IntentionTremor:


While dating

Anigreat:







Op please i have a question to ask you

when did you know she had an abortion for her ex boyfriend?

Cutehector:
Lmao..this story is as fake as zzor.

IntentionTremor:
So I married this beautiful lady after dating for one year. Two years after wedding we had a still birth of our 9 month pregnancy! 9 years later we are yet to achieve another pregnancy naturally.

Summarily, we have had 5 failed IVF cycles to our history of search for solution.

It's all making me sick. Mentally sick! In 2 years we'll both be age 40!! And I am the only male in my family!

Our last resort seems to be surrogacy! But I haven't had the sanity to give it a thought talk less of a try - even as she wants us to! It makes me more SICK!

These fertility treatment failures have made me hate, resent and despise her so much that we are now flatmates.

Because she had an abortion for her boyfriend while in school. I BLAME HER RIGHT NOW FOR THIS WHOLE SHIT.

I WANT A DIVORCE? Yes or No? Talk to me.

ILoveDemMANNA:
Prayer is the master key

MejiLoyon:
Some can born but they have no man
Some have man but they cannot born
We don born we no get wife
Glory be to Jah Jehovah
Oya so pe ti e
So pe ti E
EMI Gaan Gaan mo ma so pe temi.....

If you like divorce
If you like no divorce
All I know is you've made your decision
You're here for validation

No be me go spoil person own.

IntentionTremor:


True. But it's very difficult to pray right now for me to be sincere, I've not prayed in a long long while... I stopped when the third IVF failed...

MejiLoyon:
Some can born but they have no man
Some have man but they cannot born
We don born we no get wife
Glory be to Jah Jehovah
Oya so pe ti e
So pe ti E
EMI Gaan Gaan mo ma so pe temi.....

If you like divorce
If you like no divorce
All I know is you've made your decision
You're here for validation

No be me go spoil person own.

Misterone:
recite your marriage vows once again. call her and do it together.

JidennaJason:
"Because she had an abortion for her boyfriend while in school"




Dear IntentionTremor,



So you are aware she had abortions for her boyfriend then but still went ahead to marry her and partake in the punishment nature is already dishing out to her?


Young man, I will advise you get a second wife that can bear you children with an untempered womb.... If she don't accept you bringing in another woman, then divorce her.

Zzor:
Why are you this heartless,did you consider the woman's pain before typing this, 99percent of Nigerian men reason same way you do,give me some white men any day anytime. smh

IntentionTremor:
So I married this beautiful lady after dating for one year. Two years after wedding we had a still birth of our 9 month pregnancy! 9 years later we are yet to achieve another pregnancy naturally.

Summarily, we have had 5 failed IVF cycles to our history of search for solution.

It's all making me sick. Mentally sick! In 2 years we'll both be age 40!! And I am the only male in my family!

Our last resort seems to be surrogacy! But I haven't had the sanity to give it a thought talk less of a try - even as she wants us to! It makes me more SICK!

These fertility treatment failures have made me hate, resent and despise her so much that we are now flatmates.

Because she had an abortion for her boyfriend while in school. I BLAME HER RIGHT NOW FOR THIS WHOLE SHIT.

I WANT A DIVORCE? Yes or No? Talk to me.

ILoveDemMANNA:

I know how you feel.
I will put you in my prayers personally and tell the brethens in church to pray for you too.
Nothing difficult for God to do.
Never give up.
All of us here on dis forum will be here to celebrate with you when the good news arrive.
Believe in God.

JidennaJason:
"Because she had an abortion for her boyfriend while in school"




Dear IntentionTremor,



So you are aware she had abortions for her boyfriend then but still went ahead to marry her and partake in the punishment nature is already dishing out to her?


Young man, I will advise you get a second wife that can bear you children with an untempered womb.... If she don't accept you bringing in another woman, then divorce her.

IntentionTremor:


Thanks. These have been my torment and regret! Like why I didn't call it off on finding out. Well I thought she won't be the first to have done it.. and many do and still have children.. so? Alas ! Mine wants to kill me.. I'm really considering your thoughts..

IntentionTremor:


Thank you so much.

IntentionTremor:
So I married this beautiful lady after dating for one year. Two years after wedding we had a still birth of our 9 month pregnancy! 9 years later we are yet to achieve another pregnancy naturally.

Summarily, we have had 5 failed IVF cycles to our history of search for solution.

It's all making me sick. Mentally sick! In 2 years we'll both be age 40!! And I am the only male in my family!

Our last resort seems to be surrogacy! But I haven't had the sanity to give it a thought talk less of a try - even as she wants us to! It makes me more SICK!

These fertility treatment failures have made me hate, resent and despise her so much that we are now flatmates.

Because she had an abortion for her boyfriend while in school. I BLAME HER RIGHT NOW FOR THIS WHOLE SHIT.

I WANT A DIVORCE? Yes or No? Talk to me.

Anigreat:








Op please i have a question to ask you

when did you know she had an abortion for her ex boyfriend? Did she tell you in the earlier stage of courtship or during the failed pregnancies?









I won't blame her, because she opened up to you from on set and I won't blame you either for marrying her , because the new love shag and blinded you. It can happen to anyone even me.


You knew nothing about the abortion, why suffering with her? opt out of the marriage immediately if you love your life , also if you want to sustain your father's lineage as you said, you're the only male child and age is no longer by your side.


Even though the abortion your wife had may not be the reason for the failed pregnancies, but she deserves to suffer for killing an innocent child , and every woman who took a life of an innocent child in the name of abortion deserves worser fate than this. I can only pity the innocent man that will later pick her as a wife as he may suffer from what he knew nothing about as this Op now.

Righteousness2:
My Brother, Divorce nor Hating your wife is not the answer! You need to Calm down.

You need to understand certain things;
Children are Gifts From Above. It's GOD that gives kids.

No matter how skillful and Fertile you are, if BABA does not release HIS gift to you , Forget about it. You Cannot have it.

Instead of Hating and Planning to Divorce your lovely wife, why not see this time as an opportunity for you to draw yourself and your Home Closest to GOD and HIS Word.

Why not see it as an opportunity to cement your relationship with GOD.

Do not mind what people say! People will always talk! Love GOD! Love your Wife.

Forget about the issue! Fix yourself in GOD and treat your wife right!
Ensure your path is right! Let it be GOD that owes you.
In due Season BABA will Settle you guys!

Romanoff:
Who is to say another woman has not aborted for you?

There is an option, surrogacy. Why not explore it?

Then why did you get married to this woman, is it solely for children?

IntentionTremor:


Thanks. God is love and I still love HIM. I don't love my wife the way I used to because of all these ish.
But I feel I have disappointed my father whenever I visit him. He doesn't pressure me about this issue except I initiate a convo. But the looks on his face every other time we visit speaks VOLUMES. I just want him happy seeing my children before he leaves in death.

Mogadishuu:



Very Tragic

Righteousness2:

My Brother! Seeing your wife happy should be your Pirioty!
Yes! I agree your dad will love to see his grandchildren but you must understand that it is a Gift From GOD. It is not by Struggle! You don't Struggle for a Gift!
Calm Down! Worrying does not bring Solution!
Find the space to Love your wife.

I Stand the Gap For you and your Family!
I Bind Delay in your life! No matter the cause, I Break the yoke in JESUS Name!
I Decree this year will not Pass you guys by!
I Decree b4 the End of this year 2021, if JESUS Tarries, your wife will be set to put to bed in JESUS Name..
It is Settled!

IntentionTremor:


I make bold to say NO WOMAN HAS ABORTED FOR ME.
Surrogacy in my case also needs an egg donor plus the surrogate mom! Thinking about it gets me so angry.
While dating I always stated I wanted CHILDREN early that's why I was getting married early.... I was less than 30 when we even married cause of how much I wanted to have the kids early! Alas!