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Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by NaijaCoverBlog(m): 5:32am On Feb 23
Hello My Fellow Nairalander, Is Me NAIJA COVER BLOG

I'm a Single Guy and a professional Blogger, I have been searching for a lady who will be my future wife, I end up getting ladies who has bad mindset, who has nothing to offer me, apart from SEX, For Her To Buy Recharge Card and send it to me, is a big problem, talk-less of adding value to my life.

Why Is it so hard for a guy to see a lady with Good Mindset in nigeria now?

Where Can One See a lady who has good mindset in nigeria?

Are you in the same shoe with Me?

Let Me Hear From You Please.

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by NaijaCoverBlog(m): 5:32am On Feb 23
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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by BRATISLAVA: 6:11am On Feb 23
Because you don't have a good mindset towards them, yourself.

Plus you have listened to too many family and marriage destroying red pill men online. Ask them why they are so against women and marriage/family foundations? Loads of devilish messages preached and propagated by men on this forum. According to livingbychrist, those are Lucifer schemes men on the forum have bought into. If you are a Christian, read in your Bible where men only offered sex and wanted women to cater to their needs. Rather men bought gifts for women and went to take care of their families, not girl friend or baby mama.

You've began to listen to online men, with their twisted misogynistic take on women, rather than the truth. Your forefathers had no problem finding women, because they were not looking for a woman to add to there lives, who will buy them recharge cards, and give them premarital sex. Modern men have destroyed what they want by wanting women to give them things. You want to divert certain things and it's not working. If men want good women, they should live good Bible lives first.


So if you're asking why, first change your mindset and they will come. Women can spot a red pill convert a mile off.

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Jerryherd: 6:12am On Feb 23
Lol

Why did you think the Bible written some thousands of years back stated that he who finds a wife (good wife) finds a good thing

Women everywhere are complex except you find a soul mate or who was meant for you

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Remijuice: 6:17am On Feb 23
NaijaCoverBlog:
Hello My Fellow Nairalander, Is Me NAIJA COVER BLOG

I'm a Single Guy and a professional Blogger, I have been searching for a lady who will be my future wife,,


They said that the Future belongs to them.


For you to fit into that future you know what to do,, bo*Risky!
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Pricelessruby(f): 6:22am On Feb 23
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BRATISLAVA:
Because you don't have a good mindset towards them, yourself.

Plus you have listened to too many family and marriage destroying red pill men online. Ask them why they are so against women and marriage/family foundations? Loads of devilish messages preached and propagated by men on this forum. According to livingbychrist, those are Lucifer schemes men on the forum have bought into. If you are a Christian, read in your Bible where men only offered sex and wanted women to cater to their needs. Rather men bought gifts for women and went to take care of their families, not girl friend or baby mama.

You've began to listen to online men, with their twisted misogynistic take on women, rather than the truth. Your forefathers had no problem finding women, because they were not looking for a woman to add to there lives, who will buy them recharge cards, and give them premarital sex. Modern men have destroyed what they want by wanting women to give them things. You want to divert certain things and it's not working. If men want good women, they should live good Bible lives first.


So if you're asking why, change your mindset and they will come. Women can spot a red pill convert a mile off.

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Kriss216: 6:28am On Feb 23
Looking for a lady with good mindset in Nigeria is like looking for a chilled bottled water in Hell fire.


The ladies with good mindset died during the war. We're left with "urgent 2k" ladies.

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by TheUndercover: 6:32am On Feb 23
LOL! OP, someone said you should ignore the red pill and jump into marriage by living in your fantasies hahaha..

LOL! maybe Kanye should be in a better position to advice you. LOL! Simps always amuse me. SMH.

OP, never settle for less, if she ain't high value then drop her like a used condom, if she won't submit, drop her like a used pad, if she's arrogant, delete her with Shift + Del key.

Most ladies aren't worth your vote, your time and your effort.

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Kriss216: 6:34am On Feb 23
Jerryherd:
Lol


Women everywhere are complex except you find a soul mate or who was meant for you
No Nigerian girl was created or meant for a sensible guy. Naturally, one is expected to avoid Nigerian girls but like they said, "When the availabilities are not available, we re-adjust".



Jerryherd:


Dude forget that thing, you attract who you like, it's now meant for you to control the lady as you wish

.
Even Comptroller for prisons can't even control Nigerian girls, what makes you think an average SIMPle guy like you can control a Nigerian girl?

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Skyfornia(m): 6:37am On Feb 23
NaijaCoverBlog:
Hello My Fellow Nairalander, Is Me NAIJA COVER BLOG

I'm a Single Guy and a professional Blogger, I have been searching for a lady who will be my future wife, I end up getting ladies who has bad mindset, who has nothing to offer me, apart from SEX, For Her To Buy Recharge Card and send it to me, is a big problem, talk-less of adding value to my life.

Why Is it so hard for a guy to see a lady with Good Mindset in nigeria now?

Where Can One See a lady who has good mindset in nigeria?

Are you in the same shoe with Me?

Let Me Hear From You Please.

Good ladies are scarce... especially in lagos. God please provide one for me.

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Jerryherd: 6:38am On Feb 23
Kriss216:

No Nigerian girl was created or meant for a sensible guy. Naturally, one is expected to avoid Nigerian girls but like they said, "When the availabilities are not available, we're readjust".

Dude forget that thing, you attract who you like, it's now meant for you to control the lady as you wish

How many Nigerian Lady don fall Mugu , turn Mario ontop man, them yaaapaaa


.

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by NaijaCoverBlog(m): 7:02am On Feb 23
Remijuice:




They said that the Future belongs to them.


For you to fit into that future you know what to do,, bo*Risky!


Bro, I Need a lady who has good mindset, I'm ready to marry such a lady
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Juliusmomoh(m): 7:39am On Feb 23
Note:
All Nigeria girls are insane cry cry


Just marry one of them like that, and start pouring her anointing oil.

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Vulcanheph(m): 7:42am On Feb 23
The averafe naija girl has an entitled mentality and they always try to complicate things..... This is the reason why 90% of single Nigerian men that travel outside the country always end marrying foreign women

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Polynek(m): 7:53am On Feb 23
The economy is also another factor, bcox somehow it affects the mentality of woman towards relationship stuff
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Bouz(m): 8:00am On Feb 23
There are good girls, but they are rare, Bro. if you come across any. Dude hol am tight. alot of these girls are lazy, and hungry

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Pegi23(f): 10:31am On Feb 23
And what can you offer? Nothing more than just money

You are useless that is why

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Ruudy: 10:57am On Feb 23
guy u can't find any in Nigeria, just settle down with any puzsy person of ur choice an be praying for her

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by SmellySperm(m): 11:38am On Feb 23
Pegi23:
And what can you offer? Nothing more than just money

You are useless that is why
so na only money ur bf dey offer u? then u offer him only sex?

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by StacyO(f): 11:44am On Feb 23
NaijaCoverBlog:
Hello My Fellow Nairalander, Is Me NAIJA COVER BLOG

I'm a Single Guy and a professional Blogger, I have been searching for a lady who will be my future wife, I end up getting ladies who has bad mindset, who has nothing to offer me, apart from SEX, For Her To Buy Recharge Card and send it to me, is a big problem, talk-less of adding value to my life.

Why Is it so hard for a guy to see a lady with Good Mindset in nigeria now?

Where Can One See a lady who has good mindset in nigeria?

Are you in the same shoe with Me?

Let Me Hear From You Please.



Stop following people that have the same mindset as you then.

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Nonexistent: 11:46am On Feb 23
Read my lips, you will never find one. Forget those that will tell you otherwise. They think they do now but in a few years, they open threads here to lament about one thing or the other about their once "saint" girlfriends and wives. Having money will always make a difference. The longer the money stays on you, the longer the women in your life stays loyal to you so work hard to keep money close at all times. As long as money stays close to you, go and sleep because daughters of eve will never go one kilometer away from you.

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by StacyO(f): 11:46am On Feb 23
Pegi23:
And what can you offer? Nothing more than just money

You are useless that is why

Majority of men can't actually offer anything in a relationship. Same with the case of op

If op brought an idea,I'm sure those ladies he talked about would have followed his vibe but then,how can you offer something you don't have.

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by NaijaCoverBlog(m): 1:55pm On Feb 23
StacyO:




Stop following people that have the same mindset as you then.


You have started again, @lalasticlala I need more Comment from many people Please

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Bouz(m): 3:02pm On Feb 23
StacyO:


Majority of men can't actually offer anything in a relationship. Same with the case of op

If op brought an idea,I'm sure those ladies he talked about would have followed his vibe but then,how can you offer something you don't have.

How many ladies, are eager to listen to ideas. you must really be a joker. Most ladies are after physical looks, iphones, cars and a good apartment. the speed at which she would start leaving her clothes behind will shock you. grin grin

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by lasisi69(m): 3:27pm On Feb 23
Nonexistent:
Read my lips, you will never find one. Forget those that will tell you otherwise. They think they do now but in a few years, they open threads here to lament about one thing or the other about their once "saint" girlfriends and wives. Having money will always make a difference. The longer the money stays on you, the longer the women in your life stays loyal to you so work hard to keep money close at all times. As long as money stays close to you, go and sleep because daughters of eve will never go one kilometer away from you.
sorry sir, but, you need game...
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by lifenija: 3:50pm On Feb 23
BRATISLAVA:
Because you don't have a good mindset towards them, yourself.

Plus you have listened to too many family and marriage destroying red pill men online. Ask them why they are so against women and marriage/family foundations? Loads of devilish messages preached and propagated by men on this forum. According to livingbychrist, those are Lucifer schemes men on the forum have bought into. If you are a Christian, read in your Bible where men only offered sex and wanted women to cater to their needs. Rather men bought gifts for women and went to take care of their families, not girl friend or baby mama.

You've began to listen to online men, with their twisted misogynistic take on women, rather than the truth. Your forefathers had no problem finding women, because they were not looking for a woman to add to there lives, who will buy them recharge cards, and give them premarital sex. Modern men have destroyed what they want by wanting women to give them things. You want to divert certain things and it's not working. If men want good women, they should live good Bible lives first.


So if you're asking why, first change your mindset and they will come. Women can spot a red pill convert a mile off.
ur write up is irrelevant

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Monogamy: 3:53pm On Feb 23
Nigerians being they looking for God fearing partner while they themselves don't even fear devil
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by BRATISLAVA: 4:04pm On Feb 23
lifenija:
ur write up is irrelevant

To you.

To men: don't change yourselves for the better, keep looking for who will change for you.

Keep man-whoring and being biased against women and expect your mindset to be good. You will attract equal pounds of who you are.

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by mrgbenga1: 4:06pm On Feb 23
Ladies nowadays see relationship as poverty alleviation programme.

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