₦airaland Forum

Ladyhippolyta88:
Check the thread I also commented and some people also gave some nice advice and not everyone insulted you.
I must say some still had the Africa mentality.

CecyAdrian:
Its not. Those kids have been introduced to a certain life

mfm04622:
She is the daughter of Bolori. Go and goggle the name! She is not poor and doesn't need poverty alleviation. I believe she want the dad to be responsible for the upkeep of the kids. Have you asked the school they are attending and how much it cost?

DrinkLimca:
sorry to burst Your bubble..
ladies with the mentality of man must provide are the ones with poverty mentality..
No offence to you..
But I've dated rick ladies, all my exes are from rich homes and all my female friends offline are rich and are from very rich homes so i know how they reason..

A rich lady and a real classy lady that makes her own money or that comes from wealthy homes, can not be bothered about depending on a guy to provide for her..

I know a guy must have something doing that brings money but a real rich lady takes a guy from level one to a higher level..
If the guy is loyal and they are both in love..

I've seen things mehnn..

I know a rich girl by the way she comments.

DrinkLimca:
sorry to burst Your bubble..
ladies with the mentality of man must provide are the ones with poverty mentality..
No offence to you..
But I've dated rick ladies, all my exes are from rich homes and all my female friends offline are rich and are from very rich homes so i know how they reason..

A rich lady and a real classy lady that makes her own money or that comes from wealthy homes, can not be bothered about depending on a guy to provide for her..

I know a guy must have something doing that brings money but a real rich lady takes a guy from level one to a higher level..
If the guy is loyal and they are both in love..

I've seen things mehnn..

I know a rich girl by the way she comments.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I love your responses you and Capslocked you seem not to belong to the societal bandwagon and stereotypes you both seem to be less egoistic.Carry on prech.

Safiaa:
Lool talk what you want to talk. Nonsense.
Empty vessel, go and sit down in your madams house and stop typing trash in my mentions. Silly houseboy. Trash.

Chikita66:
I want to know your personal achievements not your fiancée or your parents' own.


Finally, a man should be a man. Don't take it personal, just advising you.

Safiaa:
Darling I’ve made money and I’m still making it. Fortunately I’m with someone who matches my spec. Unfortunately for you though, you do not even match halfway to your current fiancé, that’s why you’re comfortably living as the houseboy in that house. Why not take your advice, find your match and date your age mate. Nuisance.

Chikita66:
Any guy that won't hustle for his own money but would prefer to marry a woman older than him at a very young age is a disgrace to men.

greiboy:
hold up hold up

Someone dash a nigga money on his birthday and here I was soaking garri on mine

Safiaa:
who’s taking it very personal Lool, I used it as an example love I sincerely don’t care about you. Carry on living your sugarboy lifestyle, live your life and save that money please. Goodluck lool

DonPiiko:
Yeah but from your analogy, you want to dump the whole responsibility on the male dude, for you that's fine but to me I see it as a huge deficiency, both parties have to bring something to the table, I can't date someone with an entitlement mindset and no potentials. But you may see it differently I don't intend to change your opinion dear. Peace

Safiaa:
Theyre exceptions that will most likely never ever happen. They’re exceptions to every argument hun. So to conclude a man should never live in a woman’s house

Dpussyhunter:
oh! you 24?................cool


thats how old my younger sis is


enjoy ur evening..........boy!

Divay22:
Oya leave us alone na

zicoraads:
Yes.

zicoraads:
Ehen, so are you voting for her?

Opentokwowledge:
I've not met those.

greiboy:
75% of ladies I have ever dated or asked out where still living with their parents or legal guardian or just guardian as the time of my pursuit or our relationships. it is totally unavoidable in Nigeria.

Opentokwowledge:
No one is going to do the survival for one nah. One just have to be realistic and apply sense in everything! Me like yo mentality!

MissRaine69:
Small sacrifices ...some of the most successful women inter world married late
Because of their career it takes a special kind of African man to take a back seat and it has to be an even more extraordinary Black Nigerian man to support his wife and let her flourish!
While he he is in the background

Nasri100:
Deeply sorry for derailing the thread.

She has a job and also got her own business (bakes cake and other pastry stuffs)


I was just saying their marriage would fit the bill if both sides were earning money.

I made an example of myself. I earn over 50k monthly. Small right? Why I decided to embrace celibacy for now. It’s painful being 22 and not able to have fun and bang ladies but the present economy of Nigeria has made ladies desperate for cash.


Rather save my cash than give any woman my money at the moment. Cause I can’t take care of any woman. Women are expensive.

So yeah if a woman doesn’t have a job, we can’t date.

Cc @Theupsetgirl

Opentokwowledge:
Different strokes for different folks.

MissRaine69:
"Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you're wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore."