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Goo0dHardDick:
Well said!

Everyone knows a woman's help is usually about money and her " please can you do me a favour" must involve money no matter what. She'll tell you she hasn't eaten, no data, this and that. Etc.

Greeting is normal thing, but outrightly cutting her off instantly shows you have massive self respect and you're high value. It's more like moving on from a place where you're not wanted. A guy Still maintaining contact with a girl that rejected him shows he is weak and can tolerate anything, doesn't value himself, most importantly, he cannot get women because they know a man with options won't even waste time in discarding them or getting another girl.

A girl that rejected a guy isn't interested in him. He should move on and stop entertaining her games

well said.

May God help us.

According to her, she wishes she had relocated to China much earlier. She explained that she did not realise she was wasting her time in Nigeria, just as many young people are doing today.

Come to China and make something out of your life before it's too late."

"We are so less busy in Nigeria that we are all over the internet doing nonsense. We are too freaking free."

She further disclosed that she used to spend a lot of time on the internet, trying to keep up with every trending topic and event online. However, since relocating to China, she has become so occupied with her business that she barely has time to use the internet before going to sleep.

Some people need to wake up and read the above every morning.

Wickedness of the highest order.

I remember when they used to tell us then that our wives were still in the secondary school, that we should forget our age mates.

However, the man should not play on the girl's innocence or naivety. Instead guide her properly, add values to her life, don't lead her astray and don't teach her bad things.

But sha, I dislike seeing old married papas with the young ladies, it is an eyesore (agbaya things).

Flesh10:
Dated 1yr and I met the previous lady last month which was still 2yrs after

Though we chat once in a while on WhatsApp but haven't met since then

I'm asking about the one you married. If it's one year, it's certainly cool.

Humans are wicked

When they cannot achieve a thing, they bad mouth it and discourage others

As soon as they can achieve that thing, they try to convince you that the thing is not bad after all.

Use your brain otherwise others will use it for you.

1. STAIRS/STEPS: If they are inside, they are called stairs, but if they are outside, they are called steps.

2. FLOOR/GROUND: If it is inside, it is called floor, but if it is outside, it is called ground.

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Flesh10:
Lol.

That was how I asked a lady out. Very beautiful girl that matches my specs but she was just forming, I could tell she liked me but was drawn away because I was the reserved type . I dress normal, I don't do flashy things, I don't put on jewelries and I don't post my private life on social media but this girl kept posting me because she said she would love a man that shows her online, that dresses like WizKid squad, blah blah blah so I knew right away that we had opposite mindset that was how I gave up

Fast forward to a year later I met another more prettier and younger lady , well reserved and with similar traits like myself and instantly we clicked. We didn't have to date for long before we got married because I saw this girl as a perfect match and wouldn't waste another month dating her. I sealed the union as quickly as I could.

Last month I saw that other lady, she came around my area and called and I went to see her. We were talking just as friends but I could sense her regrets.

She then said she wish she had overlooked somethings then because right now age and maturity has made her that she was being childish with her demands that even the social media she doesn't even go online anymore and fashion sense for her ideal man has even changed.

For me I knew then she was being childish as a young lady back then and would eventually mature and change her perception when maturity kicks in but I wasn't ready for drama so I moved and that decision I do not regret at all because I wouldn't have met a better person if I had stayed stuck.

My wife is a rare breed with traits I still haven't found in another lady, I would call her my perfection

how many months did you date your wife?

Noted

A lady should move to her husband's house right from her parents' house. A lady should not stay alone.

Guys too can stay in their parents' house.


See it's all about protection. Except you have solid reasons to move out.

Somebody advise me please, I want to invest.

Top priority:

I. Safety of my capital

II. The best company who can guarantee this capital safety (this refers to the one that pays the highest among them)

III. Lastly, I am ready to look away from the capital and interest for 6 months

Thanks in advance.

alexokeke325:
Stanbic mmf never drop today interest, what's happening. Any body experiencing it abi na only me

Have you received it now.

Gboss247:
FBNQuest is was owned by FirstHoldco before it was sold to EverQuest Acquisition LLP in 2025

Thank you

Gotocourt:
FBNQuest is owned by First Bank right?
FBN Holdings Plc

Who owns this Unit Capital Asset Management?
United Capital

Thank you

Gotocourt:
Stanbic IBTC Asset Management (my very own)

FBNQuest Asset Management

United Capital Asset Management

Thank you.

FBNQuest is owned by First Bank right?

Who owns this Unit Capital Asset Management?

As for me, I enjoyed this write up. Very detailed and correct. Nice one here.

essentialone:
GoodHard what?

If you ask me, na who I go ask?

Gotocourt:
Nigeria financial sector is booming since the coming of Emilokan. Our Money Market 💰 has been sweet, I dey mutual funds on the low .

what are the three best banks for mutual funds investment in your view/recommendation? Thanks.

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Goo0dHardDick:
I have explained this countless times before here on nl but una no wan learn

To quote you self wan hard me small, which kind moniker be this . Well explain again maybe I go understand this time.

Why do ladies like this go with unserious/dirty guys. Women.

AccidentedCars:
Before the women come for my head:

I am not saying marry an ATM machine. I am not saying love doesn't matter.

I am saying love ALONE is not enough to sustain a household in Nigeria in 2026.

The cost of living has outpaced the capacity of a single income to support a family. This is not opinion. This is mathematics.

If you earn ₦300,000 a month and your wife earns ₦0, your household budget is ₦300,000.

If you earn ₦300,000 and your wife earns ₦200,000, your household budget is ₦500,000.

That extra ₦200,000 is the difference between choosing between rent and school fees, and paying both without panic.

Love won't generate that extra ₦200,000.

A skill will.

you made mathematics look so sweet beyond the general FIND X

A wife with a skill is not an insult to your masculinity. It's insurance for your household.

Very apt.

The op is analytical and a good writer.

This is educative.
Thank you
Thank you

I still saw one today and this same thought came to my mind.

The best will be for you to keep the same items in multiple places such as notebooks, and at the same time transfer everything to online. So if one is missing, you can have access to the others.

You see why men who treat their wives better always shine.

Those who do the opposite always end up as failures.

Husbands
Treat your wife well.


Wives
Don't take a good husband for granted, don't say what will you do if I dare you?

Peace.

Baby mama baby daddy is maximum bitterness and sorrow. The pain is always in the heart/eyes of those living it.

NOTHING DEY THERE. RUN.

This is really nice.

Oxb90:
Tomorrow someone will tell me ladies are easily deceived. Give woman power na their you go no saying love you na scam

The husband is the culprit here, how can she transfer the whole money to him. As in how?