₦airaland Forum

Bahddo:
how do you know you loved him?

lyk seriously

1234IKECHhukwu:
No I don't think we are saying the same thing, my question still remains what of when she is now ready for marriage & she is unable to find a suitor what becomes of her b/cos I can see in ur post when u were advising when she is ready for marriage she can now go for a relationship,for ur info things don't happen that way,u need a man to ask u for a relationship at his own will not b/cos u now ready a man 'll come & ask u for a relationship & ur hand in marriage, no things are not done that way. the guy in question agreed to the terms b/cos he thought he could bear the urge but along the line he couldn't hold it any more, well I don't blame him b/cos he's a human with hormones & who equally has blood & water running through him.

nd am metal or wood

Headlesschicken:
are you a virgin? if you r nt ready 4sex den u gotta learn how to stay on yuh own,or Berra still learn ow to gv head or do @nal... my humble advice that's if yuh a virgin tho,buh if u ain't then stop decieving yuhself... No one falls 4dt oath sh!t anymore..

I thank God I didn't try d oath or even sex,its d reason I don't want to start naw

dingbang:
be careful of such guys... They are only pretenders

Lols y nah

smardray:
He could jst have left even when u had offered him sex.... Darling get on with good life

its d reason I can't start having sex now

Rukkydelta:
@Preccy69
I will advise you not to be involve in a relationship if you are not ready to have sex cos most guys of these days can't do without it females too. When you know you are ready for marriage or close to the age you want to get married then you can date. Even for you to be in a relationship is not advisable cause you may not be able to overcome the temptation cos you can't love someone without getting sexually attracted to them. From a kiss, it will lead to body touches before you can say jack sex has happened
If you want to stay celibate still marriage stay away from relationships for now

ok,thanks,I was very conscious, I thank God

Dominicah:
You don't need a boyfriend yet. Wait till you are ready for marriage since you don't want to have sex.

ok dear

jworos:
The relationship was too dry for him, he needs a wet one.
But there's other ways to satisfy a man apart from s3x.

he still wanted sex

gmajor10:
You're 19, you better things to think about. Concentrate on making yourself a better person, and when the time is nigh right guy will fall into place.

thanks,working on dat already

Dudeweedlmao:
Please be realistic, you are in the 21st century for fxcks sake. Don't date if you know you are not ready. Sweet text message and sweet words are simply not enough. I'm not sorry he cheated on you. He did you a favor.

he shouldn't have lied about waiting

Bahddo:
You aren't ready to get married... You aren't ready to have sex...

What do you think a relationship is for? Exchanging movies and writing love poems? Save yourself the headache.

av already done dat, its not all about sex,I loved him

MrBrownJay1:
As much as he did wrong by CHEATING, you should take some of the blame as well...
There are MANY ways to satisfy your man, without losing your hymen..... Next time, use everything god gave you to satisfy his lust: tittays, hand, mouth, feet or even bootay hole.

yea all dat happened, he was just being him

dapizy02:
Its gonna be Legen............wait for it























Dary.............

Dear just know that all men are not d same.
Sex after marriage sounds lame to me( my opinion)....just to be clear
Ask him what he really wants in that relationship......

its obvious already

dingbang:
Preccy you need to relax... If you don't want sex then stay out of relationships especially in this modern age...you can't expect a 24year old guy who is so high in his prime to be celibate for a long period of time .. Things don't work that way...



I suggest you stay out of relationships for a while. And please when going into a new relationship, always keep an open mind, else you would be left heartbroken

but he knew it would hurt,he told me he would wait,he made me bliv he loved me wen it was all lies, even wen I knew keeping it wunt b easy he promised he would help,he would satisfy my urge but neva demand penetration,I was stupid all dis while bliving he would wait for a girl dat gives him nothing

Xway:
My dear sex has killed this generation, everything to them is alk about sex.
I just love being alone.
I have seen were a girl is just insulting her boyfriend for not approving her sex appeal.

I will cherish and care for any girl that kept the hymen in between her legs forever.
Because that's will be the highest gift i can't receive from her.
Though virginity is not the bases for marriage, but personalities defers.
I respect mine.

Incase u think otherwise, I will not need any quote from you.

thanks dear for ur contribution

I don't knw hw to start,ok
am just 19,we've been dating for a year nd six months now,we r crazily in love,I think I love him more,recently he's been acting strange no love texts messages,kisses, nd all d things he used to do,I miss d man I fell in love with, he's changed everything about him,so I went to see him on Saturday, nd he was on bed with another girl,he didn't even notice dat I opened door till I shut,den he came after me,he's 24,up to dis moment I can't bliv he cheated on me truth is we r nt having sex I asked if he could wait till after marriage nd he was cool with it,I confronted him nd all he could say was how long was I expecting him to stay,without sex,guys is it fair??u have a girl dat loves nd respects u,cares for u,its nt like he even asked me for it,I feel so hurt,he's been banging her for months nw,but is it all about d sex u guys getis itu myt b thinking dat it has to do with money but its doesn't I just wanted to b happy with him,dats all,we were close to taking an oath last year,but cos of his exams he couldn't come,he later convinced me to drop d idea my question is, are their good guys,is it all about a pair of legs dat spread

wow grown up kids,but which of those ladies is d mum

so because some idiots on nairaland thinks she isn't beautiful make she no sueif she isn't dey won't use or steal her pics,if na me ehn 97 is even small,her life could b in danger,some guys may kidnap her and ask for ransom thinking dat she has too much money from wot wema paid her,another premium olosho fit carry her pics. go meet baba just to take over an imaginary position, nd her family will b expecting big thinking she's very rich

madjnr:
I met a gal with that same pic on 2go and a different gal on fb... They both claim to be the same person

person on d ryt is kirachaana,am d girl on d left,many ppl claim to b kirachaana but she only has an IG acc

Scatterscatter:
From anywhere in the world, take a bus to Lagos (Oshodi) then take another one going to ikeja, - iyana ipaja - you will see a roundabout, take your right then turn left, you will now go doooooooooowwwwwwwnnnnnnn then turn left again. Then look straight, you will see my house.

transport fare

Scatterscatter:
Goat..
I am in my house, come and beat me

transport nd address pls

with the child's expression on d first pic,e go soon turn meme trust Nigerians

madjnr:
are you the one on your dp

yes

madjnr:
are you the one on your dp

no,my mum

goncratutalions in,after stealing his destiny,at least dey no steal his p***k

26andsearching:
To which level na

I can't claim wat am not

Am just trying to be myself​

did u involve sex??or initiate it,most women love money,nd most men sex,dey work hand in hand,k weve been dating for a year nd 3months,we r in love,he didn't come for my body nd am nt here for his money,sex just happens he doesn't have to ask for it,same with money I don't ask for it ,but if he feels my hairdo is old,or shoes,undies,nd stuff he buys dem himself,yea he knws my size, or would just pick d hairstyle he wants to c on me,if a girl loves u she doesn't care if u r broke, nd if she doesn't love u she would still leave ur rich ass for a lesser guy she loves

Chiefly:
Abeegi..

ok

LordOfSamosa:
Be giving yourself hope

thanks,better fan having low self-esteem

verygudbadguy:
Hahaha.. Are you new on NL?

Comment with a fast-type like "ok" first. You then go back to modify...

yea,ok,thanks dear

ElDaIllest:
awwwnn so cute but last time I tried to be romantic was on val day when I changed my curtain to red and bedsheet too and lit red candles with roses olova my room,touched with a little insence my Enugu bae ran away,thinking I want to use her for ritual

even with d roses??

ElDaIllest:
I know you'd like it,wussup? You and calling names though...is dat wot ur bf go tru everyday

he loves it dats hw we play,he calls me anything nd I revenge, we even play harmless pranks on each other

ElDaIllest:
As I was driving I nearly collided with the trailer in front of me when I saw those pix,so I had to park my Keke Napep well to view them

Lols, mad man d song tho