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The only issue here is you guys living apart, try and arrange things such that you are always together. Living apart is not the best.

Explain it physically all you can.

Are you saying black magic cannot be used to induce it? Dey play.

CanadaOrBust:
No, but he should be careful how he handle the situation. It is our DUTY to make sure we behave in a way that our neighbors or friends are not jealous of us

Regardless of how you behave so as not to stir envy in your neighbor, even if this includes you laughing sheepishly all the time, and even bending to greet that neighbor who is your age mate or even younger, the moment you are living a life that they dream but do not know if they will ever get to live it in this life, they will beef or envy you.

In short, people envy you for no reason most times.

TokoEkambi:
All this talk of envy is more common among southerners. You hardly see this among northerners. Southerners are so toxic. Reason why I prefer living among Hausas/northerners generally to living among southerners.

Who can verify this claim?

CanadaOrBust:
Is it the crooked politician that parks his shiny new car beside the raggedy old car you're managing? No, it is your neighbour!

Now I understand the what you mean by reflection. But still, does a man with the raggedy car pray to be taken out by the person with only a bicycle whom he also reflects on?

ManknowThyself:
Respect our prof, na king you be.

thank you Sir.

You made sense from the first letter to the full stop you used.

GeneralOuki:
This is a backward mentality and all it does is to encourage the police to overstep and harass citizens out of prejudice. It's a sad thing that people like you are okay with police harassing law abiding citizens just because they do not conform to your societal standards. This is the reason why we have the kind of politicians and security operatives that we have in this country.

I never said I am okay with the police harassment and never will I encourage it, who knows who might be next?

But police harassment is real, even to those who live right. How much more those who don't? And I am not saying vibrators mean you are not living right, but my statement is a different angle entirely, that is why the second line was put there.

ManknowThyself:
When you want to go far without delay keep friends out of your personal space and life completely.

No body go fit use envy destroy waiting he nor get access or closure with.

Wisdom, there's nothing like best friend or life squad cos they can sell you and everything they know about your life for a dollar without hesitation.

The only true connection is God and he's faithful with grace and mercy.


Until we the youth grow above religion and ethnicity in unity, that's the only true solution to every Nigeria problem today to be in the past.

We all need each other cos we all are important to rescue Nigeria for our children's future.


In a nutshell, most guys envy their friends and neighbors deliberately doing it out of competition. They use both physical and spiritual ways try to bring you back to their level of low life.

Me no friends, no squads and no competition cos the last time i checked was still competitive with myself to do better than yesterday.

Only business associates and learning news ways to make money is allowed.

Keep people at distance, all their evil plans can never get to you cos God is faithful.

You are known to always make profound sense on this forum, kudos.

Caaz:
If I want to decipher naija men from international sites it's by their comments.

Envy is real.

The envy is too much, it makes people act wicked, stupid, and insane all at the same time. Do your own na and leave your innocent neighbors and friends alone. At most, channel your anger and beef towards the crooked politicians.

CanadaOrBust:
But that's human nature. People don't envy those who already made it way above them. They envy their mates or neighbors who seem on the verge of making it, or whose success reflects on them. If Tinubu has a convoy it doesn't reflect on you, u hail him. If your neighbor or mate has tokunbo it reflects on you (with your Leg-edes Benz! )

"People don't envy those who already made it way above them. They envy their mates or neighbors who seem on the verge of making it" you it it right here. But I really don't understand what you mean by reflecting on to you. Anyways, human nature is very bad then, going after innocent people who didn't hurt you but neglecting those who deprive you of your future in the name of governance and sometimes even defending them. Let's change that.

I just went through this thread and really the poster raised serious issues you can hardly fault.

https://www.nairaland.com/8680172/even-30-million-year-feel/1#139549775

So are Nigerians one of the worst people?

Countless times it is said, once you buy a new car, or your status just changed, then you have to change your location. This is because your breakthrough will stir envy.

However,

1. My people will defend their oppressors (the politicians that loot their present and future).

2. My people envy their neighbors/friends who are merely trying to survive, and if care is not taken, they are ready to take the lives of their neighbors/friends just because of envy.

The reasons for the envy could be, the neighbor/friend just got a Tokunbo car (but this person didn't buy it from your common wealth, this person did not tax you etc.) This person got it from his hustle/struggle/sleepless nights.

They could envy their neighbors/friends because he has a beautiful wife, or caring husband (common, they did not snatch them from you).

But my people do not envy their oppressors who are the real cause of their misfortune.

My people hardly get angry with their oppressors who deliberately planned and created their poverty (so that they can continue to rule you).

Rather,

My people hail their oppressors

My people defend their oppressors

My people snatch ballot for their oppressors over peanut.

Don't you people think about this, this is misplaced envy and jealousy.

Let us change our behavior, let us direct our grievances to the right channel.

👉 vote wisely

👉 do not snatch ballot or do any dirty job for any politician

👉 let people who are sure of their manifesto, antecedent, competence etc. come to free and fair election

👉 hold political office holders accountable

👉 recall underperforming representatives

👉 live above ethnic and religious bias during election

👉 vote based on competence and merit (enough of mediocres and mediocrity).

Leave your friends and neighbors alone, let them drive their cars.

Don't think evil against your innocent friends and neighbors. They did not cause your misfortune.

Target those that squander and lavish your common wealth.

We cannot continue to target those who did not wrong us.

We cannot continue to be docile.

We cannot continue this way.

correctguy101:
Oga if there's no English like that before, there is now.

You just invented another yéyé English... 😁

Lwkmd 🤣🤣🤣

frustrative Nigerian youth, please vote wisely come 2027.

geoworldedu:
I masturbate on a steady. I don't need vibrator. For those who need it, I don't condemn them. Come lemme teach you how to masturbate.

I will tell Nigeria police to harass you for being such a chronic masturbator, don't ask me what exhibits they need to find on you, I know how to take care of that.

Diamond098454:
Oohh you are the guy that was complaining Hahaha
Anytime...........

be specific.

GeneralOuki:
Abeg cease with all this hypothetical virtue signalling, Some of you still patronise Olosho, some almost 10gb worth of porn in their phones that they masturbate to every night but then come here to tell adults how to sexually satisfy themselves.

I will ask again, since when did vibrator become a contraband in Federal republic of Nigeria?

is there anyone who wishes to give birth to such? I don't patronize such, it's funny how you people generalize. If you move about with vibrators just go and get married simple, otherwise Nigeria police go just they harass you any how

Diamond098454:
You found love? Congratulations I'm happy for you.

Thank you my love.

When are you buying me the pepper soup?

OneCandleAway:
You aren't placing yourself in the right locations.in Abuja women could walk up to toast you

I wish you could toast me right now

MarkNsukkaBread:
How is it your business whether they are married or not?!

How many vibrators do you want before the year ends?

geoworldedu:
You people will leave the topic and be talking okpata

something is telling me you will soon be caught with a vibrator as well.

Originalsly:
Do you really believe this is something new? ... women using objects for self sexual satisfaction? Vin ator is just one of many tools used for this . Most of our "moral wives" do not have vibrators ....but be using cucumber and bananas and other stuff to serve the same purpose.... cucumber being the #1 choice. Isn't it the same cucumber they slice and feed you as salad? If you didn't know now you know. The problem is the Police ... let's focus on their action ... is it illegal to hav a vibrator? If not ... why seize it? ... maybe they are undercover gay?...and want to use it on each other? I wish the women would've jumped them and stuff the vibrator in their mouth. Unbelievable....who will want to hold a woman's vibrator?....I wish she had some kind contagious disease that transfer to them .

oh no I don't eat salad, just confess to me you have been fed salad with used cucumber

GeneralOuki:
Is it a crime to not get married? How is it anyone's business whether how an adult chooses to live their lives? You people should please stop with all these archaic thinking abeg, it's getting really embarrassing.

Possession of vibrator is not a crime in federal republic of Nigeria, and that policeman is overstepping.

Do you wish the ladies in the video were your daughters and can you go on TV to defend your supposed daughters?

Of course to marry or not is always a choice, even in religious settings.

Zooposki:
Married women with children die faster than single women without children. Husbands and children cut their life expectancy, especially the husband whom contribute more to them dieing faster.

A man or woman with a great spouse glow, live healthy, joyful and live longer. A man or a woman with a bad spouse is liable to die earlier than they should. Understand that.

Well said

Well said

I really love that second point, I dislike possessiveness a lot, even in guy to guy friendship, superior to subordinate relationship. I am not your property.

But here’s the problem:

Not every fever is malaria.
Sometimes it is:
stress,
typhoid,
dehydration,
infection,
ulcer-related illness,
viral infection,
lack of sleep,
anxiety,
high blood sugar,
even severe exhaustion.


Small headache:
“Buy malaria drugs.”
Body weak:
“It’s malaria.”
Didn’t sleep well:
“Malaria is worrying me.”
Meanwhile the body may actually be crying for:
rest,
water,
nutrition,
proper diagnosis,
or medical attention.

Op, let us play a game in which you dare me to spend the 7M within 24hrs to see if I can finish it or not.

Very sweet game.

Women that are supposed to be in their husband's house carrying babies are now carrying vibrators up and down. The societal standard is simply the best.

God will judge all the politicians that spoilt our economy and made the lives of youths/adults miserable and frustrative (if there is any English like that).

Diamond098454:
I will buy for you don't worry

Oh, Nairaland guys and ladies, I have found love.

Men, why are you guys so stupid?

As I be handsome guy like this, why aren't ladies buying me ordinary pepper soup

“Our nation is undergoing a process of renewal and transformation aimed at securing a more stable and prosperous future for generations to come.


This is a lie, your continuous borrowing has even put unborn Nigerians in debts they cannot pay. In essence, you are building unsustainable and extremely weak Nigeria for us because you want to pack all the money for your own generation.

So that he can come and tell us on TV by 7am that "my fellow Nigerians, I know this decision is painful, but I will go ahead with it". I dey always hate that speech.

Learn to listen to the masses. Simple.

I don't care who wins though.