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folake4u:
Me too.

See me go do long passion twists for 20k two weeks ago. I said to myself, "If I perish, I perish".

Likkkkkkeeeeee real " if I perish o"

My own is "nothing go happen "

I can control my spendings on other things but that hair ehn. I can't, I will do it. Especially when if I have been eyeing a specific hairstyle. Ah nothing can change my mind

You are not a lady so you may not understand.

I fit use my last card do hair Sha I don't joke with my hair o

Take your child to a standard Montessori school and employ a phonics teacher to train you and your wife. That way your child will learn both at home and at school.

It is money sha but your girl will do better in both English and Mathematics.

Mistral:
Please you will have to forgive me. I'm a very lazy debater. There is just not enough time or energy to spare. I hope you understand.

Oh take your time dear.

I'm willing to read whenever you are ready to respond.

Mistral:
Awn, what a cutie!

I'm honestly curious as to how you intend to "navigate" and "resist" society troubles you listed in your initial post as A REALIST you are.

This is you normalizing abnormalities in a society and preach them as fact. If Government is not your friend then who is the government? Aren't they people in our midst selected to govern us? If they can't be friends, shouldn't they be held accountable?

If the law is not there to protect you, why make them at all?

Churches are not there to save you, no Jesus saves not church. Church is a congregation of believers of Christ not the savior himself. Church is a group of people like you who come together to share what they have in their discretion. It is entitlement mentality to think a group of people whom you share same economic and social policies with are OBLIGATED to SAVE especially FINANCIAL saving. The Bible and Holy Spirit are number pathway to spiritual growth. There are lots of church goer's who don't grow spiritually not because the church is bad but they are yet to be saved.

Money in Essence isn't Debt, Loans are. Any right thinking being knows to minimize debts in business.

Doctors take oath to save lives, most doctors of functioning societies do all to ensure their patients are fine. If you preach otherwise it's little wonder your politicians would rather travel miles overseas to get treated than improve hospitals in Nigeria. Lol... They know people like you will understand and preach it as hard truth to gullible ones.

And who's fault is this? Your colonisers keep improving their educational system while you as a nation keep doing things same old way. Thank God for some private schools they inculcate practical life skills into their curriculum. Should we demand this for all institutions as well? Oh I forgot, Government is our enemy they are untouchable

Lol Probably because your nation is a dumping ground for things that ought to work but don't. If you produce drugs yourself and not wait for a group of pharmacist in India to research and create drugs maybe you won't get drugs that takes days to work at expensive prices.
Even at that some still work


Another sob story. Your vote should count shouldn't it

Lol I can go on and on but I'm curious how do you intend to navigate these hard truth?

Mistral:
A cynical realist is better equipped to navigate and resist societal troubles than an idealist or conformist. We must learn from history or we are doomed to repeat it.

Yeah yeah yeah the Realist are always "cynical" cliche again... Yawn . So positive mindset is for those who fantasize right?

It's funny how black men (Africans) are always the REALIST while those who "fantasize" build empires and better communities

Hard man, Weak brain

squash47:
People change. A good person before marriage can turn into a monster after marriage and a bad person can turn into a angel after marriage.
All you need to do is to be prepared for any outcome. When it's not longer favorable, you quit and save yourself. Forget about the myth, broken marriage doesn't always affect the kids.

Wrong!

People don't change, People get tired of pretending!

No one is completely free in a broken relationship or marriage. It is either one is not patient enough to know who he or she is really dealing with or one is deluded enough to think he or she can manage or change the other person.

There are always subtle signs but most times blinded by lust and sex. How many people know themselves enough to know what they want before committing to another?

Meet- date-sex then boom you are in a relationship already lol . Then when you discovered what you should have earlier, you say people change. Lol

BTW Broken marriage does affect kids. If you are not a child psychologist, a teacher or a child from a broken home. You have no opinion on this.

When people sell their cynical thoughts as "THE TRUTH" then you should know they are members of a very brutal societal system.

I'm not surprised you all got here! Victims are blamed and expected to be "wiser" it's only a matter of time before everyone begin to act smart, outplay one another and the evil ones you excused grow while the "weak at heart" you criticize learn to be wicked .

Lol... Just look at how you call practices sane individuals ought to weed out of their society as "Hard Truth" and the likes from people who share your thought process is mind boggling.

Pity!

The respect I have for these men ehn?

No be here.

They deserve this and more!

folake4u:
🤣🤣🤣

No love for Nl guys

I should be angry but I'm not

Perhaps if I see this on Quora or other platforms I will react otherwise

But on Nl

Drag them!

JobAndVacancies:
you're right.

Proserpina is the same person as Farf.alla

Lol

Lol.
This is even children's kitchen not national kitchen

folake4u:
Of course, I know that.

My church doesn't publicise itself on social media but they feed, clothe, house and give employment to their members.

Everything isn't propaganda or show off.

Lol...

That video wasn't uploaded by RCCG but a worshipper (probably Content Creator ) who felt the urge to.

If RCCG publicize what they do, there won't be enough coverage

He also saved her from sitting in front of mirror and watching YouTube videos for hours just to plait hair herself

Good husband material.

Please push this to frontpage, this is a change from the usual "UK broke our marriage" story we read every time

DevilsEqual:
And why would i want to learn to plait women's hair if i do not plan to own a salon?


As for the man, if he actually did that to save some cost, I'm worried he's just become a full-time hair stylist

There's nothing wrong with what the man did. And he can earn from it too as a side hustle.

If you know the worth of a penny not even a pound in the UK you will understand what the man did.

I'm proud of him and "jelox" of the woman

What has plates got to do with the story?

Why did he lick plate when he's still going to wash?

@AllMight

Let a few people know what's happening, narrate the situation to elders like you seek their counsel then leave. This way they won't spin any story on you in your absence in case it turns out the lady is truly pregnant

It's sad you are going through this in a church. It is well

Lol

She didn't direct her post to any race or country specifically.

Stop being mischievous!!

Apology unaccepted

Oh Lord have mercy

Delightsome2023:
lol so ladies no get community toto wey all Tom, Dicks and Harris dey enter?
Sha No dey take my comments serious.
Na just troll I dey troll oo.

Lol . I never took you seriously in the first place.

Nevertheless, troll with sense next time.

DevilsEqual:
The deed is done already and your preachings would have been useful to her earlier than this time. This is an empty comment from u


Op, Visit a Govt hospital

Lol.

Why not give your "full" comment without being affected by mine. Try it some time it will help you a lot.

Delightsome2023:
hypocrite.
See person wey dey knack dey advice another person to stay away from pre marital sex

Lol

Na dem dey give Ladies money for boric acid and emergency pills

By their comments you shall know them. I no get talk for you, nah ladies wey dey risk them lives for una community pricks I blame.

Most people leaving the country are igbos. Believe me, I know.

Keep thanking them, soon you will have little to rule over and struggle more to develop states filled with less earning people.

They have options so why should they risk it?

First date Question: What's your genotype?


May we not labour in vain

saintbillion:
I think I go with this

She's right Sha

People no wan marry for this economy

Stay away from premarital sex.

To be honest, you ladies should do better when it comes to sex. The fact that you insert and swallow anything risking your lives while you can actually abstain or get intimate with someone who's ready or get intimate when you are ready for it's responsibility amuse me.

Boric acid, emergency pills every now and then do you know what these things can do to you? Hain!

As far as I'm concerned, she's a woman and has the right to compete.

If others can't compete,they shouldn't.

There are women more muscular In Nigeria we don't discriminate against them, na you no go near their husbands

Na everything white dey cry ontop .

pansophist:


Make I rush go comot am.

Lol

nedekid:
That means she took testosterone enhancing or boosting drugs, which should not be legal. That person looks like a man with very hairy big ekpon.

Lol @ she took testosterone enhancing drugs