currently trying to move on...
Gotten new apartment and wanna pack out of the house before I made head news...
I told her paternity of her pregnancy is questioned but she said after a year the baby will know her father...
The point is while sleeping with another man with 8 months pregnant of pregnancy she claimed is mine....
Kinda confused!

Mod help a brother..
Kindly push abeg lemme learn!

Most Nigerian women are useless and you ought to have known that.

OKOATA:
She stopped having sex with you immediately she got pregnant, that alone shows you aren't the owner of the pregnancy but you are so dull and weak as a man to see.

easy for u to say shey, until shit happens to u u will know how far