if you want to save money in your relationship or marriage, none withstanding the level of the girl you dealing with.. the number one and foremost thing is to grow some ball and let the word NO!!!!! be your trademark....

StacyO:
I like this thread.

I tell you. This is the type of titles that should be hitting fp because it's on one of the major problems facing couples these days. Farano, Rocktatio, Mynd44, Lalasticlala, you need to take this post to the first page.

Liposure:
No 3 is quite reasonable. Cut your coat according to your size. Its not by force you impress on your D day

The problem with number 3 is how to convince a Nigerian girl to accept a little wedding.

10mobile:

The problem with number 3 is how to convince a Nigerian girl to accept a little wedding.

Lols

StacyO:



I actually made that cause of the opinion that when it comes to marriage,marrying a nurse whereas you're a doctor might cause issues in your family.


I can only imagine a situation where the husband is called for duty and his wife as well has to resume work somewhere else.

Their children will most likely grow up without care from their parents and they might be left at the mercy of a house help.


You're right though.

I totally get your point.

I never really knew you could type long epistle ly diz

sometimes when i have time in my hands i can write an epistle more than apostle paul

lefulefu:
Itit wont
someone in your carrier can understand you more unlike someone totally out of your career
Imagine a guy who is a doctor
Its not that he must totally go for a female doctor
he could marry a nurse or someone in the medical field
they would understand each other
check out most women who nag about their husband"s profession and blame their husband for not giving them attention
majority of such women are not in the same profession as the husband
look at bill clinton
Bill clinton is a lawyer by profession and hillary is also a lawyer by profession as well
they both met in law school and just look at them today
for obama and his wife i dont really know sha but i am very very sure that obama and his wife are in the same profession for them to understand each other that much
Most times when both partners dey the same career part e dey help
but again i am not saying if u meet a girl whose career is different from yours and she is a good girl then u should avoid her cos of career difference
what i am just saying is it wont make sense avoiding ladies or guys in your same career environment and running after other ppl from different career areas.
nop

Life no get formula. What works for others might not work for you.

efficiencie:
Simple! Marry a true spouse and not a leech. Two, fuse your financial plans into one. Three trust and obey!

Makes sense. But which one is trust and obey?

dumahi:

Makes sense. But which one is trust and obey?

Trust and obey the third person in the marriage, GOD!

lalasticlala

Kiddogarcia:
same careers most times takes the necessary vibe away, you don't get to learn from your spouse, there's no zeal in knowing what your partner does,a lot tho

You can get the 'vibe' from many other sources. But, you can't get the UNDERSTANDING that comes from marrying same or similar career from many other sources.

Welcum:

You can get the 'vibe' from many other sources. But, you can't get the UNDERSTANDING that comes from marrying same or similar career from many other sources.

That's what many of them do not know.

Why is nobody talking about number 4?

Welcum:
Why is nobody talking about number 4?

Number 4 is obvious.

dumahi:

Number 4 is obvious.

How obvious is it? I didn't read up to number 4. I think that's what happened to most people. But, who else has tried serious money talks in the bedroom?

BrandBrainBox:

How obvious is it? I didn't read up to number 4. I think that's what happened to most people. But, who else has tried serious money talks in the bedroom?

I think you've got an idea there.

This song made sense some years ago. How about now?

Welcum:
This song made sense some years ago. How about now?

That was when love lasted "till death do us part".

dumahi:

That was when love lasted "till death do us part".

What do you think? Was life better then or now?

10mobile:

What do you think? Was life better then or now?

Depends on what you mean by "better". I think they had more peace.

dumahi:
Depends on what you mean by "better". I think they had more peace.

May be, it was peace of the graveyard.

dumahi:

That was when love lasted "till death do us part".

The yonder days are not always rosy days. They also had cases of divorce; didn't they?

Welcum:

The yonder days are not always rosy days. They also had cases of divorce; didn't they?

1 out of 500 cases then vs 1 out of 10 cases today. We are talking about prevalence here.

Nice topic. This quality is rare on Nairaland.

BrandBrainBox:

May be, it was peace of the graveyard.

I really wonder how they survived without smart phone.

efficiencie:
Simple! Marry a true spouse and not a leech. Two, fuse your financial plans into one. Three trust and obey!

What's with "trust and obey"?

docdes:

I really wonder how they survived without smart phone.

Haha! You funny die. They're also wondering how you survive needing so many things (like smartphones) to live.

Welcum:

Haha! You funny die. They're also wondering how you survive needing so many things (like smartphones) to live.

Ya mind dey there. Give us this day our daily bread.

Marriage quotes every couple should know.

For those who think that they are losing when they love their spouse.

Very true.

No couple can go far if they are not friends first and foremost.

D