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Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by guass(m): 6:52am On Mar 06, 2021
WOMAN IS MONEY, OR HOW DO I SAY IT
MONEY IS WOMAN
Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by karkinase(m): 7:05am On Mar 06, 2021
guass:
WOMAN IS MONEY, OR HOW DO I SAY IT
MONEY IS WOMAN
Na so o..if you must shag women in this present time then you need money. Nothing like Redpill or mind games.
Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by Emmanuel224(m): 7:14am On Mar 06, 2021
zoeA:
All this term paper for woman?
kaii

Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by Came4apost(m): 7:19am On Mar 06, 2021
HRHQueenPhil:
All I see is love..pls forgive and forget
Oya, if u have above 100,000 in the bank.and not ready to use it or.domt know.wat to.do.wit it
. opportunity don come to invest in farm biz . The risk is non existent as leadway assurance is.covering it. The interest makes mad sense. This post is not a coincidence..wise.up and stop wasting time in fixed deposit or target savings products of the bank. Click my link

Love must be backed up with an ambition.. u r brooke.. u r not saying when u will be fine or what ur doing to avert proverty the love will die a natural death

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Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by Came4apost(m): 7:23am On Mar 06, 2021
DaddyRochie1642:
All these big grammar just to dismiss the Stupid and inconsiderate girl.

Oga it's you I blame, from your story you gave her the impression that you were comfortable.

Next time learn to cut your coat According to your size.

The OP is just a cry baby .. if ur girl has to ask before you give .. u don't love her .. I always want to know my girls financial status all the time .. so I know when she is broke and how to handle it ..
Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by Drsnives(m): 7:26am On Mar 06, 2021
DaddyRochie1642:
All these big grammar just to dismiss the Stupid and inconsiderate girl.

Oga it's you I blame, from your story you gave her the impression that you were comfortable.

Next time learn to cut your coat According to your size.
Cloth grin
Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by Babara1994(m): 7:28am On Mar 06, 2021
Wittyglam:
You already knew from the start that she is demanding but you kept giving in. It's great you have gone your separate ways and something I notice you guys really lack was a good communication.
Good communication? Fish brain!
You didn't see the excuses being met by her selfish demands? The stupid guy should have blocked her off long ago
Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by Everrich96: 7:29am On Mar 06, 2021
Came4apost:


The OP is just a cry baby .. if ur girl has to ask before you give .. u don't love her .. I always want to know my girls financial status all the time .. so I know when she is broke and how to handle it ..

Sorry, that's not love. You're gonna get dumped soon and you'd be at loss. You're trying to play the saviour in the relationship but in return she probably doesn't give 2fvck about you in your lowest moments. A girl that can't build with you but wants to always extort you at the slightest chance. ..

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Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by DaddyRochie1642: 7:31am On Mar 06, 2021
Drsnives:

Cloth grin



Oga it's coat I know grin grin
Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by Babara1994(m): 7:34am On Mar 06, 2021
Fish brains are reading this, but they won't make any comment. Silly hungry thieves who go about extorting money from innocent guys.

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Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by Jack005(m): 7:39am On Mar 06, 2021
etrange:
Lol... this escalated too quickly and that's probably what you get when you fill your head with the things NL boys say onhere to the point that you make a mountain out of everything (not saying that's OP's case).

Asking for something is not entitlement mentality. Anybody can ask for anything including your male friends. Entitlement mentality is when she starts to misbehave simply cause she didn't get what she asked for; that's when you say she's feeling entitled. The lady might have the so called entitlement but you didn't give her the chance to expose herself. You sped into accusing her of not caring about you and thereby insinuating she's a gold digger. Perhaps this was the last straw that broke your camel's back cause it was almost as if you were waiting for an opportunity to call her out. I don't know how you were expecting her to take it but only a few people would take that without feeling offended. Now, there's no telling how she would have reacted if you had just said you didn't have. Next time, just say you don't have.

#MyOpinion
Trash!!

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Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by Jack005(m): 7:39am On Mar 06, 2021
Came4apost:


Love must be backed up with an ambition.. u r brooke.. u r not saying when u will be fine or what ur doing to avert proverty the love will die a natural death
more trash.. The typing of a simp!

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Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by AwesomeStormy00(m): 7:40am On Mar 06, 2021
I am sorry i disagree with you on this one, if a guy is telling his girlfriend what he is going through he is telling her because he wants emotional support, a shoulder to cry on, someone to listen to him and gives him moral supoort.

Personally in my opinion this girl show no emotions ni sympathy not even empathy to her boyfriend. All she wanted is food, then £££, then topup credit, then money for uber etc. She is a parasites and he is the host to feed on. What i dont understand is are all Nigerians girls like this ni? If they are then they are worst than prostitute.

Op, no love here having said that i hope.naija still get honest girls out there with genuine love.if not then the future is bleak.

etrange:
Lol... this escalated too quickly and that's probably what you get when you fill your head with the things NL boys say onhere to the point that you make a mountain out of everything (not saying that's OP's case).

Asking for something is not entitlement mentality. Anybody can ask for anything including your male friends. Entitlement mentality is when she starts to misbehave simply cause she didn't get what she asked for; that's when you say she's feeling entitled. The lady might have the so called entitlement but you didn't give her the chance to expose herself. You sped into accusing her of not caring about you and thereby insinuating she's a gold digger. Perhaps this was the last straw that broke your camel's back cause it was almost as if you were waiting for an opportunity to call her out. I don't know how you were expecting her to take it but only a few people would take that without feeling offended. Now, there's no telling how she would have reacted if you had just said you didn't have. Next time, just say you don't have.

#MyOpinion

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Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by AwesomeStormy00(m): 7:45am On Mar 06, 2021
HRHQueenPhil:
All I see is love..pls forgive and forget
Oya, if u have above 100,000 in the bank.and not ready to use it or.domt know.wat to.do.wit it
. opportunity don come to invest in farm biz . The risk is non existent as leadway assurance is.covering it. The interest makes mad sense. This post is not a coincidence..wise.up and stop wasting time in fixed deposit or target savings products of the bank. Click my link

How authentic is this @HRHQueenPhil just curious ni o
Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by igben(m): 8:05am On Mar 06, 2021
This nor be news na, jus use lyrics & sabi batch any woman like urz, she go dey craw follow u!!!
Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by Drsnives(m): 8:05am On Mar 06, 2021
DaddyRochie1642:




Oga it's coat I know grin grin
grin grin grin na cloth go call police
Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by Mcslize: 8:08am On Mar 06, 2021
You are wasting your time if you are emtionally being attached to ladies.

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Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by theNOISEmaker: 8:43am On Mar 06, 2021
Everrich96:
I'm just disappointed at how some people come into your life genuinely at first and in the long run they try to run you by blackmailing you emotionally because they've got this strong entitlement mentality.

Below is attached, screenshots of the chat I had with a lady who posed to be a "caring friend".
We met barely 3months ago, and in one week she was already making demands , cuz when she met me , I might have given off a notion of being successful cuz things were really working fine with me. She asked me to take her out , I tried to ignore cuz I was loyal to my girlfriend, now EX. Eventually after black mailing me emotionally, I gave in.

There were times she really cared and there were days when I tested her patience whenever she requested for financial favour and I didn't give in, she became mean and impatient. Recently , things have been really hard for me, and I can't even pay my rent, and I lost so much money to bad investments and I can't even afford a good meal. I'm just a final year student singly helping myself and no one's helping out , i've got exams by the corner and my girlfriend just broke up with me. So much heartbreaking events . She claimed to be my friend yet she kept looking for means to extort me, and She's got a boyfriend .

Just Last week, she called me for the first time in 2weeks since . She was acting all caring and next she tells me she's broke and she's looking for capital to buy make up kits , I tried to ignore. Next thing she starts saying " you cant ask me how much I need.. bla bla" , I then told her all the aforementioned problems I'm going through...She started crying that truly I was going through alot.

Fast forward to this night , she flashed me and I called her back . She started saying stuffs like she's craving Shawarma etc. I ignored , she complained. She requested other stuffs which I ignored and tried to skip the convo. She said she would come see me , but I've got to book an Uber. Had to remind her of my current status and things aint funny anymore , but I can book her uber when she would leave only if she came using a public trans. We ended the convo..


Moments later, she chatted me on Whatsapp to recharge her phone. I couldn't take it, I had to give her a piece of my mind, she felt offended and she blocked me. Like, why make it an obligation to always try to take something from me? The least or most you could be as a "friend" is to be supportive than being a parasitic leech!!

op na she be this abi? grin grin
Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by MrEnigma(m): 8:50am On Mar 06, 2021
I understand what you're going through and can imagine this must hurt. I do not see anything wrong with your reply to her and if she was a good friend, she could have tried to be empathetic to your plight and put her selfishness aside. But you should have yourself to blame because the signs were there but what's done is done.

Focus on getting better, chin up and things will be alright.

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Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by BigDick70inch(m): 8:51am On Mar 06, 2021
theNOISEmaker:
op na she be this abi? grin grin

Ahhhhhhhh!!!!
Dis one show u pepper?? cheesy
Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by Sonoyom(m): 9:01am On Mar 06, 2021
Nigerian girls feel entitled to your finance, imagine a pauper who is begging for recharge trying to sound tough. How many times has she sent recharge card to her siblings? let's not talk about friends. It's pathetic that the begger in this case feels like master. She is having that feeling because she knows that one idiot somewhere will take it as a pleasure to send her the recharge card.
She is not useful to you in anyway aside sexually.

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Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by Madmazel(m): 9:43am On Mar 06, 2021
etrange:
Lol... this escalated too quickly and that's probably what you get when you fill your head with the things NL boys say onhere to the point that you make a mountain out of everything (not saying that's OP's case).

Asking for something is not entitlement mentality. Anybody can ask for anything including your male friends. Entitlement mentality is when she starts to misbehave simply cause she didn't get what she asked for; that's when you say she's feeling entitled. The lady might have the so called entitlement but you didn't give her the chance to expose herself. You sped into accusing her of not caring about you and thereby insinuating she's a gold digger. Perhaps this was the last straw that broke your camel's back cause it was almost as if you were waiting for an opportunity to call her out. I don't know how you were expecting her to take it but only a few people would take that without feeling offended. Now, there's no telling how she would have reacted if you had just said you didn't have. Next time, just say you don't have.

#MyOpinion
I will feel so insensitive after someone have explained their predicament to me and immediately or some days later I start asking for airtime, uber and buying sharwama.

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Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by Everrich96: 9:46am On Mar 06, 2021
theNOISEmaker:
op na she be this abi? grin grin


No boss. Who's that? Please take that down. I don't know who that is.
Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by Nobody: 9:58am On Mar 06, 2021
Take the redpill brother and all your problems will be solved
Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by Nobody: 9:58am On Mar 06, 2021
anochuko01:


If you're caring, you won't even think of demanding whatever from someone who has got challenges. That's what it means to being considerate, caring and having conscience. The lady had none of these.
How can you even call somebody telling them you crave sharwama? That's the height of it.



That sharwama part ehn weak me, na so my new babe talk say she crave sharwama na so I drive her to the spot, after we order finish I just go siddon dey wait as them bring bill I bone face dey make official calls, nobody tell her before she pay.

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Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by Qatar2022: 9:58am On Mar 06, 2021
etrange:
Lol... this escalated too quickly and that's probably what you get when you fill your head with the things NL boys say onhere to the point that you make a mountain out of everything (not saying that's OP's case).

Asking for something is not entitlement mentality. Anybody can ask for anything including your male friends. Entitlement mentality is when she starts to misbehave simply cause she didn't get what she asked for; that's when you say she's feeling entitled. The lady might have the so called entitlement but you didn't give her the chance to expose herself. You sped into accusing her of not caring about you and thereby insinuating she's a gold digger. Perhaps this was the last straw that broke your camel's back cause it was almost as if you were waiting for an opportunity to call her out. I don't know how you were expecting her to take it but only a few people would take that without feeling offended. Now, there's no telling how she would have reacted if you had just said you didn't have. Next time, just say you don't have.

#MyOpinion
So with what you read you don't see selfishness on the girl part? I don't really understand how some of you comprehend atimes

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Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by Dreadlock69(m): 10:07am On Mar 06, 2021
After giving on idiot 1500 she called me ode no worry her papa go ask for anoda one I dey here dey wait

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Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by qtguru(m): 10:07am On Mar 06, 2021
doggedfighter:
Should a girl be your problem now?


You want to have and fvck a woman when there are important issues to sort out in your life.

And you have the effrontery to bring it here?

You deserve some brain resetting slaps.

Nonsense !
Glad someone said it. Though I'd reply with sorry I'm broke and if she is acting anyhow I focus in the hustle. Times have changed sha
Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by theNOISEmaker: 10:51am On Mar 06, 2021
Everrich96:



No boss. Who's that? Please take that down. I don't know who that is.
Lol.. Op I know she's the one, but don't worry I've taken down the picture. Check well, You've already given up her identity on one of the screenshot you posted. A little Facebook search, pooof! Her profile was right before me.. cool
Re: Why Are Some Ladies Like This? (screenshot) by Nobody: 10:52am On Mar 06, 2021
HRHQueenPhil:
All I see is love..pls forgive and forget
Oya, if u have above 100,000 in the bank.and not ready to use it or.domt know.wat to.do.wit it
. opportunity don come to invest in farm biz . The risk is non existent as leadway assurance is.covering it. The interest makes mad sense. This post is not a coincidence..wise.up and stop wasting time in fixed deposit or target savings products of the bank. Click my link
YOU!

And not love must be blind.

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