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Good evening Nairalanders.
Pls I matured advice here. My boyfriend n I dated for 2yrs den we broke up n stayed apart for up to 6months. But we talk if we bomb into each other. He's in his late 30's while I'm in my 25yrs. Few months back he started begging for us to come back, talk abt how he missed us etc etc...
Last week I decided to give in, n we started off. One of those days, I went visiting n I saw a drugs on his refrigerator, I googled d name. Only to find out dat it was for erectile dysfunction. I asked him nicely wat d drugs is meant for n he denied saying he doesn't know abt any drugs. After much talks he later said it's for treating body pains.
Since den he's been acting up with me. Not until today he apologised but things r still not right.
Aside that, he chats intimately with other girls on his WhatsApp, even to calling one my wife.
I thought abt the whole thing today n thought of ending it.

Pls Wat's d right thing to do in this situation, cos I hate anything stressing me emotionally.

Nobody is above mistake. ishie

soberdrunk:
"Flaunt" olodo...

Tolexander:
One of the ladies that used her puzzy as ticket to enter BBN

Where u there? Stop saying things ur not sure of!

Onyi22:
She no even fyn self

Stop being negative.

Good morning, guys! Wat's ur take on this?


I met my bf January this year, at d time he said he was having issues with his gf of 2yrs n wanted calling it off. I told him to make amends with her. He kept saying I won't understand.
He's not a stranger, he's someone I've known for some years but we become really close this year. We kept in touch regularly n the love starting growing from both sides.
Two months into the relationship, I noticed he was back with the other girl, cos she was always calling. Asked him abt it, n he was truthful with me and told me to give him time. I opted out of the relationship n told him to continue with the girl. He kept begging saying he can't afford to loose me.
I accepted him back. But I told him it won't be the same. Knowing dat he loves someone else. We r in different states. Same with the other girl.

Although I love him, but I want a relationship where I can give it 100%.
Pls I need matured advice on this.

tgmservice:
can u swear u not 4ucking anoda guy in ur new location

Yes I can

lilmax:
he suspects you

that's why someone said, your girlfriend is only yours when she's with you


and that is true

That's not true pls.....there are still loyal girls that stick to one guy

nuelyoyo:
did you say you traveled for a four month course? Will you be going back to the city both of you were before after your course? Respond to my question before I know how to react to ur post.

Yes I'll be going back to the state he is in January.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now. The last 3months have been something else.
I travelled out of the state we live in for a 4 month course. The First month in my new location was okay, the communication was good n everything other thing was cool.
But I noticed from the 2nd month, he stopped calling like he used to, he will be online but won't chat with me. I brought this to his knowledge, n he kept saying he's sorry n gave flimsy excuses that he didn't have airtime n all. It got to a point that in a week he will call just once n for a few minutes.
I kept talking abt it, he made me feel like I'm nagging. He kept shouting at me that I'm bringing up issues wen there is none. I do 90% of the calling n it's not cool.
Presently, he doesn't chat with me except wen i upload any pix he finds interesting on my status....but wen I call him, he sounds all loving, saying I miss u n all.
At the moment, I feel hurt n I want to move on cos I think he's taking me for granted.. I don't ask for anything just talk to me that's all. Wat do u advice I do?