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|Politics / Re: Feyisetan Wife And Janet Olusola Graduate With Masters Degree From EKSU by Precious111(f): 10:19am On Jun 24, 2018|
Congratulations to the wife of Governor Fayose and wife to his deputy, Proffesor Eleka
|Education / Re: The medical students and aspirants thread by Precious111(f): 6:07pm On Jun 10, 2018|
@bolded it's still on
|Food / Re: New Whatsapp Group For Chefs (already In The Industry Or Intending To) by Precious111(f): 6:33pm On May 12, 2018|
[quote author=JayJustus post=44772579]heyyyyyyyy guys!! I've been closely watching this food section especially the thread about posting the food you cooked each day,
PLS add up 08143851801
|Politics / Re: Meet Deji Ogunsakin, Kolapo Olusola Eleka's Running Mate by Precious111(f): 6:38pm On May 11, 2018|
This is annoying,
This is another 16-0 Na PDP go win this election.
Ikere people can never vote an Ado person so it's PDP all the way...
But I just wish PDP won't win cos EKiti will be in the hands of FAYOSE again...
|Romance / Re: I Sacrificed 7 Years Of My Life But My Husband Is Crushing My Dreams by Precious111(f): 9:14pm On May 08, 2018|
the beginning of good things for me and my family. When I got home and told my husband about the offer,I was not prepared to hear what he had to say. My husband bluntly refused that I should accept the job offer. In fact,he was very angry about it. This is because,the job is in Abuja. Yes,that means,I would have to relocate to Abuja from Lagos. My husband said he cannot allow me to move to a different state apart from him. He also refused the idea that the children would come and stay with me cos the company already provided accommodation.
I couldn’t believe my husband. Here I was very happy that things were going to change for better for us but he just crushed my joy. His reasons for refusing is completely beyond me. He said: if I move to Abuja,I would be exposed to bad influence and maybe start cheating. He also said,If I leave him alone in Lagos,I am exposing him to the risk of other women too. Wow,I think he is just trying to blackmail me from taking the job cos he knows I will never cheat on him. What I don’t know is if I go,if he will cheat on me.
I also feel that he is jealous of the fact that I am moving forward in life,way better than him. But shouldn’t he be happy for me cos promotion in life for me is promotion for my family as well. I told him point blank that I am taking the job. I have suffered for seven years,living below standards. My children deserve a better life. I deserve a better life. I suggested to him that he should come with us and also find a job in Abuja. At least,my new salary can sustain us until he finds a job for himself.He also refused. In his response,he said,ok,do whatever you like,but don’t say I didn’t warn you in case you loose your marriage. Why cant he be happy for me,why cant he just support me for once in my life? I very disturbed by this. My parents of course supported my moving to Abuja.
The offer is effective from the 1st of June 2018. I need prayers and advice on this matter. I have sacrificed seven years for my family,my husband,why cant he do the same for me?How do I make my husband see reason with me? Or should I forget about the job? This is a one time opportunity to good to loose. I am so confused,please guide me.
|Romance / Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by Precious111(f): 4:34pm On Apr 19, 2018|
|Romance / Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by Precious111(f): 4:18pm On Apr 19, 2018|
Can you plz read my message well where I said Traditional wedding is the marriage itself
|Romance / Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by Precious111(f): 12:22pm On Apr 19, 2018|
There's absolutely nothing wrong with it, In fact no church will wed you without payment of Bride price because that's the marriage itself, but if you want to get married in church adhere to the rules of the church you want to get married in.
"White wedding is feeding of people who aren't hungry, and impressing people who are not seeing you."
|Travel / Re: Is This A True Reflection Of Ado-Ekiti Roads, Ekiti State? by Precious111(f): 9:28pm On Apr 17, 2018|
This stupid overhyped brigde nobody is using
Mtcheww, it's leading to the same place the one under one it is leading to so what's the usefulness.
The project Is in a bid to embezzle all the money in Ekiti
Stupid white Elephant project
In fact all the projects he did are All white elephant projects in a bid to embezzle money
I'm Ekiti and I live there so I'm sure of my facts
|Family / Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by Precious111(f): 7:51am On Apr 14, 2018|
I will advise you based on my experience with 2-4 years old.
1. You could have a doctor check him out but NEVER let him have any medications he's given, he will become addictive to them and won't be able to function without them in the future, trust me you don't want to see him gentle. If he's gentle You will run from pillar to post finding out what's wrong with him
2. They are both boys and it's quite normal for them to clash, they both want to show they are supreme to each other. Fight of supremacy
3. Let him engage in productive activity at home, if he shows interest in the kitchen, let him wash some few plates with you watching him, he likes Computers buy him a tab and let him Use it. Teach him monopoly, shess, it will improve his spelling and it will improve his Brain development. Let him fill in the gap for spellings, any new word he can't explain let him use a children's dictionary and write it down if he can spell
4. Stop flogging him too much, he will grow so used to it that it won't have an iota of fear for you in his mind like shebi it's cane, i will only cry. When you flog him, make sure he knows what he did and let it be a thorough one that passes a message across, flog him on his hands and not all over his body Plsz Or you give him a nice punishment sit on the floor there, ground him don't give whst he likes And you tell him it's because you did this I punished You with this. Believe me they have the ability to listen well. For example if he curses at people, tell him to stop it that child of God doesn't do that, if he does it again tell him to stop, third time punish me by not giving him his favorite toy or flog him though i doubt flogging will work now, you have flogged him too much, just punish him well next time he does that just threaten him with that punishment You gave him that made him sad, belive me he will behave at that time and sub consciously he's would have it at the Back of his mind that this behaviour isn't acceptable
5. THE REWARD SYSTEM when he does something nice commend him By giving him something he loves, and kiss him on his head. If he does something not nice tell him you wont buy him his favorite snack and don't buy it, you could give his brother his And not give him his.
ABOVE ALL PRAY FOR HIM, CONFESS POSITIVE THINGS TO HIS LIFE EVERY MORNING YOU WAKE UP.
Hope I helped
P. S stop beating him as from now, don't beat him at all Because it has become a part of him and it will make him rebel seriously against you
|Family / Re: Godly Advice Needed by Precious111(f): 1:19pm On Apr 13, 2018|
I wonder if your wife is actually an MFM member, Cos I am and we are been taught Every third sunday of the month about How a home should look like. How a wife MUST respect her husband and take good care of him. I take it that your wife is one if those MFM members with misconception about MFM and life itself.
Pls open up your heart to her, communicate with her and all and the female genital mutilation done on her is an issue..
Truth is she actually sees your family as her enemy she should fight which is a wrong notion. Buy the Many of Pastor Mrs FUNKE adejumo sermon on marriages and make sure she listens to them, if possible watch and listen to them together.
Pls try to make her change her church to less Aggressive church too cos that's how things will continue, she wont agree actually but make it compulsory for her and report her to her parents Plsz if She misbehaves, Then show her a lot of Love too
Op Plsz make your Marriage work don't give up too early.
|Romance / Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Precious111(f): 7:57pm On Apr 10, 2018|
SirToby:From the little I know one of the side effects of Malaria drugs Is that it makes one restless, it caused heavy breathing for me too. I actually think it's the malaria.
Then stop making Vows You can't keep to God, if you did it in an Ogun/sango shrine, I believe you will resist the urge and you will even overcome it Self,
If you strongly believe it's your vows to God, ask God to forgive you, confess to your parents if you feel the need to, Don't be scared of your parents Afterall you broke the vows You made to God without fear of him killing you. And then if you make a new vow keep to it.
About the malaria drugs, if it has finished in your system, you will stop feeling all you mentioned above. I was there last week and it was frustrating...
|Literature / Re: The Handsome Devil I Know by Precious111(f): 1:42pm On Apr 09, 2018|
Well done Ma'am
This story got me superglued,
The part that Got me was "Sell Zina for 1.5 million"
This one just weak me like your own blood and child.
|Family / Re: Marital War: You Are My Girlfriend, Not Wife – Husband (Photos) by Precious111(f): 4:43pm On Apr 07, 2018|
The reason why he is behaving that way from what i deduced from the story is that she doesn't have a child with him, a typical Yoruba person believes no marriage without child
Ehya I feel for the woman, make sure you divorce him just that there aren't strong Nigerian divorce laws....
|Literature / Re: Recommend Threads For Fp by Precious111(f): 11:20pm On Apr 04, 2018|
Handsome devil I know by sapphirePRINCEX
It's an Interesting read
|Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Precious111(f): 10:19am On Apr 02, 2018|
I hope I can comment, I still be small pikin
Mama Zizi Believe me, your baby is fine,
I'm even wawued Like he's so tall for his Age, he's less than 9 months ryt? That's Why he looks small to her Because he's tall so he won't look fat at all. My 2 years Baby is not as tall as this self
Mumsy just won use body rub his body small and she has missed you too.
|Religion / Re: Mike Bamiloye Exposes Church Instrumentalists by Precious111(f): 6:13pm On Apr 01, 2018|
The notes weren't recorded as I know...
|Religion / Re: Mike Bamiloye Exposes Church Instrumentalists by Precious111(f): 3:12pm On Apr 01, 2018|
This is quite true, instrumentalists always behave like anything, they will sleep, chat And browse during sermon. I have only seen two different Scenarios.
Then in Secondary school when one of our teachers came to preach, Mr Ayo he will chase all the instrumentalists into the congregation making them to listen to a particular extent.
And the RCCG Youth church I attend presently, Kings Court Ikere, immediately it's time for the sermon, all instrumentalists leave their instruments, they are regarded as ministers too, no room for yamayama
Likewise Some instrumentalists are spirit filled, playing their instruments always calls for the hand of God. An instrumentalist once played that the spirit of God fell upon him himself but the instruments continued playing itself. The Angels of God took charge of the instruments
Note: the notes that were played weren't recorded, the congregation that day was charged with God's presence.
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