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Joshney:
Hi. Check the procedure here. I advice you go to the embassy as well. https://visas-be.tlscontact.com/legalization/ng/ngABV2be

Good day bro. I sent you a pm concerning your admission at hasselt. I’ll really appreciate if you find time to respond. Thanks a lot

lollmaolol:
sure, i messaged you.

congratulations

Did you get admitted for a master’s program or bachelors?

They always find God.

I hope they’re happy though.

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Real life

Sigh

sajmark:
Simping is indeed easier with money... ₦3million would empower 3-4 of his relatives, village youths or neighbours with keke napep or bikes and those men would never forget him till the end of their days but he chose to be referred to as "SOMEONE"...

I wrote something on this. The classic “I don’t want anything from you, you’re too pretty to suffer”

luminouz:
You and I be twins. I no dey too call. But most girls get used to it. For her to refuse to pick your call...shows she don Taya...

Not calling or texting regularly is a good way to show that your life does not revolve around women. Most girls these days are just bored anyways. They sit on their asses, watch Netflix, sleep, eat ,chat on social media and spend hours on tiktok and Instagram. I always tell my guys, NEVER ever be a woman’s text buddy, there is absolutely zero benefits only disrespect.

Like a comrade pointed out earlier, if you’ve got something going on in your life, women will hardly leave you when you barely talk to them, they’ll always assume you’re busy with more important things, you’re showing them your priorities and they’re not part of said priorities, they love it this way, forget about their nagging.

Familiarity breeds contempt. What these girls think is, if they sit around and do nothing all day and you’re always there to keep them company during this idle time then you must be sitting around doing nothing for yourself too.

The girl below never stopped texting, they’re all the same.

As long as she loves you. Love is blind.

Dizzyyish:
They actually passed it? Lol. What about the political 'powers that be' behind the scenes, they're okay with women taking a third of their spot based on gender? In this country? Something is amiss somewhere..

Its the reason why I hate the political statement “women and children “, take women out of that category ffs.

Amperes:
its a very strange feeling bro. Most times i just look at my woman and the thought that this seemingly "angelic" and loving being could easily have her hypergamy switch on at anytime(AWALT) actually gives me the chills. like someone posited earlier on its difficult to understand women and still love them at the same time. But its very risky to wander in the maze of ignorance that pervades the blue pilled world. Better to understand women, know what they are capable of and still maintain healthy relationships with them than be ignorant. Knowledge is power

Its sad when people think we hate women, sure there’s the anger phase but that’s just what it is. You love women better and you develop healthy relationships with them when you understand them, they don’t understand themselves and some hilariously blame their “zodiac” but we guys know it’s just women and their antics.

Kaycee54321:
I'm watching the UCL Chelsea game and can't help but imagine what Thomas Tuchel is going through due to a divorce I'm sure he never expected would come. How he wan dey think tactics?

When most men want to severe a relationship, I hear them talk about "waiting for the right time" or trying to be rational and logical.

Look at TT. A man trying to defend his UCL title with his team and a wife of several years can't even wait for the season to end before launching divorce proceedings.


I go always dey talk am. An average woman is emotionally stronger than an average male. An average male is physically stronger than an average female.

This match just dey vex me.
Zero judgement to those who'd never want to marry. It's almost always turns out to be a venture that makes you lose out ultimately.

Today, A friend of mine was telling me how his girlfriend of 2 years broke up with him in the middle of his medical school exams. In her words “I wanted to wait until you were done with your exams but why delay the inevitable” , I told him that she was already dating someone else while trying to break up with him and the new nigga was insisting she get things sorted asap. It’s what I always say, women just don’t care, what they want comes first and they don’t care who gets hurt in the process, it’s their hypergamous nature to be selfish and even themselves don’t understand it, it’s why I don’t blame them. They put themselves first regardless of who gets burnt. In some real life cases you’ve seen women connive with the men they cheat with to kill their husbands, shows you the length they are willing to go for their happiness.

heartofcity12:
Yeah, this is the price of simping.

A simp and his money must always part ways. He’s sad because he did not get the commodity he paid for.

Are we living in a gynocentric world or no?

Martinez39s:
You needn't clarify for the sake of any troll. The true Gs got your message. Keep on bro.

Life is a marathon for men, it is a sprint for women.

Notice the 2 likes on the troll’s post almost immediately after posting. He/she quickly likes their own post with 2 hideys after posting. Pathetic

ProphetJeroboam:
The only reason women who have hit the wall find solace in dogs and cats as pets is because those animals can’t speak or have opinions. Women who have hit the wall tend to form a world where it’s just them and their pets because they know people know they spent their younger years chasing fantasies. They know as long as they feed their pets, the pets will always wag their tail even though the owner is an obese, slobbering mass of regrets and sadness. They don’t want opinions from people on how they wasted their younger years. If dogs and cats suddenly had opinions and could speak, these set of women would switch to owning pots of plants as pets really fast.

I love that the troll pointed this out so for the sack of clarity. Any man who descends to a life of obesity and pet worship has themselves to blame and their current situation is by their own doing. You only end up like this when you live a life of no value but the line that separate such men from women in same situation is that men can always pick themselves up, you always have the chance to do so, there is no peak for men. Women make bad choices and end up unhealthy with regrets and the rules of society is still twisted to save and aid them. Men are not afforded this luxury. Women resign to this fate because they’ve all been programmed to view their aging and diminishing physical appearance as the end of the road but it is not the same for men, we carve out our world and we shape our realities. Society won’t help you get to the top but society is ready to serve you when you get to the top.

The only reason women who have hit the wall find solace in dogs and cats as pets is because those animals can’t speak or have opinions. Women who have hit the wall tend to form a world where it’s just them and their pets because they know people know they spent their younger years chasing fantasies. They know as long as they feed their pets, the pets will always wag their tail even though the owner is an obese, slobbering mass of regrets and sadness. They don’t want opinions from people on how they wasted their younger years. If dogs and cats suddenly had opinions and could speak, these set of women would switch to owning pots of plants as pets really fast.

Something that has been trending here really need to stop guys. What’s all the side talks and back talks for? Come on, this is not a gossip parlor. We are all here to learn through logical thinking and thorough analysis of whatever subject matters we bring up. If you’ve ever been on the side of the minority on arguments here, don’t let the trolls stoke up the fires of division in your minds. I wouldn’t want division to be the death of the beautiful thing we have all collectively created here. In a world where our views and ideologies are viewed as deviation from the norms, why should we cause division amongst ourselves over petty things such as “leaders” or feeling disgruntled if your views are not accepted. The trolls are reading, they know whose views has not been accepted and feels disgruntled, you’re making it easy for them by allowing them plant their seeds. We can’t all agree here but disagreement shouldn’t be grounds for the destruction of this basket of life lessons. No one is more redpill than the other as we all face different battles out there, we have all had different life experiences but one thing is certain, everything we have done in life, every step we have taken, it has led to a common action, bringing us here to learn. I reject the notion of “we are all red pilled but some men are more red pilled than others” because this isn’t some animal farm bullshitt. It’s all logical for all these to happen but we must overcome it, stay focused and remain on tracks.

luminouz:
You can't save some men...

It's not a curse, just the truth!!!
No matter what you do,some men will still not listen. I have learned that now. Just try and save the ones you can

That Shola guy on Twitter will be so disappointed in these dudes shouting 'my boss's everywhere

I’m glad you didn’t take offense with my post concerning the tribe thing. I agree some men can’t be saved, it is why the concept of “lessons” exists, somewhere along the line they’ll learn or they won’t. Soon they’ll flood Twitter with paternity fraud threads.

TarOrfeeek:
Yorobe men that are unrepentant and unreasonable around toto are coming to make BP about tribe.

Lol, I am not Yoruba. I wasn’t trying to be tribal with my post either. I know tribe is a touchy subject in Nigeria which is why I tried to make the post open for discussions and analysis/correction. I tried to reason past tribe and see things from the fundamental thing we all have in common here, us being men. We were born men before we belonged to any tribe. In other words, tribes don’t matter, we are all men.

A house should be chosen by a man, a home is protected by the man and its inhabitants are under the protection of the man due to his role of being provider and protector. A king guilds his subjects to uninhabited fertile lands which he has deemed acceptable by his standards of a suitable space to protect and provide for his subordinates. A lot can be learnt from watching the dynamics of a lion and his pride. So much redpill lessons to be learnt from lions. It’s even funnier when you realize nothing could be wrong with the house, the woman could just be feeling moody about something totally unrelated, we all know how emotions are a woman’s compass.

Smartb0y:
Even men that grow up with no fathers behave this way.

True, we always talk about daddy issues so I decided to see it from the mommy’s side. Lack of a strong fatherly figure creates spineless men who gets fvked by women and the society. Under affection and over affection from their mothers causes same thing I’ve written up there and most times the affected men in this case mask their psychological attachments as being respectful to women. You are loved by your mother as a child, you are loved and respected by your mother as an adult male, that’s how it should be. Do you know why the female partners of men with dominant mother figure in their lives experience problems with said mother, it’s because women know women for what they are, the mother sees the female partner as an encroaching female who will divert the love, attention and resources they get from their sons, these women are not blinded by pussy, they see their son’s wife without filters. In turn, the female partners despise the mother because she is still in conquered territory, mother and wife see each other as trespassers. Every bit of their manipulative antics is reflected in their dealings with the son and husband/girlfriend and they see it for what it is, manipulations because it’s script played out of same book so they easily recognize each other’s script. I know we tend to avoid the concept of men simping for their mothers because it is a touchy subject here but a balance has to be struck in a young man’s life. Men who try to act dominant with their female partners but simp for their mothers are in danger because their mind will always be conflicted. When a man is in conflict with his mother, she will draw his attention to the fact that he suckled her breasts and came out of her vagina to make him subservient, when a man is in his conflict with his female partner, she will deny him access to same body parts to make him subservient, both women know the effect said body parts have on men and they will weaponize it because that is their nature. Young men are not ready to accept the fact that some of the tricks they spend time evading from their female partners have been played on them by their mothers without their knowledge, such men are always in mental conflicts with themselves. You maintain frame with your female partner but give passes to mommy to run your life, a strong wife will run your life too.

“My wife gave us permission” to beg another female who controls her husband. The other guy enjoys being told not to stay out late by his wife like he’s 8. I am not a tribalist but I’ve seen Twitter trash the issue of Ibo men having the tendency to be pussy worshippers and I’ve started to observe this in some spaces. They’re known to train their woman through school while they labor under the scorching sun in Aba market, they’re known to lavish money and gifts on the women folks, even women know that Ibo men spend the most money on them. Hell, all the feminist/men hating women rights activists/writers are all married to ibo men. I know I’ll probably split the room with this but again, it’s just an observation. Funny enough, I grew up having the image of the average ibo man in mind as Okonkwo from things fall apart. This is not saying being blue pill is tribe dependent so I would like to be educated on some of the most blue pill acts we’ve seen from men of all tribes so we can see which tribe gets the highest vote, this is not to vilify that tribe but to understand and think logically about the possible root causes of this characteristics.

I saw this thread on Twitter about men bragging about the power their women wield in their life and all I could see was a bunch of men with mommy issues or Oedipal complex. Boys with mommy issues naturally gravitate towards Pussy worship when they’re older because they’re trying to fill a void. They were not deserving of mommy’s love so they will do anything to enjoy their wife’s or girlfriend’s affection even if they’re emasculated. It’s a psychological thing, lack of a motherly figure makes them enjoy their female partners acting as their mother, some even call their female partners “mommy” . These men equate their female partners letting them see them naked, as their own twisted version of the greatest love a woman can give, mother’s love.

heartofcity12:
Yes o.. The show will be released soon.. they said she’s the hulk’s cousin, see famzin now. Mad ppl

She-Hulk has always existed in the comics bro. Although the Incredible Hulk came first but I wouldn’t put it past Hollywood and woke marvel to showcase she-hulk as a “powerful and strong independent woman “ who will kick patriarchy in the balls. When the villain is a man and I hear say some cringe feminist retorts or lines from she-hulk, that’s when I’ll step out of the cinema.

richkal:
At bolded sum it up. The vast majority of those who are arguing against it don't really know what they are saying. Perhaps they don't understand woman nature.

Who doesn't like to help their partners? But the moment you do a favour once for the eF gender, it's automatically becomes your duty in their thinking.

A man who does not knowledge women's nature is doom to fail in relationship with them.

They’re scared because any misstep and the wives will deny them their conjugal rights. Adultery is not an option for them and with spousal rape being a thing. Really boxing them into a corner. Sad

CaveAdullam:
"The love of money is the root of all evil".

It's so pitiable that one can easily trust the layman in the street these days compared to experts, professionals, scientists etc. Science which ought to be a neutral ground in searching for what's correct, validating claims, invalidating claims has now become a pawn in the hands of men with rapacious big pot bellies.

It takes years to test/come up with a vaccine, but all of a sudden, within months that Covid-19 became prevalent, more than 3 vaccines started flying around. The most infuriating of all is that you need to take 1,2,3 jabs in order to build resistance; all these happening in a space of 2 years. Is it the over inflated covid-19 cases and death rates by the MSM? The fear instilled in the minds of citizens to remain lockdown for months? Fvck it!

Scientific research and experiments has turned sour. Figures are manipulated. Experts are threatened. Accurate results are not publish. Counter studies here and there. And these leaves the average citizen confused and mesmerized.

Had it been the world was more competitive the way it was hundreds of years ago, like in the industrial and scientific era, where men were rattling their brains in different academic and non-academic circles to bring civilization, I don't think Western nations would have fell carelessly. Now, the world is just rotating around their asses, except for some few eastern nations like Russia and China, who are trying to either win or bring the West to a stalemate. Others are just busy binging on dopamine hits.

This is a good time for all nations to tighten their seatbelts and think of the way forward, however, this is not the case especially in third world poverty nations/Africa. They keep lollygagging around the mess of the western world neglecting their good sides which is actually needed for growth and sustainability.

The truth in life is that nobody cares about you, you must endeavor to build yourself and stay firm.

Thanks.

Covid, lockdown and the vaccine was a tool for control. Nothing the government loves more than toying with human right and enforcing control. Ukraine/Russia happened and covid lost relevance. Tells you how it wasn’t a big deal in the first place. They were not done milking the covid cash cow but now they’ll focus on weapons sales and moving money around the world via aids to Ukraine. The government officials who are involved in the war all have major stakes in the weapons industry. Look up the CEO of blackrock the biggest finance company in the world, Larry Fink,the company manages over 10 trillion dollars. The owner is a staunch democrat and the company has major stakes in weapons so they’re cashing out so much from this war and injecting back into the US economy. Sh*t always goes down bro.

https://www.nairaland.com/7055209/denied-wife-food-night-right#111514356

This issue on front page was thrashed here. According to the op, his wife refused to cook but then came to partake in the eating of the food. You read further and you see he performs 80% of the chores at home, he completely switched traditional gender roles. What you don’t know about women is, you do it once and it’s downhill from there. Women’s brains are not designed to process the concept of “sacrifice” , possibility from a deeply rooted sense of entitlement. You cooked for her because she has other chores around the house to do, you will cook for her because she doesn’t want to ruin her newly fixed nails. Worst is when she is the sole breadwinner, you do not deserve to be called husband at this point. No matter how much the west tries to make it okay by calling it “romance” , you’re only emasculating yourself with your wife as a willing participant. Call it fragile masculine ego, facts is, traditional gender roles must always be respected. If as a child you see your father sweating over a pot of semovita while your mom is watching telenovelas, you don’t know the red pill but you’ll notice something is wrong. Be wise guys.

Jimmy17:

Been a long time I saw Blac Chyna on the news. The wall must be giving her hell codedly. Sad

Tonnyray:
Step between them both immediately (preferably facing your wife) and guide her away from the altercation.

Exactly. Try as much as possible to limit escalations from your wife because you know how sharp women’s mouth can be. You want to avoid getting physical by any means. A man like Ned Nwoko won’t exchange punches with you if you abuse his wife but you’ll regret it.