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Ogbanje is a disease we call sickle cell anaemia today.
in those days, when a woman gives birth to a child and the child dies at young age and she gives birth to another child and the child dies at a young age and it kept on repeating it self is called ogbanje or Abiku in Yoruba.
but this situation occurs in couple with AS as genotype.
Your parents are just using that as an excuse.

ADVICE
go to a qualified doctor to treat u. As for the ulcer, see a good nutritionist for guide line on diet while u continue with ur treatment.
Why didn't u tell it family about your health Long ago?

If u truly love her, go for her.
I doubt if her parents will let her marry u.

Help is here. I have got same issues as you through out this year and I have been able to treat myself through trials and errors. I have taken every antibiotics that Doctors gave me but my case was getting worse until I started taking natural remedies. I took a lot of natural remedies that I googled changing from one to the other. I was getting relief but not cure until I started taking the following and that was the beginning of my breakthrough.

1. Onions: Chew raw onions just once and your ulcer symptoms will disappear.

2. Garlic and ginger: Pound both together and pour hot water inside. Allow to cool and drink. Store the remaining one for evening. Drink daily and the kidney pains will go away.

3. Bicarbonate of Soda: Buy it from pharmacy, add half teaspoon to a glass of water and drink daily. It reduces the pain by the side of the tummy.

4. Charcoal: Activated Charcoal will neutralise all the poisonous drugs in your body and will eventually fix your kidneys and everything. Just add to a glass of water and drink daily.


Try all these and you will soon be well. Crown it with vitamin C 1000 mg and Vitamin E to repair any damage caused to your kidneys while you were sick.

Don't forget to give your testimony here quoting this. You shall not die but live in Jesus name.

Gang90:
Last time I went to hospital, the doctor said I was having gout, in itself gout is not a sickness but mainly as a result of other things, I feel like I'm having kidney issues because, I feel pains on my sides of the stomach, the I fall really sick regular then when I got taking drugs I didn't know I was ulcer prone and I got taking NSAID which got my intestines whole on the damaging part, now i can't take most drugs and I can't get a relief

You are speaking in parable!!!

These is not Nollywood you think you can keep us in suspense!!!

We are all ears please

Hello Op, you need to answer these questions before you jump into the conclusion.
(1) Does she love you the way you love her?
(2) Can she trade her religion for yours even if eventually you get married?
(3) Does her parent accept your relationship with her?
(4) Can she stand it if you finally open up to her about your health conditions?
If these can be answered, then go ahead and tell her about your plans and health issues. From your write up, you're not yet ready for marriage, I don't think is advisable to tell her anything. Just play along and see what the future holds.

seek more information on the grail message and thank me later...

Na she or you be ogbanje

Gang90:
Last time I went to hospital, the doctor said I was having gout, in itself gout is not a sickness but mainly as a result of other things, I feel like I'm having kidney issues because, I feel pains on my sides of the stomach, the I fall really sick regular then when I got taking drugs I didn't know I was ulcer prone and I got taking NSAID which got my intestines whole on the damaging part, now i can't take most drugs and I can't get a relief

Be healed of all your worries and sickness in Jesus name Amen.

I guess you are igbo man? Or what tribe are you and what tribe is the girl?

Gang90:
I'm not implicating her my main issue is marrying against your family's wish, what if you won't be there, would they let her take the kids, would they give her full right and recognition to take care of your ventures and the kids if you are not there, these things can ruin her life if she's denied access to her kids or her kids are brainwashed against her like I said I don't believe those things but people still does

ogbanjé is real and if there's a reproof from ur family....why go against them and marry her to a family where she's not liked?

it's common sense bro.....besides its of no sense turning ur back on the family coz of a girl. abeg wake up jur

Gang90:
Last time I went to hospital, the doctor said I was having gout, in itself gout is not a sickness but mainly as a result of other things, I feel like I'm having kidney issues because, I feel pains on my sides of the stomach, the I fall really sick regular then when I got taking drugs I didn't know I was ulcer prone and I got taking NSAID which got my intestines whole on the damaging part, now i can't take most drugs and I can't get a relief

You have so many issues to bother about

Concentrate on how to improve your health challenge

Besides, at 24yrs,you are still young to talk about marriage

Get something doing and get some money to take care of yourself

When it's the right time for you to get settled down with out hoping on any one to assist you in taking care of your family, your parents will accept the woman you will present to them ogbanje or no ogbanje

Gang90:
I know you may later find my identity but I don't care becuase I need help.

I have this loving girlfriend, actually I love her so much and she in many occasions proven how much she loves me. I met her in school around 2014, we were good friends though I asked her for a date then and she said we have no future together then later on she told me if I can date her without being affectionate, I thought she will be using me what's love without affection didn't know she was scared of me breaking her heart, I left school and somehow around May this year I kept disturbing her and at last she gave in, she's a Muslim, we don't mind. She is my first real love.

We been really so good that I thought she's the best option for me in marriage, actually I didn't think I wanted kids but she changed my views and now I started thinking about raising a family with her.

When it becomes really so deep I thought I should let my family know, I have known her as a best friend and now as a girlfriend so I already believes we would be good for a couple so to test the dept of the sea with one leg I had to let my mum know, she was fond of her when I spoke with her on phone, she didn't mind that she was a Muslim from another state but on talking about marriage the whole thing took a new turn.

And before hand the talk got to more family members and I'm this kind of guy that people takes so serious in my house becuase before I say things I already done it halve way, now they say marriage is not something one just go into but that they were happy I spoke on that earlier on.

They say they need some spiritual examination I gave them go ahead, I'm 24 years old, planning to marry her in about 2 to three years. Now they came back saying she's an Ogbanje and that anybody who marries her may die Young. Note I don't really believe those but my family does.

My main issue is I had been battling an underlying health condition now and I'm not sure of staying around for so long and if anything happens to me while we are married my family may hold her responsible and I may not be there to stand for her, she will be coming to see me this Xmas and I'm really confused. I don't know what to do She seems to love me so much already.

"Marry her in about 2 to three years"
When you are ready, come back for answers...

lasheun:
Attention...

Is that how attention hungry one can be to that extent

Gang90, are you a sickler? Do you have cancer?

Gang90:
Last time I went to hospital, the doctor said I was having gout, in itself gout is not a sickness but mainly as a result of other things, I feel like I'm having kidney issues because, I feel pains on my sides of the stomach, the I fall really sick regular then when I got taking drugs I didn't know I was ulcer prone and I got taking NSAID which got my intestines whole on the damaging part, now i can't take most drugs and I can't get a relief

I will only say this once. I wouldn't reply if you quote me. Make research about the next "Healing School". Attend and you will be ok.

So unfortunate, ur parents are seeing ur future through this vision while it's appropriate for you to let them know the situations of tour health in other to support you and find solution to it...

You are talking about love, did u wish her to be a single lady in future.. All what u need now is ur health, forget abt marriage for now

Gang90:
Last time I went to hospital, the doctor said I was having gout, in itself gout is not a sickness but mainly as a result of other things, I feel like I'm having kidney issues because, I feel pains on my sides of the stomach, the I fall really sick regular then when I got taking drugs I didn't know I was ulcer prone and I got taking NSAID which got my intestines whole on the damaging part, now i can't take most drugs and I can't get a relief

Aww so sorry

HolyCaligula:
Alright brother, for your sickness you will be healed.

But on this lady, though i don't know you or her and i have never met you nor talk to you before now, but something in me keeps telling me to tell you to leave her, i don't know and This spirit and urge in me have never been wrong.

My brother listen to your family and break up with her.

No mixing of words bro,. She is an ogbanjeeeee

Based on the order of the Peaky blinders.

what is this nigga talking about

talking from experience, l had similar issues, went for prayers, they tell me don't marry her shez bad luck and all that. the truth about all this is that love conquers all, don't let any one decide ur faith, take you destiny in ur own hands, if shez ready. about your health condition don't give up, God is the ultimate mechanic, He alone has our spare parts, and He is in the Business of changing lives, if you are a Christian go to a living church were prayers are held regularly God will change ur story. go with ur woman if possible her story will change too. at some point after intense prayers l and my fiancee are all good to go all the bullshit stop, and by the grace of God will be tieing the nuts early 2020

imiski:
Make I park my car here. No scratch me oh.

Lol, chai... Nairaland is truly the land of clowns. Lol, this thing make me laugh eh.

Gang90:
Last time I went to hospital, the doctor said I was having gout, in itself gout is not a sickness but mainly as a result of other things, I feel like I'm having kidney issues because, I feel pains on my sides of the stomach, the I fall really sick regular then when I got taking drugs I didn't know I was ulcer prone and I got taking NSAID which got my intestines whole on the damaging part, now i can't take most drugs and I can't get a relief

What you call ulcer is actually not ulcer. I used to suffer from it for years. I could not take drugs and I am always in the hospital for stomach pains and disorderliness. If I take drugs, I will be like commotion in my stomach and sometimes, when you don't eat on time, it will be like there is world war going on in your stomach. Eventually, I got drugs for it and I have not been experiencing this for a while. If you want to try it, though it is herb medicine, I will arrange it for you free of charge. If it works for you, you can come back here to give testimony.

Quote me, if you want to give it a trial. May the Lord heal you.

Gang90:
I know you may later find my identity but I don't care becuase I need help.

I have this loving girlfriend, actually I love her so much and she in many occasions proven how much she loves me. I met her in school around 2014, we were good friends though I asked her for a date then and she said we have no future together then later on she told me if I can date her without being affectionate, I thought she will be using me what's love without affection didn't know she was scared of me breaking her heart, I left school and somehow around May this year I kept disturbing her and at last she gave in, she's a Muslim, we don't mind. She is my first real love.

We been really so good that I thought she's the best option for me in marriage, actually I didn't think I wanted kids but she changed my views and now I started thinking about raising a family with her.

When it becomes really so deep I thought I should let my family know, I have known her as a best friend and now as a girlfriend so I already believes we would be good for a couple so to test the dept of the sea with one leg I had to let my mum know, she was fond of her when I spoke with her on phone, she didn't mind that she was a Muslim from another state but on talking about marriage the whole thing took a new turn.

And before hand the talk got to more family members and I'm this kind of guy that people takes so serious in my house becuase before I say things I already done it halve way, now they say marriage is not something one just go into but that they were happy I spoke on that earlier on.

They say they need some spiritual examination I gave them go ahead, I'm 24 years old, planning to marry her in about 2 to three years. Now they came back saying she's an Ogbanje and that anybody who marries her may die Young. Note I don't really believe those but my family does.

My main issue is I had been battling an underlying health condition now and I'm not sure of staying around for so long and if anything happens to me while we are married my family may hold her responsible and I may not be there to stand for her, she will be coming to see me this Xmas and I'm really confused. I don't know what to do She seems to love me so much already.

Does she know like you say "are dying? "
Pls like your topic says don't make any girl suffer. Don't give promises and waste a young future.
Firstly get your healing and then everything else will follow.
Meanwhile does your parents know about your illness? Learn to share a few deep things with your parents or siblings.

Lol but this oga ur very funny o....ur sick and ur tinking of marriage that ur planning in d next two years...UV not even asked if ud b alive by then....wats even giving d assurance that dat girl will wait n marry u wen that time comes? Oga pack ur load and go to d hospitol o ur health is important than a y woman

Since u won't last on earth my advise is get her pregnant, have a child before you leave this fucking earth. That should be your priority for now. Be fruitful and multiply says the lord

Lol... Your family really thinks she's an ogbanje?

Bros ask them for the real reason jor. They probably don't like her family/place of origin or something.

All that spiritual examination nonsense and threat of death is how many families manipulate a member into doing what they want especially in choice of marriage mate. They know you wouldn't agree if they say the real reason so they look for something 'spiritual' since they have raised you to believe in them too.

Linzbreezy:
Is that how attention hungry one can be to that extent

We are online nah and we see what people do to get it..

Some people still live in 19 century. Its a scam ride on bro.

Gang90:
I know you may later find my identity but I don't care becuase I need help.

I have this loving girlfriend, actually I love her so much and she in many occasions proven how much she loves me. I met her in school around 2014, we were good friends though I asked her for a date then and she said we have no future together then later on she told me if I can date her without being affectionate, I thought she will be using me what's love without affection didn't know she was scared of me breaking her heart, I left school and somehow around May this year I kept disturbing her and at last she gave in, she's a Muslim, we don't mind. She is my first real love.

We been really so good that I thought she's the best option for me in marriage, actually I didn't think I wanted kids but she changed my views and now I started thinking about raising a family with her.

When it becomes really so deep I thought I should let my family know, I have known her as a best friend and now as a girlfriend so I already believes we would be good for a couple so to test the dept of the sea with one leg I had to let my mum know, she was fond of her when I spoke with her on phone, she didn't mind that she was a Muslim from another state but on talking about marriage the whole thing took a new turn.

And before hand the talk got to more family members and I'm this kind of guy that people takes so serious in my house becuase before I say things I already done it halve way, now they say marriage is not something one just go into but that they were happy I spoke on that earlier on.

They say they need some spiritual examination I gave them go ahead, I'm 24 years old, planning to marry her in about 2 to three years. Now they came back saying she's an Ogbanje and that anybody who marries her may die Young. Note I don't really believe those but my family does.

My main issue is I had been battling an underlying health condition now and I'm not sure of staying around for so long and if anything happens to me while we are married my family may hold her responsible and I may not be there to stand for her, she will be coming to see me this Xmas and I'm really confused. I don't know what to do She seems to love me so much already.

PSYCHO

IbrahimSkiba:
PSYCHO

Why are you calling me a psycho

Gang90:
Why are you calling me a psycho

That's what you are...

IbrahimSkiba:
That's what you are...

Why do you think I'm a psycho