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Family › Re: Lalasticlala Welcomes A Set Of Twins by Proserpina: 12:27am On Jul 12, 2025
Awwwwww

They are so beautiful kiss kiss kiss

Congratulations 🎉🎉
Politics › Re: Man Sitting Behind Tinubu During His Speech At BRICS Meeting Trends Online by Proserpina: 1:46pm On Jul 08, 2025
If na me self I go sleep grin


I dedicate the remaining characters to Seun.
Romance › Re: Secrets Men Should Never Share With Their Partners. (Photo) by Proserpina: 4:15pm On Jun 30, 2025
Stay single biko

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Politics › Re: Lalude: MC Oluomo Promised Us ₦1.5M Each For Tinubu’s Campaign But Paid Nothing by Proserpina: 9:48pm On Jun 29, 2025
1.5m for the future of your children and children's children? undecided
Romance › Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Proserpina: 3:26pm On Jun 29, 2025
ediko5:
I too like woman
Me I no dey gboran
Me I no dey gboran

😁
Common knowledge!

There is a saying that people who spend their time discussing women suffer from obsession for the lack of female attention in their lives. You just proved that.

I think you should pay a little more attention to yourself. You should really take care of yourself.
Family › Re: The Family You Marry Into Matters - A Lot by Proserpina: 2:22pm On Jun 29, 2025
This is true.




Seeeeeeeuuuunnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
Romance › Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Proserpina:
ediko5:
A proud lady who's making progress in her career or life won't find a topic like this annoying. From their comment, we know them
Lol you are delusional to think your outbursts worth my reaction . It is the frequency at which they come is what I find amusing and ponder on. grin grin grin

Like you literally discuss women on all threads grin . What's going on? No more over 30 single ladies to monitor offline anymore? grin grin grin
Romance › Re: Ladies: Why Did Your Parents Sent You To School To End up Depending on a Man ? by Proserpina: 2:07pm On Jun 29, 2025
If we check now this guy may have nothing to his name. Na them dey shout pass grin cheesy
Health › Re: Israeli Man Dies In Abuja Hotel by Proserpina: 2:05pm On Jun 29, 2025
Sheuns:
cheesy

Pinky, are you pondering what I’m pondering?

I think so Brain.
grin grin grin

Do you mean someone is trying to take over the man's money World? grin
Education › Re: Poly Ibadan Students Reject Renaming Of School To Omololu Olunloyo Polytechnic by Proserpina: 2:20pm On Jun 27, 2025
You mean they want to name the poly after Kemi Olulonyo father? Eh eheh I join them reject grin grin grin grin
Family › Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by Proserpina: 2:15pm On Jun 27, 2025
You may not really know, appearance is deceptive.
Romance › Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by Proserpina: 10:05am On Jun 27, 2025
jaxxy:
Even Ned didn't give Regina such ridiculous things until he had married her and done traditional jazz on her to make sure she doesn't cheat.
Assistant Ned has spoken grin.

I hope our conversation yesterday does not mean you will always quote me at every sight. Na so trolling dey start o grin
Romance › Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by Proserpina: 9:19pm On Jun 26, 2025
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The NEDs are complaning grin
Romance › Re: He Supported His Girlfriend's Business & Helped Raise Her Son, But She Did This by Proserpina: 9:11pm On Jun 26, 2025
[quote author= post=135898703]Most Nigerians don't even know that victim blaming is wrong. It has become a hardcoded Nigerian idealogy because most are wicked and toxic as fork.[/quote]Victim blaming has eaten so deep that sometimes we don't realize It is like they want everyone to be born smart and infallible. Imagine...

Dude loved, it's not a crime.
Romance › Re: He Supported His Girlfriend's Business & Helped Raise Her Son, But She Did This by Proserpina:
Do not repay kindness with evil

This is so bad what's worse is that 70% of comments on fp are blaming the guy.

Who use victim blaming swear for Nigerians
Romance › Re: Dear Men Of Nairaland, Your Brother Once Said... by Proserpina: 8:42pm On Jun 26, 2025
jaxxy:
Biological clock is a real a chronological clock. Those are the laws of nature and we can't do much to change that so its advisable to make hay while the sun shines. Anything outside this is delusional and will end in regret.. Godforbid!

This is not to spite women or anybody but for each of us to be wise and make better decisions. Cheers
OKAY SIR


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Romance › Re: Dear Men Of Nairaland, Your Brother Once Said... by Proserpina: 7:25pm On Jun 26, 2025
jaxxy:
whether guys above 35 are happy or not is not the argument the advantage is they have not all time but more time. women have less and can't afford to make too many mistakes. This is just the reality.
At least you acknowledge that no one escapes TIME. Who has it more or less is not up for debate, that thought process shouldn't be seen on a forum in 2025. It should remain a beer parlor discourse amongst those who don't know better.


Biological clock? I can't remember the last time I heard or read such phrase.
Romance › Re: Dear Men Of Nairaland, Your Brother Once Said... by Proserpina: 7:16pm On Jun 26, 2025
pocohantas:
E shock me o. Babes are bold. Funny I saw it on TikTok months back and I thought it was cruise. Dressssss? I need that kind of audacity. grin
The first time I saw it online I thought dude made it up then I saw more and more. As guys are working to be like Ned, ladies are turning Regina pro max with advanced billing features grin it's a funny but crazy loop.
Romance › Re: Dear Men Of Nairaland, Your Brother Once Said... by Proserpina: 3:25pm On Jun 26, 2025
pocohantas:
Lol! In their minds they will all make money like Ned and marry a Regina. When it doesn't work out, they will start insulting GenZs for not building with them.😂😂😂
Gen Zs who will request for date clothes and transport fares before they go on date grin grin grin. Oh they must make lots of that money o grin
Romance › Re: Dear Men Of Nairaland, Your Brother Once Said... by Proserpina: 3:03pm On Jun 26, 2025
jaxxy:
The reality is men don't have a biological clock like women. I don't support bad behaviour or poor choices in men but men have more time to correct their mistakes than women.

It is illogical to compare men to women in dating or marriage dynamics.
Biological,Mental,Physical or Spiritual clock there is something all humans don't have, it is Time. Even if you can give birth at 100 years, can a man raise a kid at 100? Time is not on anyone's palm. I think a logical person should know this. Ask guys above 35 without a family of theirs if they are genuinely happy and do not crave for it then come back to discuss this.

Logical being grin
Romance › Re: Dear Men Of Nairaland, Your Brother Once Said... by Proserpina: 2:57pm On Jun 26, 2025
pocohantas:
If it were directed at women, they will agree.
They don't ever admit their singlehood has anything to do with their attitude or poor choices. Na them go attend Shiloh last last.💀
Exactly!
I remember when one white guy TTer dropped some redpill nuggets then, they all praised and reposted him. I like as this one give them back to back grin

It is never ever their fault and sometimes I wonder how they do it. No be them dey build Shiloh houses ? cheesy grin
Romance › Re: Dear Men Of Nairaland, Your Brother Once Said... by Proserpina: 2:28pm On Jun 26, 2025
The way logical beings take dey emotionally respond to this guy's posts on T.T ehn grin grin grin
Family › Re: I Hate My Marriage Because I Can't Travel Around For Fun As When Single - Lady by Proserpina:
I can't believe S.eun wants me to share Nairaland posts with offline contacts. What's there to share? Even the ones I share to my Nl followers goes through minutes of evaluation of value cheesy grin grin cheesy

Na mynd4.4 dey advice Seu.n angry
Romance › Re: So We Break Up, Make I No Chop?Lady Laments As Ex Unlinks Card From Her Chowdeck by Proserpina: 6:21pm On Jun 20, 2025
Make he still dey feed you for another man? grin grin
Romance › Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Proserpina: 6:19pm On Jun 20, 2025
God decided to make it official bawo?

Angel Michael you still get that horsewhip? undecided
Family › Re: What's Your Biggest Ick About Yourself? by Proserpina: 8:00pm On Jun 12, 2025
folake4u:
Yeahhh. I don't overreact or shout at all (that's reserved for laughter or pleasure) neither do I pick offense when there's none. It is such a big flex.

Awww you tried oh. I don't have power for long talks these days especially when I see someone trying to frustrate me, I wrap it up quickly and nicely.

Maybe I'd learn how to be confrontational but I just really hate all the back and forth.
Oh he brought my family and men in life into a harmless conversation in a very rude manner, there's no way I'm letting that slide. Someone I barely knew for 4 days? My family ?no fvcking way I'm going to keep quiet. I made sure he apologized for "misyarning "

Maybe I will give full gist on my diary later sha. grin
Car Talk › Re: The Snake That Lives In My Mazda Is Giving Me Saucy Looks This Morning by Proserpina: 7:44pm On Jun 12, 2025
Nemesis0147:
that should be Australia
😂😂
Most likely!

It's only people from that region that can care so less for snakes

Personally I may not ride in that car anymore grin
TV/Movies › Re: Have You Cried Watching A Movie? Please Drop The Movie Title For Others To Watch by Proserpina: 7:35pm On Jun 12, 2025
Movies hardly make me cry but cartoons? Yes a lot cheesy
Family › Re: What's Your Biggest Ick About Yourself? by Proserpina: 6:14pm On Jun 12, 2025
folake4u:
No Pina, you are not weird at all.

Mine is even worse. I'm naturally a bubbly person, you can feel it when I'm chatting or talking to you. The moment you start feeling a shift of energy more than three times, just know something is bothering me and need to solve a puzzle.

Yes, I replay scenarios over and over, even in my sleep. Sometimes, I also try to involve a neutral 3rd party to analyze said scenario to know whether I'm being overly sensitive or at fault.
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May God help us ooo grin
The advantage though is that we do not overreact and will most likely not pick offenses where there are none. We get lots of time to know truly we were offended so no room for denial with us just own it grin .

Oh... I had to unlearn that grin . I speak when I need to. Lol Reminds me of a guy I forced and apology out of offline. Normal conversation dude started sounding like typical Nl alfa mail. cheesy Normally I ignore and never converse with the person again but on this day, we were almost shouting on phone, I hung up, continued offline even the next day I sent a paragraph grin grin I didn't let it die until he apologized.

I have come to realize people are no longer sensitive or sensible anymore. They'd moved on like nothing happened while you get hurt and angry. I talk now o grin
Family › Re: What's Your Biggest Ick About Yourself? by Proserpina: 12:15pm On Jun 12, 2025
folake4u:
I am like this too. I've just been looking at someone who offended me since, I never get the person time YET.
grin grin grin grin

So I'm not weird after all. Like do you replay scenarios after they happen to analyze if you were at fault or the person was outrightly offensive without provocation? Because I do that grin

As a matter of fact sometimes I replay scenarios to be sure grin . Like subtle insults or actions I wasn't sure of when they happened at first, I can conclude on them days later grin

The funniest part it after going through this stress I may later let go but if not omooh heaven help that person if there's a reoccurrence of the scene oooo. Sometimes I talk about it other times I just do my own back grin grin grin

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