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I happen to start dating this girl late December 2020. We were so doing fine all through last month not until this February when I began having this premonition towards her. I'd notice anytime we are together she'd Always AppLock her Whatsapp,on the long run I found my way to open it and gosh I read all of her chat with 3 different guys . What I saw ehnnn almost had me run mad,lol ! . Just imagine the one I claimed to love sending nude to a particular guy(although we hadn't begun dating then), this same guy was asking if she enjoyed the way he bleeped her ,babe was like he didn't even try. On the long run I noticed they have been making out since long before I came into the picture. I was even asking her if she was single before we started dating she told me yes. Asked her her the last time she had sex ,she said some years back (2017) and some months and it's just been with the guy that broke her hymen. This girl is a fucking cheat and a liar. I have had the plan of taking her serious but trust me I will just act like everything is cool and do the worst to her in the Future.
She claims to have a bestie ,yet she updates the guys pics and names every now and then on her Whatsapp status not even me her BF. Why are girls like this? Why don't they like a honest guy ? I even promised the bit*h to be faithful to her and I will never double date come what maybe. Yet she betrayed my trust . To hurt me the most they have got intimate again this Feb . How on earth will I be in a relationship with a girl and another guy is straffing her?
I am thinking of letting her know about it but still if I should tell her ,she might want to break up with me . I just seen a reason why some niggars chose to be a playboy .
PS: I asked her about the supposed guy but she said they are just friends and nothing is happening btwn them.


What should I do guys?
Should I let her know about it that I read her chat or I just keep playing along with her?

Let Her Know Then Move On, If You DonT Tell Her Now Then You Will Still Find Yourself WalkIn Circle.Move On

waleyp:
Let Her Know Then Move On, If You DonT Tell Her Now Then You Will Still Find Yourself WalkIn Circle.Move On

Thing is I love this girl helplessly. And I can't help it

The Question Is Would She Be The One To Build A Family Around With?Its Better You Tell Her Bro Thats The Only Way To Free Your Mind...Does She Love You Too?

Tbvxl:
Thing is I love this girl helplessly. And I can't help it

Let me teach you something

Keep nacking if you no get another towtow
But if another dey...break your heart by yourself and run.
Run oooo.
It always ends in tears. Don't postpone your tears. Tear up now and forget

Just look for side chick for yourself and save all this stress

Tbvxl:
I happen to start dating this girl late December 2020. We were so doing fine all through last month not until this February when I began having this premonition towards her. I'd notice anytime we are together she'd Always AppLock her Whatsapp,on the long run I found my way to open it and gosh I read all of her chat with 3 different guys . What I saw ehnnn almost had me run mad,lol ! . Just imagine the one I claimed to love sending nude to a particular guy(although we hadn't begun dating then), this same guy was asking if she enjoyed the way he bleeped her ,babe was like he didn't even try. On the long run I noticed they have been making out since long before I came into the picture. I was even asking her if she was single before we started dating she told me yes. Asked her her the last time she had sex ,she said some years back (2017) and some months and it's just been with the guy that broke her hymen. This girl is a fucking cheat and a liar. I have had the plan of taking her serious but trust me I will just act like everything is cool and do the worst to her in the Future.
She claims to have a bestie ,yet she updates the guys pics and names every now and then on her Whatsapp status not even me her BF. Why are girls like this? Why don't they like a honest guy ? I even promised the bit*h to be faithful to her and I will never double date come what maybe. Yet she betrayed my trust . To hurt me the most they have got intimate again this year . How on earth will I be in a relationship with a girl and another guy is straffing her?
I am thinking of letting her know about it but still if I should tell her ,she might want to break up with me . I just seen a reason why some niggars chose to be a playboy .
PS: I asked her about the supposed guy but she said they are just friends and nothing is happening btwn them.


What should I do guys?
Should I let her know about it that I read her chat or I just keep playing along with her?

From what you wrote you are the one dating her while she is not dating you.
Learn stop loving someone with all your hear of not it be lol be shattered .
Guy move on and see her as one of the people in your gallery .

Tbvxl:
Thing is I love this girl helplessly. And I can't help it

Helplessly? You dey mad ni??

A world with over 500 million single women and you wan kill yourself on top one nonsense cheat? Bros, walk away na.

I don't understand...
Is it that different set of guys join Nairaland everyday or what...

The same story everyday the same stupidity...

waleyp:
The Question Is Would She Be The One To Build A Family Around With?Its Better You Tell Her Bro Thats The Only Way To Free Your Mind...Does She Love You Too?

Yeah she loves me too. I have seen some signs though in which I am so sure of. Now ever since she and the last met she is been acting weird

Tbvxl:
Thing is I love this girl helplessly. And I can't help it

Niggar play along, Bleep her helplessly and leave her helpless.

MejiLoyon:
Let me teach you something

Keep nacking if you no get another towtow
But if another dey...break your heart by yourself and run.
Run oooo.
It always ends in tears. Don't postpone your tears. Tear up now and forget

I have been trying to arrange another towtow for myself as soon as I get one imma have to drop her asap. But shii is it takes me a longer time before I get over someone I love dearly

Bro make sure say you Bleep the shit out of her cos those ones dey Bleep her mad so you self join Bleep her like craze

Tbvxl:
Yeah she loves me too. I have seen some signs though in which I am so sure of. Now ever since she and the last met she is been acting weird

Take heart. Since she still loves you, maybe you're just like this bf here and she's only satisfying her urge...

RisenPhoenix1:
Take heart. Since she still loves you, maybe you're just like this bf here and she's only satisfying her urge...

I guess this implies to me 60%

BaBa Follow Your Girl Talk Thats One Way To Move Forward

Tbvxl:
Yeah she loves me too. I have seen some signs though in which I am so sure of. Now ever since she and the last met she is been acting weird

LifeOfTrigga:
Bro make sure say you Bleep the shit out of her cos those ones dey Bleep her mad so you self join Bleep her like craze

Sure bro
What I will do next now

This is all I got to say

waleyp:
BaBa Follow Your Girl Talk Thats One Way To Move Forward

I have been doing that for weeks now. I even made her have this suspicion that I knew about her whereabouts on the day the guy straff her last. Yet she's just this stubborn GF

Tbvxl:

I guess this implies to me 60%

I was trying to make you see reason through sarcasm. There is only one treatment for a cheating partner. When you're having more sadness than joy from a relationship, move on, you're not a tree.

Or were you going to marry her before?

Tbvxl:
I happen to start dating this girl late December 2020. We were so doing fine all through last month not until this February when I began having this premonition towards her. I'd notice anytime we are together she'd Always AppLock her Whatsapp,on the long run I found my way to open it and gosh I read all of her chat with 3 different guys . What I saw ehnnn almost had me run mad,lol ! . Just imagine the one I claimed to love sending nude to a particular guy(although we hadn't begun dating then), this same guy was asking if she enjoyed the way he bleeped her ,babe was like he didn't even try. On the long run I noticed they have been making out since long before I came into the picture. I was even asking her if she was single before we started dating she told me yes. Asked her her the last time she had sex ,she said some years back (2017) and some months and it's just been with the guy that broke her hymen. This girl is a fucking cheat and a liar. I have had the plan of taking her serious but trust me I will just act like everything is cool and do the worst to her in the Future.
She claims to have a bestie ,yet she updates the guys pics and names every now and then on her Whatsapp status not even me her BF. Why are girls like this? Why don't they like a honest guy ? I even promised the bit*h to be faithful to her and I will never double date come what maybe. Yet she betrayed my trust . To hurt me the most they have got intimate again this Feb . How on earth will I be in a relationship with a girl and another guy is straffing her?
I am thinking of letting her know about it but still if I should tell her ,she might want to break up with me . I just seen a reason why some niggars chose to be a playboy .
PS: I asked her about the supposed guy but she said they are just friends and nothing is happening btwn them.


What should I do guys?
Should I let her know about it that I read her chat or I just keep playing along with her?

Don't tell her , just turn her to your sex mate and never take her serious, anything she demand don't give her and she will be tired and walk away

Oga luk for anoda babe(s). Den straff dis ur idiot one very gud night nd kick her out as early as 5am.

Or beta still get oda babes nd stop giving dis idiot attention nd make sure she knws ur cheatin on her. If she confronts u abt ur escapades wit oda girls tell her to go to hell. Dats how to pay a bitch back.

B a man.

The only advice i keep giving guys is dnt hv one girlfrnd. plss for ur own gud.

Damn niggarr ,op is not a real nigga ,U suppose don dump d bitch tay tay ,there re so many girls out there why stress over just 1 ,my advice is make more money ,work on yourself ,bang pussies smoke some Juana and drink bottles ,U go dey alright last last. Bitches ain't loyal and would never be, it all started from Eve ,it's hereditary ,
If to say I be fake nigga I 4 don bang my niggas babes finish ,as dem dey give me steady sexual green light, but pussy is just pussy , and I can't switch on my bros for dat kind shit never .

MikeofKd:
Damn niggarr ,op is not a real nigga ,U suppose don dump d bitch tay tay ,there re so many girls out there why stress over just 1 ,my advice is make more money ,work on yourself ,bang pussies smoke some Juana and drink bottles ,U go dey alright last last. Bitches ain't loyal and would never be, it all started from Eve ,it's hereditary ,
If to say I be fake nigga I 4 don bang my niggas babes finish ,as dem dey give me steady sexual green light, but pussy is just pussy , and I can't switch on my bros for dat kind shit never .

I stopped giving some dudes relationship advice on nairaland cos wen u give dey will say u jux bragging nd u dnt practice wat u preach.

One thing i will neva do is having a single babe cos it will only end in premium tears for u.

Never tolerate anyone who takes you for a fool. Break up with the cheating hoe

Numerouno94:
I stopped giving some dudes relationship advice on nairaland cos wen u give dey will say u jux bragging nd u dnt practice wat u preach.

One thing i will neva do is having a single babe cos it will only end in premium tears for u.

But if you date a babe like me you'd be satisfied cos i dont cheat.

Oga abeg do your own make you commot make another person come fùck him own

It's just your turn, the babe does not belong to you.

Mosdii where are u when we need it most? Cme and remind this op biko

lilvicky68:
Just look for side chick for yourself and save all this stress

side chick ke abi make she make her side chick and find a main babe.my 2 cent,face ur fears

[quote author=RisenPhoenix1 post=99360375]I was trying to make you see reason through sarcasm. There is only one treatment for a cheating partner. When you're having more sadness than joy from a relationship, move on, you're not a tree.

Or were you going to marry her before?[/quote




Thank you sir]

All of you here are wasting your time advising this Op.

If you read his story and his replies to people's advise, he keeps emphasizing that "I Love Her so much".

Advising someone in Love is a Waste Of Time.