Rockyfancino:
How do I reply this? Sent by someone who didn't hold any value or respect for me and we separated and ghosted her for 2 months. My first thought was not replying. Then I thought maybe I should post it here and hear other opinions.

Peaceyw:
I discovered something recently though I should share it with y'all
If you know to the extent women keep secrets, men will not tell women anything about themselves. Things that men think are trivial and unimportant that they tell women around them, they don't know that most of this information contain secret about their character, lifestyle, thinking process among all others. While women tell you things that will make her more valuable in your eyes e.g I am a virgin, I don't sleep around, I know how to cook, I can keep money for a long time without spending. Most of this things are really not important in the grand scheme of things but men don't realise that. Take a look at this scenario; My friend and I had an argument about food one day, and I was dissatisfied. So i went ahead and told a girl I am seeing recently about the argument. I might think such information is tribal but she has gotten one important thing about me, I like food. Later she will start cooking for me and I will think she really loves me, then suddenly she will stop cooking and when I ask her why, she says that ingredients are cost now and she cannot continue cooking. Then in my own mind I will start rationalize everything like; she is cooking for me, I should be paying her so that she will cook better food, it is not as if I can go to a restaurant and eat without paying. Then I start paying for ingredients for her to continue cooking. Although there will be no improvement in the cooking l but because I paid for the food because I want to get better tasting food, my brain will deceive me into thinking that there is an improvement in her cooking. Sadly, I am just paying extra for the same food I was getting for free.

We men should learn to keep most of our thoughts to ourselves just like how we are controlling pur sexual urges. Thank you.

FRANKOSKI:

you are biblicaly wrong。

PETUK:

lol I'm not sure he is.
truth be told if I had known about Red Pill long time ago I'd still be married but probably to a different person

emmaodet:


Bro, what else do you want me to break down?
That the idea of marriage is long overdue and doesn't make sense in this present era.
Also, what most our grandfathers took for granted - virginity of a woman because it was normal that time, it was a prerequisite for most first wives to be virgin, 90% of married first wives were virgins. It was Just normal expected requirement.
What they took for GRANTED is like a PREMIUM / LUXURY to the present generation of men.
To get a virgin woman which was a normal thing then is like...i don't even know the right english to use.
But on the bright side, we have also gained some things bro.
What we take as normal and also take for granted now is like a Luxury to the past generation.
We get paid to work now, wages far higher than our inputs. The teachers, muscians, footballers that played and worked virtually for free ora meagre money then are now doing far well than the previous generation.
A lot of them even worked for free in plantations as slaves, a lot of black slaves built many america buildings for free, people play ball, wrestle at village squares for nothing but get paid insanely for these things now.

yahjac:

technically you're regreting the marriage ?

Skepticus:


Lol. Not targeted at those who are married.

I'm not against getting married, even, though I'm not a fan of it.

The man who made this quote (H.L Mencken, American journalist and literary critic) made that quote as a married man at a time (1930s - 1940s) when women of his generation were still feminine and chaste. The quote was suppose to be a humorous mockery of himself and other married men when they realized later, how much they sacrificed and how much more they could have achieved if they were single. He was never against marriage just like I am but I wish men could hold on to their commitment and cherish it more instead of throwing it in the hands of spent sluts and achieve more for themselves than they could ever. I know my wish is unrealistic for a lot of men.

Rockyfancino:
How do I reply this? Sent by someone who didn't hold any value or respect for me and we separated and ghosted her for 2 months. My first thought was not replying. Then I thought maybe I should post it here and hear other opinions.

emmaodet:


You are right bro. If i had known too, i would still be single by now or choose a wife mainly for financial reason rather than love that is meaningless and useless to men.
I would have used the financial background, nature of her work, beauty, characters as more criteria than love.
But it is too late to cry when the head is cut off or there is no point crying over spilt milk.
Now what am doing is damage control.

Abeg, we move

SOZINN:
Feminists want the power of men, the privileges of women and the responsibilities of neither.

emmaodet:


You are right bro. If i had known too, i would still be single by now or choose a wife mainly for financial reason rather than love that is meaningless and useless to men.
I would have used the financial background, nature of her work, beauty, characters as more criteria than love.
But it is too late to cry when the head is cut off or there is no point crying over spilt milk.
Now what am doing is damage control.

Abeg, we move

CaveAdullam:

But the truth of the matter is, if you don't confront darkness, darkness will forever be your nightmare.

SOZINN:
That she has the qualifications does not necessarily mean she qualifies.

CaveAdullam:
The best reply to this message is: no reply! To enable this, delete the message. Maybe she has found solace in the bosom of another man, and I don't care! You too move on. She doesn't want your company any longer. Bro, ignore her. Don't think of any short or long reply.

Who the f^ck boasts about her low temperance level? Narcissistic women. She knows very well that she's wrong but doesn't want to make it really seem so tangible, hence the nonsensical text. I wonder what makes men stick to such kind of women with turbulent behaviour when it ought to be the other way round(evolutionary perspective in mind).

Skepticus:


The quote was suppose to be a humorous mockery of himself and other married men when they realized later, how much they sacrificed and how much more they could have achieved if they were single. He was never against marriage just like I am but I wish men could hold on to their commitment and cherish it more instead of throwing it in the hands of spent sluts and achieve more for themselves than they could ever. I know my wish is unrealistic for a lot of men.

temi4fash:


I dont think there is a love without sacrifice.

Rockyfancino:

You're spot on. I didn't want to before but I've already gone to reply after the first reply I got.
But my reply was very very lit. It'll destroy what ever nonsense fake esteem in her. This is the first time I'll really finish someone through text. This person has always trashed me for a long time tho. A good wastage of her self-esteem is not mush a bad deal if it's coming for the first time.

Regex:


Gee! I still have a long way to go. I never knew this. From today, I'm keeping my thoughts to myself, everything. I mean everything.

TheUndercover:

That's the reason why as a man, if you're thinking of getting married, make sure you've achieved 80-90% of your dreams and ambitions, because truth be told, after getting married, the probability of achieving those goals set when you were single reduces drastically.

And if you eventually got married, make sure you lay a solid foundation i.e. let her know she's going to simply play to your terms if she wants to be part of life and always let her have the mindset that she can always be shifted aside if she misbehaves whether she has a child with you or not. If you can afford it, marry more than one but beliefs, society and family always makes men stick to one woman all their Life.
If you can make a written agreement possible which will make the terms you laid upheld, then do it.

Religion is supposed to keep hypergamous instinct of women in check, but this current generation is simply nothing to write home about. That's why if you check the rate of divorce in strict Islamic countries who don't joke with their laws and beliefs, the divorce rates is usually low because the laws contains Red Pill truths.

The Red Pill isn't built to discourage Men from getting married. You can be married and be successful in all other walks of life and I'm sure we have seen some examples of Alpha redpilled men who were successful in both marriage, developments and business. But at least you know what to expect in marriage. You're aware of the choice and it will help you to set the relationship/marriage on your own terms.

Peaceyw:

If you have anything bothering you, share it with your male friends instead, females will do you no good.

Zabiboy:


Honestly bro, the bolded wasnt necessary...
It shows you havent really moved on...
But it is what it is tho.....You make your own decisions.

emmaodet:


Bro, what else do you want me to break down?
That the idea of marriage is long overdue and doesn't make sense in this present era.
Also, what most our grandfathers took for granted - virginity of a woman because it was normal that time, it was a prerequisite for most first wives to be virgin, 90% of married first wives were virgins. It was Just normal expected requirement.
What they took for GRANTED is like a PREMIUM / LUXURY to the present generation of men.
To get a virgin woman which was a normal thing then is like...i don't even know the right english to use.
But on the bright side, we have also gained some things bro.
What we take as normal and also take for granted now is like a Luxury to the past generation.
We get paid to work now, wages far higher than our inputs. The teachers, muscians, footballers that played and worked virtually for free ora meagre money then are now doing far well than the previous generation.
A lot of them even worked for free in plantations as slaves, a lot of black slaves built many america buildings for free, people play ball, wrestle at village squares for nothing but get paid insanely for these things now.

FRANKOSKI:

WHATS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WANT AND NEED ？help a brother

PETUK:
not marriage as a whole

SOZINN:
That she has the qualifications does not necessarily mean she qualifies.