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MaxInDHouse:
First of all who told you that you're now born again?
What makes you think a born again Christian can't have multiple wives?

Well if you sincerely want to know the way forward then let's consider the scriptures together.
When God created the earth he made so many creatures but only one is made to share God's qualities: LOVE, POWER, JUSTICE and WISDOM. Genesis 2:26


If humans should continue taking in life saving counsels from the Creator they will live forever just as their heavenly father lives. Luke 4:4
Sadly the first human couple chose to rebel against their Creator and He told them the consequences of their actions! Genesis 2:17, 3:19
How do we reconnect with our heavenly father? How do we regain His blessings?
Well those questions will be for some other time what matters now is: Why must a Christian stick to the standard God set for marriage in the beginning? Matthew 19:4
The simple answer is: Jesus Christ has come to reconnect Adam's descendants back to their heavenly father, the garden out of which God sent Adam and Eve will be brought back but this time the whole earth will become like Eden that's what Jesus meant by Paradise. Luke 23:43


But all those who want to get there must humble themselves for divine wisdom {Zephaniah 2:2-3} God promised that the inhabitants of Paradise will never experience injustice of any kind {Psalms 37:7-11; Proverbs 2:20-22} so a Christian (prospective citizen of God's kingdom) must start planning how to live in Paradise now! Luke 13:24

There was no servant of God with more than one wife in peace. WHY? A man must love his wife as himself {Ephesians 5:28,33} so if you will not tolerate rivalry why getting a rival for the woman you love? Matthew 7:12

So if you've already gotten three women under your roof before learning about Paradise, the next step is to stop commiting ADULTRY with the other two women.

You must keep the love you have for your first wife in mind {Proverbs 5:18} and as for the other two adulterers you must continue to take responsibility over them and their children because you're the cause of their predicament.

For I hate divorce,” says Jehovah the God of Israel, “and the one who covers his garment with violence,” says Jehovah of armies. “And guard yourselves respecting your spirit, and you must not deal treacherously. Malachi 2:16

You must not deal TREACHEROUSLY with your wife because you promised to love her!

The other two adulteresses will have to bear the grief because they are evil! WHY are they evil? Because they came to do to their neighbour what they themselves will not permit under normal circumstances {Matthew 7:12} all that is in the past now when this light has not been revealed but they must find their own way either by keeping their bodies or going to marry someone else. A Christian must not continue having sex with multiple partners otherwise he will not see Paradise where God designed for ONE man (Adam) and ONE woman (Eve)

God bless you and may you have PEACE!

I love your input here. God bless you. But I still have my reservation though. Am not completely comfortable when you called my other two wives adulterers take it from me. They are not husband snatchers they were staying in their houses and I went their to seek for their hands in marriage and evey gadem things were done regarding to marriage rite. so how are they adulterers and husband snatchers.?

Happy weekend my people.

felixzo1:
traditionally married and Christian marriages are different. to the best of my knowledge you are not married

Hmm is this a Joke or what? what do you mean by Christian marriage?



At least we are supposed to emulate Jesus , is that not the meaning of Christian?

If yes. Who is the wife of Jesus, Paul, Peter and all the apostles of Jesus where are there wife and children? Am talking about their physical wives and children?
.we are just shouting Christan marriage up and down.

So a man that use his money to marry when he is not a Christian have committed adultery. chai.


Wonder shall never end.

xtivin:
Well done sir. What happens to who marries the wives sent away? Bros, sending them away is only applicable if the husband wants to be a bishop or else it is woe to whoever marries the wives sent away.

Even at that why will you send them away because you wanted to be a bishop or deacon?

LisaAnneMia:
Hi dear. I've heard of a case like this before. Cast this care upon Jesus and leave it to Him to handle. The case I heard of, it was the women who left themselves after he committed the situation into God's hands. It wasn't an immediate result but gradual... the first wife was left with him. Don't make decisions based on human advice or understanding. Let God lead you to make the right decisions. I believe everything will sort itself out. Don't make hasty decisions that you'll regret. Follow the promptings or leadings of the Holy Spirit. Allow your Abba Father to handle this.

Honestly to me this seem to me to be the best answer so far. How can you tell me to sent my wives away for no just reason because am born again. God bless you dearly.

Even in the kingdom of heaven there is nothing like marriage or given someone out in marriage.
What matters to to God here on this earth is for us to make it to heaven. God bless you once again.

Xiaomi1:
Lol, how many times will this stupid man issue one order?

Hmm the initial one was because of Fulani herdsmen and bandit but was suspended because of one powerful person in the presidency, but this one was issued because of unknown gun men. You will see how they will take it serious.

Armaggedon:
Most of them are even looking for a way to join ESN

Omo this your moniker is powerful. Igbo security network should have adopted that name.



That war on the last day will be wonderful, nobody should pray to witness it. But it must surely come to pass.

RuddyFusion:
Better be


Ebubeagu should do Thier own work...

ESN Should do theirs

Let none go after the other...

A word is enough for the wise.....

You don't even need to tell him. Can ebubeagu be able to confront Esn in a shootout.

Happy weekend

Kobojunkiee:
And you assume even that there is sanctioned by God Himself?

God said do not put away your wife except in the case of fornication, yet you think that the same God would smile at you when you seek to divorce your wife simply because you want a"Bishop" title?

Kobojunkiee:
And you assume even that there is sanctioned by God Himself?

God said do not put away your wife except in the case of fornication, yet you think that the same God would smile at you when you seek to divorce your wife simply because you want a"Bishop" title?

God bless you.

compton11:
they are all your wives
there is no where God said u cant have more than one wife

I believe this should be the right answer. Because I have been thinking about it daily. The Bible also said that whosoever marry a divorce woman have committed adultery.

Are they going to remain unmarried If they were sent away? to me I think it is wickedness.

That's why I bring up the case here.

perezeghi:
Let's be very straight forward.....
Please did the person do the traditional marriage rites to completion on each of the wives inclusive of paying the dowry on each of them......


Now that he is a born again....are the wives also now born again?

Am sorry I got these late. Everything about marriage was completed and all bride prize fully paid.

No they are not born again yet. Only their husband is a born again.

felixzo1:
unfortunately they were not Christians, but Jews and they had their law and customs, Christianity support only and and wife. only right from the early Christians to date.( if you want ask me where it is written in the Bible) I believe God will judge everyone in Fairless and truth. in this exams everyone has a different question paper .I summary its between you , your God and your conscience

you have not answered my question. my question is those who married before Jesus did they commit adultery. After all sin of adultery have been in existence before Jesus coming to the earth.
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That I should send my wives and children away because am a Christian. Any one who got married to those women did they not commit adultery. Mind you their parents williyfully gave them out for marriage

cbrass:
It already too late for restructuring

Hmm at least we can start from there

BigDawsNet:
Dudes be ready to be drafted...
Soon no time to be chasing skirts
It's time to defend your country
The questions is
Whose side are you gonna be?

The igbos who are still doing business in the north, na dem I dey pity

Siwisheswereesh:
Pigidiootts amaka

Pigidiotts are having the upper hand.

Is it possible for the Nigerian Army to replicate the Odi/Zaki Biam treatment in the yeast Time will tell.

Do you know why only two armedrobbers can terrorized the whole street and every body will scampered for safety? The answer is not far fetched.

It is because whole street or village does not have any one with gun who will confront them.

Jonathan39:
Nigeria should divide, there is nothing like change for a God forsaken country

you forgot to tell him, that the then president does not support terrorist neither does he have terrorist supporters and financiers in his cabinet.

garfield1:
True.I think all military and police formations and posts in se should be at red alert and the army should declare operation Python dance 3 and crocodile smile for the se

garfield1:
True.I think all military and police formations and posts in se should be at red alert and the army should declare operation Python dance 3 and crocodile smile for the se

the last time python and crocodile were dancing and smiling, those boys were moving unarmed.

I believe it will be a different ball game now.

So spot the difference.

felixzo1:
traditionally married and Christian marriages are different. to the best of my knowledge you are not married

This is the highest joke I have ever seen here.

So you mean all those married before the death of Jesus and even the one Jesus himself attended have committed adultery

Hmm I haven't got any satisfactory answer yet .

perezeghi:
Your question is if you have 3 wives?

My question to you........
If you are legally married to them .......through which institution(s)?
Was it done to completion?


Now you claim to be born again......who brought you to the knowledge of Christ Jesus your Redeemer?
What is his/her input on this question of yours?

Your responses will guide me on my next.

At the back of your mind just know that Scripture is vast and it goes beyond the wisdom of men. It is prepared and written by God that the reasonings and futile thoughts of men may remain insignificant to the power of the Most High God.

Shalom.

Am finding it difficult to get your question.

my question is clear, am not actually the one in question.

Again let me understand your own meaning of being legally married.

let me repeat my self again.

If I have three wives when am still in the world and I paid their bride prize and every ceremonies were completed.

Now that an a born again, do I sent them away?

I will be glad to receive your response . God bless you .

Please don't forget they all have children for me.
Thank you.

lonlytroy:
Dirty rag as flag

Hmm I believe that flag was handed over to them by some important personality, as a sign of respect they don't want to change it.

Trimjos:
Kaure niger is actually not close to abuja. It's closer to travel from abuja to awka Anambra state, than travelling from abuja to kaure Niger state. Mind you, niger state has the largest land mass in Nigeria (which is like 3 times more than the entire SE combined).

hmm then Nigerian government should forfeit that state to Boko Haram, and all case will be settled amicably.

Geniero:
You nor see the way him de look the flag like say worldcup trophy?... People wey we for don wipe out the surface of the earth since 1906.

God bless you. You can see happiness on his face while looking at the flag.

Something is wrong somewhere.

Obi1kenobi:
On the contrary, the corpses look very much like Fulanis with their typically slender build.

Hmm I don't think this pics is a recent one. They have uploaded this same pics some time ago and claimed it is Ipob that kill them.

This news is fake.

poshestmina:
This is Fulani pattern of killing.
Don't twist the narrative and those corpses there don't look like Fulanis.

Nigeria has finally gone to the dogs.

You are very correct. that's is their mode of operation killing women and children and they will slip the womb of pregnant women among them. And they always attack at midnight when every body is sleeping. Ipob is not heartless and I can vouch for them they didn't do it.


All this people sewing seed of discord. God is watching them.

Vaughanlanrewaj:
Child that says his mother won't sleep,......
FG dey gidigba on ground armed with enough Intel. Now there's still time for anyone that wants to live to the the path of peace before it is too late.visit www.freestuffsng.com for latest freestuffs in Nigeria. God bless Nigeria.

FG. dey gidigba for south east, but not for gaidem in north east. pathetic.

Hmm I think am more hooked in between. Righteousness2 said I should send the three of them away, that they are not my wife, and onother person suggested that I should keep the three of them since they are properly married. I think I need the Holy Spirit to help me out to get things right. mind you am not the person in particular someone brought it up to me to address.

Righteousness2:
You cannot be in sin and you Please GOD.
you are Displeasing GOD in sin.
You need to do the right thing to please GOD

Eternal Life is a Personal Race. Run your race. Take every Hinderances away.

They are not your wives . They were only your son Partners. so they are free to marry their own husbands..

hmm don't you think it is a very hard decision to take? sending away two women you rightfully and properly married? Righteousness is Holy Ghost comfortable with this your suggestion, or you are just speaking from your mind. This is a very serious issue. I want you to pray about it and be very sure of what you re saying, because this is a public forum. So that we wouldn't be misleading others.

felixzo1:
legally married in Church or where. only church wedding is legal for a born again, if you are only married by customary law , you are not married, you can not marry more than 1 woman by court wedding. which form of legal wedding are you talking about

may be legal might not be the right word here. Yet that's depending on your understandingon legal a woman who I paid her full dowry and her parents are happy to give her to me in marriage what do you call that?

felixzo1:
legally married in Church or where. only church wedding is legal for a born again, if you are only married by customary law , you are not married, you can not marry more than 1 woman by court wedding. which form of legal wedding are you talking about

So you mean a woman I paid her bride prize is not legally married unless I married or get wedded in the church?

helinues:


That's why it's very important not to attach too much emotions on anything...

Pantami's emotional reckless statement years back is hunting him now..

Big lesson for others to learn from..

Be the master of your mouth so that you won't be a slave to your words...

I get your points. But this case is different. You don't know what is the position of chief imman.
Whatever ever he said then was done deliberately and also have a place in Quran to back it up. Is like you saying a university lecturer did not control his mouth while he was lecturing.

He is trying to denied those things because he is still in authority, and had a mission. that's is if he have even denied them.