991: here we go again! 'women always want to be forgiven but they are never willing to forgive'
you can argue this all day but it's the truth, especially when she has her friends around her, they would be telling her to dump him. but when she is d one that cheated, the same friends would be calling you asking you to forgive her that it was the devil's work...SMH!!

Wahala90: A crusader put a chastity belt on his wife and gave the key to his best friend for safekeeping, in case of his death. He had ridden only a few miles away when his friend, riding hard, caught up with him, saying 'You gave me the wrong key!

Olabode johnson: Is not good even do u forgive her, dont take her bk, because it has hapon to me i saw them, people preach to i take her back after the story change pls if hapon u pls let go.

Bo-large:
READ THE MANUAL OF LIFE THE BIBLE . CHECK WHAT NUMBERS CHAPTER 5 SAYS:

IT IS NOT ACCEPTABLE BY SPIRITUAL LAW BUT FORGIVNESS IS STILL ALLOWED IF YOU CAN.

booqee: oh boy this ur english is destructive.

lynpetra: If am not cheating and he cheats,I might not forgive.As a husband,o wud be disappointed!Nobody prays to marry a cheating husband but if he decides to be an arsehole,I expect him to be wise enough and hide it as hard as he can cos I don't wanna know cos I don't wanna change d idea I have about him,if I do,it wud be messy,really messy.

El Guapo: Cheating happens to be the Core reason i'd seek for a Breakup/divorce in any relationship.

If its an incessant act that presents an apology each time its done, am calling it off.

REALITY101:

No offense I've been meaning to ask you.. Are you a tranny? Once again no offense

D Merciful: You seems not to be a Nigerian or even African cos I dont see the admirable African culture in ur comment!
You seems not to be a Nigerian or even African cos I dont see the admirable African culture in ur comment!

greg_o: For a lady or even a man to cheat on you while dating/ courting is a clear indication that he or she must cheat on you even after marriage. That is one of the major reasons why u shouldn't rush to marry someone u don't know very well. Don't allow useless feelings to ruin you.

ifebosco: nigerian runs girl as usual

addicted268: Yes I can.what I can't stand is d lies.cheating on me is bad enough,lying about it shows he's not ready to stop and it would feel like trying to play on my intelligence.

Alyricist★Laura:
I have no desire to Suppress my Lady, via force

If a Man Has to Forcibly retrain his Woman from Cheating, then your relationship isn't really worth a damn Imo

Restraint should be out of Loyalty & Natural Emotional Commitment, not Force, if she still has the desires to cheat, and does not act on it, Imo that is the same as actual cheating.

Her Mind should Marvel at the Perplexing Enigma That You May Appear to Be. If she is thinking of cheating, that means you just aren't Exciting Enough for her {Anymore/Never Were}

I am my Own Harshest Critic

I Critique Myself to a Level & Standard in Life that is nearly unable to ever be Achieved

All Great Men Strive to Become or Be What they Can not Be, Because the Level Slightly Below Immortal is Still Divine

Princessmel:

Wow

jennyching: Forgiveness is not just about when it happen. If your forgive doesn't matter if it happen before or after.

Refusing to forgive is a sin. If we receive forgiveness from God, we must give it to others who hurt us. We cannot hold grudges or seek revenge. We are to trust God for justice and forgive the person who offended us. That does not mean we must forget the offense, however; usually that's beyond our power. Forgiveness means releasing the other from blame, leaving the event in God's hands, and moving on.
"We may resume a relationship with the person if we had one, or we may not". Its the essence of forgiveness.