₦airaland Forum

Hungerbadoo:
Na God oo my brother, our compound thou fenced with barb wire was miraculously saved

Hmmn. Thank God no life was lost, which neighborhood is that?

Dialpad:
That PDD guy

Is he not the one that can’t speak his mother tongue?

Zupay:
You can't send her back to Nigeria, a girl for that matter. What excuse do you have to give to the management of the school she attends for withdrawing her? See you, see wahala.

I have a Ghanaian co-worker who told me he wanted to send her daughter who is 12 years old back to Ghana to finish secondary school and the daughter warned him if he should try making arrangements, she would inform her teacher, get social workers involved and if he forcefully wants to fly with her to Ghana, he would be arrested at the airport as her name will be on the immigration 's no fly list.

lol! That’s because the parents told her, this type of thing, you don’t tell them, you bring them back for vacation and not go back with that particular child

Gracelander:
I just had to ask this question because it's been causing issues between me and my guy. He doesn't seem comfortable at all with me having male friends and he throws tantrums each time I visit my bestie. He even tells me to my face that he doesn't trust me, so he scrutinize every move I make.

Each time I answer calls from male friends with him around it leads to him nagging about how much I don't respect him and it's not as if I talk dirty or tell them that I love them, just friendly conversations. We had a slight issue last night cos I came over to see him and stay for a week before leaving, I didnt warm the food out of anger and it got spoilt this morning. When I told him about the food he told me that it was supposed to be our breakfast so that means no food this morning.

I had to chat one of my friends and he agreed to take me out, I dressed up and left the house and he sent me a message not to return to his house. Did I do something wrong?

If he does the same thing, will you like it?

jerryunit48:
You tried to resist but you couldn’t… I laughed hard… Something that brought a whole powerful Samson down na in you want resist ? Continue

He can resist by simply avoiding her, that’s why the Bible said we should FLEE and not run

BluntCrazeMan:
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This one that UK originated the whole idea,, I am beginning to suspect foul-play here Ooo

It should be vice versa. Nigerians who studied in Nigeria should be able to practice in UK too

jesusjnr2020:
3 Reasons You Must Gree For Jesus

1. He is THE WAY.

2. He is THE TRUTH.

3. He is THE LIFE, no man can go unto the Father but by Him. John 14:6

God bless.

He is the Peace in this stormy world

dejavubobo1:
I'm a data analyst. Got a little weekly pay job from an academy in Europe. Surprisingly after 3months of work and weekly payment, My name was flagged by western union on suspicion of fraud (with my pay for February second week cancelled after many hours seating infront of the computer).

It's very appalling and morale draining to be profiled in one's own country. I really wish I could push for a law suit and make them understand not all Nigerians are criminals and seeing us/considering us as one will have consequences.

Has anyone had such terrible experience, how did you handle?

So sorry for what you are going through but please how do you get these gigs? I am interested. Thank you

madfind:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/2/men-are-afraid-to-date-me-and-think-i-am-a-transgender-bearded-tanzanian-woman-opens-up-about-her-struggles.html.html

She should shave

TMHL:
https://www.aljazeera.com/amp/news/2024/2/4/namibias-president-hage-geingob-dies-aged-82

It’s so sad that it’s only death that can remove an African president who is elderly and weak

[quote author=money121 post=128149690][/quote]Congrats. I hope when you make it tomorrow, one babe no go come convince you to abandon your poor mother?

dawnomike:
Following the post COP28 footsteps of the UAE.

UAE is passing the use out gradually and not abruptly the way uncle Sanwo wanna do his.

What will they use instead?

Ibtxxo:
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100k can't even rent a shop or start a business.
He had made up his money to make the millions.
He sees small kid driving a benz, building houses.
He doesn't want to know the repercussions.
He had suffered enough.

Trust me, that road he wants to take has more suffering attached to it

Ibtxxo:
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How can he break the York?
He is planning of doing rituals to make money since he had lost hope in life.
Is money that is just holding him back.
The baba told him to bring 100k to do the work

He shouldn’t make that mistake. With that 100k, he can start a business and God will bless him

honour7:
She is not going to any prison, she was attacked by the guy in her apartment, she can claim self defence,

The only thing she should pray about is if the guy is not a cultist be is if he is thee will be a blow back. Either way school done end for her be that.

Oga, she wasn’t attached by the guy, there are people who corroborated that fact

Truthshotcrazy:
Hey OP, Just saw it in the blogs headlines last night, @Ajoke, the synagogue
has officially responded----video of one of the wisenen trending, clarifying that AJOKE WAS AN ABANDONED CHILD DISCOVERED UNDER A TRUCK CLOSE TO THE SYNAGOGUE. And that AJOKE lied and she ain't The late prophet's biological baby 🍼 ,but adopted along the way

Only. A DNA test of AJOKE with one of Tb Joshua's relatives will put naysayers to rest. For now, her biological relationship to The late prophet is questionable

lol! You don’t need a soothsayer to tell you that it’s his daughter, can’t you see the resemblance? It’s so glaring na

Emma1Oj:
Hiw then did she get slim fit if not exercise?

They can do it through surgery

revolt:
Lol if it was surgery all the fat will come back in a few months

I think she did the same thing that Warripikin

It’s good for her but how I wish she got through exercises

adesegun121:
https://www.thecable.ng/shell-learn-from-her-mistakes-femi-pedro-asks-nigerians-to-give-betta-edu-a-second-chance/amp

Sir Femi, you can give her a chance in your company

Kobojunkie:
Why is it that some mothers remain with abusive men even after learning their daughters are being molested by the men?

You dey ask question naw!

Is your question related to the scenario painted or you just want to talk? Mtchheew!

OLAADEGBU:
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Ajoke claimed that she never felt fatherly affection from the late pastor and that her father compelled her to be a disciple to ruin her life.

Why didn’t her mother carry her away from him?

whyteteeth:
My ever charming mom has stopped looking good like she used to eversince she joined a particular church in the early part of 2021.

Prior to that time, mom was a lover of good wears. She used to wear nice jewelries to complement her dressing. Nowadays, the story is no longer the same. She has changed completely and she is now a shadow of her former self. She would not make her hair with weavon or attachment, or wear wig or makeup like she used to do. She now uses thread to plait her hair which makes her look very unlike her and very unattractive.

When I travelled home during Christmas, I nearly wept when I saw her. From her head to her toe, she was completely off. No sense of style at all. Just regular clothes and slippers even when she is going out for an event.

What do we do? The church she joined is THE LORD'S CHOSEN. And dad says she has asked her to stop attending the church but she refused. Mom is a retired nurse and she is 62 years old. I am her last child and I and my siblings are doing everything possible to make her look good. Money is not the problem. She is just simply refused to listen to anybody.

She can still be fashionable without having to use makeup or wigs. It’s the belief system there

eyesoflagos:
Man unable to marry his Benue girlfriend with N600,000 as her family insists on N1.2m marriage list

A Nigerian man couldn't marry his girlfriend in Tombu village, Buruku Local Government Area of Benue State because her family insisted on a marriage list with items totaling N1.2m.

The man's friend, Udam Samuel Aseer, disclosed this in a Facebook post on Friday, January 5, 2024. Makesense Pm reports,

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid02s6pQWkHuivxzBvMLAK3e7WnP39dRY158Q2Xk8r36MFLKNddsCzzjY5WsUUouAke1l&id=100009864965716&mibextid=2JQ9oc

lol! Na to give her belle, in-laws go beg am to come

OFunke24:
I feel so tired of being a first daughter. It feels my life is full of running errands and doing things for everyone but myself. I feel like a servant. I don't know who I am or my what I want to do in life. Im at home all day doing nothing but serving others. I feel so sad and tired of it whenever I remember I will still have to do it all again tomorrow not knowing when this will all end.

I see my siblings moving forward in life and I only have a Highschool certificate. My father didnt train me in school and frustrated all my mother's attempts to further my education. Yet all my siblings were put in school. I don't even have the time or mental space to run a business.

I want to leave and be on my own. I want to be able to hear myself. I want to wake up in the morning not thinking of what others will eat or errands that need to be ran. I don't want to think of lunch or dinner or worry about anyone else but myself. I don't even want to hear my name because it is always followed by one request or the other.

This holiday season I kept on thinking about how much I didn't want any family or guests to come visit because it would only mean more work for me. I would be the one living in the kitchen running around like a maid. It makes me feel so ashamed and less than. When people at home remember my running around they then start with the praises "Oh what would we do without you?", "Our second mother." "So hard working, what a strong girl." I don't want any of those praises. They make me feel worse because I don't do any of this by choice. I don't care for compliments for something I have no option but to do. Would any of them still say good things about me if I decided I was tired of living like this, of being at their beck and call? I want to be left alone. Because of these feelings I don't have any desire to have children. The thought of living like this again taking care of children makes me sad and I feel tired at the thought. I feel drained physically, emotionally and mentally. Sometimes I wonder if this is how it feels for all children and if I am just not cut out for this.

Ah! It’s you that don’t know the authority you carry. Our first born gives us the juniors the errands to run and oversees us so why is your own different?

MatrixReloaded:
Tomorrow marks it 3 weeks my baby is here with the mother(39 weeks 5 days). She did 4 scans all tru her pregnancy. The latest one was my concern when we notice discomfort amd the report didn't seems well. Remember induction is a forceful way to extract a baby and very painful and most tyms as I was told the baby might be too weak to accept such procedure. You don't want to have to struggle your baby out.
CS was our option, I signed the consent form and my spouse didn't have to eat anything. In the morning around 8am she was already in the ward. After anatesia, the doctor performed the cut under her belle line to expose her gauging uterus. The rest was pulling the baby out and the head was the last to follow.
I watched it like a movie scene with courage and praying.
At the end I smiled and the mother is OK and fully recovered. I don knack her one, but na slow slow 5 days ago self..

3 weeks and you don dey knack? Haba Oga!

Adanambra1:
i am 39 weeks today and 5 days oo
first timer mama
i don exercise tire
chop pineapple tire
i dey do the do regularly
i don chop spicy food tire... everything on the internet, i have done.
scan already say my baby is head down position
3.5kg....
people of God, what do i do next to avoid Pitocin inducement or epidural

Be patient and eat lots of pawpaw. Look for a hilly place to climb to and fro for like 20 times in an hour, then you would see what will happen. Never forget to pray about it too

All I can say is mercy of God prevailed

bigcasava1:
Every husband should make sure their wives are not emotionally attached to their children especially the boys, this is where they are being deceived thinking their mother love them more than their father. Fight it

Forget all these manipulation stories, children observe way more than adults, they know who did what at home

libertyfather:
baba no wan gree, some peeps gat dey outside selling water to wash legs or the celebrant make provision for that...if not how people wan move with that kind feet waka frm there especially those moving with ride

Hahaha! You don’t know how much he bought the shoe na

gbaskiboy:
Why don't you confront her about the paternity of the child. For clarity sake man up and both of you should go and do DNA test whatever result that comes you both can determine how you want to seetle it. Instead of letting fear of unknown to ruin your marriage do the needful and allow peace of mind to reign in your life

lol! Sorry but that’s a bad step to take. Once a married woman knows that her husband is trying to find out the paternity of her child, if she is guilty, she can kpai the man to prevent him from knowing the truth. Dem no dey tell person