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sylvalord:
[color=grey]Approaching a girl for the first time is a herculean task for me.. Someone please deliver me [/color]

no one is born knowing how to do somtin,we all learn to do it. The worst a gal can do is to say no, nutin more. Give it a trial, u might be good at it, u Neva can tell

Cheating

Toby30:
but wait o what if u confident and u nat jovial, lyk u nat close to being funny?
cus I no ladies also lyk it wen a dude is funny

yea its true ladies like funny guys. But its more than jux being funny. Be confident, strike a good intellectual Convo, smile and be relax. Not every guy is funny, jux know what u are good in and apply it.

emperorchedda:
Bad guy
The disadvantage of this is that you have to be prepared to walk with her to any distance she's going

if u truly want sometin, why u can go extra mile to get it I blive

jayyungg:
Nice one.

than bro

missjenna:
The key word here is "Confidence"
When ever a man walks up to me for the first time, the first thing I tend to notice is his level of confidence.
I hate it when a man is intimidated by me or shy to talk to me.

If a guy walks up to me and doesn't have the confidence to engage me in a healthy conversation, I won't even care to scrutinize his physical appearance or his intellectual strength. I would just excuse myself and walk out.

When you are confident, you can win the attention of any woman, even the queen.

yea true, am man has to be confident enough. Ladies admires confident guys.. Thanx for that

Cutehector:
Lol ds na one tin I just find it hard to do.

even the girls are praying for us to approach them bro. Life is beautiful, take chances, try new tins, breakthe rrules,jux talk to dem. Its beta to try and fail than not to try and still fail

Simba0806:
Thanks sir. Ur contact will be needed. She grew up in Michika and Mubi, but hails from Madagali. Margi by tribe. I'm grateful once more.

. U can contact me tro my mail--- "ishaqvandi@gmail.com"

Zi:
Ok, thanks. I ask because I'm a lady but I don't how it looks if I wear an engagement ring home and my parents "do not know the guy". Like officially. Sincerely, I don't know how it works, can you please explain further.

before he even propose, the man must have discussed it with his woman. They both knw there stand. As a lady, its more wiser for her to discuss this with her mum, get to hear her mums opinion abt it. If the parents agreed to it, then shikenan. Meeting parents is normally the next tin. Other guys however, will still propose formally to her,so s to put that ring on her finger.. Every guy has his way, but proposal/engagement/ discussion comes first, she accepts and then fix date for introduction/meeting parents/ paying bride price

In this short note, am gona show u how to walk up to a girl and confidently strike a convoy. I will be brief. When u walk up to a girl for the first time,there are 3 possible reactions from her.
× she might flatly reject u
× she might give a neutral kind of reaction
× she might give a frndly smile and be veri open to talking with u

She might reject u: when u walk up to a girl and she flatly rejects u o act indiffrntly, the best tin to do is to walk away. Wen someone ignores or disrespects u, jux walkaway. Don't try to force urslf on pple. Howeva, don't feel bad abt it coz u were trying to get what u want.

She gives a neutral kind of reaction: in this kind of scenario, she isn't veri open neither is she too mean. Alot of guys get discouraged wen d get a neutral reaction. Mostly, it is not a nega- one, she's jux surprised why u came to talk to her,she's trying to figure out why, what's going on. What u do is to simply tell her ur reason of coming to talk to her. Keeping talking in a relax, confident and playfully way. She will eventually start smiling and responding.

She gives a frndly smile n very open to talking to u: if she does that, it means everytin is kool and then keep going from there.

How do I go up to the lady I like for the first time? smile bro and maintain good eye contact. Be relax and confident, dont be nervous. First impressions are very important. You can go like this- hi am jesse(offer a handshake), i saw u from over there and i thought u are really cute, so decided to come say hi. U can also say, i see u around quiet often, am curious abt u so wanna come meet you, my name is jesse. Be relaxed, be lighthearted,be playfull and be confident, she will give u a chance.
Happy sunday ---my name is praxx

Zi:
Bro Happy Married Life in advance.

Pls I want to use this forum to ask: which comes first: proposal/engagement or meetings parents?

bro, I lady has to accept your proposal before you meet her parents. In other words, proposal/engagement comes first before meeting parent. "Where I come from"

am from michika l.g.a adamawa state. the tradition demands that after u proposed and the girl agreed to marry you, next step is introduction. ( your people will visit her people to ask for her hand in marriage. ask her what you need to bring and she will tell you). there you will agree on the date of the wedding, its not really much..... i will be following your tread closely incase u need somtin.. congrats man, michika ladies are the best, remember my words after your marriage

Are you from sambisa?

this is the reason why i said bokoharam is not the most challenging issue in this country

[email][/email][img][/img]... Has it gotten to this extend? If you ask me, I'll say Dr. GEJ is the most disrespected president in the world.. Irrespective of his bad governance, Nigerians should respect the fact that he is the number citizen of the country.

If she faints beside you, wake her up with water.. Let her knw that contacting your frnds or fainting does not change your decision. It happend to meonce. After i quited with her, she ffollowed me to where I normally hang out with my guys, creating a public drama by apologising and pleading so that my frnds can chip in. I confidently told her "why not you tell them what you did to me.. She couldn't answer and I told her right there that this doesn't change anytin, she is done with me... She still cries till date if she sees me.... Guy I moved on. All the best man

For the next 32 days after my wedding, I no go even wear trouser sef. Anywhere we jam, kitchen, market, corridor name wiping straight..

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Sweetmarriage:
Helo. I think married people have more experience in answering this question. I want to post your question on our facebook page, for more responses. On facebook search for Nigerian Papalette. But i need your permission first. Thanks.

. Permission granted

chidyhels:
End of quote

Marriage has finished
Any other thing na fanfare

will you then call it divorce if the marriage shwould be cancelled in November?

I need your opinion guys on this scenario. You are dating a girl and you proposed to marry her in June which she agreed. In august, you went for introduction, paid the bride and fullfill all that is required. the parents accepted you and you all agreed on the date for the marriage which will be in December. The question now is, is the girl married or not? If another guy happens to meet this lady in October and he has interest in her,will it be right to tell him she is married or not? Then again, if u said she is married but a situation comes that the marriage is cancelled in November, will it mean that she has been divorced? Remember also, the bible did not state that a pastor must ordained a man and woman in church before the are married.... What's your take on this

Most men will want to have almost everitin in place before the take a lady to the alter. B7t even before u ask him dos questions, his actions should tell you where u stand. Guys are not good in pretending, jux listening to the voice in his action

What about graduate assistant and assistant lecturers? From what I heard, a GA takes home abt 110,000 as monthly income while AL is abt 130,000. How true is this?

Please can you clarify me on the issue of 72 virgins in paradise?

Women need reason, men need place.. Quiet true

Nawawo