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Business / Re: Do You Need Google Voice Number To Sign Up On Any Website by PureMind2: 4:59am On Mar 02, 2021
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Agriculture / Re: Fresh Cashew But Season Is Here Let Be You Source by PureMind2: 4:59am On Mar 02, 2021
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Agriculture / Re: Fresh Cashew But Season Is Here Let Be You Source by PureMind2: 3:50am On Feb 26, 2021
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Business / Do You Need Google Voice Number To Sign Up On Any Website by PureMind2: 5:35pm On Feb 10, 2021
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Family / Re: For How Long Should An Engagement Ring Be Worn? by PureMind2: 2:57am On Mar 24, 2020
Is that a title so give self I don't know when u will have sense men wise up please some ladies are terrible in real life and spiritual
Travel / Re: What Are Your Regrets For Leaving Nigeria? by PureMind2: 9:08pm On Feb 22, 2020
Why can't you face your front now
showafrica:


Bros, i no understand,. Waiting. Concern women with your travel.
Travel / Re: What Are Your Regrets For Leaving Nigeria? by PureMind2: 5:01pm On Feb 21, 2020
Soon God will move me soon am sure traveling out is not my calling but it is better to explore new places

Woman are terrible being in these world

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Family / Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by PureMind2: 11:05pm On Feb 19, 2020
Na them

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Health / Re: Doctors Charles Ikeji & Terhemba Lan Suspended Over Deaths Of Patients. PHOTOS by PureMind2: 12:32pm On Feb 19, 2020
Some doctor are just too useless to any level
Romance / Re: She Is Asking Me To Bring Palm Oil, Eko (pap), Sugar Cane To Have Sex With Her by PureMind2: 12:31pm On Feb 19, 2020
Run for ur dear life woman and wickedness are like 5&6

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Family / Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by PureMind2: 10:48pm On Feb 16, 2020
Woman are the problem of these society

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Family / Re: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 7:24pm On Feb 13, 2020
We are not here for insult if you are pained keep it to you fucking self more over I never expect anything from him before now always reason up well before you put up a daft comment we are talking about life here you are turning things upside down
Family / Re: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 2:15pm On Feb 13, 2020
Got my point from reasonable members already am okay
gabyet:
Whoever wrote this post is so malicious and greedy. It is so obvious you are wicked and just after the property. Everything you wrote has been so inconsistent and your defense is so poor. What do you expect the poor widow to do?
Just swallow your pride and go and beg the wife and stop disturbing us on this Forum.
Family / Re: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 9:53am On Feb 13, 2020
Very simple and straight thanks no feminist comment here
Triniti:
Man, this op is very hard to read. Bottom line is look very well before you reap in marriage
Family / Re: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 7:37am On Feb 13, 2020
Thanks
asapeola:
Alaye! I have read all your zig zag stories despite ur incoherent writing but all I see is that ur just a young kid embittered! And as someone has rightly put, all ur assertions are hearsay dem say dem say. U said she hid ur bro all thru d sickness till death n d next minute ur saying they travelled abroad for treatment but he still ddnt get well (like say people dnt die in hospitals overseas), and u still again then turned around to say they only went for relocation stuffs. Lemme nt b harsh on u cos its very obvious u werent close to ur bro n his family which i strongly believe its as a result of the narrative ur own parents n family members have planted in u. Ur doing badly at justifying ur bros death! There r so many points in ur story to depict that ur eyes r on the property of ur bros because thats what u even started ur story with. This ur story my guy isnt worth a book n ur advise to other men is unnecessary! Stay strong and God be with you all.
Family / Re: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 10:14pm On Feb 12, 2020
I have explain over time don't really know what you want me to say again you can read from most of my comment am not commenting because of the property but just imagine how terrible people might be when it come to money issue people are very wick in fact we are in these wicked world God will judge everyone accordingly right from these earth I believe cry cry cry
yeyeosoronga:


Yes, its advisable to look before you leap into any marital union.
But in this your brother's case, tell me:
1. specifically how the marriage contributed to his death/how it had anything to do with his death
2. what exactly is your sister in law's fault? What has she done wrong to your family and why do you hate her so much?
(Perhaps not informing you guys of his illness, is what angered you. But your brother may also have insisted not to bother you people)
Family / Re: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 9:45pm On Feb 12, 2020
Just here to put up lesson to all my fellow men out there just look before you jump into that marriage all I have to say sad
yeyeosoronga:


I still don't understand what putting his wife over his family has to do with his death.
If he had stayed close to you, would you have stopped his death?
Perhaps the only thing that would have done was to prepare your mind for the inevitable, as you would have been aware he was ill enough to pass on. At the end of the day, this whole thing is about your feelings of hurt. However, while you are hurting, don't forget there are 2 young children out there who have also lost their father and are probably hurting deeper than you, and at the same time they and their mother don't feel safe amongst their father's people.
You haven't said anything concrete about how his wife directly or indirectly killed him, or even how the poor relationship he had with his family killed him.
You are grieving, and you need someone to hold responsible for his death, and you want someone to pay. You are probably going about this wrong way, as no amount of anger towards his wife (since you hold her responsible for the bad relationship between you and your brother) can bring your brother back.
You are pained at your brother's choice of distancing himself from his extended family, but that was his decision. The choice to distance himself has no correlation with his death.
Would you all have contributed money for his care to stop him from dying? Don't forget Steve Jobs bowed down to death when it came, despite all the unimaginable amount of money in his pockets
Family / Re: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 7:08pm On Feb 12, 2020
No never will I be after such never what is my business with the property but the way the whole issue happen still left me in shock as the wife in question never feel rumoursful you as a lady you have a kid and sure think happen not even when that person is the bread winner of the family how will you feel
TheArchangel:
This is bullshits sir and you know it. Abroad hospitals are now God that their treatments are sacrosanct and infallible.
Stop clutching on straws to justify your despicable obsession to your brothers property. You are not even mourning your brother but what he left behind. Let the wife and kids mourn their father, Haba.
Family / Re: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 6:50pm On Feb 12, 2020
My j brother did but the wife pretended as if nothing is happening she even entertained him as a normal guess and told my brother that he don't want to see him for now mind you the wife send out my j brother staying with them out of frustration
TheArchangel:
Did you visit your brother when he was sick?
Family / Re: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 6:43pm On Feb 12, 2020
Note taking him abroad was not really for treatment if it was that it could have been better but only to perfect there relocation stay over there now brought back the hussy to die here in Nigeria terrible humans every were
TheArchangel:
She took him abroad for treatment But you said that she locked him up till he died.
You never visited your brother when he was sick to proffer solutions rather you waited till he died to ostracize the family he left behind. No wonder she is going about with security.
Embittered and entitled family enemies everywhere.
Family / Re: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 6:42pm On Feb 12, 2020
If you know how the whole issue happen you will understand what trying to say the point is that no one is after the property of the husband more so the family also has access to the husband property if the family do not give birth to the husband how will he see him to marry now my point is the wife is a kind of Conny human my say is just that know the kind of woman you are going down with find out very well please it matters
TheArchangel:
She took him abroad for treatment But you said that she locked him up till he died.
You never visited your brother when he was sick to proffer solutions rather you waited till he died to ostracize the family he left behind. No wonder she is going about with security.
Embittered and entitled family enemies everywhere.
Family / Re: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 6:38pm On Feb 12, 2020
God bless you man it really look very suspicious but we just only need a critical thinks on these issues
Kendumazy:
The wife not calling her husband family which is the most sensible thing to do while her husband was sick makes it looks suspicious.
Family / Re: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 5:50pm On Feb 12, 2020
You have a point nothing last forever
hakeemhakeem:
My takes on this is your family hardly contact your brother reason you dont knew when the sickness started and she felt since there was not brotherly relationship she and your brother friends took the responsible and they stood behinds her.allowed her to take charge of her husband properties and raise the kids her own ways. Nothing last forever
Moreover don't accused her for her husband death
Family / Re: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 4:47pm On Feb 12, 2020
Am not here to exchange words just a words of advice for my fellow men don't put your wife over your family lesson of the days thanks for you comment
lilyheaven:

Some die in their sleep, some wakes and die, some have brief illness before dying, some have long term sickness. Death is inevitable when it comes.

I hate it when in laws accuse their wife of killing their brother, it's unfair, wickedness.

You said her mum was drinking tea, I'm sure you have been fasting since your brother died.

If your brother loved you so much, you would have been in close relationship before his dismal, . Instead you blame his wife.

You should have been matured enough to care for him when he was alive.

The bottle has broken, the oil has split, what are you going to do with the broken bottle?
Family / Re: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 3:14pm On Feb 12, 2020
You don't really know anything going on I don't even blame you anyway I which you can also see same issue why on earth will you be fighting for what I believe we are all mature please I need only matured comment here please
lilyheaven:

grin grin
Did you just say have a meeting on how the children will be catered for?
You should know nothing like that will ever happen , even if she had a male child.
The meeting will just end there, they are feeling bad and looking for away to fight the young widow.
They must have shown her pepper.
Family / Re: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 2:27pm On Feb 12, 2020
The wife and the family have been in a distance talk no proper burial as the wife refuse to bring the children to there dad burial to pay last respect poison I can say yes because if someone is sick the wife still have the courage to take the hussy travel out without proper treat over there after fulfilling all aim return him back note the hussy is still sick she never take the courage to informed the closest person in the family what other thing is poison than these ?
yeyeosoronga:


Your book would be interesting, but you have to be objective otherwise you will only sound very bitter and entitled.
Other than not getting along with his family, what exactly has your wife done against her husband?
Did she poison him?, deprive him of medical care? Denied him a proper burial?
How did she kill him? What exactly was her offence when he was alive?
Family / Re: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 1:06pm On Feb 12, 2020
All move was abortive by the wife has they have totally refuse to pick up there call but soon I will make sure I call her out I will write a book about these occurrence and publish it as well it will prevent someone who is trying to put the wife over there family don't make such mistakes
never
yeyeosoronga:


If the illness happened suddenly, why are you then claiming she locked her husband up alone and didnt seek medical care for him?
You made it sound as though he's been Ill for a long time, and nobody knew, meanwhile you say it happened suddenly in the same breathe.
People can die unexpectedly at anytime, you don't have to blame their spouses.
Find out what killed your brother- get a diagnosis from the hospitsl/ death certificate which I'm sure should be with the wife.
Call a family meeting with the deceased close friends, wife's family and yours together to decide on the way forward, how the children will be catered for, the plans the wife has, what property the deceased has left for his immediate family.
Agree amongst yourselves on how to check on the children regularly and how their school fees will be paid- is it from their father's property or what?.
Family / Re: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 12:40pm On Feb 12, 2020
Am sure she will meet are Waterloo's soon including her mother imagine the day the hussy dead the stupid wife mother was in there parlour drinking hot tea that same day I still believe something will happen
drmikeadams:
grin grin angry man wey woman use juju hold no dey remember em family,,,,
Family / Re: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 11:53am On Feb 12, 2020
You cant understand the unseen situation he has been like that before he even has but am sure all these started from when he got married everything changed no one have access to him again in fact he won't even want the wife to know when he want to give you something I mean his blood not friends
hopeforcharles:
Your brother was very stupid for not communicating to family and bringing them into his life. Or maybe non of you cared about him when. He was alive till he made it and now you all want to eat where u didn't sow.
He made his decisions for him self and his family. Let them be.
Family / Re: Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 11:46am On Feb 12, 2020
I posted these for people to learn lesson before your pick anybody to settle down with mind you the man in question just love been secretful and we are close as we are brought up together as for the wife in question she is in control she also like to distance her self from the family but want her family closer the illness is not even stated clearly to us all we know that everything happens all of a sudden and am still in shook as at now mind you no matter how nice you are to a lady that do not guarantee your happiness more so the hussy stated that before he died if the wife want money let her say it so he can give her more (there is more to that statement for her husband to say such)
LilMissFavvy:
I have seen the way you have mentioned that the wife had two females for your brother. If you people want to gang up to take all that she and her husband had, I just pray she will be able to fight and win. I am not saying she should not give you people a token of what your brother had, she can give if she wishes, the emphasis here is that wether female or male, the children need their fathers property to be utilized properly, so that they can attain good education and become something in future. It's a shame how some cultures in Nigeria do not allow the female children to have a share in family inheritance.

How come your brother did not call any of his family members if any of you is worthy of it? If your brother cut off from his family members during his lifetime, why do you suddenly want to claim relationship now that he is late? You did not mention the type of illness, you have no proof that she killed him, you have no proof that she kept him indoors, etc. Call a meeting and handle things in a peaceful way. Your family must have been wicked to the late man and his wife, such that even after his demise, she still wants the enmity to continue, pathetic.
Family / Book write up start now really appreciate as I will pick point here to use by PureMind2: 8:49am On Feb 12, 2020
I appreciate everyone for you contribution as I have gotten good points and also reasonable once as reference to continue my write up

Thanks to everyone who gave possible solution

As the story continues

tittle :never build yours life over your wife family first

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