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| How Do I End This Relationship?? by Nobody: 8:17pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Please read through. I'm actually in my early twenties, not that I'm too old for marriage anyway. One of my top clients who I'm trying to polish out a business with, went ahead to arrange a mini impromptu by fire by force relationship for me and his brother. Like bethrothing someone to someone else without their full consent. It was a men's arrangement cause, I was surprised how they all came to that agreement. I tried breaking up with him the first time and he told his brothers about it. Guilt almost finished me cause, I was blamed for the excuse I brought up. His uncle who is in charge of the contract brought us back together again. The main issue now is that I want to break up with the guy once and for all but, I don't want to hurt him and I still have to save the contract at hand. The guy is very much attached to me already and I won't fake it, I'm equally beginning to feel butterflies in my stomach. I want to go about it in a very simple way. So that at the end, we all go our separate ways happy. Any idea is highly welcomed. Serious and mature minds please. Thank you. Modified:: I told him my own part of the story and my reasons of not wanting to be in a relationship with him. I'm not ready for any relationship now and I dont like him. Most importantly, I dont want to chop his money while deceiving him. He is still not accepting reality but, I'm sure with time, he'll move on. PS: His uncle isn't aware of this yet and I begged him not to tell anyone. 21 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Xenry: 8:19pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
StacyO:After chopping and cleaning mouth, you wan zoom commot? By the way, Which kain butterfly be that? 384 Likes 21 Shares
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| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Jeon(f): 8:23pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
StacyO: Think over what you want and why you want it. Take time to consider your feelings and the reasons for your decision Think about what you'll say and how the other person might react Have good intentions Be honest Say it in person If it helps, confide in someone you trust. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Ayo2004: 8:26pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
So u can date  Please,break up with him anyway u see fit before u ruin omolomo destiny  60 Likes 5 Shares
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| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Xenry: 8:26pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
What if he's your future hubby, your final Bus stop? Abi you wan turn to evening newspaper?  Abeg calm down, what exactly is the problem, is he ugly, poor? Or abi you wan big D*ck? 151 Likes 8 Shares
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| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Stephenmoka4(m): 8:30pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Sometimes having a close male friend or best guy friend is a red flag to some guys. CC StacyO 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Wittyglam(f): 8:31pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
I have a well detailed video on this, check it out and thank me later. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y41O1SVyybc 3 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Jeon(f): 8:36pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Xenry: I have noticed you. you are very toxic now on this platform. 17 Likes |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Xenry: 8:42pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Jeon:Believe me, I'm just being honest. 100 Likes 3 Shares
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| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by extol1(m): 8:45pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
i dey come, Neva goooooo 4 Likes |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Nobody: 9:32pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
StacyO:I Av D Solution To Ur Headache But What Will Be My Share In D Contract? 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by columbus007(m): 9:45pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Which kind talk be that,feeling butterfly in your stomach? Does it now mean that you guys have fcvked?  55 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Silentgroper(m): 10:01pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
I bet it's bcuz u did not allow d guy stress b4 he got ur number dat's y u're feeling dz way. Hadnt been he had to pay ur tfare nd beg 4 ur fvcking number, maybe then u might see him as a suitor do not mind me. 21 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by dayleke: 10:18pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Xenry: Labalaba of many colors....  22 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Nazgul: 10:46pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Most times, the best relationships begin from odd meetings. It was an arranged affair without your consent, you're angry...I'll implore you to look beyond your displeasure and ask yourself if the guy in question possess the qualities you want in a partner. You've already confessed that you're already developing a soft spot for him, meaning he obviously meets some of the criteria of your dream partner so why break it off? From your write up as far as I can tell, the only reason why you're so bent on ending things is because arrangements between you both were made behind your back. That's a very silly excuse to terminate a promising relationship unless if you have other tangible reasons (which you wouldn't wish to share) as to why you choose to end things prematurely. 211 Likes 11 Shares |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by SILENTandSMART2: 10:54pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Can you please summarize everything for me It is too long  2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Nobody: 10:59pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
StacyO: You want to break up with someone that has induced butterflies in your stomach. What does that statement mean Are you confused ??Well, I don't think you should be in a relationship with someone that doesn't have plans for you and him. There should be benefits for both of you. Ultimately,you have to consider what you need/want because that's what matters. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by SILENTandSMART2: 11:00pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
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| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
SILENTandSMART2:LOL. |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Nobody: 11:20pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
SILENTandSMART2:
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| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by jhon5710: 11:31pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
well said.. most sensible comment under this thread Nazgul: 45 Likes |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by sissoko89: 12:10am On Mar 09, 2021 |
Finish that cup of herbal mixture first,then u off that lantern for u to sleep well.wat u dream of will be the answer to ur question 7 Likes |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by placeofallure(f): 1:19am On Mar 09, 2021 |
Jeon: No! Don't see it that way. He has asked valid questions even though he's a bit sarcastic about it. Why don't you like him? Is it for the mere fact that your meeting each other was arranged? If you'd met him on your own, would it have mattered? What don't you like about him? Can you talk to him to adjust? Men are not mind readers you know. Are you in a relationship prior? If yes, you can politely excuse yourself. What about the butterflies that you now feel? You might be chasing away a future husband. Just saying.... 52 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by ShackWes(f): 5:05am On Mar 09, 2021 |
Anything for attention sha When will you all keep your shît together and save us all these foolish stories There's life outside NL abeg, just get a life 41 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Kingluqman(m): 5:35am On Mar 09, 2021 |
Pitifully tell him you are HIV (God forbid) positive and you wouldn’t want him to contract it. He will run oo 9 Likes |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Nobody: 7:25am On Mar 09, 2021 |
SILENTandSMART2:4 Ur Now, Na Wetin I Want Abi? |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:57am On Mar 09, 2021 |
Well OP it depends on what you want in a partner, does he meet your criteria for a man? Even though the event was arranged, it's not a bad idea, but of importance is what do you want in a partner, the minimum criteria that without it you would not consider that union. Equally making a lifetime decision based on a soft spot for him is not enough, marriage involves an unprecedented level of commitment, bkos feelings will go away. Cautiously examine your intentions also about your investor, are you feeling guilty of breaking off bkos you will lose the investment coming from him, if that's having a place in your decision making, then it's high time you call yourself into order, bkos time will reveal your true commitment. You should be able to disagree personally and do business professionally. But of core importance are you putting God ahead of your plans, and can you carry your parents along with that decision? 5 Likes |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Offpoint1: 8:01am On Mar 09, 2021 |
Very interesting story even though I didn't read it.... Just let him have the car, forget about what his uncle says. 18 Likes |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Kondomatic(m): 8:27am On Mar 09, 2021 |
StacyO:Butterflies don't have long lifespan, hopefully you will be done with the contract by the time the ones you're feeling in your stomach are dead. 12 Likes
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| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Mrscarter(f): 8:34am On Mar 09, 2021 |
Xenry: Lol 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by oneolajire(m): 9:12am On Mar 09, 2021 |
Pls tell us the truth. Can a 21st century lady be forced into relationship and marriage in impromptu way? Seems you love money so much 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do I End This Relationship?? by Nobody: 10:30am On Mar 09, 2021 |
Jeon:Nice piece. Thank you. |
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