Hi.
This matter is really giving me headache,I keep hearing different kind of opinion from few family member.
I lost my mother when I was young,my dad has been my everything ,he’s my hero ,few years after I lost my mom. My dad remarried ,he started taking responsibility of 4 of his new wife’s family members ,we are almost age mate,
My step mom has been a devil to me while growing up ,she treated
me like a slave when my dad is not around
Maltreated me
She silent me
She turned me into an introvert
She was brutal and all sort of evil doing

I can literally say she gave me asthma due to sweeping when I’m allergic to dust,smoke and all,A lot that can’t be remembered (I thank God my asthma is gone now )

Let me shortened the story by going straight to the point.

I am the only successful one among all the children that grew up under her roof and brutality
I have my house now ,cars,business & I’m educated.I am the only one that has these criteria’s among all of us. It’s not by my power but by God’s grace and destiny



I did my wedding exactly a month ago.....after my wedding,I got a lucrative job in the same state I did my wedding.my wife is a lecturer in this same state,she has her PhD,she’s 25 while I am 33. All this good things bitters my step mom.

I have been looking for an apartment in this same location after my wedding ,during my hunting for a new apartment,I stay at my dads house since it’s closer to my new job and my wife’s work also ,my dad doesn’t stay in the same place with my step mom ,he works in Abuja,he only come home may be twice in 2month because of his job.

During my stay ,my step mom has been behaving wild ,i intended to ignore and face my job and hunting ......working and hunting for an apartment at the same time isn’t easy. I am a high class person and I always want the best for my self.

Ever since me and my wife started staying at my dads place ,We are mostly indoor,me and my wife do the house chore just because of the respect I have for my father while my step mom children watch us do chores even cook for them to eat despite the fact that I am about 17years older than her children

In addition she knows my worth ,I am 100times richer and more successful than all her generations and she knows it

Two days ago she accused me and my wife of saying bad about her, she said she was ear dropping “WHICH IS A BIG LIE”she was yelling and making lots of threat utterance .i called my dad to report the case ,my dad apologized and asked me not to mind her since it’s not new
The next morning my wife woke up and getting ready for work ,she greeted her ,the witch didn’t answer and she was so bitter,I told my wife to pack her belongings and we moved to an hotel. I booked a week reservation
Later in the day I informed my dad I had moved to an hotel because of his wife altitude and to avoid further problems. It’s vividly obvious she doesn’t want us in that house.
In short my dad said I shouldn’t have wasted my money lodging ,my dad was angry,I informed one of my aunty about the situation ,she said I did well too but I shouldn’t have moved because she knows what that witch is capable of doing

My question is do you think I did wrong by moving out or not ?.this is really giving me concern ,I am boldly opened to any question and advice

What an unfortunate situation, very bad one . But I thought you have your own house, is it in another town?

You and and your spouse have to careful and prayerful too.

I'm not much of a talker but one thing I have to say is you be careful, and make haste to look for your own apartment. We live in a wicked world now

Earthly:


What an unfortunate situation, very bad one . But I thought you have your own house, is it in another town?

You and and your spouse have to careful and prayerful too.

I'm not much of a talker but one thing I have to say is you be careful, and make haste to look for your own apartment. We live in a wicked world now

Yes I have my own house but In another state. We were leaving comfortable not untill I got the new job. I don’t have a choice than to move and to be close to my wife

All I have to say is Safety first. You did not do wrong by moving out of a house where you are not wanted. Like the previous person said, you and your wife need to be very careful and prayerful, as such a woman is ready to go to any extent to see your downfall. While at the hotel, please try as much as you can to get yourself an apartment so that you will feel relaxed and not spend much money paying hotel bills.

boxer022:
All I have to say is Safety first. You did not do wrong by moving out of a house where you are not wanted. Like the previous person said, you and your wife need to be very careful and prayerful, as such a woman is ready to go to any extent to see your downfall. While at the hotel, please try as much as you can to get yourself an apartment so that you will feel relaxed and not spend much money paying hotel bills.

Thanks so much. I’m just so worried ,I have really endured all her illness because of the love and respect I have for my dad.
All she has been intending to see is my downfall but guess what God keep raising me

You just talking about how better you are, your cars, your properties and all

juniorboma:
You just talking about how better you are, your cars, your properties and all

You really need to know things have gone through in life to be where I am. I am not showing off.

Anyways average Nigerian mind is full of hates

Deathisfree:



You really need to know things have gone through in life to be where I am. I am not showing off.

Anyways average Nigerian mind is full of hates

Hate you for what?

You are nothing bro..!

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Deathisfree:



Thanks so much. I’m just so worried ,I have really endured all her illness because of the love and respect I have for my dad.
All she has been intending to see is my downfall but guess what God keep raising me

Always have at the back of your mind that God is always with you in every of your daily endeavors, do not hesitate to go to him for help when in need.

boxer022:


Always have at the back of your mind that God is always with you in every of your daily endeavors, do not hesitate to go to him for help when in need.

Thank you man.