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Tonnyray:
I had to lmao at this
You know them well bro.
But they're fine and sabi fvck
Zenith bank and GTB babes are on this table

Boogiebee:
Hello Nairalanders,

So straight to the point. Please I need your advice about two things.

1. I just got my inheritance and I got cash of 8M and there's this popular belief of people squandering their inheritance,I don't want that to be my portion so which business can I invest it into. For context, I currently have a job and I'm not ready to quit so please put that into consideration.

2. My younger brother is still a student so he has asked me to save his portion of 6M in bank until he graduates but I don't think that's a good idea. I would rather he put it in some form of secure investment that will be yielding something. Kindly give us suggestions.

May the soul of my beloved Father continue to rest in peace. Amen

Emmynator:
The red pill is a praxeology, it is a body of truths about the reality of life.
You can not overdose on truth or reality.
The only questions that should be asked is "I'm i applying this right?".
Blue pill application of red pill is contradictory and stupid.
Hating and anger is not overdosing on red pill dude, it's something else.

Normally, I'd take that as an inside joke, but when someone says "take the red pill in moderation" in response. I have to clarify somethings.
How do you take the red pill in moderation?
Maybe the result of taking the red pill in moderation will be the purple pill, i dont know

Poshvector12345:
I was chatting one girl like that 2 years my junior. I don't chat much if you check my WhatsApp. Because it's mostly my fellow niggas. We are all medical students bookworm and our chat is mostly will lecture hold, Will we go for call,etc.
But this girl is very chatty and the chat is not boring, combine with the fact that lecture hasn't started, I chatted with her for over three hours 3days ago
When I noticed the time, I said something along the lines of omo e never reach one week we're we begin chat you don become one of my longest chat
The girl come say from wetin I talk, say e no say me never get girlfriend, say if I get I for don chat with am long and I no for complain about small chat.
There were other subtle points apart from that to back up her claim.
The thing dey pain me like this as she just read me like that, where be say na me dey always read person.
I think one of the reason was that I thought I was speaking with a fellow church girl. Daughter of presiding elder to be more precise.
Since then Sha, de chatting has slowed down.
E be like say d girl been de crush me and I don go stupidly destroy her fantasy
Every effort to spin it back has proven abortive.
Personally I being a virgin is not a thing of concern to me, I dont want to change that now , but I believe I have lost a certain halo I had over that girl and her group of friends.
Not to talk of gossip and reputation.

I think de lesson be say, you don't need to say I an a virgin, I have never been with a woman before .
There are things you say and do and you unknowingly communicate that

Two, everybody is reading everybody
Don't think you are safe.

Protect your reputation and myths

MJBOLT:

Martinez39s:
To make something clear, PrinxArthur1's reply wasn't bad, but I just suggested what I thought would have been a better response. Notice that I PREFERRED silence and snobbery because personally I have zero tolerance for stupidity and nonsense and I have strict boundaries, and we should all imbibe this. In case you think my response is harsh, you can opt for silence and snobbery.

That being said, my advice on how he should have responded if he really wanted to reply isn't extreme. Understand that her question, a question from a grown adult, reeks of a disgusting sense of entitlement and the arrogant and impertinent confidence of someone who has gained familiarity with prixarthur and thinks she has "seen him finish." (anyway she said he usually goes to her place, and I will wager that that's where the attitude is coming from. You never can tell if there is a way prinxarthur relates with her that gives her such audacity, or maybe she is just like that; only prinxarthur knows). Such is inappropriate and to have the guts to shove it in his face is highly disrespectful and a slap to his face, if he has strict boundaries on not putting up with nonsense. It doesn't matter if it is a śhit test or not.

To even do it confidently and remain rude and remorseless after prinxarthur's reply shows that there are strict boundaries he has to enforce in how he deals with her; it shows her regard and manners (towards him) are not sufficient and she has to be put in her place immediately and sharply. For such a rude and entitled folk, silence and snobbery or a harsh verbal stab (if you wish to respond) is okay to put her in her place so she will think twice when trying to pull such stunt next time. People who respect and place value on themselves have strict boundaries on who or what they tolerate and none of them will put up with anyone who can shove such nonsense in their faces.

Never be polite or gentlemanly to an unworthy and shameless woman. Never be polite or gentlemanly to a woman who lacks manners and has the audacity to shove nonsense in your face. Be cold and show no pity in putting women in their place if need be. Many of us will want to enter serious relationships and get married in future; for such men, it is best and important they get used to setting boundaries and putting women in their place if need be, even if it gets them offended or seems too harsh. Without these, your manliness and frame in your dealings with women are questionable and will be found wanting. This should be deduced from a red pill lens. In fact, all must have these qualities and get used to them. It is common sense.

Of course my advice should be followed with discretion. However, I am sure you get the drift.
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Finally, I know life can be hard for some single mothers and they are trying to survive and take care of their kids. However, the right thing should be done. If you want to ask someone a favour, do it politely and respectfully knowing fully well that no one owes you and your child anything. If your fellow man was this rude, entitled and disrespectful, would you pity him in how you would treat his fuçk up? Even after she shoved her entitlement and rude behaviour in his face, she didn't realise her mistake after his reply. She didn't even understand what she did wrong and why he was be angry, yet she kept on being rude and showed no remorse. SMH. Is such worthy of any consideration or pity?

I have little tolerance for nonsense. From my experiences with people, men and women, I learnt from an early age to have strict boundaries. Some people deserve it hot sometimes. Don't let people do you anyhow.

larryking540:
most single mother don't really need a husband what they need is a father figure for their kids ,but that's the worst part a man can ever take ,the only single mother I consider are those who lost their husbands via death ,it's understandable but others pls run for your life

MJBOLT:

You can get into the friend zone without even asking her out,a lot of guys are in this category,i know this because I've been there.

You see a girl you like but the courage to ask her out isn't there,you are afraid if you do,she will turn you down and not speak to you anymore.so you orbit around her like a lost sheep, acting nice and friendly hoping she notices your kind gesture and 'fall in love'.

On Monday,she will post 5 different guys on her status and call them my 'Man Crush Monday',you check over and over again but your picture isn't there,you keep wondering why this girl hasn't 'fallen in love' yet.

On her birthday,she has not even posted anything on her status but you 'Mr Simpson' already have her picture on your status,you are about to type 500 words wishing her Happy birthday.
This is the same idiot that cannot write an essay of 500 words.

The final blow will come when you visit her unannounced,you knock on the door
she asks "who's that??"
you reply "it's me, MJBOLT"

*she opens the door,you quickly scan the room,you see a guy naked, sweating profusely and she's also sweating and struggling to cover her body with a wrapper,deep down you know it has happened but you convince yourself that they were playing chess* (bloody fool)

she asks you "what do you want?"
you say "I came to visit...."

Before you can finish,she slams the door in your face.

That's the last straw,you delete her number,block her on Facebook and no longer acknowledge her presence but she doesn't care.
why would she?for every guy that leaves the zone,10 more are jumping into it.

RAGGA40:
Thank you, mother worshipper, more anointing to your forehead for
slamming the ground in worshipping of your mother.

Lightway:
Nobody in real life chase money. They chase the life

Why do yahoo boys keep doing yahoo.. because of the lifestyle.

It's the same for men and men

Lightway:
No proof

Just lies