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Jezking:
My only problem with what you said is saying that they have one or two-sided knowledge. When most of the intelligent ladies I know are multi-talented beings with up to 3 to 4 sides of knowledge...

Don't generalize with just your experience...learn
and remember, birds of the same feather, flock together

No doubt. There some ladies that are versatile and are even better the guys in all aspects. I have also met them. But there are much more ladies who are just good in few aspects of knowledge.
Let's take a case study here on nairaland. The statistical data of gender population and their contribution to this platform. You will observe that ladies level of participation is so low in some forums compare to other forums like a celebrity, fashion, romance, family, etc

Don't get me wrong. Some of them are better of in all aspects than a lot of guys but what I'm insinuating is that ladies prefer to say on their own peculiar lane other than delving into other matters like sport story, politics, economy, geography, pets and animal life, , . all those forum I mentioned, ladies participation on it is so low....

Ariza:
I was expecting someone to make this a Nigerian Women thing and you didn't disappoint. The question is are Nigerian Men any different? How many can engage in brain stimulating conversations? How many can vividly separate platonic friendships from sexual relationships? How many value Intelligence over physical appearances?. If it isn't about sex, conversations hardly happen.

This thread is evidence enough to conclude that only few Nigerian Men can do any of those questions asked. On the same thread, a guy helped a girl to get into her skirt, A guy met an intelligent lady he could have kept as Friend but still insist on "putting hand in her hole" On this same thread a Guy ridiculed intelligent ladies saying they are mostly ugly and masculine. Such backward thinking!

Thing is: Nigerian men only have what they encourage. They place more importance on fine face, boobs, and bum and flashy things when it comes to choosing ladies, so why should a woman work on her brains when she will only be overlooked and termed Boring and Ugly. Why will a woman feel encouraged to expand her horizon when she will only end "in the kitchen and bed".

Lol yet these confused bunch are always the first to scream and wail that Nigerian Women are unintelligent or can't hold conversations... Men that hardly have something upstairs themselves. So laughable!

Ariza:
I was expecting someone to make this a Nigerian Women thing and you didn't disappoint. The question is are Nigerian Men any different? How many can engage in brain stimulating conversations? How many can vividly separate platonic friendships from sexual relationships? How many value Intelligence over physical appearances?. If it isn't about sex, conversations hardly happen.

This thread is evidence enough to conclude that only few Nigerian Men can do any of those questions asked. On the same thread, a guy helped a girl to get into her skirt, A guy met an intelligent lady he could have kept as Friend but still insist on "putting hand in her hole" On this same thread a Guy ridiculed intelligent ladies saying they are mostly ugly and masculine. Such backward thinking!

Thing is: Nigerian men only have what they encourage. They place more importance on fine face, boobs, and bum and flashy things when it comes to choosing ladies, so why should a woman work on her brains when she will only be overlooked and termed Boring and Ugly. Why will a woman feel encouraged to expand her horizon when she will only end "in the kitchen and bed".

Lol yet these confused bunch are always the first to scream and wail that Nigerian Women are unintelligent or can't hold conversations... Men that hardly have something upstairs themselves. So laughable!

This is too buried within this thread. Can you please open another thread on this? Most of the men here need to read this and understand how their farts smell, that is if they will even understand the message.

DonroxyII:
A girl must not be deficient in all ... No Nyansh, Breast like pimple and she studies Engineering and Electrical

She will definitely be Intellectual and Intelligent... Most girls like that are because of lesser distractions.... They are also good and loyal wife ...

The real probs is that they get cheated upon easily despite their down to earth.

they get cheated on because they are not attractive. unless she marry a Jehovah witness man

whitemand4:
Lolz.... Keep consoling yourself like that lolz.. what you need is reorientation and forget about whatever certificate you're holding because it has beclouded you already Lol... I see that, common sense is far from your brain and has found its location somewhere in ur anus. Lolz your real problem is embedded in that line you cancelled of which I am glad you spotted on. Suit your awkward self.

Yawns. My post never said they are more mature and virtuous. The topic is not about that. The topic is about people who can hold their ground in their specific field, profession or general issues. Whether you accept it or not, there are places you find them gathered.

Read and understand. If it is a case of bitter pill, use gold-spot to swallow it. Stop fighting the truth and quoting me out of context. You hear?

Tell me, why is the backpack in the closet covered in mold?

I never thought that because my backpack is in the closet after the beach, it could go bad. Of course, because of my lack of knowledge and care, I ruined it myself. I mean, on https://simplycarry.com/how-to-remove-mold-from-backpack/ it says how not to do it to save your briefcase. It's a pity I didn't find out too late. We all learn from mistakes, now I know how to do it.

acequeen442 how are you?

Gforce2015:
She put an extra effort to know more than what a typical Naija or Africa will know.
A lot of Naija girls do not have broad or vast knowledge. They are one or two-sided knowledge of people.
don't get me wrong, they might be very good in their career or relationship, or academic but hardly will you find a lady that is vast aspects other than her chosen careers or business or relationship or Zee world.

Zee world! Lol

Lostz:
they get cheated on because they are not attractive. unless she marry a Jehovah witness man

Attraction is more of mental phenomenon .... They are attractive too, to dudes that love them for who they are but let's say that lack physical infrastructure which they compensate for in the mental faculty.

Girls like that will train your children to be the best of the rest ....

Just Imagine Osinbajo wife being a poor woman ... But Osinbajo no go cheat na as per pastor level in ya words ooo

jelel6:
Reading your story, I'm only impressed about two things.

1. She came on time to the venue.
2. She offered to pay part of the bill even though you were the one who invited her on the date.

Why that is impressive is that it means she's got values and morals about what is right and wrong. And she expresses such values through her actions.

Hopefully, she keeps upholding such values even when people don't reciprocate such gestures to her. Because you Op have no personal values you live by. You only remember to respect yourself when you're forced to.

He has no morals at all and this is very saddening.

Westernlove:
You must be Very foolish and stupid for agreeing with her that Messhit Is better than Kvng Ronaldo. Nonsense!!!

Na here me I know say he don fucc up

3rd in my nairaland most intelligent ladies found finally.....catwalq, hotworta Ariza. A rare display of intelligence. Weldon!!

Ariza:
I was expecting someone to make this a Nigerian Women thing and you didn't disappoint. The question is are Nigerian Men any different? How many can engage in brain stimulating conversations? How many can vividly separate platonic friendships from sexual relationships? How many value Intelligence over physical appearances?. If it isn't about sex, conversations hardly happen.

This thread is evidence enough to conclude that only few Nigerian Men can do any of those questions asked. On the same thread, a guy helped a girl to get into her skirt, A guy met an intelligent lady he could have kept as Friend but still insist on "putting hand in her hole" On this same thread a Guy ridiculed intelligent ladies saying they are mostly ugly and masculine. Such backward thinking!

Thing is: Nigerian men only have what they encourage. They place more importance on fine face, boobs, and bum and flashy things when it comes to choosing ladies, so why should a woman work on her brains when she will only be overlooked and termed Boring and Ugly. Why will a woman feel encouraged to expand her horizon when she will only end "in the kitchen and bed".

Lol yet these confused bunch are always the first to scream and wail that Nigerian Women are unintelligent or can't hold conversations... Men that hardly have something upstairs themselves. So laughable!

Randy100:
It was a hot afternoon of saturday 21st December 2019. I was sweating profusely like a christmas he-goat. I was busy minding my business and walking on the pedestrial side when I saw a small girl who I later got to know to be 19 years. She was carrying a school bag at her back and also a sack full of book on the hand, I could see she was struggling.

As a man with good heart, I decided to help a little sister. I offered my help and I can bet my left balls that she was pleased as she smiled back and agreed without reluctancy. She was beautiful though slim with no nyash and a tiny breast that you could mistaken as a big pimple. I didn't mind, I was only interested in one thing to chop and clean mouth. I collected the sack from her hand with ease, showing no weakness. We started matching to where she will enter keke that is going to her direction. When we reached where she will enter keke, I asked for her number and she said, I should call my own instead that she is going to call me. I called my number, but I noticed she was not writing it down any where. I asked her why, she told me that the number is already stored in her brain. I doubted it and asked her to call it. With the speed of light she vomited the number for me. I was so impressed. She promised to call me but she refused to tell me when.

I have always been in control when I am involve with any lady, but this one, I was the one anxious waiting for her to call me. After waiting for the whole of December, I gave up and stopped expecting. On friday, 3rd january 2020, she called to wish me happy new year. I was so excited, and still I don't know why I was excited. I called her back in the evening to ask her if she will be free on Sunday, that I want to take her out. She agreed and we fixed 4pm at genesis located in leventis at Enugu.

Having dated so many girls, I know how girls think, so I am always ahead of them. Thinking I was dealing with a random girl, by 4pm I started coming out from my house when she called that she is already there. I lied that I was helping an accident victim that I will soon be there. I arrived 30 minutes late and apologized which I have never done because I am always earlier. It has been the other way round, the girls apologizing. We went inside and sat comfortably talking. I got to know she is in second year studying electrical engineering at UNN. All my life, I have never met a girl as highly intelligent as her. She was so versatile in every aspect. We discussed politics and I got to know that her favourite tv show is journalist hangout. We talked football, her analysis of why she thinks Messi is better than Ronaldo was top notch. She countered every of my defense of Ronald intelligently. I was perplexed and shocked. We ordered for their useless fried rice and drinks and ate. She brought out 1k and gave to me. She said I should use it and support whatever I am paying. She even paid more than half of what we ate.

I came back, lost in thought about her, I was so impressed. I picked up my phone and texted her "God bless your father for raising a great daughter like you. Good night." I have been doubting if truly she is a girl, or if I have a Bobrisky situation here. Just like Thomas in the bible, who said "I won't beleive untill I put my hand inside that hole."

You know where Thomas is in the bible but you dont know where "fornication is a sin" is in the bible.

Sugarpearlry:
I doubt if you're intelligent

No... he is not intelligent. I know him as a zombie.
He who supports a dullard is also a dullard.

ginovera:
3rd in my nairaland most intelligent ladies found finally.....catwalq, hotworta Ariza. A rare display of intelligence. Weldon!!

U flatter me

There are different categories of Naija girls.

There are wonderful girls out there,the truth guys fail to comprehend is that girls know we guys want sex from them so when they accept a guy is a plus mark but the prob we guys have is our approach with the ladies.

If you approach a lady well whether intelligent or mumu you will have it,she give it to you pretending she doesnt know what she is doing.

I love our girls,especially igbo and South South girls.
Even if i marry a white lady,i never be myself till i marry one of these areas.
I love Nigerian girls and in general am proud of them.
Most of them are more hardworking than the guys forget olosho shit...

spiralwedge:
You have well justified why things are like this with both Nigerian men and women, but you did not deny it. Of course, there are exceptions. Like you and I.

Let's PM and keep the conversation going on email or whatsapp.

The Op started well but ended badly.

There are intelligent girls,my guy once brought a chic in ma house and wanted to bleep her she refused and told us she was pregnant she ran away from her house.

I believed her,ma guy wanted to fight me cos he planned to rape her.
I told him not in ma house,we almost fought.

I gave the girl rice and stew with fish i prepared and 200.
I hadnt much on me then,she was grateful and blessed me before i let her go.
These was many years ago.

Now even if she lied or not,i think i did the right thing to protect her,she said she followed ma guy cos she told him her predicament,he promised to help her.

This story may differ a little,i love sex alot but we should learn not to place sex on every dealing we do with ladies,if she shows signs its up to the guy to do or not to do

Reex12:
all I can see allover ur writeup is just low self esteem or your just dumb

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Forgive me if i say you are wrong dear,there is no lady that puts fear in me.

I approach every lady i like,i have toasted a beautiful policewoman on checkpoint near Govt house and we later had something in common.She never believed i would have such gut.

So you see dear,if a lady want let her carry herself float for air,i still approach if i fancy you and believe me most times i dont fail.

Its all about confidence and manner of approach...cheekenah











quote author=bukatyne post=89739868]What I always tell my ladies:

There is a way you carry yourself that a guy would keep his reberebe away.

OP would either have to shape up or shape out for more deserving men.[/quote]

From the way he sounded,i concur the lady must be intelligent.

You what makes a first class student is not getting all the questions right but ability to give intelligent defense.

She may be right or wrong in her opinion about messi but her reasons can make her to be intelligent.

Take care

styless:
Where was the intelligence please? Where did I miss?

EleventhWeirdo:
Anybody can be smart, not necessarily about fields of endeavors. I have seen philosophy students that are crazily intelligent, and have met dumb engineering folks who are just about academics, with lil problem solving skills

A good philosophy student is supposed to be intelligent. In fact it is a must.

Randy100:
It was a hot afternoon of saturday 21st December 2019. I was sweating profusely like a christmas he-goat. I was busy minding my business and walking on the pedestrial side when I saw a small girl who I later got to know to be 19 years. She was carrying a school bag at her back and also a sack full of book on the hand, I could see she was struggling.

As a man with good heart, I decided to help a little sister. I offered my help and I can bet my left balls that she was pleased as she smiled back and agreed without reluctancy. She was beautiful though slim with no nyash and a tiny breast that you could mistaken as a big pimple. I didn't mind, I was only interested in one thing to chop and clean mouth. I collected the sack from her hand with ease, showing no weakness. We started matching to where she will enter keke that is going to her direction. When we reached where she will enter keke, I asked for her number and she said, I should call my own instead that she is going to call me. I called my number, but I noticed she was not writing it down any where. I asked her why, she told me that the number is already stored in her brain. I doubted it and asked her to call it. With the speed of light she vomited the number for me. I was so impressed. She promised to call me but she refused to tell me when.

I have always been in control when I am involve with any lady, but this one, I was the one anxious waiting for her to call me. After waiting for the whole of December, I gave up and stopped expecting. On friday, 3rd january 2020, she called to wish me happy new year. I was so excited, and still I don't know why I was excited. I called her back in the evening to ask her if she will be free on Sunday, that I want to take her out. She agreed and we fixed 4pm at genesis located in leventis at Enugu.

Having dated so many girls, I know how girls think, so I am always ahead of them. Thinking I was dealing with a random girl, by 4pm I started coming out from my house when she called that she is already there. I lied that I was helping an accident victim that I will soon be there. I arrived 30 minutes late and apologized which I have never done because I am always earlier. It has been the other way round, the girls apologizing. We went inside and sat comfortably talking. I got to know she is in second year studying electrical engineering at UNN. All my life, I have never met a girl as highly intelligent as her. She was so versatile in every aspect. We discussed politics and I got to know that her favourite tv show is journalist hangout. We talked football, her analysis of why she thinks Messi is better than Ronaldo was top notch. She countered every of my defense of Ronald intelligently. I was perplexed and shocked. We ordered for their useless fried rice and drinks and ate. She brought out 1k and gave to me. She said I should use it and support whatever I am paying. She even paid more than half of what we ate.

I came back, lost in thought about her, I was so impressed. I picked up my phone and texted her "God bless your father for raising a great daughter like you. Good night." I have been doubting if truly she is a girl, or if I have a Bobrisky situation here. Just like Thomas in the bible, who said "I won't beleive untill I put my hand inside that hole."

Oga, how far, so far?

Did the situationship later grew into a relationship?

mariahAngel:
Oga, how far, so far?

Did the situationship later grew into a relationship?

Like Jesus told Thomas put your hand inside the hole

She told him put your hand inside the hole the end..........

mariahAngel:
Oga, how far, so far?

Did the situationship later grew into a relationship?

Since you care to know, it didn't work again.

mariahAngel:
Oga, how far, so far?

Did the situationship later grew into a relationship?

Aproko...


I choro ige asiri okwaya..hahahaha oooh!!!

Randy100:
Since you care to know, it didn't work again.

How will it work, when u already described her breast as big pimples and almost no nyash...

This two features makes up a feminine physique na.

Life no balance.

Munzy14:
Aproko...

No be small ooo

I choro ige asiri okwaya..hahahaha oooh!!!

Owu thread oshie m huru n'ime thread ohuru, m ga metee ya

Op a zakwalanu'm

mariahAngel:
No be small ooo




Owu thread oshie m huru n'ime thread ohuru, m ga metee ya

Op a zakwalanu'm

Nga OP kwuputara ebe di babe nwere ara pimple na ike slilppers aboki...

E no go work NA..

If u fall for someone, u will overlook their flaws/defects...U will even like him/her more for that as a unique feature.

Munzy14:


Nga OP kwuputara ebe di babe nwere ara pimple na ike slilppers aboki...

E no go work NA..

If u fall for someone, u will overlook their flaws/defects...U will even like him/her more for that as a unique feature.

You dey mind the op and storylines...

The girl go don forget am sef...because op seems too shallow

Randy100:
It was a hot afternoon of saturday 21st December 2019. I was sweating profusely like a christmas he-goat. I was busy minding my business and walking on the pedestrial side when I saw a small girl who I later got to know to be 19 years. She was carrying a school bag at her back and also a sack full of book on the hand, I could see she was struggling.

As a man with good heart, I decided to help a little sister. I offered my help and I can bet my left balls that she was pleased as she smiled back and agreed without reluctancy. She was beautiful though slim with no nyash and a tiny breast that you could mistaken as a big pimple. I didn't mind, I was only interested in one thing to chop and clean mouth. I collected the sack from her hand with ease, showing no weakness. We started matching to where she will enter keke that is going to her direction. When we reached where she will enter keke, I asked for her number and she said, I should call my own instead that she is going to call me. I called my number, but I noticed she was not writing it down any where. I asked her why, she told me that the number is already stored in her brain. I doubted it and asked her to call it. With the speed of light she vomited the number for me. I was so impressed. She promised to call me but she refused to tell me when.

I have always been in control when I am involve with any lady, but this one, I was the one anxious waiting for her to call me. After waiting for the whole of December, I gave up and stopped expecting. On friday, 3rd january 2020, she called to wish me happy new year. I was so excited, and still I don't know why I was excited. I called her back in the evening to ask her if she will be free on Sunday, that I want to take her out. She agreed and we fixed 4pm at genesis located in leventis at Enugu.

Having dated so many girls, I know how girls think, so I am always ahead of them. Thinking I was dealing with a random girl, by 4pm I started coming out from my house when she called that she is already there. I lied that I was helping an accident victim that I will soon be there. I arrived 30 minutes late and apologized which I have never done because I am always earlier. It has been the other way round, the girls apologizing. We went inside and sat comfortably talking. I got to know she is in second year studying electrical engineering at UNN. All my life, I have never met a girl as highly intelligent as her. She was so versatile in every aspect. We discussed politics and I got to know that her favourite tv show is journalist hangout. We talked football, her analysis of why she thinks Messi is better than Ronaldo was top notch. She countered every of my defense of Ronald intelligently. I was perplexed and shocked. We ordered for their useless fried rice and drinks and ate. She brought out 1k and gave to me. She said I should use it and support whatever I am paying. She even paid more than half of what we ate.

I came back, lost in thought about her, I was so impressed. I picked up my phone and texted her "God bless your father for raising a great daughter like you. Good night." I have been doubting if truly she is a girl, or if I have a Bobrisky situation here. Just like Thomas in the bible, who said "I won't beleive untill I put my hand inside that hole."

Afa?