₦airaland Forum

madridguy:
I think say dey say Ijaw people are not coward... Why SIM packed him load? Why not bring his boys as him dey brag?

God Almighty, as you do for the new Sole Administrator, no campaign, he no spend money, no T-shirt, no face cap Baba just enter power, this can favour let it locate me and my family members.. Amin.

6 months favour ontop another person downfall.

When you're thinking that you're too powerful, and life remind you that " I have the size of the challenge that will make you look stupid."

mmsen:
While you are right the root cause is the culture. Nigerians bullies and cajoles into having children even when those people are ill equipped to take care of anyone. It's not always poverty that renders one unfit to raise a child, some people are so mentally scarred by their own upbringing that they should not reproduce.

I specifically told my wife that no pregnancy this year until next year when it appears that things are better despite the fact that her elders sister are praying for triplets and twins for us, and even our pastor said he is waiting for our baby this year. But we had our own personal plan, and with her cooperation, I believe that we will not put ourself in a corner where things will be difficult for us. The thing is that some people still put their hands in fire without having any plan afterwards. They don't think about the effect and consequences of their action now, but place it on faith. Faith is usually the best, and faith without work is nothing. Real faith is the work and prayer behind the faith. But some people have faith without any work and prayer. A house without a foundation will normally collapse. Don't follow people, follow God and yourself.

Angelfrost:
There's a distinct difference between what you described above and what this thread is about.

The fact is... Many more Nigerians are begging today, not as a business or vocation but as an act of desperation in a hopeless situation.

Even salary earners are not exempt from this begging pandemic sweeping across the nation.

The poverty level in the nation is currently at a historical all time high... Like, shocking proportions.


This is not the time or place for dismissive statements...!

If you haven't encountered people, hardworking people that have been reduced to begging for sustenance, then I wonder where in Naija you reside or what kinda heart you have.

Well, seriously speaking, I don't understand what you mean. Because you just talk as if everybody around us have turned to beggar. That is what I don't understand. The same set of people who usually beg for years are still the same people begging that I know. And they are all these area guys that smoke Indian hemp without any iota of seriousness. People have challenges occasionally, even some of my family members who calls their brothers for assistance only occasionally, but that does not mean they are beggars. Personal challenges has nothing to do with economic situation. Even when the economy is booming irregardless of who is in power, you can still have terrible personal challenges. But because the economy is bad today does not mean that everybody is a beggar. I don't know if everybody around you is a beggar. Even Aboki under bridge in Lagos now polish a shoe at the rate of N200 naira per person. Do you know how many people they polish shoe for in a day and how much they make and take home everyday. And they stay there everyday from money to evening. As the economy is stepping up, you too must step up your game,and don't take opportunities for granted, and don't depend on anyone, but God.

Quarterpast:
Oga, peace is sacrosanct. Call me any name u want to. I'm the only person here. I don't have a family to fight for me. I want peace abeg

May God help you; but no peace without war. Whether silent war, actionable war, visible or invisible war. You must face your enemies directly or indirectly and conquer them before you can gain promotion. Always let your enemy know that you're in charge of your life. If not they will continue to enslave you. Never allow them to distract your focus on your goal, just behave as if they don't even exist as long as they are not standing in between and your goal. But when they come in between you and your goal, you have to give them woto woto, and make a bold statement that when they see you next time, they will be the one to run from you. But you have to be wise, confident, bold and have faith in something, as your back up. My own na God and prayer sha. Allowing someone to kill you without defending yourself is not good enough; even life won't take you serious, and may not give you what you need to overcome. But when you're weak and you still try your best to defend yourself, then life will raise help for you and give you what you need to overcome because you have proven yourself and showed that you deserve all the necessary help. Life is magical.

writetopoker601:
So you think it's easy to beg, who you don't know, on the street, a mature man?

Sometimes, some of you type without thinking, while some other think through their anus

Yes, begging is another person's full time profit making job. I know a woman who usually beg at the same spot every evening in the same location when I'm going back home from work since about 3 to 4 years now even before Tinubu came into power. She looks healthy, and all her body parts complete, but she is just passionate and gifted in begging for money. But I stopped giving her money about a year ago when an Okada rider tried to pursue her from disturbing his customer, and both of them started insulting themselves, and the Okada guy called her a thief and begi begi, and she replied that it's because she is wise, and not foolish, that she is begging, that is her means of livelihood. And she prayed that may she continue to be wise. Since that day, I stopped giving her shishi. She is still there now, I still saw her begging there on Wednesday evening. That begging is another man's format for livelihood. Scammers use the format too, and they see you as foolish and mugun whenever you give them money.

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Abeg make una leave Burna o. We know that many people are jusy jealous of the guy because many Nigerian artist have done worst than you all are claiming he did, and heaven did not fall. And the accusation that he insults Nigerians at every given opportunity is a fat lie. And please how did Nigeria or Nigerian assisted him as you claimed. I can name the person who assisted me sometime in my life, but stop generalizing it by saying Nigerian help him be cause we all know that heaven help those who help themselves. If he does not work on his talent, how would people have paid for his shows. There are many other upcoming artist that needs assistance. Why don't Nigerian go and help them. Burna boy, enjoy yourself, no mind all this jealous talk.

Girls who are willing to have 3 to 5 boyfriends at the same time all because of money. Una lifestyle don cast. It's all for the money, not real love. Immediately the man isn't able to provide the money or be of any other help to you, you then go ahead to dumb him and focus on the rest. Am I lying?

Here you're referring to that lifestyle (demand for money) as security for a man's dedication. You're wrong mehn. Enjoy the sex, and if you're the game player type, the man will know in a short while that you're not the serious type, and might even keep it to himself knowing fully well that you're not a wife material. We know when you're not worthy and we already segregated you somewhere in our mind. If you have other business, goals or activities that occupies your mind, it is even the man that will be running after you, knowing fully well you do not even need his money.

Merry100:
Gala hawker is not human being abi, dindinrin.

If a lady demands money from you, since it is so simple to say no you should be able to open your big mouth to say no, instead of coming here to bleat like goat on top my post.

Only a gigolo will date a lady with the intention of using her and dumping her. Show your intention stop deceiving ladies, it is as simple as that. It's still you people that will complain about a lady's body count.

I did not even encourage ladies to demand money from their boyfriend, I only stated the obvious and you are crying here like egbere.

Why should a lady demand money for sex (knowing fully well that it's even the lady that enjoy and love the sex more)? If you can't cope with the sex demand, simply reject the offer, instead of demanding for money. Any Nigerian girl that is demanding money for sex is already categorized as a sex worker, because she is ready to sleep with other 1million men for money. There are many other ways to obtain the sincerity of a man, other than demanding money from him. Are Nigerian girl (especially Lagos girls) even the only girls in the world, don't you see your counterparts in other countries. Working class Nigerian girls don't seems to exhibit this bad habit, but the lazy ones with passive minds, lacking creativity in their heads only see the offer as oppourtuniy for them to make money, because they lack any other ideas to generate money for themselves. And they intentionally seduce the man to rob him of his hard earned money. Better change or else that your yansh go burn for inside fire.

Just imagine an elite crying wolf. What is d purpose of an agreement that was breached. Is it not to move on to the court to enforce your right to reliefs and damages. After he leaves the powerless court of public domain, he can proceed to the court of Amadihoha for relief. An elite trying to get justice through the back door. Person wey dey suppose nack moro for head to restore his brain to default setting.

GOFRONT:
After drinking Agbo jedi mixed with Monkeytail and Nightcharger, he punctured this 14 yrs old....

I hope he do the time for 14 years.

Pure life imprisonment. When the court holds that an accused is guilty for the offence of defilement of a girl below 18 years of age, with or without her consent. The punishment is life imprisonment in Lagos State. No more, no less, unless he applies for a plea bargain agreement to the office of the Attorney General. If the plea bargain is granted he may be given 14 or 21 years. But if it's not granted, the punishment remains life imprisonment once it's proven against you with a medical report from an expert, and you're not able to properly defend yourself.

During the End SARS protest in Lagos State, the Igbosere High Court at Obalende was burnt, and case files destroyed. some people use protest as oppourtuniy to execute planned vandalism and stop or delay justice. The event nevertheless inspire Lagos State Judiciary to begin online filing and recording of cases even in the Magistrate Court.

Including the red night, that one night that is usually the eve of the official school vacation day that any hostel student is allowed to commit any atrocity to any other student wey looseguard. That is the night you must not yield to sleep, because you will surely end up crying when you wake up.

Boarding house story is not complete if you don't talk about the unceasing beating.

When a senior calls out loudly, "One boy there!" And the whole Jss 1 and Jss 2 boy start running helter-skelter from where they are to the direction the voice came from, "na senior Emeka dey call, na senior Emeka" because you don't want to be the last boy, knowing fully well that the last boy might be the one to do the chore after collecting moro, Sapa and belt. No dulling

DaddyCoool:
This guy, the way he's talking, penalty for defilement in Lagos state is LIFE IMPRISONMENT. Does he know that's what he's playing with?

He can still get 21 years if he quickly goes for plea bargain before his defence

Bantu10:
So this drug pusher dey fear like this?? No wonder some tribes in Nigeria sees the fallen demon descendants as lily livered tribe

No wonder 9 men from the "strong" tribe of - "angel" were recently gunned down and killed shamelessly in the open market for attempting to steal one bag of rice.

One thing I am certain about is this, whether the protest goes on or not, federal government always have two plans; where plan A did not work, plan b is always available to be executed. At the end of the day, one side will go up, and the other will come down. There is no balancing after the protest.

The main criminals don't go to take or collect the money themselves, they always send some small boys to go and collect or withdraw the money for them because they know from experience that anything can happen in the process of withdrawing the money. POS operatives are as well getting wiser nowadays, because when Police are carrying out investigation at the end of the day, they usually find out that POS operatives are usually the last people that receive the crime sum through their POS account allowing the criminals cash out big from the POS operatives. And police wey dey don cut their hear comot, wey no they hear anything, including the family members of the victim that send the money always make sure that the POS operative that receive the crime sum always suffer for months in the police cell, and usually inform the innocent POS operative to provide the money back or provide the other criminals that use their POS account. And some of this kidnapping cases that end up in murder, and POS account is use by the criminals to extort money from the victim's family members, always make sure that the POS operative is charge for the murder of the victim. And before the POS operative will get justice, years would have gone, money would have gone, and it is always those that have a strong family that stand by them why they are in prison custody that later escape from prison custody after years of court adjournments. May we not be victim of alakoba.

Those of you who don't value your family members know will know their value in such circumstances. Respect your family members.

Everyone is entitle to his opinion, even if the opinion is nonsense. My interpretation of the particular section of the constitution quoted directly opposes the writers interpretation. At the end of the day the interpreter that is able to convince the judges about his interpretation will get the judgment. Perhaps he should have been consulted by the loosers so that he can represent them free of charge at the supreme Court since he is so passionate about only that section of the constitution to win the case.

Kobojunkie:
Storyland! Partnership is give and take yet you are the same person who typed up this storm below in your first response! I don talk am say una no dey learn at all!

The man is a multimillionaire courtesy of the wealthy people who became his business clients through the wife. The good luck of the wife didn't just start after she got her job; there is a way the woman reciprocates the man, even before she came to limelight that continue to encourage the man to do more. So it's about give and take. I once dated a lady who does not care about your feeling, and do whatever she likes, I later dump.. her.

The same woman could have left him after coming to lime light, but she did not, it's because she has been kind, loving and caring right from time. When a woman doesn't care, you see the sign, but you choose to overlook the signs. Marry only someone who cares and loves you just like you care for her and love. her

Kobojunkie:
Leave God's mention out of this ridiculousness abeg! Your mother's never belonged to your fathers though they may have chosen to burden your fathers with their existence as instructed mostly by society. No human being is the property of another human being.

2. If she too does not equally help you occasionally, it only means one thing, and that is that she has assigned you the role of her mugu and that will probably continue to be the case even after you marry her.

Why will you get married to someone who can't assist you when the need arises? You must have know her before marrying her that she is someone who cares for you. That is the main problem. Partnership is give and take. We must give and take together. If I am the only one giving, I can't marry you as my wife.

Kobojunkie:
Una no dey learn at all! The spear never truly ever belongs to you just the same way as you never truly ever belong to the spear. You two are simply marriage partners and that is all!

She does not belong to me: I paid her bride price, she lives in my house, we sleep & nack on the same bed almost every night, she cooks the food I eat everyday, gave birth to children together, and yet she isn't mine? Dey play my fans.

Kobojunkie:
Una no dey learn at all! The spear never truly ever belongs to you.

Just like our mother never belong to our father? And that means the word of God is false when it says the man and woman will become one. The fact that evil people appears much does not mean there are not good people. Study the person you're dating, and you will know whether the person is worth your care or not. The fact that I help her occasionally and vice versa, does not mean I am in charge of her responsibilities. Who's still in charge of GIRLFRIEND'S responsibility in this day and age?

LordIsaac:
UK men would have benefited from this counsel: “Don’t sharpen a spear that does not belong to you, because one day, it might be used on you!”😊

Perhaps before marriage, it wasn't his, but after marriage, the spears belong to him. Every children will leave their parent at sometime, and become one with their spouse. Because he or she is now your better half, she is now yours and can go ahead to sharpen it if we want.

The thing is that sometime, we can't control what others do with the gift we give them. I personally don't really care about what you do with what I give you, as long as it doesn't limit me, inconvenience me or stop my growth. You do evil, you see evil, you do good, you see good. What ever a man sow, he reaps. Even the person you help today, might be of great assistance to you tomorrow.

I know a man who was responsible for his girlfriend's school from Secondary School, they both live together even before marriage. The lady ends up being a first class student in higher institution. Now work in Sheveron, and married to the same man who Schooled her. And do you know the advantages the man enjoy from such woman? The man effortlessly has many millionaires as his client courtesy of the wife.

The fact that many people don't deserve this, doesn't mean that there are still special people Who deserves more. Let your spirit, mind & instinct guide you.

All this politicians are only good in talking but lacks action. Obasanjo that is busy dishing out advice and yet preserve the baddest and the most terriblest road in the whole wide world in his state, Ogun State, the ritualist enclave. Mr. Dapo Abiodun, better go and complete the left over roads of your predecessors so that your family name will be in the good books of your state men forever.

I lost my infinix hot 12i phone on Monday, can I easily track it without using d police? it still has easy buy app on it even though I have finished paying their money since 2022. that phone is my office, and iam already planning of getting another latest on Friday, because iam now getting sick because i dont have any android right now.

Proof of keeping any money with sugar mummy, or at least a witness, because the dead can't talk.

Already on d way to Appeal Court, why d victory chant?

Sew how reasonable humans are turning joke around. Una get whala o. And I think the said documentary should be about 1 year old or more than.

I have a similar experience, and that was my first date I fell in love with. She broke my heart and I went into depression when I realized that she is a strict street and hook up girl. One tiny small 23 years old girl secretly running the street with people that are even older than me as long as money is involve. When I see one of the gym instructors firing this tiny girl fear catch me.

But everytime I have sex with her and give her money, or send her money, I get work that bring multiple of the amount I give her.

I later had a dream about her that confirmed to me that the devil doesn't give you anything without collecting something in return. When I was about to officially break up with her. I had a dream about her about how she led me into a building where other guys were captive, and when I ran out of that dark building after realizing it is an evil place where two other guys were sleeping helplessly on the floor, they have removed my phone from my pocket and I only found the earpiece on me. I was mad in that dream because my phone contains all the contacts of my clients from where I earn my living. I traced the earpiece back into that building because it was connected to my phone. Immediately I entered the building I saw two small boys fighting for my phone. That was how I joined the two small boys fighting to collect my phone before waking up. If na real life, I would have eaten those children alive like a lion with the level of the anger in me in that dream.

Guess what happened the next day when I went to work, I forgot the same phone in two different places, once in a computer center, and another time in a court room, and each time I ran back after realizing the phone is not on me I found the phone where it was gently placed without anyone touching it. All the glory to God. I fast two times in a week then, and I pray regularly privately with my personal prayer points. That was why I think I have the grace to understand everything that happened then. Right now, my prayer life is almost 0 percent, fasting 0 percent. But I tried in reading the word of God regularly. I stopped the fasting due to ulcer.

God has bless me with another innocent fine girl now, and her own good luck self no be small,only when I give her money, that I see returns.

I still do see that other girl (my first date) occasionally previously after we broke up, but not with the mindset of entering a relationship with her, but on hook up level and business, until recently when she requested for big money after having sex with her. Give them their money o, make they no see any reason to tie you down spiritually and render you useless. *** those two guys were sleeping on the floor in a dark room in that my dream***, and I wonder what talent and destiny have been stolen away from them. Depression nearly finished me when I realized she was a hook up girl. If not for that dream I had that opened my eyes, I wondered what would have happened to me. Those girls as well might not know anything about what is going on with them.