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Codebrain33243:
hmm

true?

nwanneni:
you really have esteem and anger issues.
Slow down!before you destroy yourself

nothing annoys me more than useless allegations that temper with my personality.

only useless and broke people create social media account and set them to female gender when they're male.

and one was saying i want to scam nairalanders


who get money when I won scam for nairaland

weytin happen to UK and USA women

Mandrake007:
No,relationships are no poverty alleviation schemes and secondly I'm not your daddy..

To the weak men out there,please stop the financial doping of jobless ladies,you're the ones giving them the audacity to feel entitled and judge other men by same standards when they fail to meet up.

when I tell Nigerian guys to stop dating broke ladies, the sex starved ones won't hear word.
later they'll start wailing and creating useless threads..

off to work

You guys should stop creating this kinda threads abeg..
stop dating broke ladies, you people won't hear word.
later you people will start wailing and creating nonsense threads... off to work

Ritaze12:
A house, a car, a stable source of income enough money to feed and cater for himself and his family. This is the basic requirement. But for me plus the basics, he should be financially buoyant enough to be able to afford occasional vacations abroad and fun outings at nice venues.

when I tell Nigerian guys stop dating broke ladies, sex starved bastards won't agree..

all those stuffs you listed... do you have a house, car, a stable source of income?

This is very crucial ,you know

Do men only pay ex wives when children are involved?
I'm asking about Nigeria okay.

And the Child Support matter shouldn't the man be allowed to pay any amount he deems fit?
what'll happen if the man refuses to pay the child support?

what if he travels out from the country?



I need answers please

CAPSLOCKED:

should they be broken?

ifex370:
A guy will always remember every penny you spent on him...


But a woman will forget, the very next second...


Plus women feel its their right to extort guy's, so they get angry when a guy doesn't give them anything...


Thank God things are changing

I'm not saying nobody should help them financially.

you can but that should be if you two are engaged or married.

Halfpenny:
Because he knows he's a hypocrite

I'm not

donstan18:
@Embolden, I didn't ask to know people you'v been subbing for?


Back to the point.


Are you saying a guy should not help a lady financially, if YES

Why?

Help them only when you're engaged or married to them

Shaybebaby I thought you've quitted nairaland, it's been a while

still keeping those words?

Lalas247:
Congrats!

See ya

✌

Lalas247:
Kai

yes.. haven't you encountered such?

Ritaze12:
If you love someone and they are in need financially help them. If you have money and you think spending it on a woman you like will make her find you more attractive then spend it. If you gat the money, flaunt it.

"spending it on a woman "
who made you a woman when you're not married

my friend, trying to help a lady who's not engaged or married to you is morally and intellectually wrong.

donstan18:
Is it right for a guy to help his fellow guy financially when they are not married?

yes.
I can't allow a fellow guy wallow in pains because he doesn't have a hole.

I sub for almost 17 of my male friends every month.
can't do that for a lady

Lalas247:
Gbam !
See why I love your mentality lol sometimes
Just go to uni lag .. some are more obsessed with Brazilian hair ! Makeup! If you ask them what course one will say sociology ! I’m like ok what’s your future career they don’t know .. just going to uni for the sake of wasting money and forming slay queen yet no ambition

you see in the West from 16 if you don’t want to study then go and work! Some do apprenteship courses and get paid while they learn a skill


Fashion , baking, cooking, even small nursing jobs , admin . Here you may not go to university but be earning more than someone with masters degree and PhD #fact that’s why education is not for everyone but African mentality makes it by force.

at least the guys are trying but as for the ladies, most of them are doing it to impress people

They don't attend universities to use their degrees for any meaningful stuff.

The only thing they care about is how to look attractive, many of them like living fake lives.

imagine a girl using iPhone 7 ,but she can't afford a generator at her apartment

The main focus of most Nigerian girls these days is marriage.

Lalas247:
Lol just wanted to show you sometimes the keypad has a mind of its own
...
No worries

yours was intentional

you guys have been using auto correct as an excuse since 2010,


I'm engaged now too, accord me some respect of a married man

.

Lalas247:
You didn’t leave space ....

you went to check my posts just to find an error?

well auto correct did that, I don't intentionally type blunders

Lalas247:
No Hun, it’s very wrong .. we have established the girl is dumb and has no brain so it’s only her pussy she has left ..

They are both wrong but the lecturer as and older guy and more matured should know better .. if na me I send letter home to her parents to let them know this is what they have been wasting their money on ..

Some girls can’t learn .. they should learn a trade .

That's the absolute truth. Most girls attending universities these days are unintelligent, they don't even have future ambitions as to what to do with the degrees they're going to acquire.

young man don't ever help a lady.. help your male friends instead

Lalas247:
Nothing to work on .. it’s clearly I typo ( mr perfect ) .. added extra o instead of lose

Miss Ukwulicious do you think it's right for a female student to approach a lecturer for sex, just for good grades?

Lalas247:
Stfu !

Who has more to loose the girl or the married man ?
So what if she is dumb .. education is not for everyone no matter how many lessons or how hard they try ...
He should know better ! They know these small girls are desperate so they play on that to get their grimes deeks wet ... look at his face mtcheew ..

work on your English before you spill your sentimental shíts.

juliusnobisugo:
..

Would you utter those same words if she is ur junior sis
please let's stop commenting nonsense for cheap likes

stop saying this trash to gain sympathy
if your sister isn't intelligent and she approaches a lecturer for sex just for good grades,

will you blame the lecturer or the girl

such sentimental and hypocrital beings on nairaland

MissRaine69:
Suffer the consequences.......
Even under pressure and frustration you could have said no but you wanted to punish your ex because he was taking his time and you were impatient. Well this is what happens to impatient women. You made your bed lie in it.
As for your ex some men want what they suddenly can’t have or there is the real reality that he wants you because he sees you as an opportunity to leave the country just like you did. ( that’s if you left) Don’t think for a minute he will stay with you if he does. You madam are now a means of an end nothing more!

If his parents did not approve of you then they certainly have very valid reasons to absolutely not approve of you now have you thought about it?

Should have stayed single ........while you sorted your self and your head out now. You can’t jump in and out of relationships and expect no consequences. This man (husband) has the right to ask for all he has paid for you to be returned. I feel sorry for your husband.

I used to think that things like this only happen in nollywood movies.. imagine the disgrace, was she dragged like a goat to the alter?

this story is fake though, anybody who believes this crap is living in fantasy.

lemme go back to sleep abeg, 40% of stories like this posted on nairaland are fake

fake story.. I don't understand how some people actually believed this crap

senatordave1:
For where na?

feeling sleepy abeg

When will you sleep off?

goodnight,,

Dave you don't want to join me

Akthedream112:
OLD MAMA YOUNGI DONT KNOW HOW TO TRASH POST... LOLOLOLOL
DONT BE PAINED MADAM MARRIED MODERATOR.LETS TAKE IT SLOWLYLIKE THIS


THE REAL MAD BITCH IS A KONGILIZED SUPPOSEDLY MARRIED WOMAN,WHO WAKES UP IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT TO HIDE POSTS AND BAN PEOPLE. KIKIKIKI..
DONT YOU THINK IT IS HIGH TIME YOU VISITED TB JOSHUA FOR DELIVERANCE?

NA MARKET YOU DON DEY ENTER AGAIN SO OOO.... WHAR DO YOU THINK?

... .....

zicoraads:
Oh, I knew your moniker was familiar

I'm supporting CeeCee as well. Strong and wilful.

You?

miracle my man.. I can't leave him to support a female

highqueen:
lol,not atall.
I never reach 24 oo.

I need those dolls.

hmm... u Neva reach 24?

Goodnight tho
feeling sleepy