Crime › Re: Abdulrasheed Maina’s Sister, Fatima Abdullahi Testifies Against Him by princeFAD: 6:42am On Dec 12, 2019 |
I think this is a wrong caption. Based on what is written here, she didnt testify against him, rather she exonerates herself. |
Politics › Re: New emirates: Court Tells Ganduje He Can’t Usurp Powers Of Kingmakers by princeFAD: 11:41pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
Hmmm |
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Politics › Re: Libel: Atiku Sues Lauretta Onochie, Demands N2.5 Bilion In Damages by princeFAD: 6:26am On Dec 04, 2019 |
Can someone please state how many libel cases that has been prosecuted successfully in Nigeria. We only hear when the case is instituted but we never hear the outcome. |
Sports › Re: Ballon D'or 2019 (Live Updates) by princeFAD: 8:51pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
Femeto: what did he win? Nothing. He was only part of the players nominated for young player award |
Sports › Re: Ballon D'or 2019 (Live Updates) by princeFAD: 8:34pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
Anyone with link please |
Politics › Re: Buhari Receives Emir Of Daura, Other Title Holders At His Daura Home (Photos) by princeFAD: 7:32pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
Ok |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Npower Participants Not Paid For Two Months After Osinbajo Handed Over To Sadiya by princeFAD: 10:51pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
This is serious |
Politics › Re: Photos Of Babatunde Fashola Commissioning 6KM Road In Ilara Mokin, Ondo State by princeFAD: 11:22am On Nov 29, 2019 |
Ok o |
Politics › Re: President Buhari Arrives Back In Abuja After 2 Weeks Vacation In London by princeFAD: 12:52am On Nov 16, 2019 |
I can assure you that the president will travel again before the end of the Year. It looks like something is always pursuing him out of Nigeria |
Sports › Re: Samuel Kalu Scores Beautiful Strike As Nigeria Beat Benin 2 – 1 (watch The Goal) by princeFAD: 12:25am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Nice one |
Romance › Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by princeFAD: 11:55pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
I will advise your sister to be very careful wherever she goes. She should take her security very serious. Her friend is enbittered already and she could go extra miles to hurt or try to eliminate your sister. It may be advisable if you report her to the police. Let them inviter her and warn her. This will stop any evil plan she might have for your sister |
Celebrities › Re: Speed Darlington Wants To Sell Iphone Zlatan Gifted Him, Zlatan Reacts (video) by princeFAD: 10:48pm On Nov 05, 2019 |
@Zlatan, Speed isnt selling the phone because he needs money but he said you have refused to pick his call nor respond to his Whatapps msg, so what he needs is not the money you are offerring him now, rather he wants you to pick his calls/ respond to his msg |
Family › Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by princeFAD: 11:33pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
computergeek: So I’ve never actually brought a personal issue to this forum, but this one is beyond me and I don’t know the best course of action to take here. I believe that there are people here who may have had a similar experience or might know what best to do. This may be a bit long.
So there’s this neighbor of mine whom I have an after-school agreement with. She’s a stay-at-home mum with two kids (a nursing baby and a four-year-old) while I have one child (also four). I usually leave my office at 4:00pm, so the agreement is, after-school at 12:30pm, I’ll go pick up the kids (they go to the same school) and return to work while she watches my son for me. I get my son his lunch and snacks before he goes there, even though she’s begged me to stop doing that, but I can’t saddle her with feeding a child that’s not hers.
The issue now is, a lot of violent things have happened in that house and as of this week, my son won’t be returning there. But I fear for the woman. Our homes are separated by a wall, but we often hear the arguing and crying sometimes. I knew she was having marital issues but I didn’t know the extent.
About two weeks ago, I went to get my son from the house and I noticed he wasn’t talking as usual. My son is the very boisterous type who likes to bounce as he walks, and he’ll usually try to take the key from my hand so he’ll open the door himself. That day, he wasn’t talking as usual. He seemed scared and shaken up. I knew the woman would sometimes punish the kids by asking them to kneel down when they fought, but she wouldn’t hit them. I asked him what the issue was, if anyone at school or home had been looking for his trouble, the guy said no. He’s very close to his father (they are best friends), so when my husband came home I asked him to talk to the boy because he couldn’t choke his food down. After about a while, my son opened up. Apparently, he’d witnessed a very violent beating that he was struggling to find the right words to explain. He said that David’s father had been punching his mother in the passage with two hands at a time, and when she’d tried to run, he brought her back and beat her more. He said that he and David had to hide under the table because they were scared of getting hurt. He then said the mother raised a flower vase and hit him on his head, but the man continued beating her and shouting at her.
I didn’t know what to say. My son had witnessed a violent beating and it traumatized him. We soothed the boy and told him to forget about it. I then knew why the woman didn’t come out to hand him over as she usually did when I went to get him. He just came to me by himself. The next day, I was skeptical about taking my son back there but he said he doesn’t want to stop playing with David and Sandra (the one-year-old baby). After school, I picked the boys up and drove them home. David’s mom came to the door and her face was badly bruised. I had to ask her what was wrong, but she hurriedly said she fell down and then took the kids from me.
On Friday last week, two days ago, the worst happened. It was around 3:00 or 3:30 when the woman called me at work. I picked the phone up and it was my son. He said that David’s mummy was lying on the floor and wasn’t opening her eyes. He said she was still moving but she couldn’t open her eyes. That blood was coming out her nose and mouth and their daddy had driven away. My heart literally flew out of my chest.
I called my husband as I was driving home and told him to meet us at the hospital. Long story cut short, she was badly battered and torn apart, almost about to give up life. I took her and all the kids to the hospital. While they were cleaning her wounds and hooking her up to the IV, I sorted out the bills. My husband tried to reach out to hers but he was rejecting the calls, so he went to make a statement at the area police command. They told us to contact them once she wakes up to give her statement. The police doesn’t usually like to dabble into marital issues but the woman was disfigured beyond imagination.
Sadly, you won’t believe what she said when she came to after a few hours. She started begging us to not report to anybody and not even call her family. That she’ll refund us the hospital bills and we should just call her friend that lives in New Haven to come and look after her. She was trying to protect the beast that had beaten her and left her for dead. We tried to reason with her because the man would certainly kill her sooner or later. She said he’s her husband and the father of her kids, bla bla bla. She told us that she’d been confronting him about a girl he’d been gallivanting openly with him, and that’s been the cause of all their issues.
She told me to use my number and call her husband because he doesn’t have me as a contact. I called him and told him the wife he tried to kill was in the hospital. He told me that she had better remain there because he’ll kill her if she ever comes near his house again. He hung up on me. She’s still insisting that he doesn’t mean it and she must go back once she’s discharged.
The issue now is, should we withdraw the police report or take the case up? The woman’s life is in danger and she doesn’t seem to understand the seriousness of her situation, writing it off as momentary anger. I don’t know why women choose to remain in these violent situations even when they have children to live for. She’s not even thinking about her one-year-old who has been with me all weekend.
Mature advice is needed here. Pease push to front page. I don’t know if we’ll be overstepping our boundaries by trying to help her. Please follow Ishilove advice. I am afriad for the life of the woman. The man is on the mission of killing her. As ishilove has righly said, „If she dies from one of the beatings, you will feel guilty because you had a chance to try to save her but you didn't. ” |
Crime › Re: How Airbnb User Scammed Tourists $600 Using British Billionaire's Estate Picture by princeFAD: 3:30am On Oct 20, 2019 |
Oga o |
Health › Re: Help! Am I HIV Positive? by princeFAD: 11:42pm On Sep 19, 2019 |
@op, haba, how could you be taking anti retroviral drug when you are not confirmed to be hiv+. You need to stop taking it. Go for test first. And like others have said, the virus cant survive outside condition, so you could hv been invected like that |
Literature › Re: Book Review: Born On A Tuesday By Elnathan John [download] by princeFAD: 8:27pm On Sep 19, 2019 |
Hi |
Sports › Re: Serena Williams Vs Bianca Andreescu: US Open 2019 Tennis Final by princeFAD: 9:53pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
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Sports › Re: Serena Williams Vs Bianca Andreescu: US Open 2019 Tennis Final by princeFAD: 9:52pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
thanks to the link poster |
Sports › Re: Serena Williams Vs Bianca Andreescu: US Open 2019 Tennis Final by princeFAD: 9:27pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
anyone with link to watch it online please |
Politics › Re: U.S. Imposes Visa Restrictions On Nigeria’s 2019 Election Riggers by princeFAD: 3:23am On Jul 24, 2019 |
Corrupt politicians |
Sports › Re: Ighalo Regrets AFCON Injury, Silent On Reported Retirement by princeFAD: 3:54pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
sorry |
Business › Re: Bernard Arnault Replaces Bill Gates As World’s Second Richest Man by princeFAD: 3:48pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
Nothing lasts forever except God's kingdom |
Sports › Re: Tunisia Vs Nigeria: AFCON Third Place (0 - 1) Full Time by princeFAD: 8:18pm On Jul 17, 2019 |
Abeg, who get link to watch the match? |
Politics › Re: Aftermath Of Ijegun pipeline Fire by a resident by princeFAD: 4:04am On Jul 09, 2019 |
Attach some pictures |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Cameroon: AFCON (3 - 2) Full Time by princeFAD: 6:45pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
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Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Cameroon: AFCON (3 - 2) Full Time by princeFAD: 5:55pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: 2 Herdsmen Caught Standing With Cow by princeFAD: 7:33pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
lol |
Sports › Re: Official BLACK STARS of GHANA thread--GHANA vs Tunisia (1-1) Second Half by princeFAD: 6:07pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Anyone with working livestream link please? |
Sports › Re: Ahmed Musa: I Forced The Coach To Play Me by princeFAD: 4:00pm On Jun 24, 2019 |
ok |
Politics › Re: Photos: Boko Haram Militants Killed In Joint Operation By Nigerian And Chadian by princeFAD: 12:38am On Jun 23, 2019 |
What is the meaning of WIA? |
Family › Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by princeFAD: 11:55pm On Jun 10, 2019*. Modified: 1:43am On Jun 11, 2019 |
My sister, they are different angles to look at this issue. First, referring to the low sperm count, you are not bound to remain in a marriage done on deception. But I dont that he deceived you here because he himself was not aware, until he went for a test, unless you are sure he was aware of his issue before the wedding and he hid it from you. Secondly, If your husband is physically abusing and he has serious issue with anger, my sister, do not wait till he kills you. Run for your life |