Celebrities / Re: Davido's Girlfriend, Chioma Gets A Multi-Million Naira Endorsement Deal by progressj: 9:06am On May 07, 2018 |
Baba God answer my call...Show me the way dear Lord �� |
Crime / Re: South African Policeman Caught Planting A Gun In A Nigerian Man's Car (video) by progressj: 10:19am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Evil men all day but God got us. 10 Likes |
TV/Movies / Re: #bbnaija: Khloe Talks About Her Perceived Hate For Alex And Miracle by progressj: 8:15pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
khloe the talkative 2 Likes |
Car Talk / Re: See How The Range Rover Has Evolved Over The Years by progressj: 1:35pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
Make our economy evolve like Range Rover Brand. 2 Likes |
Sports / Re: John Mikel Obi Playing With His Twin Daughters (Photos) by progressj: 2:45pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Money time, happy time and beautiful moment. May God bless our hustle. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Mercy Johnson, Her Husband And Children In Adorable New Photos by progressj: 9:43pm On Feb 04, 2018 |
why all of them come look alike? 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: 'The Only Exercise I Do Is Sex' - Don Jazzy (Video) by progressj: 4:16pm On Jan 24, 2018 |
Don Jazzy d knacker. Knack APC join |
Celebrities / Re: 'The Only Exercise I Do Is Sex' - Don Jazzy (Video) by progressj: 4:15pm On Jan 24, 2018 |
Don Jazzy b knacking. Knack APC join |
Food / Re: Catfish Pepper Soup (point & Kill) by progressj: 6:34pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
Holy ��� |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by progressj: 6:29pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
Aeker: Life as an unemployed graduate isn't always easy. Sometimes, things get so tough that you begin to wonder if you wronged the gods, somehow.
Most times, your life can be summed up in one word: frustrating.
Your ability to achieve a mental balance gets challenged each day.
As soon as you get a moment to forget the struggles of life, that friend with whom it seemed like you had become partners in the labour market calls in to tell you how he's managed to secure a well-paying job.
"Ahhh. So my own case is the handiwork of my village people, as feared?!"
"But I thought my destiny and EMX's are tied together nah!"
Then you remember, that other members of your clique like Emeka, Roland, Wale, Aliyu, Emike, and Daniella have all secured jobs since the turn of the year.
Immediately, you look up to the sky (or ceiling in most cases; sometimes stepping outside the house may seem like a privilege) and question God in a Balotelli-esque fashion: "why always me?!"
You begin to feel alienated by success. Emotions begin to pour. But regardless of your reaction, that's not an easy question to answer.
Life gets you to suffer humiliation and hardships of being considered not good enough for any job at all. All the questions that went unanswered, the advances that were met with a stern, unwelcoming attitude at different offices... or is it the people debating issues of whether to turn you to an errand boy so you could earn some 200 bucks for recharge card or just leave you be (to suffer in silence). "Imagine! People wey no reach to even lace my shoes before."
On the home front, some of your siblings' chores become your duty. Why? Because you are not much use in the house. For every meal you eat, every time you go to bed, each time you sit idly, parents want you tasked.
Your value continues to drop on a per-second basis. It feels like nobody cares about you for anything. You grow anxious and frustrated with life. Your happiness is about to be taken away from you by unseen forces.
"But this no be the plan we been plan from the start!" Soon after that thought, you see an advert on TV reminding you that life doesn't always go according to plan. Or is it the pastor in Church reminding you that everything in life is God's design? How then am I supposed to relate to God not wanting me to succeed? You begin to question your belief in God. "Is there even a god?!"
But all of that is not you. It's frustration playing out. So many times, you feel like a lost soul in a human body. Trapped and without help. You're not sure when redemption will come, or if it will come at all.
Carefully redesigning a CV that never gets more than a glance. Your life is no longer filled with fun an excitement. Grief, self-pity, and anger are gradually taking over.
"What a sorry soul!" No money for business, no means to learn a skill or two, and no jobs to keep you busy. Life can't get any worse.
But what can you do in all of these?
You continue to reinvent, hoping that someday, your salvation will come. All that 2.1 from a reputable university doesn't feel so important anymore. Set all of that aside, believing that only grace can rescue you now.
This is my life. I am Aeker.
Things are HARD!
Please help a broke soul. I feel the same way too but I believe God is in control. very soon, we will forget about all the frustration and look up to the heaven smile and say indeed God is answers prayers. ��� 1 Like 1 Share |
Car Talk / Re: Innoson Releases 4x4 IVM Carrier (Photos) by progressj: 4:33pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
slimthugchimee: Total rubbish...
I was expecting something better Where is yours Sir? slimthugchimee: Total rubbish...
I was expecting something better Where is yours Sir? slimthugchimee: Total rubbish...
I was expecting something better Where is yours Sir? |
Celebrities / Re: Olakunle Churchill Artist Portrait Competition: Draw Him In Igbo Native Outfits by progressj: 6:32pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
kennygee: Na different versions of churchill we go dey see because of this competition. Hahahahha �� |
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Celebrities / Re: Korede Bello Mobbed By Students In Niger Republic (Pics, Video) by progressj: 9:55am On Nov 05, 2016 |
see how he look like Yankee small fine criminal |
Properties / Re: How Much To Plaster This Bungalow by progressj: 9:51am On Nov 05, 2016 |
some folks need to grow up. upgrade your IQ |
Properties / Re: How Much To Plaster This Bungalow by progressj: 9:43am On Nov 05, 2016 |
agongajoseph: you are just a silly fool....IDIOT!!!! with an attitude like this you will never build ur own house ....FOOL. ... you cannot even construct good grammar, what is "those that builded that house ".....fool.... the past tense for build is built. Bastarrd!!!! GERARAHERE Nice!!!!!# 2 Likes |