₦airaland Forum

We all know that nobody is perfect and people are bound to have flaws, but sometimes there are certain things one's partner does, that makes one contemplate ending the relationship. What's the red flag or deal breaker that you simply can't ignore?

Mine are lying and dirtiness.

Mine is liars. I can not stand people intentionally telling me black is white.

I can forgive them if they do not know but would prefer they admit their ignorance. Its why I get the hump with believers since they tend to believe precisely because they do not know. But of course that forest in my eye is bigger than the spec of it in the eyes of others so I forgive so I can forgive myself. Liars though? Yuke people!

Gullibility. If you are easily swayed by things or trends, if you believe everything I tell you without questioning it's source or credibility sometimes. It's just a matter of time, I will break up with you, no matter how beautiful you are.

Following

Modified:

Tell me your flaws.

We'll deal with them together. In a simple language **be real with me**


I don't like hypocrites and pretenders.

StacyO:
Following

Tell us yours

budaatum:
Mine is liars. I can not stand people intentionally telling me black is white.

I can forgive them if they do not know but would prefer they admit their ignorance. Its why I get the hump with believers since they tend to believe precisely because they do not know. But of course that forest in my eye is bigger than the spec of it in the eyes of others so I forgive so I can forgive myself. Liars though? Yuke people!

I think lying is one of d unrealest thing to have as a red flag bcuz everyone does/will do it at a point of time. Except u are a hypocrite.

Silentgroper:
I think lying is one of d unrealest thing to have as a red flag bcuz everyone does/will do it at a point of time. Except u are an hypocrite.

And who says I am not a hypocrite? Did I not say something about the size of my own forest? You need to come see me burning in hell whenever I lie. I agonise that I must be so weak that I can not tell the truth and be damned so I stupidly damn myself by lying instead? "How stupid can you be, buda!"

It is still my red flag. Especially in a relationship. And most especially lying to oneself. We are done if I catch you lying to yourself!

If you watch too much Porn. I go Jakpa!

Being Clingy and co-dependent

Gush I hate smokers,don't drink too else I will give you a very cold shoulder if you come close,I wish to live very long and old with my future husband

1) Lacking knowledge about a wide variety of things.

Zzor:
Gush I hate smokers,don't drink too else I will give you a very cold shoulder if you come close,I wish to live very long and old with my future husband

atleast you have 1percent of health decency in you unlike your shamelesness of dating peoples husbands and fathers of 50_60yrs

Not smelling nice. This girl came to my house without using deodorant, I just stop calling her and picking her calls, she's till wondering what she did to me .

Tell me the truth. Don't lie to me. Smoking. I detest ladies who smoke

LadyTiannah2:
Tell us yours

Done.

Lalasticlala please move to front page, so people can contribute and be made aware of relationship deal breakers

FollowingModified:Tell me your flaws.We'll deal with them together. In a simple language **be real with me**I don't like hypocrites and pretenders.

Am here to read comments as usual

lying for just no cause and disloyal

.

Reex12:
atleast you have 1percent of health decency in you unlike your shamelesness of dating peoples husbands and fathers of 50_60yrs

Easy

If you always make jest of mental health or regard it as crazy .
Dishonesty
Hypocrite
As a guy,you have a very boring and mean personality .

Inside that relationship ,I will just japaa

for me, I think it is someone taking me for a fool or simpleton...

Lies

For me its disturbance all in the name of caring

I've zero red flag, I'm like Benin-Ore express, anything goes.

Offpoint1:
I've zero red flag

Lol anything and everything is allowed?

LadyTiannah2:
Lol anything and everything is allowed?

Anything goes as long as I'M GETTING LAID

Offpoint1:
Anything goes as long as I'M GETTING LAID

Lol. Interesting

Too much complaining.
Too much billing and not texting back under 10mins after viewing the message..

Telegram234:
Too much complaining.
Too much billing and not texting back under 10mins after viewing the message..

you mean if your partner didn't reply your message under ten minutes you go japa?

Telegram234:
Too much complaining.
Too much billing and not texting back under [quote author=Telegram234 post=99724959]Too much complaining.
Too much billing and not texting back under 10mins after viewing the message..

you mean if your partner didn't reply your message under ten minutes you go japa? after viewing the message.. [/quote]