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pls telecommunication companies should consider android users let us subscribe like BB (800-100 naira per month depending on the network)instead of buying bundle (100 naira for per day) that create holes in our pocket while some companies like MTN have utilized this plate form to exploit android users with their stupid data plan..... the shift in device patronage where most people preferred and patronized android phones than Black berry, Black berry itself have accept the defect and open their messenger (BBM) to android users . this should be a solid reason why they should allow android users use subscription than bundle

Marthakings: I am Sooo "HOURGLASS"... Team-Figure 8

i fall into that category too just that am about having pot belle which am seriously working against through exercise

cahnellven: 45views,1posts . .its not my fault ppl didnt interact on ur thread

i mistakenly posted d topic twice so d views r kind of divided n d oda av more views n comments. so no beef cos am nt ur 4 fame but to learn frm the wise onces around.

guy wat do u mean by 'what av she turned u into'? Laffin men eh never statisfied. What abt wat av u turn her into? N @ d oda guy, i av parents but they live together in one room guy wat do u mean by 'what av she turn into'? Laffin men eh never statisfied. What abt wat av u turn her into? N @ d oda guy, i av parents but they live together in one room. Finally i think retirin into d inner chamber is wat i agreed wit, to reflect, study n build urself. Even wen married u gat ur live to life...

although i don't put beads on nor do i believe in the mystery dat surrounds d bead stuff but my friends that do said it makes the waist to expand( i mean, it gives the Africa girl-child nice curved waist or figure

@ op, no offense but as a woman, i think we av advantage over the male folks lyk using ur body language (for instance after a huge fight, after u take ur shower b4 comming out make sure ur dude is in d room bt nt on d bed then come out frm d bathroom wit somtin 'hot' then lay side backing him esp wen ur blessed wit figure 8 n watch how the magic work. He will even 4get dat u owe him an apology but will kip apologizing) u will thank me later

Earlier today, a friend threw dis question @me : y do couples av separate rooms n sleep separately under the same roof (after the church must had ordained them one). I tried my best to do justice to d Que by logical thinking (since ASUU don make me jobless). Here are my answers:
that it gives privacy, create provision for surprises that can spice up their romance life.
But he was not satisfied then i remembered the only site that is blessed with people of all sphere of life (educated, married, single, gentlemen, beauties n even thugs n akpos *winks* pls am joking oo)
our married and experienced nairalanders pls can you enlighten me on this issue?

Earlier today, a friend threw dis question @me : y do couple av separate rooms n sleep separately under the same roof(after the church must had ordained them one). I tried my best to do justice to d Que by logical thinking (since ASUU don make me jobless). Here are my answers:
that it gives privacy, create provision for surprises that can spice up their romance life.
But he was not satisfied then i remembered the only site that is blessed with people of all sphere of life (educated, married, single, gentlemen, beauties n even thugs n akpos *winks* pls am joking oo)
our married and experienced nairalanders pls can you enlighten me on this issue?

Lucky gurl: Religion aside, individuals know what is good or bad, atleast one with an active conscience.
My actions in a relationship are guided by my knowledge of what is right or wrong.

What I can say at dis point is my conscience dictates d actions I take in my relationship and not necessarily religion although it might come in handy at one point or the other.

so you trying to say that if my conscious think kissing is nt a sin as long as is nt sex, is kk by u n ur religion

Lucky gurl: Shld av being does Ur religion affect Ur relationship. I'll brb with my humble reply.

thx babe, correction noted

my 3rd yr as a student of unn, i felt the urge to build a relationship with my creator. So on a faithful Sunday i adhere to one of those alter call (or wat do Pentecostals call it) since i was invited for a programme. After that day i tried to amend my ways and abide to Gods commandment (thou shall nt lie, bear false witness against thou neighbour, fornicate which includes kissing n you knw the rest) even when my guy calls me i dnt respond wit d usual 'honey' n end d call wit 'i luv u'. N when we see, i made sure i kept a distance.
So nairalanders how does this two phenomenon mingle in your life without clash?

Sanandreas10:




am i really Poor In writing.be sincere .Pls

my dear, we are all learning, i could remember my first comment on NL. Them slash me although my own no reach ur own o. Bt u get hope as long as u breath.

ITbomb: Still falling for the sugar coated shallow words ?
Na ur waist go bend. In case ur brain cannot fathom what he said , this is it in plain english ' any of them that come back with the marriage slogan , open ur legs for him ' . I'm sure already that is what u had in mind , just looking for a nicer way to put it.

i choose to reply polite those nt mean i cant read in btw d line. I wonder y my friend adviced me to seek advice here cos obviously out of 16 comments or so, i find 6 educative, sincere n matured.

thanks all for ur advice, i do appreciate n to keep d record straight...... I did nt intend acceptin the 3 of them dats y i took my time to give an insight of their personality n shortcomings. Thanks for ur comments

Smuthx: Dont take some people writtings or advice here too seriously. There are frustrated people out there eg ITBOMB. Sieve through the advices here. It still boils down to you.

If you want to get back with one of your exs. Is it boyfriend or girlfriend thing or reconnection to engagement to possibly marriage. If the answer is yes to tending towards marriage. Then pick one which youself think that can be in a commited relationship. Its your choice.

thank dear

DonCrust: I was kidding about the love portion, and we both know that a woman without good personal qualities is more or less a liability even to herself. If the best of the 3 wants to come back, make him work for it. Having said that, never allow any guy to see you as an old wine that he can go back to when the new ones taste bad.

my dear thank u for ur advice.

ITbomb: Did you just call that slimy worm between their legs that make your head haywire 'Unique Feature' . ?
You go fear for work experiences aka past performance . I won't be surprise each of them have had you for 200 X 3 = 600 (serious pounding) ie minimum of 4 times a week during their respective reign.
And yet you are still brainless to know what u want in life and go for it.
Lastly , u don ask urself whether they are coming back to see ur parent or to get more free fvrk from you

am nt amused cos u mite av had d orientation dat all relationship includes sex. Am nt saying am a virgin or nt bt i dnt blief in all sex relationship n if u read in btw my post i said d second n i parted ways cos of parental acceptance meaning his intention was marriage bt my parents declined. Abeg Make u no use ur regge spoil my blues, if u da vex no b me make u vex. Most of nairalanders luk for slightest opportunity to insult som1.

laff won kill me for here.
@ op, there r 2tins involved, is either she av bn abused b4 n dats y she is selective bt she abuse d privilege n her trust or she is a virgin. So let next time bcareful nt 2 gv dis hungry nairalanders opportunity to insult u. Anyway we r all here to learn

Hon. SuQ Ma'DIQ:
Dont do none of those. Just join us at END TIME TYNZ MINISTRY. You ll be glad u did

laffin..... I will think abt it but on a serious note, pls advice me cos my happiness is @ stake

DonCrust: Hmmm did you put love portion in the egusi they ate in their sleep? How's it possible that the 3 of them would want you back at the same time? Anyways, any relationship that is built on flimsy things like portrait can't last. Look for a guy with good attitude, who will respect you and above all, God fearing. I'm not saying you should leave the 3 of them o but your happiness should be your priority. Good luck!

thanks for your matured advice. N for the luv portion, i don't need it. I think God has endowed me with good personality although i can be stubborn at times.

what s waste n disgrace to women. My dear, although Love is essential but there is more to live than luv. Build up ur potentials and b right woman awaiting the right man. Ur live shud nt b build around relationship except that of God. Jos advising o, i myself is nt perfect

ronalmagic10: Wat!! is dis a joke?
You left d 1st guy because he is ill-tempered. Well, has he changed or you are willing to bear it dis tym?
You left d 2nd guy because of his tribe nd religion. So, has it changed now?
You left d 3rd guy cos he didn't do well enuf 2 make you 4get d 2nd guy. Can he do dat now?

Abeg move on...nd nxt tym don't be too picky

thanks bt i still have a thing for each of them esp the second. I just what to seek advice so that i wont regret my tomorrow. Thanks for the advice

eddiebruk: You alone know what decision to make after you have searched your heart and determine what is it you truly want...only then you will be able to see reasons if you should accept any back or move forward.

my dear, i have use even wireless to search my heart but the truth lays that each of them have a unique features. I don't want to be Oliver twist

chidyhels: You knw all these,yet you went back. Love is never enough.

love they say is blind, when you are in it your emotions cloud your sense of reasoning.

first was my first luv but he is ill tempered
second was the luv of my life but parental acceptance (tribalism n religion) made up part ways
third, the first guy that ever drawn a portrait of me as a birthday gift but my comparison btw him n d luv of my life neva made d relationship work.
After all this unstable relationship i left them for good but they are all comming for reconciliation-what am i to do? Accept or start a new life.

obi147: since i have been in his shoes i can chip in a little advice..if he came back for you then you are the special one in his life. trust me his ex will understand if he talks it over with her and let her know he is not n love with but with you. anyway goodluck.

wat seperated us bfor wat parental acceptance because he is a muslim n a native of kogi while am a xtain n an ibo gal. So d ex av better chance dan me. It takes more luv for two to tangle in dis game

after my thinkin abt my relationship n urs. Wat av come to conclude is dat both of us dis same event happened to her past dwellers meanin wen d boat was sailin peaceful, we neva knew wat we had was beautiful n nw we lost it, we dnt want to let go n remember d difference btw memories n reality. My candid advice is .. Is either both of u r meant to be(then gv her space bt still show hw u care) or she is nw ur past.Forge ahead n stop holding to ur past. Toking frm xperience