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MissRaine69:learn to interact without using provocative words. you didn't quote me but I'm just advising you.. |
achillesfoot:are you normal? |
lefulefu:nawah.. your life, your choice... |
what kinda useless love is this? |
afroxyz:#fact |
makydebbie:Debo who are you rooting for? |
sage101:lol... i pity anybody who takes you seriously on this thread . |
makydebbie:the heat in that section eh... plus too much fake people... Antibrutus what about you? |
Balitah:believe me.. tobi only became popular after he begged Cee C for 3hours. that was when he started having fans.. |
sage101:weytin concern BBN with feminism ![]() is this the right place to preach about feminism? why don't you organize seminars for women and teach them the importance of feminism there? it seems naija ladies only become feminists when the trend isn't pleasing them. when it comes to equal gender responsibility now all of them will start speaking in parables and denying feminism ![]() |
The truth is anybody who thinks Tobi has more fans than Cee C and can top her is only disgracing him/herself. No amount of magic or juju can make Cee C lose to Tobi. I'm not talking from a bias form of view, because I'm not her supporter.. I only support miracle. let's say if it was only tobi and cee c that are going to be voted for in the finals it'd surely be this way Cee c 65% Tobi 35% most fans were drawn to Cee C because of the hatred people had for her, her tribe, because she's a lady and because she's not fake to them. while miracle on the other hand attracted many fans because of his sex and romance game, his behaviour, the way he interacts with other house mates, he's a combination of real and fake and also classy to them. miracle started losing fans when he stopped his sex and romance game with Nina. trust me, Tobi started having fans only after his 3hours long begging of Cee C. whatever way you think though. |
makydebbie:I've quitted romance section oh ![]() you go still go dere? |
sage101:weytin concern feminism with BBN? some people though.. they don't talk about feminism at the appropriate time and at the appropriate place. |
The truth is anybody who thinks Tobi has more fans than Cee C and can top her is only disgracing him/herself. No amount of magic or juju can make Cee C lose to Tobi. I'm not talking from a bias form of view, because I'm not her supporter.. I only support miracle. let's say if it was only tobi and cee c that are going to be voted for in the finals it'd surely be this way Cee c 65% Tobi 35% most fans were drawn to Cee C because of the hatred people had for her, her tribe, because she's a lady and because she's not fake to them. while miracle on the other hand attracted many fans because of his sex and romance game, his behaviour, the way he interacts with other house mates, he's a combination of real and fake and also classy to them. miracle started losing fans when he stopped his sex and romance game with Nina. trust me, Tobi started having fans only after his 3hours long begging of Cee C. whatever way you think though. |
IsYou:lol.. I can't beef someone I don't even know in reality. he thought he was taking shots at me. lol I got hitted with nothing. like why insult someone who cares less about your existence? some kids though. |
CAPSLOCKED:my target is for anybody who's interested in only rich people whether rich or poor.. longtime tho |
Alennsar:there's nothing bad about that. women don't want to do hard work. some men don't want to do hard work. so my post is targeted at those categories of people. |
officially unfollows this thread.. you ain't worth my time, last time I'm gonna reply your stupid mentions. |
UDUJ:man, why don't you show me a pic of your home? fake ass scumbag. shey, I'm using Nokia torch to browse? mehn.. pass out ES-350 this and that, it's the fact that you're so pained and obsessed, you can't afford one with your legal shít but you forming middle class when you're actually poor class. stop mentioning me, it'd be better if you channel that energy into doubling your hustle. |
UDUJ:you lack sense.. ranting on nairaland won't make you my mate in any level. double your hustle and grow up. |
highpriestess:just like your dad has shít for brain . pass on |
OBAMAKILLOSAMA:lols.. because of a TV Show you're insulting me when I didn't even mention you. well have a nice day. |
solasoulmusic:pass on please. my daughter can never be poor. poor people aren't supposed to go into relationships |
SnowJay92:when you were making the money.. where were the others? |
Ladyhippolyta88:realistic and diplomatic comment |
Martinez19:100% right. |
his siblings only |
noxybabe:Dominique is a big fan of Tobi... |
shimmer1:nawaho ![]() |
UDUJ:weyrey that's 2009 model not 2007 model.. mofo |
UDUJ:UDUJ you're a hungry man. go 'double your hustle and stop ranting on nairaland. since my skin is so bad why don't you upload your pic so we can see your ugly wretched face? mehn. this nigga think he's actually throwing some shots at me. you're just a hungry broke "slimeball". retrace your steps,. I don't give a damn about your existence |
At some point along the way of psychotherapy, I usually ask my patients what they want to achieve in their lives. Very commonly, they reply that, among other things, they would like to be married. Only on very rare occasions, do they tell me they want to marry someone who is rich. I find that surprising. Much of romantic fiction tells of a poor man or woman (usually a woman) who marries a very rich person and then leads an exciting and adventuresome life. Thousands of people buy a lottery ticket every day with daydreams of suddenly becoming rich. They have fantasies of how much better life would be for them if only they were rich. Wouldn’t marrying a rich person be like winning the lottery? The odds of marrying a rich person are much better (if you go about it properly) than that of winning a lottery. And yet patients rarely ask me what they need to do to marry someone who is rich. Personally, I am not very impressed about the advantages of being rich, but there are some advantages. You can buy an expensive automobile, which impresses some people. You can buy a house, or two houses, if you a really rich. You can buy single malt whiskey and caviar, which are things some people like a lot. You can go on vacations where you can watch polar bears mate or see penguins walking around. You can buy a helicopter ride. (They are very expensive.) You can go to a different restaurant every day. You can afford to eat very strange foods, like nightingale tongues. You can eat as much ice cream as you could ever want, different flavors one after the other. You could buy all those things they advertise in The New Yorker, like fur coats and jewelry. But being rich does not automatically say SUCCESS to others, or VICTORY, or any other valuable or admirable quality of mind. My mother used to tell me when I was very young and impressionable that “it’s just as easy to marry someone who is rich.” Plainly, that is not correct. There are fewer rich people than poor people. And there are still fewer very, very rich people. Still, some people manage it—some without even trying! Like anything else worth doing, however, a steadfast effort is more likely to lead to success. For those few patients who want to marry a really rich person (they say), this is the advice I give: HANG OUT IN THOSE PLACES WHERE VERY RICH PEOPLE HANG OUT! Here in Westchester County I recommend taking boating lessons at one of the very selective yachting clubs. (Being selective means that you can’t join, but you can still sign up for lessons.) Even if you are sort-of ugly, you will learn how to sail a boat, which is probably enjoyable. (I wouldn’t know.) Besides, as I have said over and over in these blogs, being sort-of ugly does not mean you cannot appeal to very desirable people. It is a matter of personality, being joyful, for instance. Besides, if you are sort-of ugly now, it doesn’t mean you are doomed to be ugly forever. It is a matter of sprucing up properly. I also recommend attending fund-raisers for charitable causes. The less familiar the cause is—like Ethiopian orphans, for instance—the more likely it is that the people invited will be very, very rich. These very, very rich people take pride in supporting charities that no one else has ever heard of. It is a little like driving a Duesenberg. When you meet someone at one of these soirees (a really fancy party), you do not have to pretend to be rich yourself. What is important is that you should be impressed by someone who is rich—which comes naturally to someone who wants to marry someone who is rich. However, you might want to stop long enough to ask yourself whether you want to spend much of your future dealing with Ethiopian orphans, and the like. This brings up the subject of the disadvantages of being REALLY, REALLY rich, which I have written about in other blogs. I have given this advice to two or three women over the years. (Some men may very well want to marry a rich woman, but, I think, they are less likely to admit it.) AND THESE WOMEN HAVE NOT TAKEN MY ADVICE! In fact, as far as I could tell, they were not willing to go out of their way to marry a rich man any more than certain other single women are willing to go out of their way to meet any single men, rich or not. One of these women who pretended to want to marry a rich guy married a man who worked in a carpet store. I don’t remember who the other women married, but their husbands were not memorable as far as their income went, or in any other way. Why would someone pretend to aspire to be rich and then refuse to do anything that would make such an outcome possible? Habit. As a therapist I spend much of my time trying to convince patients to try to do whatever they do a little differently. After all, what they are doing is not working; otherwise they would not have come to therapy in the first place. It is a difficult task. Convincing someone to take boating lessons, for instance, is very hard when that person cannot imagine herself taking boating lessons. So, I try by explaining to make the unthinkable thinkable. People who want to marry someone really rich (or who want to win the lottery) want what they want without having to make a real effort to get it. And so they give up too easily. (Not the people who buy lottery tickets.) Also, I think that deep down, they may not be truly optimistic about the advantages of being really, really rich. That’s my guess, anyway. |
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