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heartofcity12:
Care less when you’re called any of these.. It’s just a way to break your frame, ignore ‘em.

Where is disgusting, man child and asshole? I feel left out

Realists:
We Muslims respect & honor Jesus Christ son of Mary (AS) and other God, Prophets. Insulting any one of them has consequences, if you lack respect to your, elders & parents keep it, at home, but displaying it in the public has repercussions.
Those that killed her went too far, by not reporting her to the authority, because they couldn't control their emotions just like her.
Today mear denying the holocaust will land you in Jail, in Europe.
The freedom of speech dose not cover holocaust denial, but you can insult prophets of God, what an hypocrisy

Your “Prophets of God” Dey craze.

They always find God.

EPL will pay for the sins of Madrid!

The average woman’s secret desire is to embark on a spine chilling adventure with an adventurous or dangerous man. It’s the reason why they’re drawn to psychopaths, sociopaths, serial killers, murderers, abusers and the likes. I have seen hundreds of women admit that watching real life serial killer movies helps put them to sleep at night. Convicted serial killers gets letters, naked pictures and female underwear mailed to them.

For women, it’s all about the emotional highs, these kind of men provides it. A man who kills is capable of going the extremes to protect her and her offsprings, female evolution biology at work. They love the rollercoaster of emotions, one minute he’s buying her flowers, the next minute he’s threatening to beat her to death if she says another word. They love the unpredictability and spontaneity with these men.

A nice guy is a boring guy, women lives are already so boring they can’t afford to pair with a boring man. One of the fastest ways to get women attached is to act like a man who is fleeing his demons, they will be emotionally invested via trying to fix you.

I’m not saying we should be serial killers, lmao. Another way is to radiate mystery, you can do this easily by talking slowly, maintaining a strong eye contact that causes her to look away, leaning away from her , smile then maintain a blank expression, don’t frown etc. For sh*t tests? Easy, exaggerate and be self amusing, neg her, don’t take her seriously. Seduce her body and her mind will follow. Of course all of these have been written a lot here but it doesn’t matter.

For the context in the picture below, the female prison officer who has served for more than 30 years helped a convicted killer escape, they spent about a week running from the law before they were caught and the female officer shot herself.

Meedon:
One dude was saying that by the time
he is okay financially, he would eat excess food so that he will gain protruding belly and people will start to call him big man. For them if you are not very fat you don't have money.

Hungry man mentality. Trust me when you have enough money for food, you’ll realize that food isn’t meant to be taken as luxury.

Somebody quoted me here when I said the irritating outrage of the west against abortion is more than half of the time due to the fact that western women want to have irresponsible fun without repercussions. When you take a look at their arguments, they never cite reasons like rape or doomed pregnancies or poorly developed fetus, they throw tantrums because they view abortion as a fail safe for bad reproduction choices. Basically, they want to eat their cake and have it.

In the picture below, what they are saying is, banning abortion will ruin hookup culture, this means women will be forced to let go of their desire to engage in meaningless hookup because their fear of birthing a bastard then working to take care of said bastard is bigger than their desire to have meaningless sex. They want to be sluts without consequences so bad they’d literally kill for it.

Smartb0y:
One doesn't need to maintain same said routine but don't abandon it altogether.


There are other aspects one should take into consideration in order to look acceptable without much intensity.

1. Your food intake,of course that covers the classes of food.
Those you need on a regular basis and those you need to avoid in order to maintain an acceptable physique over a long period of time.

2. Light exercises
As simple as going for walks (strolling),jogs and of course doing some light drills every now and then.
All these are just to encourage healthy blood flow and burn excess anomalies (fats)

Well,these are two major healthy aspects a gymite should observe in order to stay fit on the long run without much intensity.

From my understanding bro, I think dad's issues with staying healthy (fit) is more psychological than physical.

There's is always a burden, whether it's one child or twelve children.
It has to do with expectations and for some reason, it takes a toll on the dads way more than the moms.

Good write up bro, I take it you’re a gymite.

Martinez39s:
The guy is slacking. He should get back in top shape.

He’s obviously slacking. Granted he might not need to get his abs back if he can’t make time for it but come on, this is totally not it.

Tonnyray:
That babe is actually still very proud of her guy from what the pics depict. The guy let himself go. Marriage comes with enough encumbrances that usually predispose to this. I'm with Calibrator on this one. That chick won't object to his former rock hard self. The onus to get back in top shape is still squarely on him.

You are right when you say marriage comes with a lot of encumbrances but isn’t pot belly sign of a sedentary lifestyle? I’m considering the man’s health here, there are dads who look fit without pot bellies, media’s depiction of “dad bod” is an unhealthy looking man to make men feel like it’s okay to grow fat and unhealthy because women naturally tend to grow fat after childbirth. The chick seems more proud of him looking like this compared to when he was looking fit and healthy, in her own word’s , “he’s now a man” not a child like wtf? Who says men have to look like this? I am solidly against the notion that men have to look like this when they get married.

Calibrator:
She is actually quite right, responsibilities that accompany the institution called marriage especially when children are involved will have a man realigning his priorities, it is one of the compromises involved in getting married.


You don't know how luxurious the liberties you enjoy as a bachelor are till you get married. Bros Davido just quit the gym days ago, someone who is self employed and has a good financial portfolio, now imagine a married man working 9-5 with bills to pay and a family to keep happy.... Gym will be the last thing on his mind.

You are right but from what I’m seeing, they are not juggling a large family so the burden of raising their family shouldn’t be too much. I’m not a gym freak, I’ve always had a natural slim athletic build and I always try to engage in physical activities so I’m not knowledgeable about gym routines but for the gym freaks here, I’m curious, do you need to maintain the same strenuous gym routine that gave you your ripped physique at same intensity throughout your life to maintain said ripped physique? Surely there must be a healthy looking kind of dad bod. I’m trying to learn guys.

NamelessOGBENI:
Let's face the fact, most of us here are guilty of what you just posted and there is no amount of long writ that will take away the lost labored frame.
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That's why it's good to keep up building frame before and after you've loot the pvssy but some fellows would disagree, they'd be like what's the point again when you've already pop the cherry. Man, it's a continuous process, a life long affair. That's why I tend to admonish the male species to always pursue their ambition regardless of who they are romantically or sexually involved with. And taking care of your body tops any personal development lists.

Anyway, I be flat chested nigga and the kind hustle wey I dey no go gree me make I get pot belly sha

” That's why I tend to admonish the male species to always pursue their ambition regardless of who they are romantically or sexually involved with. And taking care of your body tops any personal development lists”

I couldn’t agree more.

“Boychild” “Boy to man” , stop letting your women change you guys. They’re women, half of the time they’ll leave you for men who have all the qualities they made you change.

Vs how’s it going. Why do men allow women change them. According to the woman, he is now a man with a family so he doesn’t have time for the gym. Okay, what about his health? He looked healthier before now he’s just living unhealthy because he’s now a family man.

How it started,

CaveAdullam:
And I just concluded a lecture on abortion.

Loooool

If it’s a written lecture then I’d really like to read it bro. Thanks.

Seeing the way the Americans are so invested in the abortion debate is weird and sickening. People are throwing literal tantrums because there’s an abortion rights scrap rumor. They say it’s taking power away from women and taking their rights away? So that means , taking away their power and right to be irresponsible and commit murder? It’s almost like they’re planning to get pregnant on purpose and then kill the foetus. It’s what happens when society has a sense of comfortability, they’ll invent problems.

Women just are. men must become.

Emmanuel30a:
. How you take know that he would have premature ejaculation when he marries, if he lives a holy life or as a virgin? Sex in marriage is not for pleasure; it is to receive GODS treasure that capture GODS signature and that is mature. Sex is not a pleasure venture or for pleasure adventure... That is not the culture...

I understand but premature ejaculation no get cure, it’s good he found out now that he has it.

Mekenz:
Stop fornication, focus on your life and studies get married afterwards.....say no to fornication.

And the premature ejaculation to his wife? So he can open another thread on how his wife fvcked their gate man because he couldn’t satisfy her? Lmao. Focus on life and study crooners no go kill me

The wall is undefeated. 1) “I’ll be turning 29 very soon, no time for games” 2)Needs a rich man/provider. She invested in herself via artificial boobs and ass but sometimes, no matter how much fun she’s having with those, the epiphany creeps in.

We might not all reach this level but you don’t need anybody to tell you the power he wields.

luminouz:
You know two of such girls ehn?

Oya share na ..abi na only you sabi better thing.
Gimme the one with big yansh

May I remind you comrade, big yansh caused the down fall of Samson. I refuse to let that happen to a brother again.

aidameoryou:
What's her SM handle?

She has an account on Likee; “bhadgurl4k” My guess is she has been groomed in real life or on social media by somebody older.

aidameoryou:
I think the father of the girl at this point don't even need to show up on social media.

It has nothing to do with a weak man, many people knowing what social media and publicity is don't like to be in the public eye.
It doesn't necessarily mean he isn't still the shotcaller

He's probably running his dirty job behind the curtains,
if you had listened to the video the girls mother made, you'd hear when she said she never wanted to involve the husband, and at some point she told them she'd be forced to tell the husband if the issue wasn't what they initially told her.

For me too, I see no reason the man should come to social media ranting like a little girl.

Its not about ranting on social media. If you go through that girl’s social media account, you’ll notice she has been exposed to a lot from a young age and I mean really young without a guiding hand to guild her. At her current age, all hope is not lost, her rehabilitation is still very possible. My question is, Where was her father when she started indulging in all of these acts? She still had milk teeth and was like 7 when she posted her first video on social media unsupervised.

Drenimarcus:
Yah bless you brother. I never got to hear anything from those kids fathers. The loss of a father in a family is something that cannot be quantified.

Lack of a strong masculine father in a girl’s life will make her seek for cheap validation and attention because she was denied it. We all know how they seek for attention, what’s the one thing that gives them attention on a platter, sexualizing themselves for the enjoyment of strangers. I am speaking from what I have seen in real life, not psychology textbooks.

I know two different girls (20 and 21) whose fathers left their moms and disappeared when they were babies. One of them posts videos and pictures of herself on Instagram, Snapchat and WhatsApp every day, I mean she makes thousands of these pictures and videos to post, she literally never misses a day. She’s so obsessed with posting pictures and videos of herself that frankly I think her situation borders on actual mental disorder.

The other girl goes in and out of depression at least 5 times monthly. She keeps deleting and reinstalling her Instagram and WhatsApp just to make people text her to check up on her.

Frankly I love sex with girls with daddy issues, they are so eager to please in the bedroom, they will let you try all sort of sh*ts with them

That 13 year old girl’s situation is nothing more than what I call fatherless behavior. Up till now I haven’t seen or heard about her father so that means he is absent in her life or his influence is too weak and dominated by his wife. You know what happens when weak men or single women raise daughters and sons.

pillager:
Please can you elaborate further?

If a girl thinks you’re handsome, that’s value in her eyes so the ball is in your court. Handsomeness don’t matter to women if you don’t have game. My game is, Once she thinks you’re handsome, you don’t put her on equal footing with you so you don’t start pedestalizing her, you play the part of the handsome cocky guy girls wanna be with. A little social engineering can help if you’re really interested in making her obsessed, go out with other girls and post pictures she can see, let her see you having fun with other girls on your status while you tell her that she’s the only girl you want because she’s different(list out some attributes she exhibits that you like), women are ruled by their feministic competitive nature to keep the high smv man for themselves so she is going to actually want to keep you by being the kind of girl you want her to be.

Stay hot and cold with her, give her a bit of your time then act like she doesn’t exist the next day, do it haphazardly so she doesn’t get used to the pattern.

NB:In all of this, your sex game should be on par too. Trust me, that’s how you turn a girl into a stalking psychopath. And all in all, actually have other girls around you so you don’t develop oneitism and be deadly to cut the girl off at any time.

ubunja:
lol that's one story I wanna know the ending of, since guy didn't wanna smash and all...

According to his only update, he said she traveled to the US with her parents. He wasn’t really hyped up to tell his story so I left him, lest I’m tagged jealous.

fattprince:
How about the case where the pretty girl treats or feels you are handsome? Do you still treat her like she's ugly?

If she treats you like you’re handsome, play the part. Be the handsome aloof guy with chick abundance then follow the rule of thumb you quoted. Maximum effect because she will be obsessed with you.

Oyin2212:
Tonnyray

Its not the comrade you mentioned, the guy is not a regular here. I’ve only seen him comment just that single day. Hopefully he sees this.

CaveAdullam:
At the beginning, I was thinking that if these young women were properly enlightened they'll start behaving well. But bro, I failed! It was a wrong journey I choose but thanks Jah that I quickly retraced my steps. Will I say unfortunately now, but I lose some good pvssys, pvssys that ran to get cocked after each moral education. LoL!

Since then, I have start minding my business. Because women are the choosing sex and once they start choosing or scouting, forget it, they are on autopilot mode, nothing will stop them unless by their own volition + strong boundaries restraining them.

It will only take a serious effort of the family + government to bring a reasonable change to this sexual pandemic.

Thanks.

We’ve all been there. Women don’t want to be told they’re on the wrong path, they simply want to have fun. You either have fun with them or they label you a boring guy and a killjoy.