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What happens when you wife a hoe that still has unfinished business with the streets. If you think marriage is binding to the average woman then you’re as naive as they come. A woman’s hypergamy simply does not care. It’s how they’ve survived for years since the early cave men. I will always advise keeping your level of investment below hers, it helps to steady the power structure in your favor. Let her be the one to say “After all I have done for you” not you. Do not settle for a woman that still has her best life to live. Michael B Jordan’s story with Lori Harvey comes to mind, Michael completely ignored the fact that Lori got down with a father and son.

A woman’s behavior with a man is inversely proportional to how he sees her, give her the whole world and she will ask for space, treat her like a queen and she will treat you like her subject, treat her like a celebrity and she will treat you like a fan, wife up a hoe and thou shall watch her blow 7 niggas in a row.

There is something I have noticed which is women tend to show strong support to effeminate and girly men. You see them on the pages of several girly men, egging them on, supporting and patronizing them. Check out Instagram pages of popular effeminate men, their comment section are full of such women. You’ll hear words like “men should embrace their femininity” , they want men to be like these feminine men. In fact the coinage of the words “toxic masculinity “ was invented by women who got uncomfortable with extremely masculine men.

The reason for this is women are agents of chaos, it’s how they thrive, a World without masculine men would be plunged into chaos, what happens in a world like this, the prioritization of the well being of women, so their feminization agenda is all about creating a world where they enjoy the best privileges in a world run by weak men.

ubunja:
it's that mentality of " I want a woman to have her fun then come to me when she's serious about life". That mindset will have you waiting on the sidelines for a woman to have a fill of dicc before she gets tired and wanna settle. its for losers.

I feel sad for the guy because look at him, he’s at his prime , he should be out there having his pick of the finest chicks in their early 20’s

On today’s episode of alpha fuccs, beta bucks. You can’t make this shitt up. 25 of her good years spent juggling alpha’s ballz.

In the caption, she wrote: "To the man who sat patiently in the friend zone for over 25 years waiting for me to see that he was the one I was looking for all along. The man that redefined love and true happiness for me and I could not love him more.

Translation= Right now I need commitment and security, I’m no longer able to compete on the dating market.

In all things comrades, always have your ironclad self respect intact.

DieRich5:
I nor just Dy in form this period, I feel like I'm simpin

When you finally make your move, incoming guilt trip “I thought you were different, you’re just like the other guys”

Kipaji:
They can't be reasoned with. On this matter, I genuinely pity women. Imagine not being able grasp rationality and logic because you are a mindless slave to your emotions and hormones. That's a sad existence.

You forgot zodiac g

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Emediong Sunday:
Age 20-25: "Marriage? LMAO, let's party! - where All the single ladies. @- Thank you, next.
Age 26-29: "I might want something more serious. So, where is my CEO!?"
Age 30-32: "Enough playing games. Let me tell you something about commitment!"
Age 33-36: "Where have all the good men gone?"
Age 37-41: "Men just don't understand beauty is on the inside... Because they are p!gs!"
Age 42+: "Unfollows every one on Instagram , and lodge into a hospital due to depression and loneliness.

IT FOLLOWS THIS CYCLE 90% OF THE TIME. AS MEN IT IS YOUR DUTY TO EDUCATE YOUR DAUGHTERS AND SISTERS BETTER. IF YOU LET SOCIETY DO THE JOB YOU SHARE THE BLAME FOR THE OUTCOME.

DON'T BELIEVE WE'RE THE ONLY MEN DECIDING TO SETTLE FOR ONLY YOUNG COMMITTED WOMEN. MORE MEN ARE EMULATING, AND THE YOUNGER GENERATION MAY MOST LIKELY FOLLOW ON THOROUGHLY. TRUST ME, IT WON'T BE NICE IF YOU NEGLECT YOUR DAUGHTERS AND LET THEM FAIL LIKE THESE ABANDONED WOMEN.

You cannot educate them, you can try but don’t get yourself worked up over it. Women are all about the present and the present only. They lack foresight and all they know is NOW! This is the reason they live lives without fear of consequences until it is too late. They lack the ability to think about potential repercussion for their actions or the mental ability to even process it. Their ability to shitt on a man’s past sacrifices for them is also an extension of this. I mean look at it, the stages of hoe phase to the damning brick wall is always constant and glaring for them to see but somehow they still do not acknowledge it.

Take a look at this, A boy who is a cultist knows the repercussions of his actions, he knows he is going to die by the sword someday so when you try to reason with him, he gives you responses that makes you know that he knows what he signed up for, responses like “everyone will die someday so why be afraid of death now” “I will kill a lot of people before I am killed” , he is aware of consequences.

Now look at girls who hoe around, when you try to reason with them, you are met with deafening silence, they cannot process what you say because they do not live beyond now, consequences do not mean Jack shitt to them. Now I know boys hoe around too but boys are also known for being the ones who engage in rigorous testing the most, they are well aware of consequences. For every 5 puccys the average guy raw dogs, he goes for testing, same is not true for the average woman unless they’re sex workers, reason why women are responsible for spreading stds the most. People might think this write up is biased but it’s the truth. Society contributed to this by setting up ways for women to almost escape consequences.

luminouz:
Now, in the spirit of sharing real stuffs...I will share the paternity issue in my own family. Funny thing is, it happened on both sides(my dad and mum) to my grandfather's.

My paternal grandfather already had two sons from his first wife. As usual in those days, he decided to marry another one. This one was beautiful and younger than the first wife but after three years, gave birth to just a daughter, no sons. The fourth year had her carrying a swollen tummy around and everyone was pleasantly surprised when she gave birth to a bouncing baby boy. Have you guys ever seen a child who would totally resemble it's father on the day of its birth, that no matter what you say, everyone already knows who dafuq gave birth to that little mudafucker? That was the case here.

The big shock is the son resembles my grandfather's half brother. How come? In her desperation to have a son, the second wife was seduced by the half brother, got fuqed and knocked up. It was said that my grandfather took one look at the little child, took out his hunting knife( I come from a family of warriors) and went after his half-brother, who fortunately, had been tipped off and who ran away. He would have been killed because to my grandfather, that was the ultimate betrayal. The half-brother stayed away for two years before he dared step foot in our town again. The gist was, they were even an item before my grandfather married her but the first daughter looked like the mum, so no one suspected any shiit.

But what of the whòre-wife you might ask? Elders and chiefs of the land gathered to beg my grandfather, to forgive the wife, as a child is a thing of joy and all that balderdash. He forgave her and gave her more babies as a reward. That bastard son turned out to be a thorn in his flesh though. He would sell off or collect rents from properties without ever remitting them to the old man. Not only did he look like his real father facially, he also inherited that one's greed,avarice and cunning. Always trying to outwit, outsmart and swindle his half-siblings and even his own. It got to a point that my grandfather brought out an idol to curse this dude and his mother had to ferry him away to heavens know what, till the matter died down.

When grandpa died, it was said his body wasn't still cold when this same dude was busy selling off the same house his dead body resided and it took the combined efforts of the whole family to outsmart this dude.
Legend or rumour has it, that from time to time, his real father would still come around and I saw him at a point. The resemblance was uncanny. Like two peas in a pod. He openly started calling my uncle 'his son' after my grandfather died. Now inheritance issues are coming up and the dude has already said no one can contend with whatever portion of inheritance he has claimed. They are still fighting themselves on this same issue

My first story.

When the truth has been unearthed, It takes a strong man to raise another’s man offspring without troubles. There is a reason why lions kill the cubs of their rivals immediately they take over the pride.

ubunja:
paternity tests will prove the Alpha Fuccs Beta Bucks beyond any shadow of doubt. the Female Imperative will burn the world before allowing DNA tests to be mainstream everywhere.

Alpha fuccs, beta bucks laid the foundation for paternity fraud. I’m just sad and worried for my country, it’s an epidemic in Nigeria and I wonder why men are not taking it seriously. Maybe it’s easier to live long if you don’t find out that you have been raising another man’s seed.

Ballzproblemm:
their reaction is normal to me ,na their way ,but wetin they pain me na white knights that always jump to this women rescue anytime something like this pops up ,I don't understand their goal ,do you think you will get more coochie abi respect from them ? SMH

White knights are worse than those females because they are sell outs, they lack self respect, avoid them with even more efforts. Even women are disgusted at their white knights so they barely even get coochie, sad life.

luminouz:
Just wait bro.

I have sworn here on this thread that if posterity permits me, I'd be one of the first to build an exclusive DNA facility in the Southwest.

I still stand by that promise. There has to be something done to that epidemic. It's nauseating. Men cheat, yes but they don't bring back babies and lie that the wives are the biological mothers.
This issue is touchy to Nigerian women because they know they are guilty of it. I'm coming to share some fuqed up stories about paternity fraud to y'all .

Dropping tonight

It is truly an epidemic bro. It completely shits on whatever sanctity marriage vows hold and it goes to show that marriage and “love” is only a means of elevating status for the average Nigerian woman. You do not claim to love a man and then make him raise another man’s offspring until he dies. That means the stories about women fvcking their ex one last time a day to their wedding is true. I’ll be refreshing the thread for your story g.

Honest question, why does the issue of paternity scare women so much? Why isn’t there a big focus on this? Nigeria was ranked amongst top 3 countries with most paternity fraud and I thought it was biased ratings but the surest way to get dragged by women on twitter is to make tweets encouraging paternity testing, women will not fail to drag you.

princekami:
you know I use to be like this… lol I thought by being there and forgiving her whenever she strays I am proving my love for her and proving to be someone she could grow to trust. I became a father to a girl who hated her own real dad, I broke all the major tenets of the redpill infact I cohabitated for 4years. But thank God for the redpill I was able to find, refine and work on myself.
I will drop my story some other day but what I want you to learn from me as I relate with the image below
Every time my ex cheated she will call immediately to tell me to apologize, that was how deep our love and attachment was & because I made it a point that I could forgive if she is sorry and confesses.
I didn’t know any better and she took advantage of that and will go have fun on the island and come home to apologize. When she discovered she was doing to much and I was begging her to change and getting angry when does it she then started a new pattern she will go out overnight next morning in the room or house of whoever she goes to meet, she will then initiate a call trying to gauge if I am angry, if it was safe to come back. But because I loved her and wanted to be safe from that lifestyle I will accept and ask her to come home. Most times I even call her when she goes out and my serous relationship no go pick several missed calls till the next morning.

2 years later after consuming a handful of pills and becoming woke to Female bullshit to an
extent. My colleague at work a female was on a call with one of her guys and it seems the caller reported that his girl cheated the night before and called to confess but the guy no gree and ends the ship. My colleagues was angry scolding the bobo that the girl loves him that’s why she confess. She in turn asked me and I just laughed with flashbacks and said “he get the kind Bleep way man go Bleep woman when she reach house she no go understand herself again until she Bleep that prick again. The lady self laugh and no argue again.

My point is many men have that mentality and are ready to take excesses from a woman who is beautiful or damaged or you believe say na you go fix or change her, trust me it’s better to water a concrete floor trying to grow yam than to try changing a woman. And this mentality was instilled in us by the Hollywood, Bollywood movies we have been watching. I studied my bestiesss and several other women and they seem to have the similar traits with my ex
Which bring me to the Redpill conclusion that
ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT and if you woman isn’t like That trust me she can be. maybe not now, maybe not with you but she IS unless she is a unicorn.

This is a really good share g. Nothing like sharing real life experiences. I’m glad you got to the point where you finally cut her off. A man’s self respect reduces drastically every time he takes back a cheating partner. Kudos to you and everyone currently on the right track.

luminouz:
What in da actual fuq is this

Kai....these western men are totally fuqed!!!!

Wonder why the western women are openly protesting the abortion ban with a sex ban? They know they have their western men by the balls.

MJBOLT:

have you seen the documentary "what is a woman?"
If you haven't,try and see it.

I’m going to watch it tonight, I have the time. Thanks for recommending.

Martinez39s:
Simping is a disorder.

There is something psychologically wrong with them and that’s facts. You can’t say this is normal behavior.

MJBOLT:

this is one of the reasons why Thanos snapped too many foolish people running around.
Jungle justice fall on him

LOL@Jungle Justice fall on him

I’m sorry guys, I saw it so you have to see it too

This is the world we live in. The West is on its way to implosion and they have men like my man here fanning the embers that will engulf their world as they know it. With men like him, it only goes downhill. Making the women cry forced tears on their head, this world isn’t real. Turns out the poster let’s other men fvck his wife. lol

Calibrator:
Going through the past pages of the thread made me realise how lucky I were to have men who groomed me from birth to be a nonsense person in all aspects of life. I was taught not to simp for anybody regardless of gender.


I was born as the first son in a family of 4 children (2 elderly sisters and a junior bro), from early as my primary school days, every weekend and festive season, my dad will instruct my sisters and late mum that the choice of what we will eat is up to me as the future head of the family, you know women, they will grumble, but have no choice but to fall in line... P-MAN was discharging his responsibilities 10/10 back then and he who pays the piper dictate the tune.

Imagine a boy of less than 10 years being bestowed such honours, it is inevitable that it will get to your head and you will at one point or another, trample on the feet of your elderly sister in the absence of your father, the pent-up backlash was real.


When I was in secondary school, dad quit from his previous job and right in my eyes, I saw the downgrade in the quality of the respect accorded to him by my sisters and late mother. I have always been a deep thinker, I watch, observe and learn from every situation as much as I can.


Twenty something years later today, my sisters finally saw what dad has been telling them since, now mum is late, dad is retired and no decisions presently get taken in my immediate family without my say so.


The story of the influence of street Brothers after I graduated from sec school and how they have built on my masculine foundation to finesse my no-nonsense personality is a story for another day.


Brethern, it is all good to be redpilled and all but in all thy doings, get enough money to discharge your responsibilities when and as at due.


Rant over!

Spot on.

ubunja:
women will tell the Beta simp "I'm on my period" but if the Alpha calls.........

This doesn’t completely stop the period but thins it out so unless Alpha doesn’t mind a little blood on his sword

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PLEASE DON'T BE LIKE THOSE SALTY PEOPLE AND SIMPS ON TWITTER THAT HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR WAYS TO DRAG THE LAD.

THERE'S FREE PORN BUT PEOPLE PAY FOR PREMIUM PORN, BASICALLY SAME THING.
DUMB MEN LEAVE THEIR LITANY OF HØES TO PAY OUTRAGEOUS AMOUNTS TO A FACEBOOK GIRL JUST TO HEAR HER MOAN ON VOICE NOTE.
DUMB WOMEN BUY APHRODISIACS AT OUTRAGEOUS AMOUNTS BECAUSE SOMEONE'S SELLING THEM THE IDEA THAT IT CONTAINS SPELLS TO TRAP MEN.

MY POINT IS THAT PEOPLE ONLY VALUE WHAT THEY PAY FOR. THERE ARE THERAPISTS AND COUNSELLORS THAT CHARGE BIG AMOUNTS FOR THE SAME EXACT INFORMATION THAT'S FREELY OBTAINABLE.
ANYBODY THAT WANTS TO CHARGE A FEE FOR HIS KNOWLEDGE SHOULD GO ON AND DO SO.

WHETHER YOU BELIEVE IT OR NOT, THESE SIMPS WILL ALWAYS READ THE TRP CARELESSLY AND WALK AWAY NO MATTER HOW HARD YOU TEACH IT. BUT WHEN THEY START INVESTING THEIR HARD-EARNED MONEY YOU'LL FIND THEM PAYING MORE ATTENTION TO THEIR INVESTMENT.

LEAVE SHOLA ALONE.

I have been arguing on Shola’s behalf on twitter and it’s hard to convince people that you can simply just ignore if you’re not interested in a service for sale. I also told them that you cannot slap value on a commodity that you weren’t involved in the creative process if you haven’t purchased that commodity. Women never liked him on twitter, a few men were jealous of his influence or didn’t quite agree with his message but now it’s just haters. We are all consumers, consumers do not state prices for commodities, we only have a choice to purchase or not. Las las I think it’s all just publicity orchestrated by Shola himself.

On today’s episode of some men can’t be saved.

Sapy442:
This is exactly the first place I heard about pimps and pastor's in one sentence. Rom was the first person to put it on my mind and I started to observe the way pastors and pimps dress, both of them always in flashy coloured suits.

You just drew my attention to the video and in the comment section there's another video by Rom titled 'Church game'. Let me check it out.

And to think Pastors already by default operate on the abundance mindset, it’s like everything just sets in place to make the perfect pimpp. Women used by pastors are quick to call him out cos they are jilted and felt easily disposable but they mask this feeling with “I want to warn other women” , you didn’t warn them when you were enjoying the divine rod. You’re correct, modern day pastors dress fashionably in the latest designers, I know their male flocks don’t give af about their designers so that leaves….

Sapy442:
Seems they're talking about a book here? Do you happen to know which book it is?

”How to be a better man” a book by Shola, a masculinity coach on twitter.

Observe this interaction between two women, comrades. Does it not tell you that Sexuality is the average woman’s sole agency and Nigerian women have mastered the act of running this agency effortlessly. On my rants on why the concept of romantic love is trash, I mentioned the fact that it is transactional makes it non-existent. This is the mindset of the average woman.

ubunja:
okay this wasn't meant for me but I'll step in since it's my comment that brought us here. Its all good man. it's no longer about you at this point. if you check my initial statement that started this line of debate I didn't respond to you personally cause I knew you were no longer on that definition. I responded to the other guy who was still quoting you, I wasn't correcting you as such but guys who still believed that statement. peace.

Win-Win for the comrades here because it made you and Martinez unearth more knowledge on the subject matter. We need every bit of knowledge we can get and appreciations are in order for you and a lot of the other guys who take their time to share.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
He was fatally injured after diving into the lake

Was it a shallow lake?

I’m guessing he drowned before he was rescued but irreparable brain damage had already taken place thus rendering him brain dead hence coma and life support.

Regarding the issue of Shola on twitter, my personal opinion is he made up the whole appointment thing to farm publicity for his book and it’s working. Lots of people are talking about it and he has been trending on twitter without rigorous promotion of his book by influencers.

Take a look at it, Shola was an influencer on twitter before he began his teachings, he knows how the Nigerian twitter space works, give them something to be outraged about and they will keep it on the trend table, free of charge. Do you think it’s a coincidence that the knowledge of his appointment price was made public at the same time he launched his book? I think not. Bad publicity is also publicity. $200 is far too much and Shola knows his target audience who are mostly varsity boys. Even Rollo Tomasi wouldn’t charge that. A copy of the rational male isn’t even up to $50 lol.

Martinez39s:
He is much welcome. Female nature also won't give a fùck when it mercilessly and remorselessly sinks its claws into him. We dey wait.

If you meet one of these guys in real life then you will know that they strongly hold onto their beliefs. Most of their counters when you try to explain to them is “You’re too young, you’ve never experienced life” “You’ve never met a woman that is genuinely in love with you” “you’re only meeting trashy women” , I introduced a friend that was done dirty by a girl to this thread and he read page 1 and 2 and he said “How can I my own fellow guys be teaching me about women” , my weakness at that statement knew no bounds.

Martinez39s:
People will do well to their due diligence on what the red pill is all about and acquaint themselves with this space and the terms used here if they have made up their minds to pitch their tents here. Lack of due diligence leads to facetious statements and points, and it painfully causes painful repetitions of basic stuffs by redpillers to correct ignorant and off point talk. Due diligence would have eliminated this and it's an eyesore when this happens.

People who take time (as they wisely scheduled) to painstakingly read this thread from the first page instead of succumbing to the urge to comment and spread their wings don't have two heads. GOSH!

Will Smith is a king in his field. He has maximised his potential and amassed a fortune, yet he is a beta and simp as far the red pill is concerned. What does that tell one about who the alpha is as far as the red pill is concerned? (Remember, this thread is "strictly redpill" What does that tell one about the bearing wealth and success have on determining who is beta or alpha? There are other men, even famous ones, who are successful and are kings in their fields, but are betas and simps as far as the red pill is concerned.

Wealth and success don't stop one from being simp and beta, and they alone don't make one an alpha as far as the red pill is concerned.

The word "alpha" is indeed a contextual term generally. The man who is an alpha in the business world or academic world is not necessarily an alpha in other areas, even as far as the red pill is concerned. People must understand that this is a red pill thread and they must understand what terms (eg beta, alpha, simp) mean in light of the red pill. What the word "alpha" means in the business world is different from what it means in the red pill. In the chess world, the alpha males are the top grandmasters, and the alpha among them is the world champion. The world champion can be a beta and simp as far as the red pill is concerned.

Being a red pill alpha doesn't mean you shouldn't be an alpha in other areas; no redpiller said one shouldn't. Telling people what the red pill alpha is doesn't mean that is all one must be. We even champion the idea that one should put himself first and make money. People should let the red pill be the red pill. People should stop acting like the red pill is an all-encompassing manual that teaches you how to be the ideal man in all aspects of life and it dictates your behaviour in all these aspects. As one is learning the red pill, one must also try to learn other things because the red pill doesn't teach everything or concerns itself with every thing. Red pill doesn't cover all aspects of life. Red pill spaces are not where you try to sound worthy and feel good about yourself. Learn!

Even you Ubunja and others have explained this several times (I brought two links out of many and one picture below). People should let the red pill be the red pill.

https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/1248#110516968

https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/1242#110474155

If this is in response to my quote “The alpha male is not only a king of women but a king in his fields” , I already laid down my thoughts process in coining that quote, I understand that it may have been misunderstood but no doubt it spoke to a lot of our brothers here and they found the information valuable which is the main thing about passing information. I explicitly stated “the alpha man” because I had the mainstream definition in mind , I never said “the redpill man” , the term alpha man has been existing long before the redpill and if we were judging by the mainstream definition then my quote was correctly worded, it doesn’t take away from the fact that high achieving men can also be beta males. I guess in the context of the redpill whose space we are in right now, I will rephrase, the redpill is not going to make you a high achieving alpha male but it will guide you in your quest to be the high achieving alpha male. Peace.

Some men can’t be reasoned with.