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aloeman15:
can we all agree that there's some truth in what he posted?
we can then agree that most cases are hardly black or white, and that there are many exceptions.
for example, inflation has wiped out monetary value; most women go to uni, making marriage late; the new global village has exposed ladies to the feminist movement; and most parents want their children to marry UP, rather than go through the (sometimes biting) poverty they experienced.
and remember that once upon a time, the corporate and business worlds were male dominated.
all that is now ancient history.
so, with women going from uni to work, being financially empowered and therefore distracted from marriage, they'll START looking for a life partner pretty late.
but in truth, it's also about priorities-
I had friends who married while still in uni.
and how many women have advised their younger sisters, cousins, et al to hold on to a good guy with prospects, even though he's poor and currently jobless?
how many of our ladies are willing to endure like our mothers did?

Gbam...Although I still do not agree with the OP on some ideas, but he has some points up there.

Lawlahdey:
Oh bye.
I do not like exchanging words with people with a narrow sense of reasoning anyways.

Guy you don enter am...Somebody will cut off ur head.

hotwax:
OK


It is still in theme. I wrote "girls blame their past on guys". They date the wrong guys. Good guys with fear of God dont abuse women


A guy who is reserved and not a womanizer will be seen as low confidence guy. But a womanizer with low moral taste for women (anything goes) is confident right?



This is Africa. We know marriage is very important. Those ones that say "I am better single" have their stories. I have dated them and at the end they always lament its not easy. And they always regret their actions.

+ LOL.. Those "I am happy alone" avoid events, especially events where they will meet their married colleagues. When their colleagues have their kids and husbands with them, they feel inferior

lezz:
Advising guys to purnish girls for playing hard to get at thier prime is only displaying bruised ego and inability to handle life from a male's perspective.

Guys will undervalue or even distrust an easy target even if she loves him genuinely. Real men love the chase.

And nature made women to lead and tease men on as we are the ones with the steroid hormone called testosterone.

So if a girl has 4-7 guys hitting on her daily, her natural selective defence mechanism will kick in to do the screening. It is nature working at its finest. It is a natural preservative or selective process put in place by nature.

Men with lots of cash also do selective/use-and-discard technique too.

Sense

RB007:
guy all doz girls go com finish U for here na

I see them running away...LOLZ

babyfaceafrica:
Why will you want do date a call gal?....you will always share her with someone else...this shows your taste is low..you deserve better.I hope you won't complain when she dates someone dat can take care of her better than you do?.. Its your choice.for me a call is a nono for anything serious..they are there to stabilize conji..yournheart is deceiving you and I know you won't listen to your head

Hmmm thanks.

Wisdom.
But I will like to point out that, I am not driven by lust. I see goodness in her. She is not even the most physically attractive lady in my life.

tripplephi:
bros bros you do not NEED encouragement OR dissuading o.... YOU NEED WISDOM from everything you said.. it shows you lack it.

You need to understand that BONDING is not a respecter of persons.... EVEN IF YOU LIVED WITH A MAD WOMAN LONG ENOUGH YOU WOULD NOTICE GOOD THINGS ABOUT HER TOO. Is this girl the kind of woman/mother you want for your kids...runs kids is all you will have o

YOU DO NOT SEEM TO UNDERSTAND the depth of work involved in marriage... how you may even have kids from other men and not know.

Is your moral compass that LOW? Will you be kissing the lips other men have just finished with? or touching and licking the places they have just paid to use? FORGET CHARACTER ... its because you PAID o... get to no the person without money involved... besides you are not living with her fully so PRETENSE can be INTENSE.

One should never make a DOLLAR DECISION based on a NICKEL IDEA

The questions you asked are solely for you to answer but if SEX is all you think marriage is for then pls do not attempt it.
EVEN the devil will be an angel as long as he is getting profit.... so also she will be NICE and overlook many things with u as long as she gets paid.

CHEATING will be the norm. You are not God who loves unconditionally so stop thinking with your erection.

STOP this kind of life and get yourself into the right books and seminars for marriage.... then find a woman of respect and character with a clean track record and HAVE PEACE.

But there again i remember that ADVICE is what people ask for when they already know what they want to do.... SO bros enjoy o. You can only reap what you sow

Imoy:
lol, na kpekus dey make u fall in love so?

Hahahaha, ogbeni u better wake up.

Not what you think.. I can as well go for another peku...Shebi its about money. Money for hand, back for ground...

I work in Abuja but visit Lagos on official assignment every month. I met this laspotech girl through her friend who gave me her her contact. Any time I am in Lagos and I feel like relieving stress, I call her straight away and she is always there for me. But its on pay-as-you-go basis.
She was very helpful, one, I do not have to chase girls and around. Baby sitting, going out and shopping wahala is out of it. So I concentrate on my assignment in lagos.

I just found out that I am loving her personality. Beside sex, she has a good personality. When she is with me, I hardly remember she is a call girl. She is so caring, free, friendly, playful and humble. I even checked her on facebook, I found out that she is from a well-to-do family. At times she sleeps over and not charge me, at times, she will collect her money to the last kobo.

The thing is, she is my taste of woman. But the circumstance surrounding the we way we met is not ideal. Sometimes ago, I told her about my feelings for her, she said, "the problem with men is, they can't trust people like me, and I dont want wahala ooo. I dont want to give a man my heart and he breaks it. I like you too, I won't mind dating you".

Now, to make my decision to go into relationship or marriage with her, I am faced with some real life questions.

1. Will I be able to sexually satisfy a lady who is sleeping with many men per day?
2. Will I be able to trust her?
3. Regardless of my feelings for her, I still make sure I wear my protections anytime we are having sex, but if we go into relationship, will my life be at risk?
4. Why will a lady of such standard of living go into runs? I am very sure its not poverty.

I just need someone to encourage me right now. Or someone to dissuade me from doing it. I can't think straight right now.

So banks are the new cabals

Something is not adding up. Upon all the money showers from Suleman, her mother's house is still like this ?

I saw her music video, it was an horror show.

All these because of Fulani herdsmen

Oreoo:
dats chelsea fans for u mehnn..always lookin for excuses..its nw moses dat is pivotal in chelsea lol

Yes he is a Chelsea fan. He undersand his team. He knows Moses plays as a defender.

Nice try

Why must we use that midget call matic ?

ise82:
She's not gonna be negative this time around. Wen u act do it sensibly. This lady is gathering supporters from the international community. You can't just get som1 arrested because she's talking. That's the Nigerian story; the country where the rich oppress. It's sad! God will vindicate her.

Defamation of character is a criminal offense all over the world.

People get arrested for talking. Ask a law practitioner near you.

Many people have committed suicide due to bullying with word of mouth.

There are organizations fighting bullying and media trial. The pastor can also get supporters from them too.

Be informed

Chrisyianity is not Mumuism. When Jihadist Ottoman empire attempted to take over Rome in the 1667 AD, christian did turn away and forgive them.

Christian stood and fight. If christian had obeyed those bible verse then, there wouldn't be Christianity today.

You people just quote the bible without common sense interpretation.

When someone unrepentantly bent on destroying you, you don't play chicken and blame bible verse. Thats stupidity

Where are the ultimatum tribe ?

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Guyman02:
Please keep Igbos away from ur clash with Hausas, stop calling Igbos. Settle yourselves

But Igbo are here taking the matter for head. Sour losers

Why this ife clash come pain Igbo pass Hausa's?

Igbo are everywhere crying. Hausa victims have even forgotten.

Igbo are still in mourning mode.

That fetish city. Ife youths no get chill ooo

How come ile ife fight pained igbos more than Hausa's?

Lol...

tishbite41:
very good. we igbos will learn from u wen we c an ooni or oba in ilorin. very important my broda.

Continue to die like chicken and pray and fast.

Ilorin decided to welcome Fulani Islam. Yoruba factions accepted Islam and sided Fulani's.

Nothing anybody can do to that. It was religiously influenced.

tishbite41:
coward afonja, go n defend ile Ife and recover ilorin. I ve got no emir in territory.

From what we have seen. Only Hausa's need protection in ile ife. Life people are mean.

Wait how long will Enugu people pray and fast against fulanis.? They better learn from ife. Ife is a war ready city. Its been in war for 40 years and was never conquered.