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Family › The Nigerian Society Treatment Of Widows by Prism(op): 1:57am On Oct 27
It's one thing to be a woman,
it's another thing to be an African woman,
it's something else when you are a married african woman.
it's horrendous when you are married into a family that doesn't like you
it's a nightmare if your husband exits this world before you (no sane woman prays for this)
Look at mohbad's case
look at Toluwanisings wife.
All fingers are always pointed at the wives.

How dare your husband d!es before you! Sometimes it almost feels like they would have preferred you to kpai instead of their precious son.

Your life and that of your kids might mean totally nothing if you married into the wrong family.
you could end up starting from ground zero.
when you lose a spouse that is when you know who really loves you and your children.

Some women are forced to drink the water from the washing of their late husband's corpse.
Some are paraded naked round the town as in the case of pHairs (search for pHairs on tiktok to read up her story).

My thoughts: What now is the benefit of being married when your chances of experiencing human cruelty is high when you come from this part of the world.

If you are unlucky to marry a son of Belial, you won't have an idea of what he owns and where his documents are. some will rather give their documents to their sisters or mothers to keep for them than you his wife after all, you are nothing but a stranger and just a means to bear children to them.

I think we women should prioritize our financial security and our careers.

Let us decenter marriage and romantic relationships until we are financially secure.

We never know what the future holds.

Who knows if you might be the next Toluwanisings wife or Mobad's wife tomorrow??
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: This Is The List Of Fake Job Addresses Collated (not Exhaustive). by Prism(f): 6:30am On Jan 13, 2023
I didn't apply for this one o.
So Im thinking it is definitely a scam. Pls someone should help me verify:

Hello xyz,

Hope this email finds you well.

Jiji Nigeria is inviting you for an interview at our office for the role of an Offline Customer Acquisition Executive.

Kindly see details below:

VENUE: Former Andela, Epic Tower, 4th floor, 235 Ikorodu Rd, Ilupeju, Anthony Bus Stop, Lagos. It's a 5 storey building beside MUTUAL Benefits opposite Mobil fuel station.

TIME: Between 10:00am and 12 noon

DATE: 13th of January, 2022

Kindly click here for the Job Description and go through it prior to the interview.

Please come along with a hard copy of your CV and kindly confirm your availability by replying to this email.

Should you have any questions, feel free to call +2349122738074.


Talk to the HR Team on WhatsApp here: https:///+2349159293801
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: List Of Fake Job Address In Lagos State by Prism(f): 6:26am On Jan 13, 2023
I didn't apply for this one o. So I think it is definitely a scam. Pls someone should help me verify:
Hello xyz,

Hope this email finds you well.

Jiji Nigeria is inviting you for an interview at our office for the role of an Offline Customer Acquisition Executive.

Kindly see details below:

VENUE: Former Andela, Epic Tower, 4th floor, 235 Ikorodu Rd, Ilupeju, Anthony Bus Stop, Lagos. It's a 5 storey building beside MUTUAL Benefits opposite Mobil fuel station.

TIME: Between 10:00am and 12 noon

DATE: 13th of January, 2022

Kindly click here for the Job Description and go through it prior to the interview.

Please come along with a hard copy of your CV and kindly confirm your availability by replying to this email.

Should you have any questions, feel free to call +2349122738074.


Talk to the HR Team on WhatsApp here: https:///+2349159293801
Family › Re: I Lost My Blood Brother, Pls Pray For Me by Prism(f): 11:53pm On Sep 20, 2022
Pls accept my condolences. May he rest in peace
Family › Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by Prism(op): 11:11pm On Sep 20, 2022
Protein0:
You have kids yet?
Yeah, one
Family › Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by Prism(op): 11:06pm On Sep 20, 2022
dave601:
Bro, caning a child (2-15) when necessary is good. From my own personal life experience, and having dealt with different levels of students as an educationist.

It doesn't always work with older children, but it's perfect with anything 2 to roughly 9 or 15.

But once they get immune to flogging, then it's too late. You might as well be trying to correct a healthy He-goat. Cos you failed to start earlier. And being rude, wayward or stupid as become normal or praiseworthy to him/her.

The bible says you shall Beat him with a rod, and deliver his soul from hell... (Provb 23:14).

I laughed when I read this part of your comment : healthy he-goat.

Thank you for your advice. God bless you.


God bless.
Family › Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by Prism(op): 11:02pm On Sep 20, 2022
Spandau:
Please make a clarification. Is it spanking or flogging?
I meant spanking. Thanks
Family › Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by Prism(op): 8:18pm On Sep 18, 2022
boxer022:
Every child or in this case a toddler has their own size of cane and the way you use it on them is different from the way you use it on child above that age. If you don't start on-time to correct a child or toddler, it may be difficult to correct them when they grow.
This is exactly what my sis in law told me.
Hmmm. This matter has really got me thinking
Family › Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by Prism(op): 7:01pm On Sep 18, 2022
Hello nairaland family

Before I begin let's define toddlerhood;

Toddler: 1-3 years. Preschooler: 3-5 years. School-aged: 5-12 years. Teenager: 13-18 years.

Is it necessary to start flogging toddlers?? I married a yoruba man And I noticed his sisters like flogging their kids including their toddlers. I'm not used to seeing little children being flogged not to talk of toddlers and I get this cringe feeling when I see it. Is it a cultural thing? Is that how the whole tribe Is like? Does flogging a child actually make him or her betterhuh Or is it not just child abusehuh
I do feel somehow seeing people flogging 2yr old, 3yr old kids. I feel somehow. What do you guys thinkhuh
Celebrities › Re: DELSU Students Tell Ned Nwoko That They Hailed Him Because Of His Wife Regina by Prism(f): 3:56pm On Aug 26, 2022
Righteousness2:
Good question!
Oga Ned has his recongnized wife before, which is the First woman he legally married.
As long as she is alive, that is the wife recongnized by GOD. Every other woman is a Sin Partner.
You deserve to be caned
Celebrities › Re: Husband Of Bolanle (Pepper Them) Kicks Her Out Of His House by Prism(f): 11:34am On Jul 21, 2021
Sebastine1994:
Muslim girls have their Toto sewed until the night of marriage.

they leave just one small hole for urine to pass. the husband will be the first to penetrate her and they have a white cloth stained with blood to prove her virginity.

They cut the clitoris but they assure you that it would regrow, it will be even longer in future, so as to reduce tempation.

let us copy this style. or just avoid this bride price shit.





Marriage is now old school.

I don't want to get married, these days you can get children,sex etc without getting married.

The women of today are nothing to write home about.
I feel so triggered! Phew!
Celebrities › Re: Husband Of Bolanle (Pepper Them) Kicks Her Out Of His House by Prism(f): 11:32am On Jul 21, 2021
[quote author=Sebastine1994 post=103931834]But why would you promote such an outdated practice. Female genital mutilation? Do you know the trauma and life long damage it does to the womanhuh??
Wow, you need to be enlightened.
Family › Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by Prism(f): 9:59am On Jul 17, 2021
Different strokes for different folks.
How heartbroken your parents would feel once they find out you're gambling.
Gambling is a habit that leads to perpetual poverty. If I were you, I would come up with a business plan that would continually fetch me money. Pitch your business ideas to your parents (a reasonable one pls). That way, you'll see how difficult it is to make money and I guess you'll appreciate your parents more.
Nairaland General › Re: The Memoir, Life And Time On Nigerian Waters Through The Eyes Of A Nurse. by Prism(f): 9:50am On Jul 17, 2021
Wonderful write up @op
Your write up was quite interesting for me because I am able to visualize what I read. Don't be discouraged. Pls keep the story going! Cheers!
Politics › Re: One Question Most Nigerian Youths Don't Have Answer To Today. by Prism(f): 11:24am On Jun 26, 2021
It's extremely pathetic
TV/Movies › Re: If Nigerians Were On The Titanic by Prism(f): 9:21pm On Mar 23, 2021
Thanks for sharing this. It was good read,I was just laughing. Have you thought about making it into a comic?
Foreign Affairs › Re: Boris Johnson Announces Full National COVID-19 Lockdown For England by Prism(f): 9:17pm On Jan 04, 2021
cry cry
Romance › Re: I Had My Baby Today by Prism(f): 8:00pm On Jan 03, 2021
Congrats
Jobs/Vacancies › Yoruba Teacher Needed by Prism(op):
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Forum Games › Re: Turn The Last 3 Letters Into 3 New Words by Prism(f): 10:36am On Aug 05, 2020
May you Live!
Family › Re: Dna Test For Baby by Prism(f):
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Health › Re: My Failed Lasik Surgery Experience by Prism(f): 9:07pm On Jul 15, 2020
Sometimes I feel my optician is purposefully increasing the power of my lens because the higher it goes (-4,-5,-6 ), the more expensive it becomes. Because why in the world is my eye sight not improving? Infact it is getting worse with each increased prescription lens. Am I the only one who feels this way??
Family › Re: Save Me!!!!its The 12th Hour O Lord. by Prism(f): 11:08pm On Jul 12, 2020
I just read this thread from beginning to end. Hmmmm.
May God continue to keep you &your child @godzchild).
Christianity Etc › Re: Preaching Etiquette by Prism(f): 9:45am On Jun 28, 2020
There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus who walk not after the flesh but after the spirit Romans 8 verse 1.

What does this Verse mean?
It means God doesn't condemn you at all. You have been forgiven, but you have to walk (live by) the Spirit (Holy Spirit guided life) not the flesh (Natural inclination to sin/do sinful things).

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