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Re: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by Mikester(op): 1:15am On Feb 12, 2021
Don't compromise on your values.

Compromising means softening boundaries and giving into childish complaints - this makes your job tougher in future.

And she'll hate you for this in the end if you do it, but that won't stop her trying to get you to do it anyway.

Be unwinnable.
Re: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by Shortyyy(f): 11:15am On Feb 12, 2021
Mikester:
Hi Shortyyy, my biased and confused friend. I've missed you o.

You don subscribe again cheesy cool


For your info as I couldn't ignore the bullshit up there.

Strong women do not compete with men rather they embrace their feminity which is where their happiness and true power lies unlike confused selfish women who don't know what they want. Selfish women are deluded, unhappy, frustrated and confused feminists.



Selfish women are single women
Nobody is competing with you. That is the fact you do not understand.

Y'all are just delusional honestly. If I had known you created this nonsense thread, I'd have ignored it.

You see a hard-working and strong woman as a threat. You'd rather a woman lick your feet and worship you like a god. Fvck off please.
Re: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by Mikester(op): 11:21am On Feb 12, 2021
Shortyyy:
Nobody is competing with you. That is the fact you do not understand.

Y'all are just delusional honestly. If I had known you created this nonsense thread, I'd have ignored it.

You see a hard-working and strong woman as a threat. You'd rather a woman lick your feet and worship you like a god. Fvck off please.
I'm not your regular women basher. Calm down. I'm just using you to catch cruise. I don't really engage in vain arguments even when I know I'm right. Chill, I'm not your enemy
Re: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by Telegrambot: 12:16pm On Feb 12, 2021
ashewoboy:
SIMP men you mean?



no lady likes simp. even eniqurl likes player.

eniqurl, jekajomadorawacheesy.
Yo
You sent dm
Re: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by ashewoboy(m): 12:19pm On Feb 12, 2021
Telegrambot:
Yo You sent dm
reply the dm.
Re: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by Magnoliaa(f): 1:29pm On Feb 12, 2021
Shortyyy:
Been busy dear. Been having tight schedules lately.
smiley [color=deeppink]okay. just easy and don't overwork yourself to stress, kay?

stay safe & cool. ❤[/color]
Re: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by Telegrambot: 2:51pm On Feb 12, 2021
ashewoboy:
reply the dm.
Can't
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Re: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by Hassanmaye(m): 11:27am On Feb 13, 2021
marvel2011:
This applicable in 1876
Haha
Re: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by Shortyyy(f): 5:19pm On Feb 21, 2021
Magnoliaa:
smiley [color=deeppink]okay. just easy and don't overwork yourself to stress, kay?

stay safe & cool. ❤[/color]
Thanks dear
Re: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by mosdii(m): 5:20pm On Feb 21, 2021
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them
Re: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by hstar: 8:35pm On Feb 23, 2021
Mikester:
The definition of masculinity and manhood is ever-changing and evolving with the times. Gone are the days when only males who drove rugged cars and were eager to square up and fight were considered strong men. And with this steadily shifting narrative on what strength in men entails, there are naturally people who are unable to deal with it.

Strong men make amazing partners. They are fantastic friends, family members and more. But some women may have difficulty accepting the new trend of masculinity and all the things that make men so strong.

Here are the 10 traits of strong men that women can't handle

1. They prefer to promote peace over violence

Violence is seldom the answer, and a strong man knows that he doesn’t have to use his muscles to showcase his problem-solving skills. When faced with an awkward situation, he uses his mind and heart to overcome it instead of turning to aggression.

Of course, some women may be unused to this approach to problems from men. It may cause them to perceive these men as weak which is a very misguided view of the situation. Regardless, a strong man knows that there is wisdom in picking battles, finding compromises and promoting understanding and peace.

2. Strong men are ambitious

A strong man is highly ambitious. This ambition can often mean putting their careers and goals above any romantic attachments. It’s a highly respectable and positive decision, but it’s one that some women may take issue with, as it automatically lowers their position on the ladder of priority.

Of course, strong men know the value of balance too so are happy to balance their ambitions and family life once a relationship is more committed. But it is unlikely that the relationship will be anything more than of equal priority to their other goals, which is something that some women may dislike.

3. They know what they want

Being wishy is a historically weak quality no matter which gender is performing it. That’s why a strong man knows what it is that he wants and have no qualms about going for it without hesitation.

A strong man analyzes his wants and needs, reflecting on his wishes and actions to discover what he wants. This doesn’t mean that he has everything figured out. Instead, it shows that he is aware of his direction in life and he knows what the heart of his desires are.

On top of that, a man’s strength will not let anything stand between him and his goals. His positive thinking has no room for pessimism. Someone who slows him down or stops him from getting where he wants to be isn’t going to be kept around for long.

4. Strong men demand and provide honesty

A strong man doesn’t see any point in beating around the bush. He wants clear communication at all times. He sees no point in obscuring the truth with buttery, flowery speech. This is because he wants the honest constructive truth quickly and he believes that others would benefit from receiving such honesty.

It’s not unusual for women to occasionally desire a gentler type of speech from their partners. As such, the blunt directness of a strong man may be off-putting to them. But at the heart of it all, this is a man who wants clear communication and easy understanding and that is a positive thing for any relationship in the long run.

5. They take the lead

A strong man does not shy away from leadership roles. They are more than happy to take the reins and all the responsibility that comes with it. They can take the initiative and put in all the effort needed for it to work unlike the simps who wants their women to mother them.

But lots of women have bad experiences with being wrongfully mansplained to, or being treated as incompetent. As such, some women may misinterpret a strong man’s natural leadership abilities and command as an act of sexism.

But hang around him more and you’ll realize that he merely has a desire to take the initiative, regardless of the genders of everyone else in the room. All you need is positive thinking.

6. They know what they are worthy of

Many times, men are reduced to having to be “grateful” for the women they date. They have to express that they feel “lucky” and as though they should be thankful for a woman to want to date them at all.

But a strong man doesn’t have time for this type of self-deprecation. They know what they are worth and they know what they deserve. They refuse to stand for adverse treatment and will not settle for less than what is fair for them.

Sure, a strong man will feel lucky to have found his significant other but will also realistically know that they are valuable to the relationship too. They have something to offer just as their partner does. It is this type of positive thinking that keeps their self-esteem healthy and balanced.

7. They value their time alone

These types of men genuinely see the importance of being comfortable with being alone for their self-improvement. This means that a man of strength will always want a little time to himself once in a while.

In this time alone, he can meditate, reflect and be his person and that’s very important to a strong man. They want to be free to explore their hobbies and interests and they also want to have time to explore themselves. If someone takes his desire to be alone personally, he will cut them off.

8. Strong men are fiercely independent.

They don’t need anyone to tell them what to do. They know how to care for themselves and don’t wish reliant on anyone neither do they want anyone to be excessively reliant on them, nor do they want to be controlled. Independence is essential to them.



Strong men have much to offer, whether to relationships, to their workplace, or to themselves. Women who can’t handle them are certainly missing out but these men don’t care about that. Instead, they’re happy waiting until the right person comes along.

If you’re a man who aspires to emanate these qualities, don’t let the fear of women being unable to keep up stop you. Your strength comes from within, not from the people around you. Besides, do you want a partner who doesn’t want you to be strong?

Being strong is something to be celebrated and appreciated and you’ll find that this strength propels you through life in ways no external person can do for you. So take that strength, nurture it and wear it proudly.



HOPE I'M MAKING SENSE
Yes, u are making sense, ur threads are always on point
Re: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by Mikester(op): 8:54pm On Feb 23, 2021
hstar:
Yes, u are making sense, ur threads are always on point

Re: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by pansophist(m): 12:07am On May 28, 2021
9. Strong men are philosophical.

To properly orient oneself positively into the world, one must have a deep understanding and practical application of life's teachings such as philosophy, spiritualism and being vigilant. A strong man must be a bedrock to those that look up to him, and easily answer, lecture, direct, guide and help them reach salvation, through the abundance of his knowledge.

10. Strong men are lone wolf.

They are never afraid to walk alone, it is where they found peace, and are most productive. Most of the world greatest scientist and philosophers became genius just being alone and observing the world (e.g Albert Einstein with the falling apple, and Frederick Nietszche "god is dead). A man is an antenna that taps current from the universe, and to be alone in nature is his solace, of peace and tranquility.


11. They are purposeful.

Like a wise man once said, "everyone have two lives, and the second one starts the day they realise they have just one". A man living life without a sense of purpose is a shame to life itself, since masculinity shines in doing things, so a man can't be at his peak without a purpose. You won't feel true happiness, will feel irrelevant and be at the mercy and ridicule of others. For a man to feel good, he must know that he is competent in something that magnets the world to him.

More to write, but I'll stop here. If anyone is interested to learn more, signify and ill overdose you with more cool
Re: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by The5DME(m): 12:43am On May 28, 2021
pansophist:
9. Strong men are philosophical.

To properly orient oneself positively into the world, one must have a deep understanding and practical application of life's teachings such as philosophy, spiritualism and being vigilant. A strong man must be a bedrock to those that look up to him, and easily answer, lecture, direct, guide and help them reach salvation, through the abundance of his knowledge.

10. Strong men are lone wolf.

They are never afraid to walk alone, it is where they found peace, and are most productive. Most of the world greatest scientist and philosophers became genius just being alone and observing the world (e.g Albert Einstein with the falling apple, and Frederick Nietszche "god is dead). A man is an antenna that taps current from the universe, and to be alone in nature is his solace, of peace and tranquility.


11. They are purposeful.

Like a wise man once said, "everyone have two lives, and the second one starts the day they realise they have just one". A man living life without a sense of purpose is a shame to life itself, since masculinity shines in doing things, so a man can't be at his peak without a purpose. You won't feel true happiness, will feel irrelevant and be at the mercy and ridicule of others. For a man to feel good, he must know that he is competent in something that magnets the world to him.

More to write, but I'll stop here. If anyone is interested to learn more, signify and ill overdose you with more cool
I am.
Re: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by angelfallz(m): 7:52am On May 28, 2021
i'm interested

pansophist:
9. Strong men are philosophical.

To properly orient oneself positively into the world, one must have a deep understanding and practical application of life's teachings such as philosophy, spiritualism and being vigilant. A strong man must be a bedrock to those that look up to him, and easily answer, lecture, direct, guide and help them reach salvation, through the abundance of his knowledge.

10. Strong men are lone wolf.

They are never afraid to walk alone, it is where they found peace, and are most productive. Most of the world greatest scientist and philosophers became genius just being alone and observing the world (e.g Albert Einstein with the falling apple, and Frederick Nietszche "god is dead). A man is an antenna that taps current from the universe, and to be alone in nature is his solace, of peace and tranquility.


11. They are purposeful.

Like a wise man once said, "everyone have two lives, and the second one starts the day they realise they have just one". A man living life without a sense of purpose is a shame to life itself, since masculinity shines in doing things, so a man can't be at his peak without a purpose. You won't feel true happiness, will feel irrelevant and be at the mercy and ridicule of others. For a man to feel good, he must know that he is competent in something that magnets the world to him.

More to write, but I'll stop here. If anyone is interested to learn more, signify and ill overdose you with more cool
Re: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by 0neal(m): 12:48am On May 30, 2021
pansophist:
9. Strong men are philosophical.

To properly orient oneself positively into the world, one must have a deep understanding and practical application of life's teachings such as philosophy, spiritualism and being vigilant. A strong man must be a bedrock to those that look up to him, and easily answer, lecture, direct, guide and help them reach salvation, through the abundance of his knowledge.

10. Strong men are lone wolf.

They are never afraid to walk alone, it is where they found peace, and are most productive. Most of the world greatest scientist and philosophers became genius just being alone and observing the world (e.g Albert Einstein with the falling apple, and Frederick Nietszche "god is dead). A man is an antenna that taps current from the universe, and to be alone in nature is his solace, of peace and tranquility.


11. They are purposeful.

Like a wise man once said, "everyone have two lives, and the second one starts the day they realise they have just one". A man living life without a sense of purpose is a shame to life itself, since masculinity shines in doing things, so a man can't be at his peak without a purpose. You won't feel true happiness, will feel irrelevant and be at the mercy and ridicule of others. For a man to feel good, he must know that he is competent in something that magnets the world to him.

More to write, but I'll stop here. If anyone is interested to learn more, signify and ill overdose you with more cool
Insightful post as always from the Boss himself.

Sir Isaac Newton is actually known for the falling apple, which inspired the birth of the universal law of gravity.
Re: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by Oblivionz5(m): 9:06am On May 23, 2022
I really like No 1
Re: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by SandraIkuboR(f): 9:48am On May 23, 2022
i love strong men
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