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StacyO:
Majority of men can't actually offer anything in a relationship. Same with the case of op

If op brought an idea,I'm sure those ladies he talked about would have followed his vibe but then,how can you offer something you don't have.

mrgbenga1:
Ladies nowadays see relationship as poverty alleviation programme.

NaijaCoverBlog:
Hello My Fellow Nairalander, Is Me BLOG

I'm a Single Guy and a professional Blogger, I have been searching for a lady who will be my future wife, I end up getting ladies who has bad mindset, who has nothing to offer me, apart from SEX, For Her To Buy Recharge Card and send it to me, is a big problem, talk-less of adding value to my life.

Why Is it so hard for a guy to see a lady with Good Mindset in nigeria now?

Where Can One See a lady who has good mindset in nigeria?

Are you in the same shoe with Me?

Let Me Hear From You Please.

Wilsonzinny:
Exactly...there ar stil good girls but d chase for sex wil nt allow most of u see road...u men say ladies ar lazy n hungry, hav u tried knowin wat that lady cn do asin her potentials n supportin them...that one no dy enter list instead its lets meet here n there...truth is some ladies ar tired of ur kind that has absolutely natin to offer.

Bouz:
How many ladies, are eager to listen to ideas. you must really be a joker. Most ladies are after physical looks, iphones, cars and a good apartment. the speed at which she would start leaving her clothes behind will shock you.

Wilsonzinny:
Exactly...there ar stil good girls but d chase for sex wil nt allow most of u see road...u men say ladies ar lazy n hungry, hav u tried knowin wat that lady cn do asin her potentials n supportin them...that one no dy enter list instead its lets meet here n there...truth is some ladies ar tired of ur kind that has absolutely natin to offer.

Greystone:
I agree with you that it's hard. But not impossible.

There are still good decent girls out there.

I was in your exact same shoes a few months ago and I was losing hope but I thank God I didn't.

You have to be patient.

Pray.

Keep your eyes and ears wide open.

Stop insisting in ur mind that ur future babe must fulfill all ur physical specs ( I don't know urs) but for eg. She must have;

-big bumbum
-big boobs
-tall
-working class
- have job
- perfect cook
etc...

My brother, no one is perfect.

You should have a basic list of things you know you cannot tolerate in a person (eg. A cheat/ unfaithful, drunkard, financially reckless, immature, spoilt, insultive) that you will avoid by all means.

These ones are obvious red flags. Avoid any woman that you notice any of such behaviors in be4 you get into a relationship.

*The irony of it is that just as you are complaining that you can't find a decent Nigerian girl to date and possibly marry, so also the decent ladies are complaining that the Nigerian men are also irresponsible.

NB: Stop going to clubs and bars looking for decent babe to marry oh...

NaijaCoverBlog:
Hello My Fellow Nairalander, Is Me BLOG

I'm a Single Guy and a professional Blogger, I have been searching for a lady who will be my future wife, I end up getting ladies who has bad mindset, who has nothing to offer me, apart from SEX, For Her To Buy Recharge Card and send it to me, is a big problem, talk-less of adding value to my life.

Why Is it so hard for a guy to see a lady with Good Mindset in nigeria now?

Where Can One See a lady who has good mindset in nigeria?

Are you in the same shoe with Me?

Let Me Hear From You Please.

NaijaCoverBlog:
Hello My Fellow Nairalander, Is Me BLOG

I'm a Single Guy and a professional Blogger, I have been searching for a lady who will be my future wife, I end up getting ladies who has bad mindset, who has nothing to offer me, apart from SEX, For Her To Buy Recharge Card and send it to me, is a big problem, talk-less of adding value to my life.

Why Is it so hard for a guy to see a lady with Good Mindset in nigeria now?

Where Can One See a lady who has good mindset in nigeria?

Are you in the same shoe with Me?

Let Me Hear From You Please.

Bouz:
3 Did i hear you say supporting, so relationship seem like an empowerment program to you baa, what then can you offer, if he supports you in your business with finance and ideas? it is your type that uses men to upgrade their lives. you are one of the reasons Op is lamenting over his inability to get an honest girl. Can u date a guy, that can't support you financially?, but you want a guy that could support the finances of your start up business.

Wilsonzinny:
My dear read wit understanding, support doesnt hav to b financial only...wel am nt surprisd u think everytin is money cos thats d mentality of guys...wait oh hw much do u guys even hav that u think every girl is after mtcheeew...wel i blame girls who depend on guys for d food,water n even airtime dy need thats why some of u wil open mouth to talk trash about girls...and i am actually lookin 4 loan to startup nt dependin on any guy for it u get, dnt cum blabbin wat u dnt knw...

Bouz:
Who even gives loan to a start up biz, Aunty stop forming shit. its all about ideas and financial support, Some one will give you a business plan and still finance the business your you, whats then your purpose . You are already using style to express how you need financial support for your start up business already. A lady depending on a guy is not
the problem, the problem is feeling entitled to your guy money. Don't be asking for too much.

Wilsonzinny:
My dear read wit understanding, support doesnt hav to b financial only...wel am nt surprisd u think everytin is money cos thats d mentality of guys...wait oh hw much do u guys even hav that u think every girl is after mtcheeew...wel i blame girls who depend on guys for d food,water n even airtime dy need thats why some of u wil open mouth to talk trash about girls...and i am actually lookin 4 loan to startup nt dependin on any guy for it u get, dnt cum blabbin wat u dnt knw...

StacyO:
Majority of men can't actually offer anything in a relationship. Same with the case of op

If op brought an idea,I'm sure those ladies he talked about would have followed his vibe but then,how can you offer something you don't have.

Lekan1o1:
Hi stacy

StacyO:
Hilo