radiolover:
I have sent possibly more than 80 applications and fortunately, I got called by a few.

I have exhausted scarce resources to attend interviews, editing and re-editing resumes to fit a certain role and position, cost of transportation, I don't want to even mention having to trek a long distance sometimes due to lack of fund to pay Tfare. I mean someone is broke and hungry and trying his best to land a job but he's rather receiving rejection mails. What is this?

On Monday, I received a rejection mail from automobile company where I applied for a marketing role. On Tuesday, I received another one from a production factory.

Now I just returned from another job hunting only to open my mail and saw another rejection mail. This very one pain me most because I had high hope on it and i have spent so much on it too. During the second stage of the interview, I can remember how I waited from 8am till 5pm just to see 'Oga', and after seeing him, I began to walk my way home and got home late. I know i'm sounding sentimental here but it's so annoying that i went through all that 'ontop empty belle' and at the end, I wasnt offered the job.

Very very painful and morale killing.

I feel so bad right now.

Feels like the world has crashed.

Feels like everything has finished.

Feels like everything has ended.

Feels like more hunger for me ahead ahead.

Who has faced this before?

How did you comfort yourself?

May be you can try to venture into farming for the meantime, at least to have something to eat pending when you will land your dream job

'I will appoint' is different from 'I appoint' or I have appointed'.

congrats

The word 'rush' is misleading. A 30- minute break every 6 hours is part of the rules to breaking the record

tomi4life:
I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.

I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.

My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance

My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.

Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens.
[b]
Finance: I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.


I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.


I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.

Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.


I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.

Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.

I think you need to inform her pastor. Since she is always busy with church activities, she will most likely respect her pastor and his advice

May his soul rip

Sebastine1994:
Congratulations to them. Especially frank mbah

Frank Mbah has been getting lots of accelerated promotion. He was accelerated to CP and now to AIG. Hope due process is being followed with these accelerated promotions. And hope this wont create some bad feeling among his course mates

englishmart:
Where did she get such an amount of money from?

Na mortage now.

9jaRealist:


If you and her put together the money you’re both expending on data, pretty sure it would be enough for malarial medication…
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They are scammers. You will notice that the “blessings “ original request doesn’t exist.

Devout215:

This is so heartbreaking, Nigerians are truly suffering in this hard times.. may God touch the heart of a good samaritan to help you dear

It appears you both are scammers who work together. Or you are still the same person who created another account to push this “scam” post.
Your profile shows you registered on nairaland on the 29th and you have two posts supporting this scam post.

I saw this “scam” post few days ago, the same way you pushed it with different account and I credited the account with something, thinking it was genuine. Now seeing it again makes me to conclude that it is a scam.
Why do you scam people by pretending to be sick?

Oga o

AdaojoTheUrchin:
Fintiri should kill if he has to in order to retain his seat. Afterall, he is simply playing it the APC way, in a free and fair manner.

Kill? Haba no now. Two wrongs cannot make a right. If he has to kill, remember it is someone breadwinner that will be killed. I pray that you or your close relative will not be a victim of election killing in Jesus name.

Really sad. Wife turned to widow and children to orphans just because of political ambition

I consider it strange that some people are quick to abuse someone else' papa or mama when you have personal disagreement with them. Why can't you direct your insult to that person instead of insulting/cursing the person's parents. Anyone that is quick to abuse someone else papa or mama shows that the person doesnt have regards/respect for his own papa/mama

Is it as per appeal court ruling?

GIDIBANKZ:



Somebody even tell me about the caring JOB but e say na 5m for Everything excluding FLIGHT TICKET N ACCOMMODATION…. But I Dey fear nigerians now

The person wan chop your money

naptu2:
SP Benjamin Hundeyin @BenHundeyin



https://twitter.com/BenHundeyin/status/1629851550024716290

And you can’t crunch the touts destroying election materials

And you can’t crunch the touts destroying election materials

Is party agents = Inec ?

70-year old Tinubu . Hmmmm

justFEARLESS:
Hello Guys

I moved to a new apartment early last month, and everything has been fine; a friendly environment, nice amenities and all, but I have only one problem. In our compound, there is a building in front with three and 2-bedroom flats in front of the building my apartment is behind, and it has two rooms and a parlour self-con.

The issue is that the window of my room is directly opposite the window of the bedroom of the people living in the 2-bedroom flat in the building in front. They get a little bit too excited during sex which is like every day and multiple times during the night: yesterday, I entered the house around 9:30 pm, and I noticed they were at it (This one, they didn't even close their window), They were already done before I slept off like 30 mins later, but they woke me up with their weird noise around 1, and it was on like that for like 1 hour, I managed to sleep, but they started again around 4.....

I don't know if they are married(because they don't wear rings or dress like married people), but they are young and live together; alone, but I can't bear this everyday wailing again. So what do you feel is right? If I tell the landlord to correct them, they will still know I am the one that reported because of the proximity of our apartment, and if I try to reason with the guy, it will be somehow awkward because we are yet to really start greeting ourselves sef.

For the record, I am married and blessed with a child, but my family lives in a different city. I moved here because of a program I am running. I will be spending at least 2 weeks here every month. Our landlord doesn't stay in the same compound but stays on the same street.

Instead of confronting them, just a write a note and put it under their door

NaijaOlosho:
Arrest that man he has killed AKA so that his prophecy can be true.

Nothing wey fake prophets no go fit do.

He should be arrested and investigated properly

Make dem carry broom stick out for him dick hole he will confess by himself or use lighter light him dick head he will confess

Nonsense

Yes, he is a suscept

Aufbauh:
Kwankwaso the self overrated candidate talking up his chances.

Someone should let him know that this is presidential election and not Kano state election.

He can’t even win Kano votes

Standarrd:
I dont knw hw u guys reason, russian cant win a war against ukrain talkles of 30 stronge nations nd more than 80 partners, is upto to poland to determined to activate nato article 5 laws. Thats attack one is an attack 4 all.

So you think Russia is only fighting Ukraine? Russia is hybrid war with the US, NATO and the EU. It is the weapon and military support from them that is giving ukraine hand in the war

Handsome777:
I went to the headquarters of a popular church in Abuja for a Thanksgiving Service. After the church service, there was a reception where there was an assorted alcohol on the list.

To my surprise, some of the clerics were served alcoholic drinks and they gladly indulged.

I am a born-again Christian because of my staunch faith in Christ Jesus and I also drink alcohol moderately. I don't believe I am morally wrong.

The name of the church ?

Is it difficult to mention the name of the church ?

I believe this man is just interested in the estacodes he receives from travels. That is why he travels everytime to maximize the money before he completes his tenure

Baba just want to gather enough estacodes before he leaves the presidency

Good

Could Jimoh Ibrahim fall into that category?

use this link to watch on twiter

https://twitter.com/search?q=tunisia+vs+nigeria+live&ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Esearch

Yes