₦airaland Forum

Kccheechy:
Men are loosing interest due to some factors.

Women have become so cheap!!! in those days, before a man can enjoy the goodies of a woman, they have to get it through marriage and that was why back then, men were eager to get married. But look at what we have today. Young teens are living couples live in the tetiarry institutions so what's there to look forward to? Sex is soo cheap to get.

Another factor is the moral decadence of our women. Even a wayward man desires to marry a morally upright woman. With all that is going on today in the society, in this age where 17yrs old are going for abortions, being used by ritualists (yahoo boys), damaging their woman hood with all types of drugs to prevent pregnancy during premarital sex, it takes the grace of God to get a woman who will be a blessing to your life as most are walking corpses. You marry them and you begin to experience downfall in your life.

Another factor is the greedy nature of most women.
Most women are not ready to build life from the scratch with young promising men. They are looking for those who are ready-made, they want men who are living the good life already. thereby making themselves to expensive to get.

Another factor is hardship on the side of the man. Most graduates who are at the age to settle down are unemployed. Most are just feeding from hand to mouth. So if they can't even feed themselves comfortably, how would it be for them adding extra mouths to feed?

My brother you've said it all. More wisdom to your head, bro.

Givaxy:
Your future husband is waiting for you on WhatsApp

pocohantas:
I don’t know why they are the ones always crying about lacking interest. Whereas na them monitor single ladies and divorcees pass.

Feels like a heavy notice-me-syndrome.

for reals.

fati2001:
thank you

even if he find the genuine woman he go still ask for premarital sex and CHEAT (if she refuse another wahala).. stupid accusations will be bumping up e. g is she cheating on me,she is having sex outside,probably I'm the side nigga, she don't love me because she is not giving me sex.


WHAT A MESS.

Tone down your toxicity, e get why

Kccheechy:
Women have become so cheap!!! in those days, before a man can enjoy the goodies of a woman, they have to get it through marriage

True talk. You will even see a Nigerian girl on Social media call herself olosho prostitute with no shame that the whole world can see her face.

In the best of times, marrying is a case of fools rush in where angels fear to tread talk less of these permissive days and the blatant materialism that Nigerian girls display.

Also Nigerian girls are not realistic, they are too materialistic and many of them date more than one man at a time.

My brother, wife material no dey woh, infact I promised my sister 200k if she could get me a virtuous lady, infact I wasn't looking for even the most beautiful, just average, I told her I will give her extra 150k if the lady happens to be a virgin....

It's being almost 7 months now...... nothing,

Kccheechy:
It takes the grace of God to get a woman who will be a blessing to your life as most are walking corpses. You marry them and you begin to experience downfall in your life.

Word on marble.

GofuckYourself:


Prophetess

As a seer I can look and tell you if this is true. With your permission off course :

I can tell you exactly when and if at all you will find marital bliss or have children or your marriage if at all will be joyful or sorrowful



Should I ?

Seer that is operating under familiar spirit, is that one a seer? Get out.

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PastorFire:
Marry me.

Na so dem dey take marry? Oga be calming down small small.

Nuttella:
Na do dem dey take marry? Oga be calming down small small.

Lol the Lord must speak to you first na

Dpundict:
Except me. I would have been married if I had not been meeting these money mongers of women, who wants to offer me sex collect their money and move on. A lady last year told me she will only date me if I hookup with her for either 15k as short time or 35k as full service in 2020 so that in 2021 she will date me as my girlfriend. I blocked her when she started disturbing me about the date I would tell her to come. Derby was her name.

and I DIDN'T ASKED YOU !!

VirginSearcher:
If you are a matured virgin ready to mingle.. I don't mean fake one.. and u from the South.. send me a pm

I had thought u had married already before now?
Ur other thread
https://www.nairaland.com/5931187/check-out-phone-got-would-be

vickydevoka:
very right. a watched gal can never marry a wretched man. a poor gal go for an average man.

or better still the highest bidder

Ilekokonit:
The burden of proof is now on the few good Nigerian women (if any still exist) to prove to a man they are dating that they are a permanently good woman.

Imagine a woman having to prove to an alcoholic, womanizing, sex-fiend, heavily smoking skunk of a man that she's a permanently good woman.

Gosh. The delusion.

You guys must really think you're any better than the females you rubbish.

Sixfeetbelle:
How do men expect to find genuine women when they themselves can't learn to stay with one woman in a relationship?

Yes, and another point is that when most of them find the decent and pure ones,they start complaining about the girl because she isn't interested in PRE-MARITAL SEX..
once the girl doesn't agree to that,they would start saying she is a liar,she is getting it elsewhere and all that..
They would end up leaving her if she doesn't agree..
Who leaves a true love because she isn't ready for pre-marital sex?..the irresponsible ones,yeahh
Only the faithful men deserve the FAITHFUL ONES

badonkadonk:
So not true

The facts don't lie.

iamcee:
Yes, and another point is that when most of them find the decent and pure ones,they start complaining about the girl because she isn't interested in PRE-MARITAL SEX..
once the girl doesn't agree to that,they would start saying she is a liar,she is getting it elsewhere and all that..
They would end up leaving her if she doesn't agree..
Who leaves a true love because she isn't ready for pre-marital sex?..
Only the faithful men deserve the FAITHFUL ONES

Exactly. They find a good woman, try to turn her into the bad ones and then turn around to cry wolf.

Tbh, I really hate that the faithful ones hardly end up with faithful partners cause if that were the case, the hypocrisy exhibited by these men would have been diminished a long time ago.

Warripikine:
Is it just lack of money or is it a case of no virtuous women out there?
You people should tell me ooo, cos ayam not understanding today's men anymore..
Is Marriage now a death sentence or what?

i think for guys , they Are not scared or scarce for marriage, it's just that our girls are looking for hushpuppi with the touch of pastor sam adeyemi. girls are looking for a guy who park his fancy car while they trek come there. I mean how na ?

Rexnegro:
i think for guys , they Are not scared or scarce for marriage, it's just that our girls are looking for hushpuppi with the touch of pastor sam adeyemi. girls are looking for a guy who park his fancy car while they trek come there. I mean how na ?

Lols

VirginSearcher:
If you are a matured virgin ready to mingle.. I don't mean fake one.. and u from the South.. send me a pm

People are wailing they can't find virgins to marry and you're here looking for one to turn to an olosho. Are you okay like this?

Sixfeetbelle:
People are wailing they can't find virgins to marry and you're here looking for one to turn to an olosho. Are you okay like this?

Kikikiki

LET ME TELL YOU THE TRUTH, ITS LACK OF INTEREST....WOMEN ARE SCAMMERS

Elsueno:
My brother, wife material no dey woh, infact I promised my sister 200k if she could get me a virtuous lady, infact I wasn't looking for even the most beautiful, just average, I told her I will give her extra 150k if the lady happens to be a virgin....

It's being almost 7 months now...... nothing,

dem no dey, the next thing they will try to tell you that not every girl is born with hymen, or they lost their hymen while doing sport like horse riding....yes indeed they were riding horses, plenty horses

Rexnegro:
i think for guys , they Are not scared or scarce for marriage, it's just that our girls are looking for hushpuppi with the touch of pastor sam adeyemi. girls are looking for a guy who park his fancy car while they trek come there. I mean how na ?

women are looking for a loyal alpha...a weak tupac...a gentle gangster....a tame lion king....the confusion and deluded expectancy is really high

Warripikine:
Kikikiki

Do you see our problem? The genuine ones are being deceived daily by wolves in sheep's clothing and the rest expect things to still be as they were. How?!

Men, how?

After deflowering all the virgins in your village, you carried your bag to Lagos, hustled for some years, hit big cash and when you want to settle down, you'll start shouting no more virgin again. As if you're the only one deflowering virgins at that age. What we have now is a mass effect of our earlier actions.

"we shall reap whatever we sow..."

ibkonekt:
dem no dey, the next thing they will try to tell you that not every girl is born with hymen, or they lost their hymen while doing sport like horse riding....yes indeed they were riding horses, plenty horses

Them no dey because all of una deflowered them before they turned 18. Yes, you all did, even you too as you dey look me like cow. As you were deflowering her, so was another lady being deflowered by another guy. In fact, some of you deflowered more than 12 ladies before you turned 21. Now that you want to settle, you're looking for virgin. How is that possible? Is the hymen a magical structure?

You're only reaping the nonsense you sowed in your younger years. Simple.

I need to also add this, marriage is somewhat a scam or an institution that majorly favours women. Please run away from ladies older and richer than you, they will frustrate your life especially those who are hard to satisfy because of their ostentatious affinity. Go for a lady within or slightly above your class but with focus and robust ambitions. Oluwa a wa pelu e

Na person like you we need for President. See as you sabi 3 Naija languages ehn...

chatinent:
My grandfather used to say: nwanyị mara mma bu nganga nke nna ya.

The day they left the traditional title of being called maidens to becoming registered as slay-queen, everything deteriorated. Yes, gbogbo nkan ti bajẹ.

This era of girls understand dating to mean a sex sentence.


Many took to willful prostitution; hunger for money...money to do what? Buy lashes, perfumes...money for nothing!


It's very difficult to see that promising ada bekee again. Abubuwa yanzu sun juye.

Sixfeetbelle:
Exactly. They find a good woman, try to turn her into the bad ones and then turn around to cry wolf.

Tbh, I really hate that the faithful ones hardly end up with faithful partners cause if that were the case, the hypocrisy exhibited by these men would have been diminished a long time ago.

I'm happy you understand that..
Yes,I hate that as well..how I wish every faithful ones end up marrying a faithful ones.
The unfaithful ones need to change or either get married to unfaithful ones as well
How would someone be unfaithful and irresponsible and expect to marry a responsible and a faithful one..Things doesn't work that way and another thing is, most men now fails to find a girl who they can work together in achieving their dreams because they are so concerned about sex...