₦airaland Forum

masterfactor:
That money will be paid from BIAFRA, one naira of Nigeria money will not be given to terrorists.

Unfortunately for your olodo empty skull head, she's getting the money or she applies for judgement enforcement and get a garnishee order on FGN accounts.
Does a semi-illiterate like you understand all this grammar?
She's definitely getting her N91million in total and if possible with interest that might accrue.
Let it pain you to death.

Valoromega:
I've been married for a while now and I have a daughter.

My wife and I has always had issues, anytime issues arise her first reaction is to leave the marriage.

She has said this several time and u cautioned her about the statement because I don't like it ( she's making it seem she's doing me a favor by marrying me)

So last week we got into an issue because of my younger sister who I gave money to for her store rent, my wife found out about it and was very angry, she said that I gave my sister money without informing her and that she needed Money I refused to give her ( I gave her 150k Dat same day to change her Clothes).
She also accused me of cheating which was not true, she said she very young and fresh and she can go outside anytime.

She had once told me that she had cheated on her boyfriend with another guy once when she was in school because the boyfriend was misbehaving.

So I thought about everything and the fact that she continuously accuses me of being a bad husband, and abusive husband ( I've never hit her before) and that she was tired of the marriage.

So I'm thinking of calling her father and collecting the bride price I paid for her because I'm tired of the whole thing

Your wife has the termerity to be threatening you with leaving you and that she's still young for other men and challenging you for giving your younger one money without telling her and all sorts of verbal abuse and you are asking if you should put her in her place?
I believe you must be an Igboman. Igboman are the weakest of men when it comes to marriage.
Kick her out already let her go and flirt around with those men she's crushing on and then discover too late that they'll only use her as sex object and dump her.
STOP BEING A WEAK MAN AND ASSERT YOUR AUTHORITY AND DOMINANCE IN YOUR HOME.
Anyone that challenges it should be thrown outta the streets!

pelusi:
I traveled outside the country for 8 months now while my family is in Nigeria.

Now I will be returning to Nigeria next week. For this 7 months, I kept myself and did not mess around(slept) with any woman.

However, it's not that I don't trust my wife, but atimes I have an instincts that she may not hold herself like I did and may have fallen in hands of men.

Where I come from, it's an abomination for any married woman to sleep with another man because of the dare consequences it has on the husband of the adulterous woman.

Now I'm coming back soonest,I'm scared if she has slept with another man and I was suggesting before sleeping with her to sit her down and ask her to sincerely tell me if she has fallen in my absence,so that necessary things(cleansing) can be done before I sleep with her.

On the other hand, I'm reasoning whether asking her such will cause a misunderstanding in the marriage.

Please advise on the best way to go about this.

It's like you are from Urhobo area of Delta State.
I think you need to pull her aside and remind her of your culture and ask her the question in the light of that culture. I'm aware of that culture but I thought it's only when the man is aware and doesn't speak out that he faces repercussions.

simpleseyi:
I understand Obasanjo’s predicament, but I can’t help him.

Only mentally unstable people will invite Obasanjo to give a speech on Leadership. Somebody that fought his VP while stripped nakked at the market square. This same Tinubu was the one that carried his housemaid’s wrapper to cover Obasanjo and Atiku’s unclothedness at Bodija market where they were fighting for Aso Rock.

Same Obasanjo was dragged to the Court by his biological son that he has been sleeping with his sons’ wives for years which one of his numerous wives also confirmed


That’s some people’s godfather.

The issue here is IS TINUBU A COLLOSAL FAILURE? Yes he is worse than a collosal failure!

Undilutedme:
Hello, Nairalanders. Good morning, I’m going to be short.

I stay in Ondo and I just finished my youth service and currently, I’m staying with long time friend(We’re splitting the rent) till we are able to find our way. Something happened last week Friday that has brought a little misunderstanding (We don’t flow like before) and I want your opinion.

Okay, so I went to my work, I work from 8-5, sometimes 6 and that day, my girlfriend called me and said she was around the house and wanted to wait and see me, I told her it was fine that I would be back soon. I went back later to the house and I met her, my friend wasn’t around then. The house was very neat, but I knew she was the one who swept it, so I didn’t ask. But one talk led to another and she told me it was that my friend that told her to get broom and sweep the room. When she said it, I wasn’t so cool with it because I felt he didn’t have that right to tell my girlfriend to sweep the room. Even if she wanted to sleep it, I should be the one to tell her and not my room mate. I told him and he didn’t see anything wrong with it and insisted that I didn’t like it and he shouldn’t do it next time, because I found it a bit disrespectful to myself and my girlfriend. Since then, he hasn’t been so cool, we talk but not like before. Did I overreact? Do you think it’s okay or wrong for my roommate to tell my girlfriend to sweep the room?

NB; I do not tell my girlfriend to sweep the room when my roommate is around, so it doesn’t bring “see finish “ so, she’s never swept in his presence before, but she does it when he’s not around.

Also, he has his girlfriend that comes to the house too and I have never told her to do anything like that before. So, what do you guys think?

You are still struggling and it's girlfriend matter that you're carrying on your head.
PATHETIC SIMP of a man!!!!
Not even a wife, but a girlfriend!

And what's wrong in telling your girlfriend to sweep the house?
That's how you guys elevate them to a platform and later on when they start misbehaving, you start crying.
Continue to spoil her and be having problems with your fellow man all because of a woman just because she spreads worthless pussy for you to fuvvck.
Nonsense!!!

1stDoggystyle:
Life is a mirror but that mirror is centered on perspectives. Men hardly want to talk about the wives that left.

She stayed when there was money to spend and "flashy to live". Then when I got out of job and was struggling, I kept coming home and saw her always thinking with her fist under her chin.

She'd start unnecessary fights and arguments: all those gimmicks. But I had so much worries that bothers me so I just take a long walk or sit outside.

One evening, I came back and saw my house empty. My set of chairs gone, my TV gone. Haa my generator too! Naa that one pain me pass cuz I have had it before I even met her.

One of my neighbours, called me to ask if we were moving out. I told him iam just getting home and surprised my house is empty.
Well, she left the camp gas and one student bed which I had bought since 2013.

My neighbour, an old man told me She and her mum and one young lady came to pack the things. While I was out trying to get things working, she was there packing my property to her newly rented home. She left with my child. I wonder what she and her mother's plans were.

These are parts we men don't get to talk about despite the pain and deep seated psychological rejection it brings. I reported her to my fam and they asked me not to call her. One day, she called me and I didn't want to pick but I felt like some magnetic wave pulled me to pick the call. It was my son that spoke "daddy hello, we don't have food and my school fees is not yet paid". I told him what his mother had done and all I have been doing. That day I sent some money to them.

Later on, one of my friends told me they saw where she lives. What do I want to go and do there?
Initially I was very angry that she left with my property and all that; I was hell bent on locating her but as time went on, I just kept laughing... Why do women do all these things?

You should thank God that she's gone so that when you pull yourself together you can enjoy your life well without a pretender who never appreciates you.
Rejoice that she's gone. Just be taking care of your child from where you are and when he's old enough, reconnect.

LegendHero:
Olodumare continue to bless this girl and her parents.

She brought real impact at such a young age.

Our minister of education over here in Nigeria would say that she's not yet old enough to be enrolled in school.🤣

madridguy:
Your uncles at home are the mumu for failing to train you properly.

🤣🤣 E pain you?
They're not mumuoo. They're Alpha males and not SIMple like you.

madridguy:
If you know what is good for you just go and apologize to your wife, mother-inlaw and the entire family.

If you know you cannot do their culture, why marry their daughter?

While you were sleeping with their daughter without protection, pouring your seed in her body what result are you expecting?

After that, did they put a gun on your head to pay and bride price and marry her?

I will suggest you don't make unnecessary enemies, just try and calm down and see what you could do.... Life na gently no be everything be gra gra my brother.

Bro, you be mumu for saying this thrash, honestly.
Apologise to useless inlaws that don't have respect not sense of responsibility?
Tueehhh!!! Weak emasculated men everywhere.
I'm married mind you and my in-laws know I'm not a weak man that can be manipulated and they respect me because of that. And that's how they equally earned my respect because they maintain their lanes.
You don't give me nonsense and neither can you manipulate me or gaslight me.
Stop being dumb and weak.

BlindAngel:
As I'm talking to you right now, they are saying all manners of words, that I disrespected them and the they won't pity me with the list they'd give me.

That aside, to be brutally honest with you, I didn't mean to disrespect them, I have tried all manner of ways to walk out of this marriage but I don't see that happening. Maybe this will be the deal breaker, I won't do any of what they mentioned, absolutely none. I believe it'd make them hate me and by God's grace I pray and I'm praying hard for them to talk about returning my bride price to me.

Don't spend a dime to pay any burial expenses for them.
Dont try that. If they won't bury their father, let them leave it.

BlindAngel:
Good evening Nairalanders, few months ago I posted here regarding how my wife forced me into marriage that I wasn't in anyway ready for because she got pregnant. I posted about the regret I'm still battling until date, because the love isn't there from my own end and I'm also not in anyway attracted to her physically. I have told her severally that I want to option out of the marriage and not doing again but until date she has refused to let me go.

Back to the main point, my wife lost her dad this morning. Her deceased dad has two wife's and several concubines that gave birth to lots of children, my wife doesn't know some of her half brothers and sisters.

So I went to their family house this morning to console them. The eldest son of the family (her half brother) told me and another in law that we'd be the one to pay for mortuary expenses and casket, and when the burial is getting closer they'd give us a list of things to buy and we'd both bring one goats each.

To be brutally honest I wasn't mad because of this latest expense, I got furious immediately and right on the spot because of the pressure my wife pressured me into getting married to her, by now I'd have been totally free of these unnecessary expenses. More than 19 of her sisters, both biological and half sisters that has given birth, no single expense was listed for their man that they got pregnant for and has a child for. But I and the other in law that paid dowry are the one going through these unnecessary expenses.

So immediately he told me about everything, I charged at my wife right on the spot, right in front of her mom, her brothers, her sisters and some of her friends that came for condolence visit. I got so furious and started shouting at the top of my voice, I reminded her how she forced me into marriage that I'm not in anyway prepared and ready for, both physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially. (I have been reminding her regarding this almost on a daily basis and whenever we are quarreling.

I reminded her how she threatened me with suicide and our of fear of the unknown I wasted almost 4m in getting married to her. I told her that I'd have been free of these expenses if not for her pressure.

Immediately she burst into tears, and started crying endlessly.

Her mom and sisters started yelling at me and I yelled back at all of them. They told me I met her a Virgin and now she's no longer good for me (truly, the whole family thought that I was the one that took her virginity) My wife and I agreed to keep it a secret, but the constant remainder from her mom and sisters made me let the cat out of the bag, I told them that I didn't met her a Virgin that she has already started having sex when I met her, they didn't believe me but with my tone, I know they'd.

I also made mentioned that I'm not buying any goat or paying for mortuary or taking any list from them. That it's their dad and they should take care of every responsibilities, after all he has uncountable children, why putting some of the expense on me? I walked away, and switched off my phone until now that I'm just putting it on.

I know that I acted wrongly and allowed my anger to get the best part of me. But I was furious because no single bill went to her sister's baby father's, absolutely nothing was listed for them. I got furious because these expenses won't be on me right now if not for her pressuring me into marriage that I want ready for. I was furious because I and the other in law that they billed became the scape goat by doing the right thing by getting married and not leaving theirs daughter In ruins, where as those that got their daughter pregnant without getting married to them were totally free from these unnecessary bills. I'm in so much pains and regret right now.

I support your snubbing the family but I don't support your saying openly that your wife pressured you into the marriage.
That one is wrong totally. Even if she did, you as a man took the decision.

Seefinish:
You don't know the value of what you have until you lose it

I don't like Obaseki and his style but Edo people just went from frying pan to fire for allowing APC to take their state and with a governor that doesn't know his left from his right.

theophorus:
Magnus Ozeigbe Abeg Rest.

Wetin be your own? He chaotic Abeg he dey higi-haga no concern you. Just dey your DEY amke you let Monday run hin things the way hin understand.

Obaseki don run hin own, make una leave Monday to do hin own. Ordinary inauguration na hin una don carry for head dey do publications abi Social media brouhaha self.

Abeg, make opposition Rest for now, no be to dey Bulaba-Balablu, make una learn from Akpata.

It's clear that the people of Edo State have gone from frying pan to fire.

WriterNig:
🇷🇺 Russia offered to help bring the Astronauts back home but the US ego and pride would not let them.

Despite everything the 🇺🇸 US have done to Russia.

Russians are a classy people.

Mr. Man, rest.

Yourprick:
No more God father

Money that Wike used to siphon into his personal accounts.

Samfloxin:
Islamabad

Islam is a religion of love for children's pussy.
I wonder why they don't like adult women pussy but prefer to tape kids all the time.

PrincessofDSS:
I suspected it when the light went off sluggishly.

One day, one collapse. This country nawa oooo

Tinubu the cocaine pusher is giving the grid crack cocaine to smoke, thereby causing the collapse out of over highness.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
T-pain striking national grid back to back

Even national grid sef dey hungry and dey collapse just as Nigeria people dey hungry dey collapse.
WHAT CAN TINUBU NOT DESTROY?

APOPTOSIS:
So sticking his cock into every cockpit is termed prowess..
Making 400 videos out of all the loose women is termed prowess.
He is a careless and reckless idiot.
He is endemically idiotic

That's the type of men that women love bro. They don't appreciate disciplined gentlemen like you. They only come for disciplined gentlemen like you when they are tired and are looking for a retirement plan gentle man.

PressMyButton:
A country must not be occupied with ignorant people, if you weren't, you would know the benefits she has helped facilitate to the country.

Please tell me that one thing that she has facilitated for a phantom country that doesn't have any produces to sell or export?
A country that imports toothpicks and matches.

PressMyButton:
It's about the country, not you.

What's the benefits of WTO to Nigeria that doesn't produce or export anything?
Countries that should bother about WTO position are countries that trade in real terms, not a country that borrow money with crude oil that is still inside the ground.

IBB007:
Lol…when we just wan start to dey use am

The same thing that the criminal drug pusher Tinubu and his mumu APC and online rats are pushing on Nigerians as the best thing to happen to Nigerians after fried rice and chicken.

HgAkpobomeEr:
The Dangote refinery is a blessing to Nigeria and should be supported by all stakeholders.

Dangote is a greedy monopolistic thief and wants to strangle Nigeria people with high prices.

helinues:
The saboteurs at it again.

The order is now shoot at sight

This shows how dumb and hollow that you are!
Even the minister of power have not alleged sabotage and you are here saying sabotage and shoot at sight, showing that you don't even know what national grid means and the factors that can lead to it's collapse.
Okay, who do you shoot?
You think grid collapse is the same thing as vandalisation of equipment and infrastructure?
Sometimes you should keep quiet and stop exposing your ignorance.

Righteousness2:
True Repentance means turning away from your evil deeds.
Repentance means making right your wrongs.

Read The Conversion story of the tax collector in Luke 19 Zaccheus .

You cant remain with the sin and claim you are saved. You are deceiving yourself.

A Sinner is not a Christian. 1 john 3:8
A Christian is not a Sinner 1 John 3:9

True repentance of a man with more than one woman will entail him settling all his sin partners , sending them back to their parents and making peace with his 1st legally married Wife.
This is true Repentance.

Any other thing is you Deceiving yourself.

You are preaching false doctrine. The Bible never said so. All you religious clowns that make Christianity look like a joke.

HitSong:


He was like, WHERE WILL I START FROM...


BUT LIFE IS THE MOST PRECIOUS THING.
WHEN THERE'S LIFE, THERE'S HOPE.

He should have taken an insurance. I can't take Bank loan without insuring the business. If not na to carry rope enter forest you go do.

EmekaBlue:
Death penalty ke

Yoruba has been exposed by this Tinubu drug government.
They were pretending to be human rights and democracy champions until they got power and we have seen that they are not only dumb but also bloodthirsty!
How can you charge kids for treason that carry the death sentence?

ebukal67x:
Tony Chiejina should have ignored the fake news.

He should have stated the price of their own fuel na.
Why is their own price shrouded in secrecy?
Dangote is a monopoly seeking greedy fellow!!!

RealityKings:
Nothing strange here Just another upcoming artist trying to give modeling a shot

She's looking for fresh senators and politicians to come and credit her bank account.

odejimioflagos:
IPMAN should allow Dangote to operate freely.

If he is selling at higher price, let the market determine if he will sell or not.

Do you guys read at all or are you devoid of comprehension ability?
How is IPMAN stopping Dangote from operating freely?

Golan007:
Let them continue to import, in that case.

But there shall be no subsidy.

Watch how they would ask for subsidies which is the main racket they've been running.

Is your head paining you?
Who's asking for subsidy here? So you didn't read where he talked about deregulation.
And for ignorant ones like you government don't pay any marketer or importer subsidy. Subsidy was last done on fuel imports by NNPC or do I say NNPC underwrites the price, if you know what that term means.

criuze:
Bunch of kparawos

How can the fuel you produce at your street end be more costlier than the one bought from a thousand miles of ocean, despite the fact that it may be sourced from brasil or Indonesia the difference must be there

Make una pity Nigeria people

You should be asking Dangote that question.