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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Wilsonzinny(f): 4:48pm On Feb 23
StacyO:


Majority of men can't actually offer anything in a relationship. Same with the case of op

If op brought an idea,I'm sure those ladies he talked about would have followed his vibe but then,how can you offer something you don't have.

Exactly...there ar stil good girls but d chase for sex wil nt allow most of u see road...u men say ladies ar lazy n hungry, hav u tried knowin wat that lady cn do asin her potentials n supportin them...that one no dy enter list instead its lets meet here n there...truth is some ladies ar tired of ur kind that has absolutely natin to offer.
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by HopeVictor(m): 6:59pm On Feb 23
mrgbenga1:
Ladies nowadays see relationship as poverty alleviation programme.
My thoughts exactly
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Ketapu: 7:08pm On Feb 23
Sir, what you are looking for is called a Unicorn. And you know what, Unicorn actually don't exist.

So, you either settle for the moderate ladies you can luckily get, or choose one of the numerous rotten ones that are in the society, or swallow the fucking red pill and accept that all females are the same.

I follow an American blog where I read almost everyday. If you see wetin American guys dey post about their ladies, you will realize all ladies are the same throughout the world. In fact, American ladies are worse than Nigerian ladies when it comes to destroying a guy's life.

Swallow the red pill bro.

For a start, read all the books called "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi. You will understand better. Another one is "Mode One" series by Alan Currie

By the time you finish those books, you will understand females better.

You can download those books freely on b-ok.cc

All the best.

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by BigBellyBurst(m): 7:46pm On Feb 23
Ketapu:
Sir, what you are looking for is called a Unicorn. And you know what, Unicorn actually don't exist.

So, you either settle for the moderate ladies you can luckily get, or choose one of the numerous rotten ones that are in the society, or swallow the fucking red pill and accept that all females are the same.

I follow an American blog where I read almost everyday. If you see wetin American guys dey post about their ladies, you will realize all ladies are the same throughout the world. In fact, American ladies are worse than Nigerian ladies when it comes to destroying a guy's life.

Swallow the red pill bro.

For a start, read all the books called "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi. You will understand better. Another one is "Mode One" series by Alan Currie

By the time you finish those books, you will understand females better.

You can download those books freely on b-ok.cc

All the best.

You are very right about the american women being worse than nigerian women. I follow a couple of red pill channels on youtube and when I enter the comment section and read what american guys are passing through over there in the US I pity them.

What we nigerian guys pass through in the hands of our ladies down here is even a pinprick compared to those guys.

An average american lady can utterly destroy your entire life if she wants to... I watched a video of the "Coach red pill" on how he told a girl that was crushing on him that he wasn't interested in her. She got angry when she saw him with another girl and filed false rape charges against him and he was suspended from school for two good years. Even when he came back, the trauma and stigmata was still there.

So u see, the earlier guys swallowed the red pill, the better for them.

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Greystone(m): 10:07pm On Feb 23
NaijaCoverBlog:
Hello My Fellow Nairalander, Is Me NAIJA COVER BLOG

I'm a Single Guy and a professional Blogger, I have been searching for a lady who will be my future wife, I end up getting ladies who has bad mindset, who has nothing to offer me, apart from SEX, For Her To Buy Recharge Card and send it to me, is a big problem, talk-less of adding value to my life.

Why Is it so hard for a guy to see a lady with Good Mindset in nigeria now?

Where Can One See a lady who has good mindset in nigeria?

Are you in the same shoe with Me?

Let Me Hear From You Please.

I agree with you that it's hard. But not impossible.

There are still good decent girls out there.

I was in your exact same shoes a few months ago and I was losing hope but I thank God I didn't.

You have to be patient.

Pray.

Keep your eyes and ears wide open.

Stop insisting in ur mind that ur future babe must fulfill all ur physical specs ( I don't know urs) but for eg. She must have;

-big bumbum
-big boobs
-tall
-working class
- have job
- perfect cook
etc...

My brother, no one is perfect.

You should have a basic list of things you know you cannot tolerate in a person (eg. A cheat/ unfaithful, drunkard, financially reckless, immature, spoilt, insultive) that you will avoid by all means.

These ones are obvious red flags. Avoid any woman that you notice any of such behaviors in be4 you get into a relationship.

*The irony of it is that just as you are complaining that you can't find a decent Nigerian girl to date and possibly marry, so also the decent ladies are complaining that the Nigerian men are also irresponsible.

NB: Stop going to clubs and bars looking for decent babe to marry oh...

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by StacyO(f): 11:43pm On Feb 23
Wilsonzinny:
Exactly...there ar stil good girls but d chase for sex wil nt allow most of u see road...u men say ladies ar lazy n hungry, hav u tried knowin wat that lady cn do asin her potentials n supportin them...that one no dy enter list instead its lets meet here n there...truth is some ladies ar tired of ur kind that has absolutely natin to offer.

Exactly dear.

I really don't see the reason why men spend data lamenting on what they can easily change. It actually makes them weak instead.
It's very appalling,honestly.
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by StacyO(f): 12:08am On Feb 24
Bouz:
How many ladies, are eager to listen to ideas. you must really be a joker. Most ladies are after physical looks, iphones, cars and a good apartment. the speed at which she would start leaving her clothes behind will shock you. grin grin


Okay.










What are most men after?

Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Bouz(m): 12:15am On Feb 24
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Wilsonzinny:
Exactly...there ar stil good girls but d chase for sex wil nt allow most of u see road...u men say ladies ar lazy n hungry, hav u tried knowin wat that lady cn do asin her potentials n supportin them...that one no dy enter list instead its lets meet here n there...truth is some ladies ar tired of ur kind that has absolutely natin to offer.
Did i hear you say supporting, so relationship seem like an empowerment program to you baa, what then can you offer, if he supports you in your business with finance and ideas? it is your type that uses men to upgrade their lives. you are one of the reasons Op is lamenting over his inability to get an honest girl. Can u date a guy, that can't support you financially?, but you want a guy that could support the finances of your start up business.
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by NaijaCoverBlog(m): 12:43am On Feb 24
Greystone:


I agree with you that it's hard. But not impossible.

There are still good decent girls out there.

I was in your exact same shoes a few months ago and I was losing hope but I thank God I didn't.

You have to be patient.

Pray.

Keep your eyes and ears wide open.

Stop insisting in ur mind that ur future babe must fulfill all ur physical specs ( I don't know urs) but for eg. She must have;

-big bumbum
-big boobs
-tall
-working class
- have job
- perfect cook
etc...

My brother, no one is perfect.

You should have a basic list of things you know you cannot tolerate in a person (eg. A cheat/ unfaithful, drunkard, financially reckless, immature, spoilt, insultive) that you will avoid by all means.

These ones are obvious red flags. Avoid any woman that you notice any of such behaviors in be4 you get into a relationship.

*The irony of it is that just as you are complaining that you can't find a decent Nigerian girl to date and possibly marry, so also the decent ladies are complaining that the Nigerian men are also irresponsible.

NB: Stop going to clubs and bars looking for decent babe to marry oh...


Bro, I'm just a professional blogger, But I'm telling you nothing but the truth here, is very hard for me to see a lady who has good mindset, @lalasticlala, Any Hope of getting to front page?
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by ibkonekt(m): 1:42am On Feb 24
NaijaCoverBlog:
Hello My Fellow Nairalander, Is Me NAIJA COVER BLOG

I'm a Single Guy and a professional Blogger, I have been searching for a lady who will be my future wife, I end up getting ladies who has bad mindset, who has nothing to offer me, apart from SEX, For Her To Buy Recharge Card and send it to me, is a big problem, talk-less of adding value to my life.

Why Is it so hard for a guy to see a lady with Good Mindset in nigeria now?

Where Can One See a lady who has good mindset in nigeria?

Are you in the same shoe with Me?

Let Me Hear From You Please.
Ask mosdii, he has the answer.
Nigerian girls are ....... all of them.
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Emalaak2: 2:01am On Feb 24
NaijaCoverBlog:
Hello My Fellow Nairalander, Is Me NAIJA COVER BLOG

I'm a Single Guy and a professional Blogger, I have been searching for a lady who will be my future wife, I end up getting ladies who has bad mindset, who has nothing to offer me, apart from SEX, For Her To Buy Recharge Card and send it to me, is a big problem, talk-less of adding value to my life.

Why Is it so hard for a guy to see a lady with Good Mindset in nigeria now?

Where Can One See a lady who has good mindset in nigeria?

Are you in the same shoe with Me?

Let Me Hear From You Please.
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Angelacruz: 5:01am On Feb 24
It is not yet ur tym bro,everytin happen at d right tym .Chill and enjoy this life.Wen is ur tym,u will definetly meet dat perfect girl.
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Wilsonzinny(f): 7:59am On Feb 24
Bouz:
3 Did i hear you say supporting, so relationship seem like an empowerment program to you baa, what then can you offer, if he supports you in your business with finance and ideas? it is your type that uses men to upgrade their lives. you are one of the reasons Op is lamenting over his inability to get an honest girl. Can u date a guy, that can't support you financially?, but you want a guy that could support the finances of your start up business.
My dear read wit understanding, support doesnt hav to b financial only...wel am nt surprisd u think everytin is money cos thats d mentality of guys...wait oh hw much do u guys even hav that u think every girl is after mtcheeew...wel i blame girls who depend on guys for d food,water n even airtime dy need thats why some of u wil open mouth to talk trash about girls...and i am actually lookin 4 loan to startup nt dependin on any guy for it u get, dnt cum blabbin wat u dnt knw...
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by freethesheeple(m): 8:06am On Feb 24
Many men are weak cos of being broke.. If you have 3 Benz and 2 Range, CAN YOU BEG A WOMAN TO STAY IN YOUR LIFE?Just hustle!!!
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Bouz(m): 8:12am On Feb 24
Wilsonzinny:
My dear read wit understanding, support doesnt hav to b financial only...wel am nt surprisd u think everytin is money cos thats d mentality of guys...wait oh hw much do u guys even hav that u think every girl is after mtcheeew...wel i blame girls who depend on guys for d food,water n even airtime dy need thats why some of u wil open mouth to talk trash about girls...and i am actually lookin 4 loan to startup nt dependin on any guy for it u get, dnt cum blabbin wat u dnt knw...
Who even gives loan to a start up biz, Aunty stop forming shit. its all about ideas and financial support, Some one will give you a business plan and still finance the business your you, whats then your purpose . You are already using style to express how you need financial support for your start up business already. A lady depending on a guy is not
the problem, the problem is feeling entitled to your guy money. Don't be asking for too much.
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Wilsonzinny(f): 8:31am On Feb 24
Bouz:
Who even gives loan to a start up biz, Aunty stop forming shit. its all about ideas and financial support, Some one will give you a business plan and still finance the business your you, whats then your purpose . You are already using style to express how you need financial support for your start up business already. A lady depending on a guy is not
the problem, the problem is feeling entitled to your guy money. Don't be asking for too much.
Am nt depending on my guy for anytin n i wil never and my needing financial support has natin to do wit dependin on guys...i supported myself al tru skul wit my litle biz then n nw i want to start it up again cos i luv bein independnt so i cn stay away frm nonesence n yes people support start up biz...there was no need of goin tru my post to make reference thats childish...simply put if u hav a good mentality u wil definitely attract ppl wit good mentality.
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Akanimoh113(m): 9:13am On Feb 24
Wilsonzinny:
My dear read wit understanding, support doesnt hav to b financial only...wel am nt surprisd u think everytin is money cos thats d mentality of guys...wait oh hw much do u guys even hav that u think every girl is after mtcheeew...wel i blame girls who depend on guys for d food,water n even airtime dy need thats why some of u wil open mouth to talk trash about girls...and i am actually lookin 4 loan to startup nt dependin on any guy for it u get, dnt cum blabbin wat u dnt knw...
Am Also in Need of a Loan
I just don't know where I can get a loan with Stress free Processes... In case you do get a Loan pls share so I can also get a Loan too
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Lekan1o1: 3:58am On Feb 26
StacyO:


Majority of men can't actually offer anything in a relationship. Same with the case of op

If op brought an idea,I'm sure those ladies he talked about would have followed his vibe but then,how can you offer something you don't have.


Hi stacy
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by StacyO(f): 9:14am On Feb 26
Lekan1o1:


Hi stacy


Hilo

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Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Yovanne: 10:00am On Feb 26
It seems to me that this is a common fake. A normal guy will not complain that he cannot find a girl for himself. Everyone has a smartphone and the ability to go online. Has Google banned you? But I can help. Choose black women dating sites. You will receive a complete list of trusted sites. Use logic and set all filters that are important to you. Look at what's left and chat online until you understand who suits you. Yes, getting a good wife is harder than finding a girl for one night. But who said an easy win would be enjoyable?
Re: Help Me Out Please - Why Is It So Hard To Find Lady With Good Mindset In Nigeria by Lekan1o1: 7:20pm On Feb 26
StacyO:



Hilo

How are u babe

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