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op,i dont understand your last point. Surely it is someone i value to the extent that i dont want to lose that i should marry. Did i realy make FTC?

clears throat* association of engine men gfs/wives.

op you are so correct! My bf is an engr. I have no regrets at all.

education and beauty are not even my priorities. I would choose education over beauty but ultimately,i will choose a person who makes me happy. Irrespective of how educated or beautiful.

nigerian government does not care about its citizens. I feel like sweeping out all the politicians in this country. The masses are only remembered during election.

kekakuz:
nonesense
if she like make she no deliver like hebrew,make she deliver like gwari woman.

there are many women in villages where there are no hospitals
how should they deliver am asking you.
as if she needs your prayers.

am just so angry with everything

lwkmd! Your anger is sooooo obvious. Please go and off-load

ShirelleBaby:
if I am offended,I call his attention and pour out my feelings towards his actions--where trouble will now come is when he starts claiming right on the obvious wrong-then I CAST HIM INTO OBLIVION till he apologises over and over again to my satisfaction

Girl you are so on point. It is not the action that gets me angry,i easily forgive but it is now proving your right when wrong.

beau49:
Seriously!!! Banks pay that much yet some of them don't even look it.....mmmm....I find that hard to believe though.

my dear things like children's sch fees,grandma in the village,brother in sch milks the money. Life aint easy.

seriously,it is comprehension that has caused all these. Nobody is against any form of marriage. Just get a legal document to back it up period! Nobody has said trad is wrong or court marriage is the best. It is the ppl in the marriage that make the marriage not the form of marriage but simply get a legal document to back whatever form of marriage . I tire o

slimmy05:
The day any lady talk so much about court marriage, that ends it all between us.

If she is not contented with my traditional marriage. Then she should go find the man that would give her court marriage. I can be extra open minded and go for the church marriage aswell. But it has to be on a weekday, monday to be precise, so I'll just order for dominoes pizza, chicken republic rice and KFC. No inviting tom dick and harry, I will channel that funds having a nice honey moon. I know she wont resist honeymoon in Bahamas, probably renting a condo close to the beach while we go sailing on the freshest yatch. Make love like we in our own planet

Gold diggers have a rethink

lol! That is what we are talking nobody is concerned about where u wed,the issue is,whether it is traditional or white get a certificate to back it up. As an easy evidence that can presented anywhere and also for other uses.

slimmy05:
Just imagine the kind of rusted brains you've got. You sound like a gutter bread gold digger looking for a means to survive simply because you can't make something up for yourself. Lazy bones, keep depending on a man to survive. You're doomed when he eventually get you kicked out like roaches and rats

you think negative thoughts when i have none in my mind. Go ask your parents or a lawyer the need for a marrigae cert,they will wipe your ignorance with a mop.

GoodFaith:
Yes agreed
"shine your eyes,to prevent people from reaping where they did not sow."
what about a woman that did not work for stuff
That think she might have access because she have kids for U
But are u trying to kill somebody in intestate.? God forbid oh
Back to sent of all evil

ignorant people will assume getting a marriage certificate will aid a woman's divorce. I do not pray for any couple to divorce. I am only stressing the importance for men who hope to marry good women and do not want them to suffer. And also to easliy prove that you are married any time it is required,and to give the good woman you will marry a reason to believe your marriage is for real and that another woman wil not replace her tomorow while she is alive.

slimmy05:
Just imagine the kind of rusted brains you've got. You sound like a gutter bread gold digger looking for a means to survive simply because you can't make something up for yourself. Lazy bones, keep depending on a man to survive. You're doomed when he eventually get you kicked out like roaches and rats

my dear,i can work and survive on my own,but i hope you wont have to suffer before you realise your ignorance n get a cert.

majekdom2:
if you want to make your marriage work you dont have to force a man who is skeptical about court marrige do it ... people have different opinions as to this . some men respect their tradition more ... you may say its the latest trend to go for a court wedding , but some men still believe tradition got them to where they are ..... and are never ready for it .

my dear this is the era where you shine your eyes,to prevent people from reaping where they did not sow. Especialy where a man dies intestate.

Blebleswag:
Nawa! So performing a traditional marriage is not a solid evidence dat u re married? So until we copy d foregn style, 1st kwano?


I repeat: traditional marriage is d most important n must b done 1st, any other kinds re an alternatives.


Solid evidence kon, solid evidence ni.

if u marry the traditional way it is your choice,you can get a certificate without a church wedding,but i am sure presenting a certificate will be better than bringing elders to swear that your married when it is required.

majekdom2:
the certificate is in case .... but what gain will the certificate bring if you and your kids are not included in his will .... there are more to look into in a marriage than certificate

there are more,but the certificate should not be over-looked

slimmy05:
You're a daft. Look at this juvenile still struggling with sec sch grade.

hahahahahaha.... It is only the ignorant that resort to insult when they fail to make points.

majekdom2:
do women fight over men publicly these days ... I said it before , there are men who do more for their concubines than their immediate family who have got the certificates . This is Nigeria.

my dear i dnt mean fight in the literal sense

GoodFaith:
Base on ur question
what is the need for certificate ?
I am very happily marriage
I have had God to protect me against evil woman
My God was there for me

with the certificate,you can prove to anyone that you are married without goin to the village to bring elders to swear. Also,if the man dies anytime,nobody will deny her the right to the man's property or her kids. Nobody will throw her out. Another woman will not also easily displace a woman in her husband's house. The advantages are just endless.

GoodFaith:
Protect what?
certificate is all about money
All men want to protect their wives
work and drive old car
Tomorrow u want all my hard work and scarify
I am glad God took me on the path he took me
I was not happy but it all work out for the best
Thank U Lord

people who plan on making their marriage work,do not think like you

GoodFaith:
certificate for a woman to take the things
she didn't work?
for person like me today
sorry ur certificate will not work
What I have before the certificate is my

are u praying to marry a bad wife or for divorce. It is people praying for any of these that think like you.

fpeter:
My dear as far as African custom is concerned and even as a Bible, the most important one is the traditional marriage. If you find a man who is willing to go to to the registry then fine, as for the Oyibo"white" wedding my dear,you can cut the chase by simply asking ur pastor to bless your union after ur dowry/bride price MUST have been paid...........if NNkA(old age) catch u I bet u no go dey yarn dis thing by then.

my dear the issue here is not the fanfare that accompanies the white wedding. It is getting the certificate. U cn go to d registry and get it without ceremony. But with the cert.no woman cn drive u out of ur husband's house without a good fight.

GoodFaith:
What about the Gold Diggers
U are the man pay all the bills--- what happen to that type of women?

the op's topic has nothing to do with gold diggers. Their case is with God. All i know is that,a man who realy loves the woman he calls wife should get a marriage cert. So as to protect his wife.

slimmy05:
May God save us from biatch and gold diggers like you

i expose how partial your judgement is and all you do is attack me. Lol! I have no business with your likes.

slimmy05:
you're a daft. Stop exposing your crude ignorance. I don't need no one else to certify my marriage. My tradition is enough for me.

you should say thank you that i enlightened you. When you grow up,you will definitely qet a certificate,unless your illiterate.

kayciano:
U just want something u can post on FACEBOOK, thereby BERATING your FEMALE COLLEAGUES....
ITS simple ..ok. JUST DO IT LIKE DIS: AFTER TRADITIONAL WEDDING, go and purchase WHITE UNIFORM ,then u WEAR it and POST it online ...
SINCE all U CRAVE FOR , is just WHITE GOWN.
...

my dear darling ladies out there could wear white gowns and take pictures with their lovely brothers,the issue is getting a marriage certificate,not wearing a gown.

slimmy05:
Why not, you call the truth trash? You need to rinse your mouth with dettol.

Why won't he support the man, when the biat.ch is running after all dick.s. She is not a wife material just some random road side one night stand biatch.

women need to be careful in relating with men in this world. From d story where i replied your comment,the woman stood by the man through trying times and was deserted. That same woman has become a "bitch" to you. God save women from men with senses likes yours.

slimmy05:
what is the issue with the evidence? If you want a certificate, the igwe of the community can issue one.

the igwe doesnt issue marriage certificate,it is the court or churches that have registered with the right authority. That is why the church where a person weds is also important. Some churches have not been granted by the law,the right to issue marriage certs.

festico:
Pls spear me dis trash , what abt this iniedo of resent wasn't she wedded ? D fact is that ladies shld not force themself on a guy becus it backfires wen the guy realises his goal in life. As for what goes to d woman after divorce is still a matter of were d marriage is contracted/desolved cus for naija d man 'll only be mandated to care for d children wch is his primary responsibility. our legal system does not realy have much for those who divorce there husband.

u are here supporting the man and blaming the woman for putting up with the man when he did not have enough for a wedding,had it been she pressed for a wedding and the story came here,u wuld call her impatient. Let us be impartial in judgement imagine if it were a relation wuld u spew that trash?

Blebleswag:
Buh traditional marriage is d most important. Must u wear white gown?

the issue here,is not wearing a white gown,it is having a marriage certificate,a solid evidence that you are married.