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oluwashedy:
He's been getting sexual gratification somewhere else that's why he was able to stay this long... Don't be deceived.

don jus knw

OLAJADON:
OK, but I hope you learnt something

a lot

toastedbread:
chei! no cry. i know how you feel.
what if he did it for you? the urge came and he didn't want to burst your hymen so he took the urge elsewhere.


i've heard married men say their side chicks are just for the rough/ experimental bangings. the slow and steady bangs are meant for madam.

it ain't enuf reason to hurt me

OLAJADON:
so what made him so special? was it his looks,humour or dress sense or maybe personality.
I guess it should be personality(just my own guess) now you know a guy having a attract or gentle personality doesn't guarantee he would be faith.
like I said before more of these type of guy will always come your way as long as you are pretty, they will see your like a quest that need to be conquered, you will see them like a potential lover that you think deserves your love.
And we guys are very good in reading and predicting behaviour when it comes to love story, you won't know what hit you till it hit you so just be careful and learn to guard your heart.

it wasn't all dat,we were in love,he just cope with staying for a year nd some months without sex

TheLordIsGr8:
You don't need that until you actually finish your clearance.
Don't be choosy when it comes to institution though. You're your own best teacher.
And in case you don't have a laptop yet, all your savings for now should be directed towards getting a medium end laptop.
Start now.


The internet is your best friend.

Check out my thread here: https://www.nairaland.com/3734856/finding-resources-free-learning

ok,thanks

toastedbread:
call him on the phone and get to know the reason, nothing more.
if he doesn't want to say it, let him be.
this way, you'll know how to prevent such from happening when you find yourself a better guy.

I can't call him,I myt end up crying on d fone nd if I try to hide it,my voice may betray me

OLAJADON:
you know the funniest part is this guy may love you, it is just that he can't put his urge in check.

yea I know he does,he cheated on me,he didn't even think about how I will feel,d shock was too much for me,can't go thru dat again,stroke is nt beans

TheLordIsGr8:
Anyway, my prayers are with you. Know that as a woman, your emotions are on the high side and that can be dangerous in this day and age.

How's business going? I sight u for back of counter taking one shot


You seldom use the NL emojis. Try it more often. Gives your comments a better flavour.

I think we've talked enough for today. Maybe next time or wen I'm in funtua soon. pm me if you'd like to meet.

hahaha,oya nah bye

OLAJADON:
the truth is you are a very pretty girl, girl like you will always be a potential victim to wolves in sheep clothing, your ex didn't cheat on you because you didn't give me sex, he cheated because that who he is even if you have agreed to sex there is still a probability that he will still look outside for a more pretty girls.
in fact to me, you were smart for not giving in to sex because if you had your loss could have been double and that could lead to depression
my advice is learn to guard your heart and don't fall for sweet word although i know it is hard for a girl not to fall for it now you know we guy can act just to achieve our desire aim.
Especially you that is very pretty, there is a probability that lot and lot of these kind of guys will always come your way.

I didn't fall for d sweet words I fell for him

TheLordIsGr8:
Good subject area you have chosen. I pray you gain admission soon.


So how often do you visit the NL programming section? I mean how are you preparing for an adventure in computer science?

tryna get d syllabus from a frnd in 300level

toastedbread:
since you related yourself to that addicted lady, i now see things from your pov.
please, hussain bolt far from anything that might lead to sex.
don't open that box yet.

yea,doing just dat

Equal2DeTask:
U better Use ur head...

ok

TheLordIsGr8:
You seem to know quite a lot for a virgin.

Never leave a guy with a bulge. That's a goal not scored. he will always return to the field.


Addicted? Movie? Hmmm. my dear I stopped learning from movies long ago. Reality is more brutal.

was tryna make u guys understand me wen I say my libido is high,dats y I used movie as example

ashewoboy:
my own question be say, you are the girl on the left or the girl on the right?@your dp. the girl on the left, my fantasy. if i catch her, i will fvck her. some girls fine sha. see beauty.@the girl on the left.

right

themonk:
you are 19, this post you made will look weird to you when you turn 21.

maybe

TheLordIsGr8:
twas just an observation.... maybe you shouldn't be using it if you aren't proud of it. Maybe not everyone will ask, but everyone sees it.

Anyway leave that matter jor. Na dat one make u dey vex? No worry, your next plate of nkwobi is on my wallet on na catfish peppersoup u prefer?. mah no hear say u no smile ooo.



So tell me. You already have admission? Cos I no understand wen u say na dem give you comp. sci.

I want know wetin u fill for your application form. If na comp. sci. then, why you choose that course?

my passion,nt yet,na dem give me d monicker oooooooo

toastedbread:
have you asked him why he couldn't keep his word?

we didn't have time for all dat,I walked out on dem

TheLordIsGr8:
Nope. she's overcome that temptation.

She said that all is permitted except penetration.

amen,I loved him nd it comes with sexual attraction,I couldn't help not kissing him,d sex part was an agreement, I knew it from d first day he touched me dat if he disvirgins me abstinence would b impossible,nd I didn't want to ruin my life dat way,its nt all about virginity but decency nd dignity,he was something else on bed,if we had sex,nd maybe breakup in future I myt become a freak,my libido is something else,I have my reasons for wanting to stay dis way till after marriage, if uve watched addicted u would understand me better, its nt easy but I thank God av nt started

Stevengerd:
Yh.I Thought As Much

y nd how

toastedbread:
a guy who wants to date you without sex, will do it, and not cheat on you.
it all depends on what the individual wants.


a guy will keep to his word (sex free relationship) but the lady will be secretly banging another guy. one week to her wedding, she'll say someone raped her.


no guy wants to pass through this painful process again.

he knew I loved him,he knew I was ready to keep it for him,he knew I was for real,he just couldn't stay dat long without sex

TheLordIsGr8:
I no understand.

Dem give you? who be dem wen give u? U don get admission already?

If not, I mean, wen u dey fill your form wetin u put as your first choice course and which school?


Abi na JAMB now dey tell person wetin im go study for school?

u talked about monicker, y all dis nw

cruchenuti:
Wait, so you were everything else except for penetration ?

You are already a 2nd hand virgin.

i said he promised,we only kissed intimacy wasn't deep,he wouldn't want to b left with a bulge in his.......,second handmaybe yes but I thank God it was only with one man

TheLordIsGr8:
If you want see her go for main market Onitsha....not sure about Onitsha sha......but she's very likely in the east.

So your journey still far well well.

Lols

Stevengerd:
Uwc. Do U Base In Lag

no,katsina

TheLordIsGr8:
Good choice. So why did you decide on that.


But wait oooo. This your moniker....y d 69? na d year wen dem born u? just askin ooo

na wetin dem give me

TheLordIsGr8:
Sure. If u get alomo for that shop, make u try one. u go dey alright.
na joke i dey oooo

Lols, hw u take knw wetin dey we dey sell

TheLordIsGr8:
Never mind.

I'd like to ask, how did you make your course choices in the forms you filled for JAMB?

comp.sci

TheLordIsGr8:
Okay. Fair enough. Make we no fight.

You're a fiery lady. Keep it up.

fightnot so my thing,nt in my best mood

TheLordIsGr8:
Mr man am doing all dat ok??

This was. I bet you wrote that in a fit of rage..... like why this man wan dey form scholar for me. e wan try tell me say I no serious for life or wetin. And that small girl part really got you. No young woman coming of age wants to be addressed that way. I know.

Chai!!! u don derail your thread. anyway, e no too get life again sha

derail? how?

TheLordIsGr8:
Mr man am doing all dat ok??

This was. I bet you wrote that in a fit of rage..... like why this man wan dey form scholar for me. e wan try tell me say I no serious for life or wetin. And that small girl part really got you. No young woman coming of age wants to be addressed that way. I know.

it has ntin to do with d small girl part,am small,check up for d meaning of disrespect,he shouldn't conclude on me,its nt like he knows anything about me,or dat wen u r in a relationship u drop other responsibility, am young but am nt stupid,I made a mistake,abi dey tell d guy say hu dey in love no get priorities??

TheLordIsGr8:
The way u dey presh phn dey sell market so. Na good time to patronize u oooo. Cos I fit give u #100 and you go give me #1000 as change...

Please try to see the brighter side of life. It's worth living, even in our down times. That no mean say make u go dey shack star ooo. Aka m adiihokwa ya.

e no reach where money dey oo,

TheLordIsGr8:
Come on man. Take it easy on the girl.
Matters of the heart are not easily wished away.

Besides, at 19, she's no longer a small girl. Innocent? Yes. But small girl? No. Yes she may have made a bad decision, but you and I know how trusting an innocent heart could be. We all make bad decisions. All that is required is that we learn from it.

But you preccy... try and show some respect please. Please I'm not about to get into a fight over this, but two wrongs seldom make a right.

some respect?? was I disrespectful??