₦airaland Forum

Wittyduchess:
Men are more enabled due to patriarchy. Men have more opportunities to devolve and get away with it. Infact being toxic to some is a "manly trait".

Calm down dear. You're sounding like one that has experienced true, mature loving. If you meet the right persons, all of these will be tales of the past

Wittyduchess:
They hate when you see through them. The snubbing is also part of the manipulation ,they have various ways of "guilt tripping" and they see the "silent treatment " as a powerful control tool.


More people need to ba aware of narcissism, gaslighting and emotional manipulations because ,there are more damaged people out there devolving everyday and developing dangerous personality disorders detrimental to sane and normal socialization and relationships.

Its not gender based

nurez305:
The first red flag was when she started ignoring my calls.

I went to her house to know what is going on and I met a guy there but he excuse us immediately, later she went to take her bath and drop the phone on the sofa. I was with her phone when the text message from that guy that left enter with only "OK" . then I open the message and I saw the previous conversation between them.

The guy said : when you know your boy-friend is coming to your house today, why did you invite me also to come

My fucking GF replied : he is not my boyfriend, he is only a friend


After reading that, I started sweating inside their house after I have spent on the idiot.

I bought her the phone,
Pay her school fee,
Give her money whenever she ask
When her father died, I paid her trip to and fro and also give her change to hold to her village.


I felt like a loser and was very heartbroken. I summon courage and told her to return back my phone after telling her what I saw in her inbox, she accuse me of checking her messages without her consent and she refuse to give me the phone.

I threten her that if she refuse to return my phone that I won't take it lively with her. She reported me to police and they set a trap for me, she told me to come to somewhere to collect the phone, on getting there, I was arrested and the police force me to write a statement that I will never disturb her because of this phone again. I did and they told me to call one of my relatives to come and bail me and be my witness. I did that and I was granted bail and told us to come the next day.

The next day, the police woman try to settle the issue between us and she said we should not fight each other again and continue our relationship. And the police officer told her to delete all the threat messages I sent to her which he did.


NOW IS MY TURN TO REVENGE
After about 2months that will depart, she taught I have forgotten everything she does to me not knowing that I'm only waiting for the best time to strike her back. I went to area command to hire police, the man charged me 30k and told me not to worried that what she does was very bad. I lead the way to her house and she was shocked to see me again, she quickly call her mum and to tell her, we arrested her in her shop then and the police put an allegation on her that she hire tug to beat me up because I requested for my phone from her. She started crying that is a lie. The police ask for the receipt of the phone from her and she told them that I bought it for her, they collected the phone and detained her until her family show.

I later tell the police to allow her to go but I need to collect the phone. The man said it is important I do that.... After everything, I collected the phone and leave them in the station.


Foolish olosho

Wicked. You're a demon

Lalami3232:
Dem plenty ooooo .
Immediately you tell a 9ja babe say get feelings for her, E be like say you dey owe her instantly.
Funny enough, 99.2% no get anything to offer aside that toto wey everybody don chop before you. Even the toto wey majority of dem dey offer isn't even tight.
Na we go still use our own money to buy enlargement pump and cream before we fit enjoy the wide canal wey many of dem dey carry. I doubt if this generation of girls go stay labour room pass 2mins sef. The pikin go swim out with ease


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "a single mother for Europe tight pass our average 9ja babe"

Lmao

Deadlytruth:
Please what is your source of this information? Oshiomhole asking Obaseki to grant countracts? So there are people who still believe Oshiomhole was trying to lord it over Obaseki even with all that Obaseki is doing now in PDP in vindication of Oshiomhole?

Its in-house intel. Some construction companies that had gotten substantial funds and di not execute projects and had been red flagged wanted new contracts. They were Oshiomole aids. This was the Genesis of the crisis...


I didn't say Oshio lorded over him. Never did their relationship reflect lordship.

Deadlytruth:
The quality of professionalism in an individual is seen in the results and impact of his occupancy of office. So far, Obaseki has failed Edo State woefully. In Edo State, Lucky Igbinedion has relatively become a star on account of Obaseki's woeful failure and secretive style of governance. No project. Only aidio projects like phantom Gelegele Seaport, phantom Edo North Airport, fathom 200,000 jobs, no harvest ever seen from Sobe and Usugbenu farms, etc

Deadly truths

Thehardcoreunkn:
Awon Edo no be Lagos crew.. me a Benin born told them obaseki is a failed back stabber, he doesn't mean well for our state but they said no that oshiomole, ize iyamu is worse.. now you see with your eyes??

No single development in our state, it still looks like village, obaseki has done nothing, any good thing you managed to see in Benin was done by oshiomole, 6 good years now nothing to show for it, I pity us..

Is it that bad ?

PrinceOfLagos:
Wike didn't masterminded any court judgement sir, you broke the law and paid heavily for it..

Stop blaming Wike for this calamity that has befell you. lick your wounds, make peace and move on.

I wish you well

Thank you my brother

zigzagluv:
He didnt bully anybody , what is happening in EDO state is the Obaseki is trying to hijack the political structure , to so hand over to philip shaibuto be the next GOV , disrespecting the people in PDP

God bless you. You sabi

siofra:

Abi I should com'an take you out. Close to the island?.

siofra:

Abi I should com'an take you out. Close to the island?

Antoeni:
This is when PDP was Wike's personal property.
May chronic ingrates never find their ways into our lives IJN!

Amen

Human behavior

Zeezy81:
That small boy... it seems you have a personal problem with the Edò state Deputy governor. Well, however it is, Rivers or Wike cannot decide the fate of a politician in Edo. Also, be careful how you go around shouting Ingrate, . Because Edolite voted Godwin and Philip in the last polls and not the PDP

Shuaibu attacked a party and platform. He got served. Who mentioned anything about Edo internally? Na so una dey always behave. Go and investigate Umahi's case and see if its just individual candidates INEC and the law recognises.

IgboSomalia:
Are you not the person begging for minibus on hire purchase here?
https://www.nairaland.com/7028695/foreign-used-korope-hire-purchase#111016033

Indeed. Investigate me cause you know everyone around me and everything about me. Mtchew

DerrickzB:
My brother, some people are funny and ignorant ooo

Let's be careful how we help people o. Recall how Federal government used armies and all and Wike has rallying the entire nation to save Obaseki's life. This life ehn

pquaver:
Story all this is viperturations.. Do onto others what you want done to you.. Edo no be Rivers. We say no yo Godfatherism in Edo pdp. We are for good governance.. Godfatherism is not good.

I'm familiar with Edo people and instability. How did Wike lord it over Shuaibu or Obaseki. Oya tell us. Talkative

bigapplelass:
@Seun, I think it's time nairaland has a "dislike" tab to balance the "like" tab for the sake of fairness.

I'm sure you've noticed a recent surge in political, social, ethnic & religious comments receiving lots of likes & shares but no option to "dislike" them giving a skewed acceptance of such comments.

All comments (including mine & yours) should have an oprion to be liked or disliked.

cc: lalasticlala

You and the chronic behavior of perpetually being on the sidelines reading everything and observing

omenkaLives:
Only you, almost 10 comments on the first page. What exactly are you hyperventilating about? Appears like this crisis threatens your source of livelihood.

Best wishes. Bye.

Smiles. I earn more than 80% of the entire country's work force o'er month. I'm not broke. You're not on my level...

Good day

pquaver:
Same thing pdp is try to destroy shuaibu its the same thing. You cannot probate and reprobate at your convinience.. Edo no be Rivers my guy.. Say no to Godfatherism

I'm not doubtful about your disloyalty, lack of stability and guiding principle. I deal with people based on their ethnic behaviors. I can see yours clearly Brutus

Look at this empty thing. Why did your deputy not reach out to the party internally to resolve any crisis? Do all political parties globally not have internal systems to dealing with Acrimonies

Empty thing. Leave the party and watch APC tear you to shreds. In fact, APC knowing Woke will withdraw his support will begin to file law suits against him from now. Empty kettle

pquaver:
U hate lack of loyalty but supported his disloyalty to oshomole.. Hypocrite.. Abeg Edo no be Lagos jare. Obaseki ride on say no to Godfatherism in pdp too. What is good for the goose is good for the e gander... If they do anyhow defect to apc. U will have the party structure without oshiomole as the APC chairman

Oshiomole was hell bent on destroying Obaseki because he won't grant contracts to companies that were red flagged. Do your investigations. That's not a case of loyalty/disloyalty.

Slurity:
Wike attack both of them by saying they came begging like a child before the gave them umbrella. Go and read the thuggery verbal nonsense coming from Wike again before you defend him.

Yes. Is it not up to.? Was Oshiomole not begging and kneeling. If you helped a person who came kneeling to you and the person turns around and begins to misbehave, what will you do?


Obaseki and Shuaibu had been scheming to hijack the party structure and they said no. Would you invite a person to come and eat and be happy they stopped you from eating yourself?


Shuaibu and Obaseki have grave flaws and are rebellious but only hide it.

Mooh247:
Will there still be anything called PDP after 2015 if not for the generosity of Wike and Fayose?!

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Thank you

delivryboy:
Wike may have contributed to the continued existence of the PDP (along with Fayose) however, that does not mean the party is his personal property where he would bully everyone around, he was already compensated for his efforts by allowing him dictate the party chairman (Secondus). His continued bullying and unguarded utterances would lead him to his doom.

And Shuaibu's comments isn't bullying. Well done, hypocrite

siofra:
Nigerian girls are too much abeg!

Okay babe, we hear you. You're feeling so energetic and animated today. Okay. You're pretty. We hear. E don do

Slurity:
Don't be one-sided in your judgment, Wile is not the leader of PDP nor the spokesman, the chairman as reacted in response to Shuabu, but wike go too far by combining both the governor and his deputy abusively. Wile is just a governor like his Edo counterpart. He should respect Edo governor too, will PDP ever win Edo, if not for Shuabu in particular? The deputy governor influence that push PDP to power in Edo.

Oga. I read his comments. Woke only direct his comments to Shuaibu. You go read first abeg

He said how dare Shuaibu speak against his governor and the party publicly. You peoples hatred for Wike's guts is what I don't understand

Atimjessy:
We are beautiful and we know it. Nigerian men are just angry because we are highly selective, which is good for us

Babe, if I pinch you and siofra through the phone.

SarkinYarki:
Na wa ..these ingrates have carried their rebellious behavior into our dear party after we brainstormed and came up with the single liner " Edo No Be Lagos " that became the fuel for his victory

My elder. The matter pain you too?

You can imagine Shuaibu scheming to hijack the party structure to become governor when he met other elders there before him.


Rather than wait for his time, he's busy rebelling against the only support he has.

HIGHESTPOPORI:
Pdp is too big for anybody to threaten

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It is just to bad. That small boy is gradually putting a limit to his political career

His father this, his father that, who did his father help asides Oshiomole?

Obaseki will regret this statement.

You have been told several times to leave the party if you're unhappy. Why not leave in peace ?

I will never take people who come to me seeking for help serious. Never. Ingrates